posted February 22, 2012 06:51 PM            

I email you our birth data and deleted it from the thread; thank you very much for the offer. I thought about it, and would rather not post our demographics online =)

posted February 22, 2012 08:00 PM            

Boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship. He and I are perfect together. We are two peas in a pod and he feels safe and solid to me, however my heart is with crush. If the two of them were in the same room and I had to choose, I honestly couldn't tell you what I'd do. It's the age old paradox - do I go with my head or my heart? I know I could be happy with boyfriend for the rest of my life, but I think I'll always wonder what could have been had I chosen another path.

Crush and I seem to keep circling each other, but we are cursed with bad timing. If I'm free, he's not and vice versa. The time we did spend together was breath taking, and I seriously doubt I'll ever get over him. Who knows what fate has in store for us.

My relationship with Ex-Husband was hell on earth. We were together 16 years and the life blood was literally sucked out of me. The happiest day of my life was when I finally got the courage to leave. It was an emotionally abusive relationship and the only regret I have is that I stayed so long.

Thank you for your reading. It confirmed my feelings.

posted February 22, 2012 08:54 PM            

Me- Steff- Jan 6th 1987,
Flushing NY USA 7:45 PM

Him- Jas - March 9th 1984
Beckley West Virginia USA 11:00 AM

posted February 22, 2012 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
RunAroundScreaming - the three analysis' you did for me were right on the money.

Boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship. He and I are perfect together. We are two peas in a pod and he feels safe and solid to me, however my heart is with crush. If the two of them were in the same room and I had to choose, I honestly couldn't tell you what I'd do. It's the age old paradox - do I go with my head or my heart? I know I could be happy with boyfriend for the rest of my life, but I think I'll always wonder what could have been had I chosen another path.

Crush and I seem to keep circling each other, but we are cursed with bad timing. If I'm free, he's not and vice versa. The time we did spend together was breath taking, and I seriously doubt I'll ever get over him. Who knows what fate has in store for us.

My relationship with Ex-Husband was hell on earth. We were together 16 years and the life blood was literally sucked out of me. The happiest day of my life was when I finally got the courage to leave. It was an emotionally abusive relationship and the only regret I have is that I stayed so long.

Thank you for your reading. It confirmed my feelings.

JoJo

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posted February 22, 2012 10:20 PM            

My secret lover who is married, he tell me that he love me but we can't be together because he's married and i respect that, so i'm not more in contact with hem

christella: 05-avril-1984 at 22:10 in Pointe-noire (Congo)
matthew: 12-aout-1986 at 11:10 in Ath (Belgium)

my secret lover and his wife, she's from a rich family and ask hem to be is husband.

matthew: 12-aout-1986 at 11:10 in Ath (Belgium)
aude: 27 february 1985 no hour in Mons(belgium)

My actuel man (10 years and a kid)
christella: 05-avril-1984 at 22:10 in Pointe-noire (Congo)
philippe: 01-december 1976 at 5:50 in laeken (belgium)

posted February 22, 2012 11:09 PM            

My Analysis

Hi, there is a reoccuring theme in both your composite and synastry and that is that this is a relationship with a ton and i do mean a TON of energy. There is also fun, mental electricity, as well as arguments. It is also not lacking at all in possessiveness, jealousy, power struggles, manipulation, and ego competitions. Your behavior is certainly very reckless together..challenging each others' opinions all the time, arguing, orchestrating grand schemes and trying to do too many projects at once and encouraging each other to act irresponsibly. Your moons both being in aries and your composite moon and ascendant being in aries also doesnt help to slow you down! Your relationship can basically be described by this double whammy which grupovenus very aptly explains as the following:

Mars Mutually Aspects Uranus

Putting the two of you together is like putting a match and gasoline together: it's explosive! You make each other feel fired up and zealous, and you jointly pursue goals with vigor and intense dynamic energy. You must strive to be patient and understanding with each other because the volatile energy of this relationship can erupt into anger and combativeness. You are very impulsive and probably reckless together.

However, there is another level to your relationship as brother and sister. You have an intense bond shown by composite sun conjunct pluto and moon opp pluto as well as composite moon being in the first house. You intensely influence each other and have great power to manipulate each other and you may find yourself being transformed by each other. You also talk to each other about your feelings and that is a big part of your bond with your moons conjunct in synastry and moon being conjunct the asc in the composite. You have many of the same feelings and it is rare to meet someone who feels all the same things as you, so appreciate this. At the same time, though, there is a strong tendency to criticize each other and feel that you hold each other back because of the composite sun square saturn. This is a complex relationship which is hard to deal with because you two care a lot about each other but it is so intense you may feel like you wish you were adopted by another family!

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grupovenus.com's report

Yuting's Sun in Leo and Yuting_bro's Sun in Libra

Of the two of you, Yuting is the stronger individual, and the balance of power may be somewhat lopsided in your relationship. Yuting_bro is more willing to compromise and accommodate others than Yuting is, and Yuting_bro is also subtler, more diplomatic and indirect. Yuting has a very strong ego and pride and Yuting_bro usually has the tact and delicacy not to offend Yuting, so you are likely to get on well. However, Yuting_bro also has a strong sense of fairness, expects attention and favors to be reciprocated, and may balk at Yuting's tendency to be self- centered. You share a strong interest in style, fashion, and aesthetics or appearances.

Yuting's Moon in Aries and Yuting_bro's Moon in Aries

Both of you are assertive, emotionally self-sufficient individuals who respond with positive action, anger, or compulsive busyness whenever you are upset.

Often you deny or downplay any feelings of weakness, dependency, or neediness in yourselves or others. You expect yourself to 'snap out of it' whenever you feel sad, low, or moody, and you're frequently impatient with others' emotional needs as well.

Both of you instinctively want to lead and don't compromise or take commands very readily.

Both of you also have a competitive spirit and may enjoy playing sports or other athletic activities together, but you can easily end up feeling like rivals rather than friends.

Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together

Mars Mutually Aspects Uranus

Putting the two of you together is like putting a match and gasoline together: it's explosive! You make each other feel fired up and zealous, and you jointly pursue goals with vigor and intense dynamic energy. You must strive to be patient and understanding with each other because the volatile energy of this relationship can erupt into anger and combativeness. You are very impulsive and probably reckless together.

Yuting's Moon conjunct Yuting_bro's Moon orb 0° 30'

There is a great similarity in your moods, instinctive responses to life, and emotional needs. Many of your personal tastes and habits are also similar. This similarity in temperaments promotes harmony and a naturally cooperative feeling for each other.

Yuting's Uranus opposition Yuting_bro's Moon orb 1° 5'

Yuting is instrumental in freeing Yuting_bro from many old habits and attitudes. Both of you find this relationship enlivening and you often get into a free-spirited, even zany, mood together. Any contracts or commitments you make to each other, however, may be short-lived as events and circumstances are likely to change so often that your plans need to be constantly revised.

Yuting's Uranus conjunct Yuting_bro's Mars orb 2° 28'

You feel energized and get into a dynamic, sometimes impatient and reckless mood together. You enjoy engaging in exciting or daring activities together. You get impatient with each other and can easily get into lots of arguments and feelings of irritation and annoyance with each other.

Yuting's Sun opposition Yuting_bro's Ascendant orb 2° 51'

You are very different, even opposite, from one another, yet you have a close connection. You can learn from and probably need the very qualities you see in one another. Yuting is likely to be very important and special to Yuting_bro, and may dominate Yuting_bro at times, or at least be a very strong influence. Your link to one another, once formed, would be very difficult to break.

Yuting's Venus opposition Yuting_bro's Ascendant orb 1° 50'

There is a great deal of harmony between you, and you love one another's companionship. Yuting brings out Yuting_bro's lovingness, cooperation, appreciation for beauty, and desire for sweetness and pleasure.

An especially close, satisfying friendship is very likely between you.

Yuting's Mars conjunct Yuting_bro's Ascendant orb 2° 24'

There is a dynamic, vital quality to your relationship which may include rivalry. You share many of the same goals, and you enjoy working together to achieve them. You stimulate each other to accomplish and do more, and you put each other in an energetic, self-confident mood. Disputes and outbursts of temper are not uncommon between you, either, though you tend to find this more stimulating than irritating.

