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Topic: Help wanted in figuring out Sagittarius Man
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Odette Knowflake Posts: 2485 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted August 27, 2013 10:41 PM
quote: Casual and Exclusive do not belong in the same sentence.
They do for me - and for many people who are more lighthearted. I have Aries Sun trine Sagittarius Saturn - and almost no fixed signs in my chart (mostly mutable & cardinal). I would feel very suffocated with a water sign person - and have felt this way in the past... because they seem to want a whole lot of emotion - that I am not prepared to give. I just want to have fun in my life - not some soap opera romance. quote: If a man wants to be with you, he will move freakin' MOUNTAINS to be with you.
Nope. Not true. Different men are just different...Most people - male and female have daily problems and concerns and OTHER stuff in their lives that is not romantic. Not everyone's life revolves around "love". Mine sure doesn't. I have a serious issue with the "He's not that into you" book which was written by a Scorpio woman who is just as intense about things as you seem to be - and who I also disagree with. I mean you are who you are... and if this is what you are looking for in a man - Congratulations! I hope you do find it. But not everyone is *you*... and not every man will be so intense or so insane about it. quote: You'll never doubt if they want you. If he felt you were the one, he would not let you get away!
Well I have let the one get away - intentionally - and I still believe I made the right decision for the right reasons. I have lots of Cappy going on so I can make decisions with my head - not my heart or my va jay jay. And so can many men ^ So sometimes - people DO let "the one" get away. It happens. We are not all Scorpios.
quote: What you put up with --- you end up with. Let him know that "casual" is not what you want and when he's ready for a real relationship, then look you up.
SingleCancer -- If this is how you feel - then you can be honest. But I'm pretty sure he will also be honest in saying - not interested. Fire people NEED space. Water people get IN your space whether you like it or not.. And it is a big problem in water-fire relationships... So if you can find a compromise - that's great. But telling him - it's your way or the highway will just push him into taking the highway. IP: Logged |
HRH-FishAreFish Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Twin Cities, Land of 10,000 Seas Registered: May 2013
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posted August 27, 2013 11:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hera: Oh, I was referring to the 3 symbols of the Scorpio sign: the scorpion, the eagle and the phoenix. The scorpion is the least evolved of the 3, is set on survival and primal instincts. The eagle has learned to distance him/herself from all these but not all the time, whereas the phoenix was reborn from the ashes of all his/her flaws. Phoenix types of Scorpio are methinks the rarest and most awesome to witness. They are healers instead of destructive and vindictive like the scorpion.
LINDA GOODMAN'S SUN SIGNS
"I shall never, never forget." "You will though," the Queen said, "if you don't make a memorandum of it." 
LOve & LIght , Stephanie
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HRH-FishAreFish Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Twin Cities, Land of 10,000 Seas Registered: May 2013
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posted August 28, 2013 12:13 AM
PS. Don't quote me...I don't have all the pages scanned yet, but I'm pretty sure it goes something like this: Eagles fly an octave higher than the typical Scorpio... And Gray Lizards fly an octave lower than the typical Scorpio.
Just like Dolphins fly an octave higher than the typical Pisces... And Whales (often Whale males) fly an octave lower than the typical Pisces. There are three types of Scorpios and three types of Pisces--the last two Water Signs.
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Aries Eagle Knowflake Posts: 398 From: Mars & Moon Registered: Jan 2013
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posted August 28, 2013 01:04 AM
WOW HRH I liked what you wrote about Scorpio and Pisces.Blessings ------------------
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HRH-FishAreFish Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Twin Cities, Land of 10,000 Seas Registered: May 2013
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posted August 28, 2013 01:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: Fire people NEED space. Water people get IN your space whether you like it or not.. And it is a big problem in water-fire relationships...
So true.
"Water people get IN your space whether you like it or not.." A wee bit harsh...water flows into space whether anybody likes it or not...well, as long as it's not frozen ice. I mean, we all know WATER can transform into at least three different states of matter: GAS, LIQUID, & SOLID (And thus the three types of Scorpios and three types of Pisces.) ************************************ BTW I'm a Pisces female with a Gemini Moon dealing with a Sag male with a Capricorn Moon and we both say to each other, "I must have done something really bad in my last life to have to put up with you?" Instead of a Centaur in shining armor, he's more often than not a jackass, court jester with hoof and mouth disease. And I thought Sagittarians were supposed to be so truthful...I caught him in three lies just today. Two of them were really fookin big lies. Sorry. I've had a really bad Sagittarius week. 
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HRH-FishAreFish Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Twin Cities, Land of 10,000 Seas Registered: May 2013
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posted August 28, 2013 01:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries Eagle: WOW HRH I liked what you wrote about Scorpio and Pisces.Blessings
Thanks. I like your Phoenix profile signature.  IP: Logged |
Single Cancer Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 28, 2013 09:02 AM
Odette...I'm letting him have his space. I'm not giving him any ultimatums and getting on with my life in general. I've been tempted to call him but leaving it for now as I don't want to come across as pushy. IP: Logged |
Hera Moderator Posts: 7566 From: Aries fantasy land ^_^ Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 29, 2013 09:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by HRH-FishAreFish: PS. Don't quote me...I don't have all the pages scanned yet, but I'm pretty sure it goes something like this: Eagles fly an octave higher than the typical Scorpio... And Gray Lizards fly an octave lower than the typical Scorpio.
Just like Dolphins fly an octave higher than the typical Pisces... And Whales (often Whale males) fly an octave lower than the typical Pisces. There are three types of Scorpios and three types of Pisces--the last two Water Signs.
Wow! I didn't know this. Interesting.. IP: Logged |
Hera Moderator Posts: 7566 From: Aries fantasy land ^_^ Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 29, 2013 09:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by Single Cancer: Odette...I'm letting him have his space. I'm not giving him any ultimatums and getting on with my life in general. I've been tempted to call him but leaving it for now as I don't want to come across as pushy.
Sounds like a good plan there, Single Cancer! Keep us posted!! IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 5799 From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street.. Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2013 03:46 AM
I noticed that you said things turned around a bunch after you two went away together? I think you went away with each other too fast. You need more dates that have a beginning and an end and more of a natural progression. Being on vacation with someone is very stressful! Even if it is someone you love and know well it is like their minor flaws grow to epic proportions and they get on your last nerve. I am a Saggie girl who adores water sun men. But I know what I can and cannot tolerate, and vacationing with someone who I wasn't pair bonded to... just the thought of it gives me the shivers.I think he just got overwhelmed, honestly. Everyone else has given great advice not to call or text or email. But I know how you feel, you just want answers dammit!! Sometimes the answer is in the actions, more than the words. When all else fails, making a fire sun jealous is a tale as old as time. I wish you luck!! xox IP: Logged |
Single Cancer Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 05:47 PM
Hi Gypsee...Yes I believe too that he got overwhelmed and things did go very fast from day 1. I did mention that too him. He did say that it scared him a little. I just don't know how to turn things around except give him time. IP: Logged |