posted April 06, 2013 07:54 PM            

However, does anyone know of any specific synasty aspects that would show they are your twin soul? I'm assuming the synastry aspects of twin souls is even more specific than soulmate aspects.

posted April 13, 2013 12:51 AM            

Here’s the vast list… good luck and keep the orbs tight!

Sun conjunct or opposed Moon
Sun conjunct major points (Vertex, MC, IC, Asc, Desc, Nodes)
Sun located in the other’s 4th or 7th house
Moon conjunct or opposed major points
Moon conjunct or oppose Moon
Moon conjunct or opposed Venus
Moon conjunct or opposed Neptune
Venus conjunct any major points
Venus conjunct or opposed Neptune
Venus conjunct or opposed Pluto…. this one use a wider orb, and beware it brings a very obsessive quality to the relationship
Saturn conjunctions to the Moon or the Sun or on the major points

posted September 22, 2013 07:51 AM            

We have
Moon opposes neptune
Pluto opposes venus
Sun in 7th 2x
Saturn conjunct sun

posted September 24, 2013 09:44 AM            

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Originally posted by lisalisa:
Do you need to have all the aspects listed?

We have
Moon opposes neptune
Pluto opposes venus
Sun in 7th 2x
Saturn conjunct sun

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posted September 29, 2013 04:34 AM            

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Originally posted by AriesLilith:
Hmm I suppose that there should be patterns or set of aspects that we simply look at them and go "wow"? For example, with my husband, we share a set of double whammy aspects with Boda, Groom, Briede and Union that makes me look at them like "omg too much to be pure coincidence", as well as few other stuffs, that it feels like confirmation of soulmates indeed.
There are also other things I've seen between charts that simply makes me go omg (between friends and so on).

So I suppose that twin souls should even have more awesome interaspects and patterns?

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That's right, yes.
Twin Flame synastry is very unique indeed.
Twin Flames are different from soulmates in that its not really a love relationship (although there is that) but a union.
They are one and the same, the same energy manifested as opposite energies (masculine/feminine) that come together towards a greater good.
Its not about playing house and being lovey dovey all the time
Twin Flames have some serious work to do.
They are the new template for humanity.

Therefor, in Twin Flame charts you will see a lot of mirroring going on.
They will tend to have several aspect patterns/sign/house placements mirrored in one another's charts.
You will find also find their Synastry filled with this mirroring thing between yin/yang planets and asteroids.

Hope this helped

posted September 29, 2013 08:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Lavender CrystalSwan:
That's right, yes.
Twin Flame synastry is very unique indeed.
Twin Flames are different from soulmates in that its not really a love relationship (although there is that) but a union.
They are one and the same, the same energy manifested as opposite energies (masculine/feminine) that come together towards a greater good.
Its not about playing house and being lovey dovey all the time
Twin Flames have some serious work to do.
They are the new template for humanity.

Therefor, in Twin Flame charts you will see a lot of mirroring going on.
They will tend to have several aspect patterns/sign/house placements mirrored in one another's charts.
You will find their Synastry filled with this mirroring thing.

Hope this helped

~ Lavender

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posted September 29, 2013 09:54 AM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
That's interesting: my twinflame and I have union trine union exact and eros trine psyche. We also have Isis conjunct Osiris in our composite.

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Nice!
Do you have your luminaries aspected to one another's?

posted October 01, 2013 08:33 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Lavender CrystalSwan:
That's right, yes.
Twin Flame synastry is very unique indeed.
Twin Flames are different from soulmates in that its not really a love relationship (although there is that) but a union.
They are one and the same, the same energy manifested as opposite energies (masculine/feminine) that come together towards a greater good.
Its not about playing house and being lovey dovey all the time
Twin Flames have some serious work to do.
They are the new template for humanity.

Therefor, in Twin Flame charts you will see a lot of mirroring going on.
They will tend to have several aspect patterns/sign/house placements mirrored in one another's charts.
You will find also find their Synastry filled with this mirroring thing between yin/yang planets and asteroids.