Yuting's Sun square Yuting_bro's Mercury orb 0° 1'

The two of you do not always see eye-to-eye on issues, and it is very easy for Yuting_bro to become critical of Yuting. Compounding the problem is Yuting's tendency to be very sensitive to criticism from Yuting_bro and consequently react defensively to this criticism. This need not be a serious problem however; a little tolerance for each other's right to disagree and respect for individual differences is all it takes to make personal differences interesting rather than annoying.

Yuting's Sun sextile Yuting_bro's Uranus orb 1° 55'

There is a light-hearted, buoyant quality to your relationship that makes you really enjoy each other's company. You spark each other's sense of humor and you enjoy joking and 'horsing around' with each other. You also appreciate each other's creative interests and encourage each other to pursue original, creative activities. Yuting especially feels freer and less inhibited by being with Yuting_bro.

Yuting's Venus sextile Yuting_bro's Mars orb 0° 28'

You stimulate one another's creative, artistic, romantic, and loving impulses and feelings, and there is much warmth and mutual affection between you. Because you make each other feel more alive and energized, you love to spend time together.

Yuting's Mars square Yuting_bro's Mercury orb 0° 29'

The tendency to argumentativeness, verbal abuse, and mutual misunderstanding is very strong so please heed the following advice: try to avoid abusive language towards each other, and do not try to coerce the other person to accept your views. You enjoy challenging each other's ideas, showing the weaknesses, inconsistencies, or superficialities in each other's reasoning. While the intention is good, the net result can be hurt feelings and anger. Typically there is some truth to each other's point of view, but a lack of real appreciation and respect for each other's ideas triggers argumentativeness.

Yuting's Mars trine Yuting_bro's Uranus orb 2° 23'

An electric, exciting quality infuses your relationship and you encourage one another to be bold, confident, and assertive. Vigorous physical activities, like sports, are good outlets for the vital dynamic energy you generate together. Your unusual, original, unconventional impulses emerge when you are together, also.

END OF THE SHORT VERSION

The complete version includes:
Chapter 3
Other Themes in Your Relationship

Yuting's Sun in Yuting_bro's 7 house
Yuting_bro's Sun in Yuting's 6 house
Yuting's Moon in Yuting_bro's 2 house
Yuting_bro's Moon in Yuting's 11 house
Yuting's Mercury in Yuting_bro's 7 house
Yuting_bro's Mercury in Yuting's 6 house
Yuting's Venus in Yuting_bro's 6 house
Yuting_bro's Venus in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Mars in Yuting_bro's 1 house
Yuting_bro's Mars in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Jupiter in Yuting_bro's 10 house
Yuting_bro's Jupiter in Yuting's 8 house
Yuting's Saturn in Yuting_bro's 4 house
Yuting_bro's Saturn in Yuting's 2 house
Yuting's Uranus in Yuting_bro's 8 house
Yuting_bro's Uranus in Yuting's 6 house
Yuting's Neptune in Yuting_bro's 10 house
Yuting_bro's Neptune in Yuting's 7 house
Yuting's Pluto in Yuting_bro's 8 house
Yuting_bro's Pluto in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Sun sextile Yuting_bro's Saturn orb 2° 54'
Yuting's Moon opposition Yuting_bro's Mars orb 3° 3'
Yuting's Venus trine Yuting_bro's Moon orb 3° 5'
Yuting's Venus square Yuting_bro's Mercury orb 4° 43'
Yuting's Mars trine Yuting_bro's Mars orb 3° 45'
Yuting's Mars trine Yuting_bro's Saturn orb 3° 22'
Yuting's Neptune sextile Yuting_bro's Pluto orb 2° 34'
Yuting's Uranus trine Yuting_bro's Ascendant orb 3° 49'
Yuting's Ascendant opposition Yuting_bro's Mercury orb 4° 41'
Yuting's Ascendant trine Yuting_bro's Venus orb 3° 34'
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astrology3d.com's report

yuting_bro's Moon Conjunct yuting's Moon

There is a great similarity in your moods, instinctive responses to life, and emotional needs. Many of your personal tastes and habits are also similar. This similarity in temperaments promotes domestic harmony and a naturally cooperative feeling for each other. You enjoy making a home together or living together, as you instinctively know what makes your partner comfortable and happy.

yuting_bro's Moon Trine yuting's Venus

There is a particularly sweet, loving, caring quality to your relationship that both of you may tend to take for granted. Others, who lack this quality in their own relationship, do notice it and may enjoy the kindness and devotion you have for each other. You both find it easy to give freely to each other.

yuting_bro's Moon Opposite yuting's Uranus

You spark each other's curiosity and imagination, and you have a great deal of fascination for each other. It is likely that your relationship developed suddenly and impulsively, for your feelings for each other change quickly and unexpectedly. At one moment you find each other sexually irresistible and not much later you may feel angry or indifferent to each other. Your feelings blow hot and cold in this relationship, and consequently there is a tone of instability and inconstancy. It is possible that one, or both, of you will tire of the constant fluctuations. You may feel that there is a lack of commitment, dedication, reliability, and stability, causing you to doubt the viability of the relationship. On the other hand, you may find the changes exciting and stimulating. Be grateful that there are always surprises and novelty around the corner - at least you don't have to worry about getting stuck in a rut or bored with your partner.

Composite Report for yuting and yuting_bro

Sun 22 VI 39 3N11
Moon 9 AR 50 8N09
Mercury 13 LI 52 7S35
Venus 0 VI 35 11N48
Mars 15 SG 2 13S21
Jupiter 15 SG 7 20S07
Saturn 12 GE 43 20N20
Uranus 14 LI 59 4S18
Neptune 1 SG 59 19S57
Pluto 0 LI 27 14N18
Node 2 AQ 38 18S11
Ascendant 3 AR 17 1N23
Midheaven 2 CP 50 18S36

Sun in Virgo

As a couple your desire is to make the world a better place, and you begin by trying to be better people. Don't be too hard on yourselves. You are good at analyzing the relationship, but don't let this detract from your enjoyment of each other

Moon in Aries

This relationship can be very demanding. You have fiery, impulsive wants and needs. You feel adventurous when you're together. Anger may rise between you quite often, but it passes quickly. Impatient. You arouse each other.

Ascendant in Aries

This is a relationship that comes on strong. The two of you have a forcefulness that attracts people and earns their respect. You are open and honest -- people feel they can trust you and they know where they stand with you.

Sun Conjunct Pluto

There is definitely an element of destiny or inevitability, something which cannot be resisted or avoided, in the two of you coming together. This relationship can take you further into your own depths than you've ever been before, and truly be life-changing for both of you. You have a profound and powerful influence upon one another for good or ill, and once joined, it will be extremely difficult to ever totally sever your connection. You really get inside each other. You may become one another's psychotherapist in a manner of speaking, because being together dredges up a lot of your hidden agendas or motives and you become aware of many more facets of yourselves than you were ever conscious of before.

Together, you can also be an incredibly potent force in other peoples' lives. Your charisma and influence as a couple far exceeds your individual powers. If the two of you are tempted to misuse this, you could be involved in manipulative games and power plays, Machiavellian exploits of all kinds. Using your powers creatively and positively, you could become healers or agents of transformation and renewal in the world.

Moon Opposite Mercury

Inevitably your communications with one another will be strongly colored by emotion, emotional prejudice and bias, and subjective elements, all of which often interfere with rational discussion. Part of the purpose of your relationship, in fact, has to do with examining your feelings, coming to understand them, and becoming aware of some of your basic assumptions and habitual beliefs which you may have never questioned before. Differences of opinion, especially on emotionally-charged issues such as child rearing, how to celebrate holidays and so on, will enable you both to understand your roots, as well as your prejudices. If you can respect one another's opinions and preferences, rather than get defensive, you'll find that you can tell one another very personal, intimate details of your lives, and end up feeling quite close to each other as a result.

