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Topic: Moon in partner's 8th
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Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2012 05:38 AM
From http://illumeastrology.blogspot.com/2011/08/moon-in-your-partners-8th-house.html quote: There is a fine line between love and hate so they say. With a moon in your partners 8th house in synastry it can end either way. To love deeper than you ever have (unconditionally) or to almost hate with all you have. These extremes are very scorpionic which rules this house of extremes. This will be undeniably a deep connection for the moon person. The moon person will feel that they need to go to the depths with the house person. The house person is aware of this power and the moon person is willing to plunge to the bottom in an effort to find the depth of love that we all seek "unconditional" which in turn both parties involved will be forced to see when the dust settles. This bond is very powerful, and very difficult to let go of even when most needed. The moon is all that's emotional, it's our inner selves, what we need to nurture ourselves, it's our mother's nurturing, it's the love that we receive from others or how we love ourselves. The eighth house's natural ruler is Scorpio. It's all that is hidden within the recesses of the mind. It's is power, control, domination, manipulation, death, sex, taxes and other people's resources. It's the house of intense experience. In synastry when a person"s moon (emotions, inner self, core) are dropped into another persons 8th house there is a mutual acknowledgement of an intense experience in murky territory. The moon person's moon suddenly becomes a Scorpio moon in a sense. There emotional view point, feelings and inner core are being dropped into a deep pool of intensity brought on by the relationship to the house person. There is something about the house person that draws the Scorpio 8th house stuff out of the moon. The moon person then finds himself digging deep, experiencing fear, jealousy, an a intense desire to control the house person. This produces a strong emotional attachment to the house person. The depths of what these two will experience will be deep. This has the potential of being the closest lovers or the worst enemies. Either way it will be intense most often times producing a type of love/hate relationship colored with dramatic over the top displays of drama the moon person will feel like they are not in control of these deep feelings of unconditional love and afraid of the type of love they feel for the house person. This brings up all types of emotional insecurities in the moon person. There emotions are coming to the surface and showing them something they didn't know they were capable of. The 8th house is also the house of sex the moon person will be lured into this 8th house by a powerful erotic drive for this house person. This relationship will bring out at the end a new beginning over and over again because your relationship will withstand the tests of time, over come all obstacles, and be reborn continuously if you allow the power of this house play it's role.
I have personally experienced this combo in synastry often & always saw that it related to a sexual impulse in the Moon person toward H8. This is I think the only article that has touched on this factor, the depth of the response included. They did a great job so I wanted to post it here. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9186 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 05, 2012 07:25 PM
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ariesdragon Knowflake Posts: 4409 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 02, 2012 08:35 PM
Hi lonake what would it be like with a composite moon in the 8th? Thanks 
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Hera Knowflake Posts: 8636 From: Olympus Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 05, 2012 11:35 AM
I've had it with the Bull I was in love with 5-6 ys ago. His Moon in my 8th, my Sun in his 8th. We also had a Ven/Mar dw, so it's very hard to tell who was more sexually attracted to the other. The attraction was, indeed, very powerful. To add intensity, Sco Moon conj Pluto in comp (with Sco Asc...). While I was having t-Pluto conj natal Moon, no less! Craaaaaaazy!Hmmmm... I guess I am not really helping here... Thank you for the info though! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10941 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 11, 2013 01:45 AM
My moon and mars falls in the 8th house of the girl I'm currently talking to. I guess it's safe to say she wants to rip my clothes off lol.IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 3759 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted December 11, 2013 07:50 AM
I have this with a current love interest...my Gemini moon falls in his 8th house Gemini. The description describes my feelings exactly! I can't believe it! He is the only man who scares me to death the intensity is so deep. And yes, the only man who I literally want to RIP his clothes off...never experienced that in my life! Wish I knew the intensity from the 8th house point of view. I've always read the house person feels it more than the planet person. If that's the case, I have NO idea how this guy sleeps at night LOL! IP: Logged |
Alma Sun Moderator Posts: 2226 From: The East Coast Registered: Mar 2011
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posted January 08, 2014 11:50 AM
quote: ...the moon person will feel like they are not in control of these deep feelings of unconditional love and afraid of the type of love they feel for the house person. This brings up all types of emotional insecurities in the moon person. There emotions are coming to the surface and showing them something they didn't know they were capable of. The 8th house is also the house of sex the moon person will be lured into this 8th house by a powerful erotic drive for this house person.