Hope this helped

~ Lavender

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posted October 04, 2013 12:34 PM            

The Good Soulmate-y aspects:

Sun conj Moon
Sun conjunct Venus
Sun sextile Pluto
Moon trine Moon
Moon sextile Pluto
Mercury trine Neptune
Venus conjunct Mars
Venus conjunct Pluto

The Harsh aspects:

Moon opp Chiron
Mercury square Mars
Venus square Neptune
Venus square Saturn
Venus square Chiron

There's sparks between them and an amazing chemistry, but other than that, nothing. Physically the girl is not the guy's "type" so they never got together.

posted October 31, 2013 09:51 PM            

However I do believe in karmic, and soulmate, past life connections. ...
I've experienced my deepest soulmate connection, and it fits within the twin flame descriptions, but I still don't think he's a TF.
I can see/understand how deep of an effect these people have on us...
How sm is confused with TF..
( not discounting anyone, just giving my opinion on the subject)

For me
If TF were true, it would be more like Romeo and Juliet, where the 2 people involved would go against the odds at being together, that they would choose death before separation from one another.
They wouldn't let anyone or anything stop them from being together...

In my eyes true TF relationships wouldn't separate from one another for reason.

posted November 06, 2013 07:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
I'm not totally sold on the twin flame idea....

However I do believe in karmic, and soulmate, past life connections. ...
I've experienced my deepest soulmate connection, and it fits within the twin flame descriptions, but I still don't think he's a TF.
I can see/understand how deep of an effect these people have on us...
How sm is confused with TF..
( not discounting anyone, just giving my opinion on the subject)

For me
If TF were true, it would be more like Romeo and Juliet, where the 2 people involved would go against the odds at being together, that they would choose death before separation from one another.
They wouldn't let anyone or anything stop them from being together...

In my eyes true TF relationships wouldn't separate from one another for reason.

Separation, longing, holding on, heart broken is more karmic in m opinion.

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I can see where you're coming from.
I know, so many people idealize this whole twin flame concept and think of it as the "grand prize" in a lottery.
Whereas each and every type of connection should just be cherished and honoured for what it is, as well as for what it has brought you and made you out to be as a result.
But all labels aside, it all just comes down to love in the end right?

But then again, I feel that I should make something clear: there are those who have had real TF encounters, who's experiences have left them forever shaken up, and transformed/awakened for good (myself included).

The TF bond isn't like what most people "hypothesize" to be; (ie: a grand love romance that is totally perfect and free of any hardships/challenges, etc...).
Although there is a huge amount loving romantic feelings presents, those who are meant to be in these type of unions have MAJOR MAJOR soul/inner work to do which it isn't always pretty!
TFs can have just as much, if not more fights/disagreements happen between them than soulmates in some cases...
This isn't because they are incompatible or have bad karma or anything, its because the Twinflame bond is of such a high frequency that it "boosts" everything, every feeling, every experience, all the good and bad, bringing up any pain/baggage they may have in their emotional bodies so that it can all be released.
It allows you to look deep within yourself and face all that you never knew was there and anything you have been hiding/suppressing and bring it up to the surface.
Its a highly spiritual and deep bond that has to do with authenticity of the self, surrendering to spirit/your higher-self and being of service to others.

This is one of the purposes of TF relationships; to purge one-self clean of anything that doesn't serve them, anything that isn't of the spirit/love.
That is because the nature of their bond isn't a typical "human love" but a love connection of the spirit—first and foremost, which then descends down to the physical. Unlike soulmates whose connection will most likely start off on the physical/sexual level and work its way up to the emotional, mental, etheric and just *maybe* make it to the spiritual.
The TF connection ALWAYS starts up in the spirit and makes its way down.