Moon Opposite Uranus

The two of you are destined to have a rather unsettling affect upon one another. Your relationship may begin quite suddenly and unexpectedly, disrupting your normal routines and perhaps other relationships you are engaged in. There is an electric excitement between you which can be very thrilling, but also unnerving. Emotional impulsiveness and "acting crazy" together, doing things that are totally out of character or far more radical and daring that either of you would be inclined to do alone, are to be expected. For a long time you may have an unstable, on-again/off-again connection with one another, and unless there are other stabilizing factors between you, that's all it may ever be.
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from sasstrology love calculator

You & Your brother are:
80% Compatible

posted February 22, 2012 11:39 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Yuting and her brother

My Analysis

Hi, there is a reoccuring theme in both your composite and synastry and that is that this is a relationship with a ton and i do mean a TON of energy. There is also fun, mental electricity, as well as arguments. It is also not lacking at all in possessiveness, jealousy, power struggles, manipulation, and ego competitions. Your behavior is certainly very reckless together..challenging each others' opinions all the time, arguing, orchestrating grand schemes and trying to do too many projects at once and encouraging each other to act irresponsibly. Your moons both being in aries and your composite moon and ascendant being in aries also doesnt help to slow you down! Your relationship can basically be described by this double whammy which grupovenus very aptly explains as the following:

Mars Mutually Aspects Uranus

Putting the two of you together is like putting a match and gasoline together: it's explosive! You make each other feel fired up and zealous, and you jointly pursue goals with vigor and intense dynamic energy. You must strive to be patient and understanding with each other because the volatile energy of this relationship can erupt into anger and combativeness. You are very impulsive and probably reckless together.

However, there is another level to your relationship as brother and sister. You have an intense bond shown by composite sun conjunct pluto and moon opp pluto as well as composite moon being in the first house. You intensely influence each other and have great power to manipulate each other and you may find yourself being transformed by each other. You also talk to each other about your feelings and that is a big part of your bond with your moons conjunct in synastry and moon being conjunct the asc in the composite. You have many of the same feelings and it is rare to meet someone who feels all the same things as you, so appreciate this. At the same time, though, there is a strong tendency to criticize each other and feel that you hold each other back because of the composite sun square saturn. This is a complex relationship which is hard to deal with because you two care a lot about each other but it is so intense you may feel like you wish you were adopted by another family!

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Thanks for the reading. Havent analyzed my relationship w/ him in such details before. We were very close in age, so we played together and fight together when we were little kids. We both have tempers, but I think I am the more dominant personality overall and as the elder sister in a traditional culture, I was supposed to be more mature and to take care of him (more on intellectual matter than physical matters though, eg his studies). For powerplay, maybe more in our relationship with our mother since we are both close to her, but she and my bro are more naturally compatible, ie I was jealous. For him, the powerplay might be that I was better at my studies than him, so there was pressure. However, these issues were of less importance cos of maturity and he has come into his own. I think we are proud of each other. I believe we are close, though no longer the type that we play together all the time like kids. He is married after all. But we have some shared interests and we can talk to each other when there are important issues.

posted February 22, 2012 11:41 PM            

Soulmates, anyone? In this composite we have the love stellium with pluto thrown into the mix and uranus hovering a bit further away. You also have composite moon trine pluto. Sun conjunct pluto and moon trine pluto along with moon sesquiquadrate venus, and moon sq pluto in synastry shows there are deep feelings here. This with the love stellium means this was a very loving and fulfilling relationship. You also had double whammy venus-jupiter aspects which means you had a ton of fun and chemistry together and so much appreciation for each other. Uranus hovering at the end of the stellium means this relationship is not likely to be in your face and out right rebellious, but it does indicate that the two of you being together is unusual in some way, or that you could not fall into a traditional role of stable boyfriend and girlfriend when you were together. Saturn trine the stellium denotes that from the beginning your relationship developed in a very stable way and right away you knew what you could expect from each other and you were always there for each other and could count on one another. Moon opposition neptune in composite as astro.com describes, means: "A result of this aspect may be that the two of you have radically different views about the relationship. While one of you idealizes, the other may take advantage and act quite treacherously behind the first one's back." I had this composite aspect with a close friend and indeed he was also acting treacherously behind my back!

The sun in the composite is in virgo, and you also have moon conjunct saturn which means: "Moon Conjunct Saturn
The conjunction of composite Moon and Saturn can create an emotional barrier between you, so that you have trouble communicating with each other on a feeling level.
You will do a lot of analyzing, both of the relationship and of each other. The danger is that you will make things seem worse than they are.
At best, analyzing your relationship can help you understand what you have together, but it cannot completely replace intuitive communication.
This aspect may cause the two of you to subordinate emotional considerations to supposed necessities or responsibilities, denying yourselves the joy and pleasure of open and relaxed self-expression. Try to relax together and not be so serious about things."

So that would indicate that you guys analyzed your relationship too much and tried too hard be perfect people. With moon-saturn, you'd feel like this person abandoned you every time you needed them most, because Saturn (restriction/criticism) does not understand Moon (emotions). However, you are very close to each other and other than being unable to understand each other's insecurities sometimes, you were very emotionally close and bonded and it was a very loving relationship.

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grupovenus.com's report

Yuting_exbf's Sun in Libra and Yuting's Sun in Leo

This can be a very warm and mutually fulfilling relationship. Both of you are romantics at heart and tend to be 'in love with love'. You both need and love romantic gestures, the giving and receiving of gifts, etc. Personal appearances and attractiveness is important to both of you as well, and you both are somewhat vain.

Yuting is more decisive and very clear about personal preferences and desires, while Yuting_exbf is more flexible and will compromise graciously in order to please Yuting. Yuting is more self-absorbed or self- centered than Yuting_exbf. Of the two of you, Yuting is the stronger individual, and the balance of power in your relationship may be somewhat lopsided. However, Yuting_exbf has a highly developed sense of fairness and equality, and will protest sooner or later if Yuting begins to expect obeisances all of the time.

Yuting_exbf's Moon in Cancer and Yuting's Moon in Aries

There is quite a bit of underlying tension between you at times, for your emotional needs, habits, and responses to life are very much at odds. Yuting_exbf has a strong need for security, closeness, and familiar comfort. Emotionally sensitive and sympathetic, Yuting_exbf needs to be needed, and is sometimes very anxious about Yuting's seeming independence. Yuting is less bound to the past, to parents, or to family ties and traditions, whereas Yuting_exbf is a much more sentimental person to whom such things are very important.

Yuting is often abrupt and impatient, and is not averse to fighting or being confrontational. Yuting_exbf, on the other hand, is very sensitive to disruptions in the emotional atmosphere and to anything that seems to threaten important relationships. Yuting_exbf wants peace and a supportive (rather than combative) environment.

Also, Yuting is basically honest and direct about individual needs, whereas Yuting_exbf is frequently indirect, hoping Yuting will sense or feel what it is that Yuting_exbf needs and wants - and this is rarely the case! Yuting_exbf is adept at picking up subtle clues and sensing or feeling the needs of others, but Yuting is not!

Yuting_exbf may secretly feel that Yuting is selfish and uncaring. Yuting may feel that Yuting_exbf is manipulative and overly dependent.

The two of you will have to make a lot of adjustments in order to relate comfortably with each other.

Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together

Venus Mutually Aspects Jupiter

As mentioned below several times, this relationship is blessed with a high degree of good will, harmony, and love for each other. A great deal of merry-making, partying, and socializing makes this relationship an outgoing, enjoyable one. Your appreciation for each other is very strong - this is a relationship that is long-lasting, fulfilling, and rewarding in many ways.

Yuting_exbf's Venus conjunct Yuting's Jupiter orb 1° 49'

You enjoy each other's company immensely and you put each other in a happy mood. You make each other laugh and you feel very open, loose, and jovial around each other. You will also include others in your lives, expand your circle of friends, and allow one another a good deal of freedom, rather than being exclusive or possessive about one another. There is a great deal of generosity between you, and you may benefit one another financially and materially as well as emotionally. A wonderful friendship!

Yuting_exbf's Mars conjunct Yuting's Pluto orb 1° 37'

You draw out of each other your deepest drives and desires. The two of you arouse a zeal and sense of mission in each other that makes it possible for you to jointly accomplish extraordinary tasks. However, your fears and anxieties are brought to the surface too, and there is no guarantee that your zealousness will produce positive, constructive results. You may become fanatical in an extreme and unbalanced manner. Also, sexual passion, jealousy, and competition can be very volatile, disruptive, obsessive, and intense in this relationship.