I've experienced the exact thing. Their Moon in my 8th. ------------------ "When I get sad, I stop being sad and be awesome instead." — Barney Stinson
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AriesLilith Knowflake Posts: 639 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 09, 2014 01:42 PM
IMO, house overlays' power depends on the aspects the planet makes to the house person's chart rather than simply coz it's a powerful house.I have a packed 8th house, and met a few people that had their Moons on my 8th house, and it's not with everyone that I have strong magnetic sexual whatever 8th house supposedly does kind of thing with everyone. It depends on the synastry aspects, as well as the composite. Rather than simply categorizing house overlays as powerful or not powerful simply coz the house itself is associated with powerful or non powerful things, what's consistent about house overlays is that the planet person will remind the house person of the issues associated with the house, thought not always. For example, for A whose Moon falls on the B's 8th house but quincunxes B's stellium and doesn't make any relevant aspect, B is not really going to feel as intense as let's say, someone else (C) who makes a ton of conjunctions to B's stellium... after all, if B does not care about the 8th house issues, what's the point of someone reminding them of the issues? If B has Mars in the 3rd house, he would probably feel more attraction towards C who has Venus conjunct his Mars in the 3rd rather than A's Venus in his 8th. IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody Knowflake Posts: 704 From: IL Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 19, 2014 02:19 AM
Thank you so much for posting this Lonake. I am the 8th house person in this aspect situation and I think it's been almost 4 months since I've been near him and I still think about how intense the energy is between the two of us. IP: Logged |
SDragon Moderator Posts: 391 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 19, 2014 09:19 AM
I'm the Moon person. Not sure if it brings up insecurities or not since I've pretty much learned to let go and let god, but I'm sure if I was younger and more ego-centric, it may have. Unconditional love? Certainly - I've learned to give it to myself and therefore have no problem giving it to another. Just from the Moon perspective. IP: Logged |
bonneysharon Knowflake Posts: 40 From: new york Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 28, 2014 11:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: From this blog. I have personally experienced this combo in synastry often & always saw that it related to a sexual impulse in the Moon person toward H8. This is I think the only article that has touched on this factor, the depth of the response included. They did a great job so I wanted to post it here.
OMG this is so true, i have my moon in this guy's eight house and everytime i am around him i get anxiety. i felt myself getting really close to him, i recognized it and i pulled away and he asked me "why i was getting anxiety". He has this effect on me that literally scares me, like falling for him, would shatter my whole world apart, and its scary. IP: Logged |
ash20 Knowflake Posts: 735 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted June 29, 2014 12:04 AM
What's the difference between venus in partners 8th and moon in partners 8th?IP: Logged |
PrettyVirgo Knowflake Posts: 83 From: 8th house Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 18, 2014 11:44 AM
I wonder if this moon in 8th activates after sex?IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 417 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 18, 2014 04:15 PM
What would it mean to have Moon opp. Moon but both of moons are in our respective 8th houses? (Double whammy Moon in 8th house)IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae Knowflake Posts: 4120 From: Venice, California, US Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 18, 2014 10:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by PrettyVirgo: I wonder if this moon in 8th activates after sex?
I noticed it from Day One, to be frank. Insane amount of intensity from the word 'go'. His MOON, my 8H. (My MOON is in his 12H.) IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae Knowflake Posts: 4120 From: Venice, California, US Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 18, 2014 10:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by bonneysharon: OMG this is so true, i have my moon in this guy's eight house and everytime i am around him i get anxiety. i felt myself getting really close to him, i recognized it and i pulled away and he asked me "why i was getting anxiety". He has this effect on me that literally scares me, like falling for him, would shatter my whole world apart, and its scary.
Weird. I've gotten that feeling from my Twin; my SUN, PLUTO, and VENUS are all in his 8H. I wonder if there's a similar influence? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10941 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 25, 2014 02:48 AM
I'm just curious... Why is everyone focusing on the planet person? In my experience the house person is the one who is affected by the planet person. For example: As I already mentioned above I was seeing a girl and my moon and mars fell in her 8th house and she was the one who was attracted to me and had feelings for me. And Libra covers up most of my 8th house and when I meet a girl who has a libra stellium I am usually very attracted to her. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9186 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 05, 2014 07:15 PM
Scary. IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody Knowflake Posts: 704 From: IL Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 17, 2014 11:11 PM
More more more! I would love to clarify the planet/house issue but I have a stellium in his 8th and he has sun/moon in my 8th so I can't differentiate. Talking to him again is like pulling the cord on my engines. I can feel the energy centers just revving around on full power.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 51560 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 18, 2014 02:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mystic Melody: More more more! I would love to clarify the planet/house issue but I have a stellium in his 8th and he has sun/moon in my 8th so I can't differentiate. Talking to him again is like pulling the cord on my engines. I can feel the energy centers just revving around on full power.
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raine Newflake Posts: 4 From: australia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 09, 2014 10:33 AM
there is a certain actor who has his moon, venus and mars in my 8th house...if I ever meet him...I would love to know what (he) the planet person feels...IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 51560 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 09, 2014 01:15 PM
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raine Newflake Posts: 4 From: australia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 11, 2014 08:23 AM
Thanks Randall...his venus is also trine my venus...and his mars is also trine my venus... can someone tell me all the juicy details... ; ) please... IP: Logged |
plutonian105 Knowflake Posts: 38 From: CA Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 05, 2014 01:50 AM
So, I'm going to resurrect this thread...When it comes to the 8th house specifically it deals with all things Scorpio; and that includes depth, penetration, x-ray insight... When a planet like the moon falls into a house such as this I would say the house person feels it more because they can see deeper into the motivations, and actions(or in this case feelings) of the planet person. Probably with even more clarity than the planet person themselves...which in turn will make their reactions more intense...if the moon person overreacts to these things...then drama and turmoil ensue but if there are other complementary aspects at play then there is a very deep and emotional understanding of each others nature... I have this aspect with a woman that I am...I can't really define the parameters of what we are :S but whatever it is the Emotions are POWERFUL ...her Gemini moon is conjunct my Lilith in Gemini in the 8th house IP: Logged |
sugarflapjacks Knowflake Posts: 139 From: southeasternseaboard Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 05, 2014 09:55 PM
the blog link has been removed, how can one find out what house their moon is in as well as in aspect to the other person and vice versa? thanksIP: Logged |