How you differentiate between a soulmate and twin flame in my opinion/experience is simple: you will just know, there will be no doubt about it!
Although its true that some of the "signs" and "symptoms" of soulmates and twinflames are similar, but your SOUL will tell the difference.
Something inside of you will be screaming that's them, it'll be like alarms/bells going off (well, not literally lol) but you will have that undeniable knowing that its them!
They will feel very familiar, you will recognize yourself in them.
The sense of unity/intimacy you'll experience with them will be so profound that it scares you!
There will be a sense of "merging into them", as though your spirits are intertwining, even if there is no physical interaction or any kind of physical communication, it will still effect you in the deepest of ways because the connection is of the spirit, above all — and let me tell you, it will totally rock your world, steer your life in a completely new direction and shock your soul alive!

One more thing I want to clarify:
I am by NO means implying that Twin Flames are "better" than soulmates, that is not the case at all.
They are simply different forms of relationships/unions with different purposes, and not everyone's experiences will be the same.
We're all here for our own unique, individual soul-agendas and lessons.

I understand that those who haven't experienced this personally will find it hard to grasp/believe, but, like I said, it is my own experience and that of some others who will know what I'm talking about.

posted November 06, 2013 11:40 PM            

I realize my "theory of TF " is more fairy tale, but what can I say I'm a romantic

My thinking is there would for sure be some struggle to be together, something to over come... But both the people would fight for it... Never leaving the side if the other, they would fight together as a team to be together...
These 2 people wouldn't let any one or anything stop them from being together...

A lot of times I see/read/hear (all over the net)
Saying my TF won't talk to me or have anything to do with me... Etc etc..
I don't see how that could be a twin flame, cuz they wouldn't be able to be part...
If some separation happen, for what ever reason, it wouldn't last long, cuz BOTH people couldn't stand being away from the other...

But again, I'm a romantic at heart...
Hehehe.
I would never discount someone directly about if they met a TF or not, because honestly there is no real proof either way...
So if someone fels that then they should go with it...

Believe me I have/am experiencing everything you mentioned...
I was married for 12 years and my x never ever made me feel anything similar as this other guy does..

I've been going through it for the last 4 years...
It's totally changed me, and has had my head in such a mental spiral that I can't even express it into actual words..
It's the deepest, feelings I could ever imagine.. Honestly I didn't even know a person could feel this much..
My entire being is tortured...

Fate, keeps us reconnecting. Over and over.. It's impossible to get away..
I totally disconnected myself.. Went through hell during the whole grieving process....
Finally I started to feel like a person again... Even went out on a date with someone else...
But fate stepped in and but us temporally sharing a private office for the rest of the year, during construction..
Now I have no choice but to face him 40hrs a week...

We have some TF markers... But honestly I don't believe he is a TF, he's a soulmate for sure...
If he was a TF, he would leave me...
I've had professional readings saying our auras are intertwined, and we are in unicence like flying birds..
But honestly none of that matters, what matters is
He would fight to stay with me, despite the cirmstances.
He would be going through to much pain, to be away from me...
He's not, he's just not....
This is my karma, I guess....
He's trying again, but I told him, I'm no longer interested..
I'm just not going to go through this anymore...
I refuse to allow him to have my head anymore...

But of course, maybe if I did meet a TF, then my opinion would change....
When it comes to TF, all each of us have are our own personal beliefs...

I guess feeling you met your TF, is more powerful than trying to prove it...
If anyone has met a TF... I think that's wonderful!!!
I truly hope they did..
It doesn't matter, if some like myself believes or not...

That's just my theory on TF...

The movie the notebook, is my idea of TF.... Lol
But I'm crazy like that...

posted November 07, 2013 12:25 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
@ Lavender- your description/ personal experience you wrote above is just beautiful! I agree with you 100% in all these aspects! I also agree, it's true, absolutely No One can truly understand the connection/ experience unless they lived it...Period!