Yuting_exbf's Uranus opposition Yuting's Moon orb 0° 9'

You spark each other's curiosity and imagination, and you have a great deal of fascination for each other. It is likely that your relationship developed suddenly and impulsively, for your feelings for each other change quickly and unexpectedly. At one moment you find each other sexually irresistible and not much later you may feel angry or indifferent to each other. Your feelings blow hot and cold in this relationship, and consequently there is a tone of instability and inconstancy. It is possible that one, or both, of you will tire of the constant fluctuations. You may feel that there is a lack of commitment, dedication, reliability, and stability, causing you to doubt the viability of the relationship. On the other hand, you may find the changes exciting and stimulating. Be grateful that there are always surprises and novelty around the corner - at least you don't have to worry about getting stuck in a rut or bored with your partner.

Yuting_exbf's Ascendant opposition Yuting's Moon orb 0° 4'

Although your tastes and preferences are often completely opposite from each other, you love and admire each other very deeply. There is almost a maternal tenderness that you feel for each other, and the warm sympathy and caring that you feel for each other fosters a close and lasting relationship. There is a 'soul kinship' between you.

Yuting_exbf's Moon square Yuting's Pluto orb 2° 39'

The emotional bond between you is very complex. Sexual attraction is strong and you find each other to be very magnetic or highly charismatic. But you also will find yourself becoming uncomfortable with various deeply ingrained habits and attitudes of each other as you learn more about each other. You are simultaneously attracted and repulsed by each other. You evoke intense emotional responses from each other and if you want this relationship to be a long-lasting one, you will have to be very careful because a blowup in the relationship can be triggered by jealousy, acts of unkindness, or simply the unwillingness of either of you to change deeply ingrained habits that are offensive to each other. In short, this is an emotionally intense relationship that blows hot and cold, drives you to emotional extremes, and challenges your deepest, most personal and important attitudes and habits.

Yuting_exbf's Mars sextile Yuting's Neptune orb 0° 40'

You find it easy to extend yourselves and make sacrifices for each other. It is easy for you to have an abundance of good will and kind feelings for each other, and you assist each other in achieving your goals. Your religious and spiritual aspirations become more refined through this relationship, and it is easy for both of you to keep your loftier goals and spiritual ideals strong, with the support that you receive from each other.

Yuting_exbf's Jupiter sextile Yuting's Mercury orb 1° 39'

Friendly, enthusiastic conversations are frequent. You enjoy joking with each other and you inspire each other to take an optimistic view of life. Communication between you is open and candid as well. The mental rapport between you is very strong and fosters a very harmonious, fulfilling relationship.

Yuting_exbf's Jupiter square Yuting's Venus orb 0° 38'

You enjoy laughing, having fun, socializing, and going out together. You are great pals, but the relationship may not be serious enough to warrant a lasting commitment to each other. Consequently you both may decide to not marry even though you may love each other very much. If you do marry, you will allow each other a great deal of freedom, but you are likely to disagree on how to handle finances, budgeting, and investments.

END OF THE SHORT VERSION

The complete version includes:
Chapter 3
Other Themes in Your Relationship

Yuting_exbf's Sun in Yuting's 6 house
Yuting's Sun in Yuting_exbf's 11 house
Yuting_exbf's Moon in Yuting's 2 house
Yuting's Moon in Yuting_exbf's 7 house
Yuting_exbf's Mercury in Yuting's 6 house
Yuting's Mercury in Yuting_exbf's 11 house
Yuting_exbf's Venus in Yuting's 7 house
Yuting's Venus in Yuting_exbf's 11 house
Yuting_exbf's Mars in Yuting's 5 house and
Yuting's Mars in Yuting_exbf's 5 house
Yuting_exbf's Jupiter in Yuting's 6 house
Yuting's Jupiter in Yuting_exbf's 2 house
Yuting_exbf's Saturn in Yuting's 12 house
Yuting's Saturn in Yuting_exbf's 8 house
Yuting_exbf's Uranus in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Uranus in Yuting_exbf's 1 house
Yuting_exbf's Neptune in Yuting's 7 house
Yuting's Neptune in Yuting_exbf's 2 house
Yuting_exbf's Pluto in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Pluto in Yuting_exbf's 12 house
Yuting_exbf's Mercury trine Yuting's Mars orb 3° 59'
Yuting_exbf's Venus sextile Yuting's Pluto orb 2° 48'
Yuting_exbf's Mars sextile Yuting's Jupiter orb 2° 36'
Yuting_exbf's Jupiter square Yuting's Mars orb 4° 53'
Yuting_exbf's Saturn square Yuting's Sun orb 3° 32'
Yuting_exbf's Saturn square Yuting's Mars orb 4° 0'
Yuting_exbf's Uranus sextile Yuting's Venus orb 2° 24'
Yuting_exbf's Pluto sextile Yuting's Neptune orb 2° 1'
Yuting_exbf's Venus opposition Yuting's Ascendant orb 3° 7'
Yuting_exbf's Ascendant sextile Yuting's Venus orb 2° 39'
Yuting_exbf's Ascendant trine Yuting's Saturn orb 4° 50'
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Composite Report for yuting and yuting_exbf

Sun 21 VI 44 2N51
Moon 20 TA 39 17N56
Mercury 0 LI 40 1S41
Venus 3 LI 56 4S45
Mars 8 SG 17 11S43
Jupiter 19 SC 32 16S41
Saturn 28 TA 2 17N24
Uranus 10 LI 28 3S32
Neptune 29 SC 50 18S30
Pluto 28 VI 9 15N01
Node 22 AQ 1 13S03
Ascendant 7 LE 56 4N46
Midheaven 1 TA 42 2N36

Sun in Virgo

As a couple your desire is to make the world a better place, and you begin by trying to be better people. Don't be too hard on yourselves. You are good at analyzing the relationship, but don't let this detract from your enjoyment of each other

Moon in Taurus

Your sense of emotional security in this relationship must be absolute. You like to feel that you possess each other. You're very good at pleasing each other on a sensual level. Stubborn attitudes may prolong your disagreements

Ascendant in Leo

You are proud to be seen together. There is something about the two of you when you're together that makes people take notice. You enjoy, and are good at, doing things that bring you into the limelight. A warm and gracious couple.

Sun Trine Moon

Overall, a feeling of harmony, flow, mutual acceptance and supportiveness characterizes your relationship. You simply dovetail very naturally together and neither of you feels that you have to sacrifice too much of yourself to be together. You may take this ease for granted, as your partnership or friendship "just happened" without a great deal of effort or even intention on your parts. You complement and complete one another in ways that are both gratifying emotionally and also helpful to you in meeting challenges and struggles you encounter outside of your relationship. Honoring and developing the feeling of soul kinship that you have with one another is an important purpose in your relationship.

Sun Conjunct Mercury

Yours is an intellectual relationship, among other things. Exchanging thoughts, studying together, sharing information, talking and bantering, turning one another on to new books or ideas, sparking one another's curiosity and interest in the world - all of these are important aspects of your relationship. A certain detachment and the ability to think about and talk about what is going on between you are also highlighted. Put simply, becoming more conscious or more informed and educated is a significant reason the two of you are drawn together.

Sun Conjunct Pluto

There is definitely an element of destiny or inevitability, something which cannot be resisted or avoided, in the two of you coming together. This relationship can take you further into your own depths than you've ever been before, and truly be life-changing for both of you. You have a profound and powerful influence upon one another for good or ill, and once joined, it will be extremely difficult to ever totally sever your connection. You really get inside each other. You may become one another's psychotherapist in a manner of speaking, because being together dredges up a lot of your hidden agendas or motives and you become aware of many more facets of yourselves than you were ever conscious of before.

Together, you can also be an incredibly potent force in other peoples' lives. Your charisma and influence as a couple far exceeds your individual powers. If the two of you are tempted to misuse this, you could be involved in manipulative games and power plays, Machiavellian exploits of all kinds. Using your powers creatively and positively, you could become healers or agents of transformation and renewal in the world.

Moon Sesquiquadrate Venus

When you are together, you feel waves of love and attraction for one another that are impossible to ignore. Tremendous feelings of tenderness, and an urge to care for, comfort, protect, and nurture one another will always be present in your relationship. Some element from your past, possibly interference from your families or previous lovers, will have to be dealt with in some way before you can fully come together. However, the love feelings and heart in this relationship are so strong that those issues can be resolved. The desire for children and/or to create a home together will predominate.

Moon Opposite Jupiter

Humor, laughter, and exuberant high spirits tone your entire relationship. If you just want to feel good, being with one another will do it. There is a feeling of easiness and comfort between you, and if either of you tends to be too serious or pessimistic, being together can offset this. You will lighten each other up and be able to see the funny or absurd side of things together. If you share a home, it will be a very comfortable, hospitable, congenial place to be, and as a couple you will generously open your home to others. Together it will also be easy for you to attain and enjoy a high degree of prosperity and material comfort. If there are any drawbacks here, one would perhaps be that the two of you could become too comfortable, too cushioned, too smug. In any case, however, you will inevitably enjoy and be richly blessed in your relationship with one another. In very simple terms, just to be happy is one of the reasons your relationship exists

Moon Conjunct Saturn

Deep karmic debts are being worked through here, coloring your relationship with a serious, heavy tone, a sense of obligation, and a feeling of confinement. Both of you feel that there is a wall between you that is difficult to overcome, and feelings of distance, coolness, insecurity, and inhibition can prevent you from opening up with one another fully. Feelings and emotional needs get subordinated to practical considerations, duty, work, or other demands. You tend to evoke a sense of inadequacy and guilt in one another. One or the other may harshly judge or be excruciatingly demanding of the other. On the other hand, you may be extremely attached to and dependent upon one another, but there is an inherent sense of obligation which tones this (i.e. "I could never leave her; I'm supposed to take care of her..." or "I promised his father I'd look out for him...). In any case, this is not a light, fun-filled relationship at least not strictly. Emotional obligation is very much a part of it.
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Kelly Clarkson Says It Best
You know that Kelly Clarkson song that goes, "my life would suck without you?" Replace "you" with "him," and truer words have never been spoken. Anyway, as La Clarkson so aptly puts it, you guys belong together (Forever uniiiited heeeere somehow). So, even as you're slogging through your daily grind, he provides the unadulterated fun and excitement that helps you escape the boredom. You love what he has to say, and you're always ready to try out the crazy new plans he concocts. He's psyched that you're so open-minded, and you're generally having such a good time with him that you wouldn't trade a minute for anything. Even cooler? You two can expand the entertainment into the cultural realm. Since you're both so receptive to new ideas, learning together at the museum or the library can be its own fun (shocking revelation, we know). But the truth is, it doesn't really matter where you are or what you're doing; any time you spend together is bound to be awesome. So go ahead, feel free to get your dork on if you need to.

posted February 23, 2012 12:07 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Yuting and ex-bf

Soulmates, anyone? In this composite we have the love stellium with pluto thrown into the mix and uranus hovering a bit further away. You also have composite moon trine pluto. Sun conjunct pluto and moon trine pluto along with moon sesquiquadrate venus, and moon sq pluto in synastry shows there are deep feelings here. This with the love stellium means this was a very loving and fulfilling relationship. You also had double whammy venus-jupiter aspects which means you had a ton of fun and chemistry together and so much appreciation for each other. Uranus hovering at the end of the stellium means this relationship is not likely to be in your face and out right rebellious, but it does indicate that the two of you being together is unusual in some way, or that you could not fall into a traditional role of stable boyfriend and girlfriend when you were together. Saturn trine the stellium denotes that from the beginning your relationship developed in a very stable way and right away you knew what you could expect from each other and you were always there for each other and could count on one another. Moon opposition neptune in composite as astro.com describes, means: "A result of this aspect may be that the two of you have radically different views about the relationship. While one of you idealizes, the other may take advantage and act quite treacherously behind the first one's back." I had this composite aspect with a close friend and indeed he was also acting treacherously behind my back!

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Yes, it was very easy to be with him if it were just the two of us. But his gf (now wife) in the equation made it very emotional. It was tough to break off, but I think both of us learned a great deal about ourselves and about relationship in the process. We are still friends. But I am trying to keep a certain distance since I like his wife and do not want her to be unhappy/uncomfortable.

posted February 23, 2012 12:15 AM            

My analysis

Here we have the love stellium with moon sq pluto in synastry once again just like with previous guy, showing that there is true love here, but this time it is afflicted by neptune. This is not so bad, just expect some disappointments with each other. It's disheartening, but is not as bad as say, saturn, pluto, mars, or uranus afflicting the stellium. Sun is also square saturn and moon is semisquare saturn and in synastry you have double whammy moon-saturn aspects, one of which is a square. The following should very much apply to your relationship:

Moon Mutually Aspects Saturn

As mentioned below several times, the feeling of responsibility, dedication, and commitment to each other is very strong. However, this relationship may take on the quality of a training session rather than a romance! You both must strive to refrain from making too many demands on each other, and be more sensitive to emotional appeals and needs. Learn to handle the difficult responsibilities that arise (family, financial, social, etc.) with grace and humor, rather than letting them become heavy and burdensome. Both of you tend to take your relationship, and consequently life in general, too seriously. This is a relationship that may be difficult to leave, both because it is very safe and because there are numerous obligations and duties involved. Take time out to play!

Divorcee's Moon square Yuting's Saturn orb 1° 39'

This relationship is not an easy one! There is a sense of responsibility towards each other that may incline you to marry or form some kind of long-lasting commitment to each other. But although the union is likely to be long-lasting, it is also likely to have more than its fair share of frustrations and difficulties. At times you both feel emotionally constrained and inhibited by being together, and this relationship may feel like a form of imprisonment! Yuting_divorcee, in particular, may feel disheartened by Yuting's criticisms, worries, fears, or need to dominate Yuting_divorcee's life. Yuting_divorcee's emotional needs and feelings are ignored and neglected at times, leaving Yuting_divorcee feeling alone in this relationship. Most likely there is too much emphasis on responsibilities and obligations and not enough attention given to the needs for acceptance and tenderness. The serious tone of the relationship also stifles play and light-hearted fun-loving activities. This relationship may endure even when your feelings towards one another have cooled because there is a great deal of security in it, even if there is little satisfaction over time.

Why did you get together despite this energy? Multiple positive jupiter aspects in synastry denote that this is a very enjoyable relationship where you love and appreciate each other very much. You also have positive pluto, saturn, and neptune aspects in synastry. However, the saturn is much too strong, especially with sun sq saturn in composite which always causes two people to fail to fully connect. On top of that moon in composite is also afflicted by saturn as well as in synastry. As result, I feel you are much more compatible with the ex-bf with whom you had all the fun without all the saturn heaviness, criticism, and sense of emotional isolation. One thing is that you are more sexually compatible with this guy than the ex, though.
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astrology3d.com's report

yuting's Sun in Leo and yuting_divorcee's Sun in Leo

You are both proud, vibrant, warm, but rather self-centered individuals. You both want to be the center of attention, and you may not want to share the starring role with your partner. Neither of you can dominate in this relationship - you must cooperate, which isn't something that comes naturally to either of you. Although it may not be obvious to others, both of you are very self-conscious individuals, and you are very concerned with your own personal creativity, personal recognition, and personal performance. Both of you are best suited to work that is very personal and creative - being one inconspicuous part of a large corporation is not for you. Your relationship is likely to be either extraordinarily happy and fulfilling or else disastrous - with no middle ground. You tend to either adore each other or despise each other. You are both very loyal, but you must respect and believe in your partner. If you ever feel that your partner lacks integrity or honesty, or is competing with you, or does not appreciate or understand your creative work and motivations, then the love and admiration that you have for each other turns sour quickly

yuting_divorcee's Sun Conjunct yuting's Sun

You strongly identify with each other and are very much alike in important ways. It is easy for you to be together because you do not have to explain yourselves to one another. An innate appreciation and understanding of one another's essence exists between you, and this is vitalizing and ego-affirming for both of you. However, you share the same flaws and weaknesses as well as the positive qualities, and you may find it difficult to be with someone who so clearly exhibits the very things you like least about yourself. The more you accept yourself, the more beneficial and delightful your relationship with one another is

yuting_divorcee's Sun Conjunct yuting's Venus

The warmth, appreciation, admiration and love between you is very strong, and you enjoy a high degree of harmony and congeniality in your relationship. You have much in common in terms of styles, tastes, and enjoyment of the same pleasures. In many ways yuting_divorcee embodies all that yuting finds attractive and beautiful, and yuting also makes a special effort to please yuting_divorcee. yuting_divorcee responds with much generosity, love, and loyalty. An excellent match

yuting_divorcee's Sun Opposite yuting's Mars

The physical and sexual attraction between the two of you is very strong. You are attracted to one another's strength and integrity. You may also enjoy competing with each other in games. However, be wary of a tendency to become rivals or adversaries, trying to out-perform each other.