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Aw thank you, tgem.
I appreciate your nice words

posted November 07, 2013 12:33 PM            

"I realize my "theory of TF " is more fairy tale, but what can I say I'm a romantic"

Lol its ok, I am like that too Hehe

"My thinking is there would for sure be some struggle to be together, something to over come... But both the people would fight for it... Never leaving the side if the other, they would fight together as a team to be together...
These 2 people wouldn't let any one or anything stop them from being together..."

Yes, thats very true.
But like I said before, the TF bond amplifies everything so any insecurities/fears one may have are brought up, and this is what usually causes one of them to "run" from the connection because its so deep, so profound and so intimate that they feel vulnerable and "naked" in each other's presence. TFs can see right through any barriers that the other they may have put up and easily break down any defence walls, which can be really scary! So they run.

But this is only a temporary stage, so that the "runner" can work on releasing those fears/blockages and surrender to their higher-self/destiny.

But then again, in some cases, its just unrequited love and not a twinflame/soulmate connection at all, and the poor thing is only running because they don't feel the same way as the other person and is creeped out by them lol.

"I've been going through it for the last 4 years...
It's totally changed me, and has had my head in such a mental spiral that I can't even express it into actual words..
It's the deepest, feelings I could ever imagine.. Honestly I didn't even know a person could feel this much..
My entire being is tortured..."

Yes, I have seen some of your posts and read some of your experiences with the 12th house synastry and such.
I totally understand what you are going through; its not easy at all.

I myself have some 12th housey things going on with him in our synastry, including composite Moon/Mars conjunction in the 12th and my Asc exact on his 12th house cusp, and others.

"We have some TF markers... But honestly I don't believe he is a TF, he's a soulmate for sure...
If he was a TF, he would leave me...
I've had professional readings saying our auras are intertwined, and we are in unicence like flying birds..
But honestly none of that matters, what matters is
He would fight to stay with me, despite the cirmstances.
He would be going through to much pain, to be away from me..."

Some karmic soulmates and twin flames will tend to have a few of the same common denominators too.
But only your heart will know the difference and it will be obvious.

No psychics or intuitives, no matter how advanced they may claim to be could tell you what you know to be YOUR own truth.
Just go with your gut. If you are really sure he's a soulmate then go with that because only you would really know.

I really hope things work out for you.
I know how tough it can be.

posted November 30, 2013 07:11 PM            

I've read all the theories about the coming together separation, runner, chaser, then the chaser gives up hope and the runner returns...

I have being going through this a few years now, I know I've never held on to someone as long as this...
Geez it was easier to let go of the x husband verses this SM..
I'm assuming that's cuz the relationship with the x hubby played out, and then you just knew it was time to move forward..

But with this SM, it's been off and on, not much of a separation, we talk just about every day...
With a few exception of disagreements here and there..
We never once gave up on the connection,..

Once again, I'm torn due to him... He has expressed to me he's not ready for this to be over...
My head disagrees, my head is fighting it with all of my might...
But I feel like my soul has more power and will not allow me to move on...
This is not the first time, this has happen...
But in a sense I feel a bit stronger, more willing to have the internal fight...
I've told him, I will think about it, but the more I think about, the more I know I just don't want to keep going through all of this again... Yet I don't want to loose him either...
I don't doubt I have some sort if meaning to him, yet to what level, idk...
The most he says is I matter, more than he could ever express into words, or that he is willing to tell me about...

It's been really rocky for the past year, and I have gone through hell and back, with suffering and trying to find my own way....
I kinda feel like if I do go back, will I loose my own way??
I want to keep my own personal power, and this 1 man has more power of myself than I can explain..
The heaviness of all of this has consumed me, and has made me look inside my self for new direction, and a new life purpose...
I just don't know if that life purpose has him included or not..
Yet the pain of not having any contact with him, seems unbearable.

How do I maintain myself, with out making my internal soul suffer...
That's the real question...
I feel like I have to choose between having me or blending into becoming him..

The way I'm feeling right now at this moment is that I just can't go through or do this again...
Yet he's kinda irresistible, most likely I won't be able to
Not give into him... Which makes me feel like I'm not in control here.