yuting_divorcee's Moon Conjunct yuting's Mercury

You enjoy long, intimate conversations, confiding in each other, sharing your inner feelings and thoughts. You enjoy "psychoanalyzing" each other and others as well. At worst, this can degrade into gossip and at best it can provide a depth of mutual understanding and self-discovery that is enlightening, nourishing, and refreshing.

yuting_divorcee's Moon Square yuting's Saturn

This relationship is not an easy one! There is a sense of responsibility towards each other that may incline you to marry or form some kind of long-lasting commitment to each other. But although the union is likely to be long-lasting, it is also likely to have more than its fair share of frustrations and difficulties. At times you both feel emotionally constrained and inhibited by being together, and this relationship may feel like a form of imprisonment! yuting_divorcee, in particular, may feel disheartened by yuting's criticisms, worries, fears, or need to dominate yuting_divorcee's life. yuting_divorcee's emotional needs and feelings are ignored and neglected at times, leaving yuting_divorcee feeling alone in this relationship. Most likely there is too much emphasis on responsibilities and obligations and not enough attention given to the needs for acceptance and tenderness. The serious tone of the relationship also stifles play and light-hearted fun-loving activities. This relationship may endure even when your feelings towards one another have cooled because there is a great deal of security in it, even if there is little satisfaction over time.

Composite Report for yuting and yuting_divorcee

Sun 15 LE 58 16N03
Moon 23 GE 27 10N24
Mercury 19 LE 13 12N31
Venus 28 LE 17 9N55
Mars 28 SG 20 18S08
Jupiter 6 LI 10 1S49
Saturn 8 TA 44 10N52
Uranus 1 LI 30 0N39
Neptune 25 SC 56 17S32
Pluto 23 VI 35 16N26
Node 22 PI 58 2S19
Ascendant 13 GE 25 20N49
Midheaven 2 PI 0 9S02

Sun in Leo

The primary concern of this relationship is to grow in dignity and confidence and to shine in the world. You can help each other become more creatively self-expressive. You treat each other with honesty and respect.

Moon in Gemini

Your emotional life is active, varied and colorful. You both like to be where things are happening. You have a constant desire for emotional stimulation. This can be nerve-racking but anything is better than boredom. You love to travel.

Ascendant in Gemini

The two of you can't get enough experiences. The more stimulating your environment, the happier you are. You enjoy talking with others and people find you interesting and witty. People identify you best through your intellectual endeavors.

Sun Conjunct Mercury

Yours is an intellectual relationship, among other things. Exchanging thoughts, studying together, sharing information, talking and bantering, turning one another on to new books or ideas, sparking one another's curiosity and interest in the world - all of these are important aspects of your relationship. A certain detachment and the ability to think about and talk about what is going on between you are also highlighted. Put simply, becoming more conscious or more informed and educated is a significant reason the two of you are drawn together.

Sun Semisquare Uranus

Your relationship may or may not be long lasting, but it will always have a flavor of unpredictability, spontaneity, and surprise. Periodic unexpected events and changes create an unsettled feeling between you, as if you can never quite relax and settle down into a comfortable, established pattern. While you will never be bored with one another, neither will you ever feel quite certain or peacefully secure. However, if your temperaments enable you to he highly flexible and adventurous and willing to take risks, you may be able to ride through the ups and downs.

You are destined to act as "awakeners" for one another. One of you may open the other to something totally new and different, even shocking, which revolutionizes the way you view the world and your place in it - something you may once have considered weird or too "far out". Always there will be the element of experimentation, of following the unexpected twist in the road. Being with one another encourages you both to be more free, unconventional, and impulsive than you might be otherwise

Moon Opposite Mars

Constant irritation, aggravation, defensiveness, and friction between you can make your relationship a war zone instead of an oasis of comfort and peace, especially if you live together. Your feuds are not likely to be of the quiet, underground variety, either - everybody nearby will see and hear all about it. At least you can't be accused of bottling up your feelings, and if you both are the type who enjoys stormy confrontations, you may be comfortable with the level of volatility in this relationship. However, your children or the people who live around you may not. Your effect as a couple can be very unsettling. Part of the purpose of your relationship appears to be to stir up unresolved controversies, rivalries, and competitive feelings from your pasts. Try not to blindly lash out or respond to each other based on these old feelings.

Moon Semisquare Saturn

The fate of this relationship is not especially promising, at least as far as emotional satisfaction, closeness, and intimacy is concerned. It is very difficult for you to feel and to stay emotionally connected and open to one another. You are oversensitive to criticism and lack of support from one another, and this could become a major, separative issue between you. Through this relationship you are intended to learn about those aspects of yourselves that cause you the most difficulty, discomfort, fear, and insecurity, the barriers you have to being to close - and you evoke all of these things in one another. It is much more common to shut down and withdraw from one another in such a situation than to see it as an opportunity to learn about your weaknesses. You will not be able to totally relax and "give in" to this relationship. Emotionally you will be forced to take care of yourself, and this can be quite fruitful, especially if you have been excessively childlike and dependent. Nevertheless, it won't be a lot of fun. Ultimately, you both may just feel lonely in this relationship

Moon Square Pluto

When you are together, deep emotions and intense, compelling, irrational energies within both of you come into play. Definitely, if you are together for any length of time, you will both undergo an emotional transformation, a soul cleansing, for being together will dredge up all of your unfinished emotional business and feelings you may not even have believed yourselves capable of. This may feel like a "fatal attraction", one that is irresistable even if one or both of you wants to run the other way. A significant part of your purpose in coming together is to clear up and heal the past - old griefs, jealousies, wounds, and unresolved emotions, many of which you may have forgotten about until now! Certainly, no matter how long this relationship lasts, it will be a profound, intense one. Emotionally it may feel overwhelming at times. If any emotional manipulation, domination, or abuse occurs, you both need to step back and get a clear, objective third party to help you. At times you're both apt to feel that you're in over your heads. On the other hand, though you may go through extreme emotions, you can develop an incredibly close bond

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grupovenus report

Yuting_divorcee's Sun in Leo and Yuting's Sun in Leo

You are both proud, vibrant, warm, but rather self-centered individuals. You both want to be the center of attention, and you may not want to share the starring role with your partner. Neither of you can dominate in this relationship - you must cooperate, which isn't something that comes naturally to either of you.

Although it may not be obvious to others, both of you are very self-conscious individuals, and you are very concerned with your own personal creativity, personal recognition, and personal performance. Both of you are best suited to work that is very personal and creative - being one inconspicuous part of a large corporation is not for you.

Your relationship is likely to be either extraordinarily happy and fulfilling or else disastrous - with no middle ground. You tend to either adore each other or despise each other. You are both very loyal, but you must respect and believe in your partner. If you ever feel that your partner lacks integrity or honesty, or is competing with you, or does not appreciate or understand your creative work and motivations, then the love and admiration that you have for each other turns sour quickly.

Yuting_divorcee's Moon in Virgo and Yuting's Moon in Aries

You will need to do quite a bit of adjusting in order to harmonize with one another on a daily basis, as your personal habits and instinctive emotional responses to situations are very different, and may become a source of considerable irritation over time.

Yuting_divorcee is careful and needs to thoroughly analyze a situation before proceeding. Yuting, on the other hand, is impulsive and direct and often abrupt. Yuting will act first, and think about the consequences later. Yuting is prone to emotional outbursts and short- lived, but frequent, flares of temper. Yuting_divorcee is rather sensitive and becomes nervous, fretful, or anxious by Yuting's brashness.

Yuting_divorcee is a bit of a worrier, and Yuting, who hates to admit ever feeling frightened or insecure, may scoff at Yuting_divorcee's concerns and worries.

Also, Yuting_divorcee is something of a perfectionist, dislikes making mistakes, and can be very critical of self and others. Yuting has a strong need to take chances on new ventures, to be daring and original, and is bound to make numerous mistakes in the process. Yuting_divorcee's criticisms can be very discouraging to the bold pioneer in Yuting. One way you can support each other is for Yuting_divorcee to help organize and practically implement some of Yuting's creative ideas.

Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together

Moon Mutually Aspects Saturn

As mentioned below several times, the feeling of responsibility, dedication, and commitment to each other is very strong. However, this relationship may take on the quality of a training session rather than a romance! You both must strive to refrain from making too many demands on each other, and be more sensitive to emotional appeals and needs. Learn to handle the difficult responsibilities that arise (family, financial, social, etc.) with grace and humor, rather than letting them become heavy and burdensome. Both of you tend to take your relationship, and consequently life in general, too seriously. This is a relationship that may be difficult to leave, both because it is very safe and because there are numerous obligations and duties involved. Take time out to play!

Yuting_divorcee's Sun conjunct Yuting's Sun orb 2° 47'

You strongly identify with each other and are very much alike in important ways. It is easy for you to be together because you do not have to explain yourselves to one another. An innate appreciation and understanding of one another's essence exists between you, and this is vitalizing and ego-affirming for both of you. However, you share the same flaws and weaknesses as well as the positive qualities, and you may find it difficult to be with someone who so clearly exhibits the very things you like least about yourself. The more you accept yourself, the more beneficial and delightful your relationship with one another is.

Yuting_divorcee's Sun conjunct Yuting's Venus orb 1° 54'

The warmth, appreciation, admiration and love between you is very strong, and you enjoy a high degree of harmony and congeniality in your relationship. You have much in common in terms of styles, tastes, and enjoyment of the same pleasures. In many ways Yuting_divorcee embodies all that Yuting finds attractive and beautiful, and Yuting also makes a special effort to please Yuting_divorcee. Yuting_divorcee responds with much generosity, love, and loyalty. An excellent match!

Yuting_divorcee's Sun opposition Yuting's Mars orb 2° 19'

The physical and sexual attraction between the two of you is very strong. You are attracted to one another's strength and integrity. You may also enjoy competing with each other in games. However, be wary of a tendency to become rivals or adversaries, trying to out-perform each other.

Yuting_divorcee's Jupiter conjunct Yuting's Sun orb 2° 3'

There is a tremendous amount of good will, optimism, and enthusiasm in your relationship. Yuting_divorcee draws out Yuting's optimism and self-confidence and is able to assist Yuting in discovering new possibilities and avenues for growth. A shared vision, philosophy, or goal for the future gives vitality to your relationship.

Yuting_divorcee's Jupiter conjunct Yuting's Venus orb 2° 38'

You enjoy each other's company immensely and you put each other in a happy mood. You make each other laugh and you feel very open, loose, and jovial around each other. You will also include others in your lives, expand your circle of friends, and allow one another a good deal of freedom, rather than being exclusive or possessive about one another. There is a great deal of generosity between you, and you may benefit one another financially and materially as well as emotionally. A wonderful friendship!

Yuting_divorcee's Jupiter opposition Yuting's Mars orb 1° 35'

You spark each other's ambitions and hopes. You find yourselves scheming together, developing business plans, and strategies for achieving success. You encourage each other to set your goals high and it is likely that you will undertake several joint ventures together. Over-optimism and unrealistic hopes are your liabilities; enthusiastic hard work is your asset.

Yuting_divorcee's Saturn conjunct Yuting's Moon orb 2° 12'

Together you can build a solid, secure relationship, a place of refuge and strength, but you must take care not to make it a prison with too much emphasis on commitment, responsibility, and duty. Yuting_divorcee, in particular, has a strong parental attitude towards Yuting, providing stability and support, yet also restricting, disciplining, or criticizing Yuting's emotional, childish needs. Yuting_divorcee can be cool and indifferent towards Yuting's neediness. A pessimistic, heavy, serious atmosphere may develop between the two of you.

Yuting_divorcee's Moon square Yuting's Saturn orb 1° 39'

This relationship is not an easy one! There is a sense of responsibility towards each other that may incline you to marry or form some kind of long-lasting commitment to each other. But although the union is likely to be long-lasting, it is also likely to have more than its fair share of frustrations and difficulties. At times you both feel emotionally constrained and inhibited by being together, and this relationship may feel like a form of imprisonment! Yuting_divorcee, in particular, may feel disheartened by Yuting's criticisms, worries, fears, or need to dominate Yuting_divorcee's life. Yuting_divorcee's emotional needs and feelings are ignored and neglected at times, leaving Yuting_divorcee feeling alone in this relationship. Most likely there is too much emphasis on responsibilities and obligations and not enough attention given to the needs for acceptance and tenderness. The serious tone of the relationship also stifles play and light-hearted fun-loving activities. This relationship may endure even when your feelings towards one another have cooled because there is a great deal of security in it, even if there is little satisfaction over time.

Yuting_divorcee's Mercury trine Yuting's Jupiter orb 1° 3'

Communication is open and harmonious. You are able to help each other incorporate new ideas and expand your perspective. If you have a close, long-lasting relationship, you will develop similar political, social, religious, and philosophical views. The similarity in your overall perspectives on life helps the two of you feel very happy to share your lives together. Your overall beliefs and aims are in harmony.

Yuting_divorcee's Mercury trine Yuting's Neptune orb 2° 12'

You enjoy discussing any subject that has an imaginative or mystical quality - art, music, fiction, theater, or religion. You kindle each other's imagination and ideals. You work together well in the arts, and humanitarian and religious areas. You have a strong intuitive and psychic rapport and often understand each other without need for words.

Yuting_divorcee's Mercury sextile Yuting's Pluto orb 0° 4'

You enjoy deep, probing conversations with each other. Your conversations are rarely light and superficial - you enjoy digging beneath the surface and you make an excellent research team, investigators - or possibly gossips who cannot resist discussing every one else's business!

Yuting_divorcee's Mars sextile Yuting's Mercury orb 0° 36'

Your conversations are invariably stimulating and challenging. You share ideas openly and candidly with each other, but fortunately are able to do so without insulting or attacking each other. You can work together very effectively in research, writing, and business pursuits. You work together very effectively in developing and implementing ideas in virtually any area of mutual interest.

Yuting_divorcee's Mars square Yuting's Venus orb 2° 55'

This is likely to be a stormy and fiery relationship. The romantic attraction between you is very strong, but your feelings are often not in tune with each other. One of you (typically Yuting_divorcee but sometimes Yuting) may feel sexually aroused by the other and consequently be too aggressive in approach, while the other person feels great love and affection, but is not feeling as sexually attracted. Jealousy and possessiveness are also likely. Feelings can swing back and forth and you may not realize how much you love each other until you are away from each other.

Yuting_divorcee's Saturn trine Yuting's Venus orb 0° 21'

There is a great deal of mutual trustworthiness, reliability, and responsibility in this relationship that makes you both feel very secure with each other. You can count on each other, and you both take the relationship seriously. You willingly make sacrifices for each other, and a deep love between you develops over time. You will assist each other a great deal over the years. This is likely to be a deep, meaningful, lasting relationship.

END OF THE SHORT VERSION

The complete version includes:
Chapter 3
Other Themes in Your Relationship

Yuting_divorcee's Sun in Yuting's 4 house
Yuting's Sun in Yuting_divorcee's 2 house
Yuting_divorcee's Moon in Yuting's 4 house
Yuting's Moon in Yuting_divorcee's 10 house
Yuting_divorcee's Mercury in Yuting's 3 house and
Yuting's Mercury in Yuting_divorcee's 3 house
Yuting_divorcee's Venus in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Venus in Yuting_divorcee's 2 house
Yuting_divorcee's Mars in Yuting's 6 house
Yuting's Mars in Yuting_divorcee's 8 house
Yuting_divorcee's Jupiter in Yuting's 4 house
Yuting's Jupiter in Yuting_divorcee's 5 house
Yuting_divorcee's Saturn in Yuting's 11 house
Yuting's Saturn in Yuting_divorcee's 12 house
Yuting_divorcee's Uranus in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Uranus in Yuting_divorcee's 4 house
Yuting_divorcee's Neptune in Yuting's 6 house
Yuting's Neptune in Yuting_divorcee's 5 house
Yuting_divorcee's Pluto in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Pluto in Yuting_divorcee's 4 house
Yuting_divorcee's Sun trine Yuting's Moon orb 4° 29'
Yuting_divorcee's Moon conjunct Yuting's Mercury orb 3° 31'
Yuting_divorcee's Venus conjunct Yuting's Mercury orb 3° 32'
Yuting_divorcee's Neptune square Yuting's Sun orb 4° 13'
Yuting_divorcee's Neptune square Yuting's Mars orb 4° 40'
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sasstrology love calculator

posted February 23, 2012 01:57 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Yuting and current interest "divorcee"

My analysis

Here we have the love stellium with moon sq pluto in synastry once again just like with previous guy, showing that there is true love here, but this time it is afflicted by neptune. This is not so bad, just expect some disappointments with each other. It's disheartening, but is not as bad as say, saturn, pluto, mars, or uranus afflicting the stellium. Sun is also square saturn and moon is semisquare saturn and in synastry you have double whammy moon-saturn aspects, one of which is a square. The following should very much apply to your relationship:

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Why did you get together despite this energy? Multiple positive jupiter aspects in synastry denote that this is a very enjoyable relationship where you love and appreciate each other very much. You also have positive pluto, saturn, and neptune aspects in synastry. However, the saturn is much too strong, especially with sun sq saturn in composite which always causes two people to fail to fully connect. On top of that moon in composite is also afflicted by saturn as well as in synastry. As result, I feel you are much more compatible with the ex-bf with whom you had all the fun without all the saturn heaviness, criticism, and sense of emotional isolation. One thing is that you are more sexually compatible with this guy than the ex, though.
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It's pretty obvious to me that my interaction with my ex was much easier and much more flowing. Can talk hours on end. With divorcee, Saturn and karmic themes are obvious. Too many obligations and reservations, esp from his side to proceed. So after over 1yr, we are still not really together, but not broken off either. And yes, the sexual tension between us is more palpable than with my ex (or it was the weaker sexual attraction with my ex that I find it possible to just stay friends with him).

I think because I am not a person who must have a relationship and since I havent met anyone else who attracts my interest at this point, I dont mind a bit of "training" and dealing with karmic issues. I think with the Jupiter aspects, I can become a better person by learning from this relationship regardless of outcome.

My relationship with my ex was my first serious relationship. I had many romantic notions and expectations. But I learnt the hard way. Now I have a more realistic mindset viewing relationships.

posted February 23, 2012 02:33 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
well ur ex was a libra with cancer moon,

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Me and my other gal friends see my ex as one of the gals (though we know he is 100% heterosexual) I think his feminine nature with attractive looks & build makes him very popular with ladies.

And Mr. Divorcee is very masculine & sexy in his own right.

Yes, they are both ladies men (just look at their FB friends, at least 80% are female)

posted February 23, 2012 03:14 AM            

This is basically a friendship where you have no chemistry with each other, but still something draws you together. I am sure the friendship will soon dissolve. This composite is the most scattered a composite chart could possibly be. Also, there are no significant or even nice aspects whatsover except for maybe venus sextile moon. Your synastry and composite also shows elements of uranus where you relationship is fun and adventurous and you encourage each other to party it up and do zany things together but you wish your friendship was more stable and that you knew where it was all heading and how both of you feel. The lack of substance here shows little to no chemistry.

He is drawn to you because you have double whammy sun-moon aspects, and strong sun-moon aspects at that (sun opposite moon, and sun conjunct moon---both marriage aspects)

Sun Mutually Aspects Moon
The two of you are drawn to each other like magnets, and you may find that you keep bumping into each other even if you are not trying to. If you are not married yet, then there is a good chance that you will in the future because the attractions between you are extremely powerful. You understand and appreciate each other to an exceedingly high degree, and you are likely to have felt an instant connection when you first met each other.

This double whammy can basically bring together two people who do not have much of anything else going on in either synastry or composite, and that is the case here. It has happened to me before too And it was frustrating because i knew we didnt really have any chemistry yet i was still drawn to this person.

The uranus aspects in your composite and synastry are

iffyguyfriend's Sun Conjunct yuting's Uranus

You inspire each other to try new things, experiment, and investigate alternatives. You may have met each other, for example, during a time period when both of you were breaking free from traditional values and exploring new possibilities. There is a lot of excitement and spontaneity in your relationship. The two of you may find it difficult to settle down into a stable life style - there will always be surprises and unexpected turns in your relationship. You encounter lots of new ideas, unusual people, adventure, and exciting times together. You both enjoy a good measure of freedom and independence in this relationship, but either of you may wish that there was more commitment, devotion, seriousness, warmth, and closeness.

and in composite:
Moon Sesquiquadrate Uranus

The two of you are destined to have a rather unsettling affect upon one another. Your relationship may begin quite suddenly and unexpectedly, disrupting your normal routines and perhaps other relationships you are engaged in. There is an electric excitement between you which can be very thrilling, but also unnerving. Emotional impulsiveness and "acting crazy" together, doing things that are totally out of character or far more radical and daring that either of you would be inclined to do alone, are to be expected. For a long time you may have an unstable, on-again/off-again connection with one another, and unless there are other stabilizing factors between you, that's all it may ever be

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grupovenus.com's report

Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Sun in Libra and Yuting's Sun in Leo

This can be a very warm and mutually fulfilling relationship. Both of you are romantics at heart and tend to be 'in love with love'. You both need and love romantic gestures, the giving and receiving of gifts, etc. Personal appearances and attractiveness is important to both of you as well, and you both are somewhat vain.

Yuting is more decisive and very clear about personal preferences and desires, while Yuting_iffyguyfriend is more flexible and will compromise graciously in order to please Yuting. Yuting is more self-absorbed or self- centered than Yuting_iffyguyfriend. Of the two of you, Yuting is the stronger individual, and the balance of power in your relationship may be somewhat lopsided. However, Yuting_iffyguyfriend has a highly developed sense of fairness and equality, and will protest sooner or later if Yuting begins to expect obeisances all of the time.

Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Moon in Leo and Yuting's Moon in Aries

Both of you very much wish to believe in your own personal strength, and may mask feelings of weakness, inadequacy, or neediness. Proud and fiercely independent (especially Yuting), neither of you readily admits that you need help or support.

Both of you harbor a secret (or not so secret) desire to be the center of attention, to be on top, or to dominate - and you may compete for that position in your relationship. However, both of you also respect strong individuals and appreciate one another's integrity and individuality.

There is much compatibility between you if your strong egos do not get in the way.

Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together

Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Sun opposition Yuting's Moon orb 1° 52'

The two of you are attracted to each other in a magnetic, almost fated, kind of way. If you aren't married yet, there is a high probability that some day you will be! The two of you are drawn to each other even though, in some ways, you have opposite personalities.

Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Sun conjunct Yuting's Uranus orb 1° 17'

You inspire each other to try new things, experiment, and investigate alternatives. You may have met each other, for example, during a time period when both of you were breaking free from traditional values and exploring new possibilities. There is a lot of excitement and spontaneity in your relationship. The two of you may find it difficult to settle down into a stable life style - there will always be surprises and unexpected turns in your relationship. You encounter lots of new ideas, unusual people, adventure, and exciting times together. You both enjoy a good measure of freedom and independence in this relationship, but either of you may wish that there was more commitment, devotion, seriousness, warmth, and closeness.

Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Mars conjunct Yuting's Jupiter orb 2° 7'

You spark each other's ambitions and enterprising spirit, and you enjoy planning and designing ventures. You are able to jointly follow through to successful completion of your goals. Yuting gives Yuting_iffyguyfriend confidence and encouragement to charge ahead, while Yuting_iffyguyfriend stimulates Yuting to act decisively to actualize Yuting's dreams. You are likely to undertake several joint ventures as well as other individual efforts that are greatly assisted by your partner. Occasionally you take foolhardy risks and are overly zealous and unrealistic in your hopes, but your dynamic blending of energies can also result in outstanding accomplishments as well.

Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Mars opposition Yuting's Ascendant orb 2° 49'

The attraction between you is very powerful and your partnership is a very close and intense one. You enjoy working together and it is also likely that you engage in competitive sports or games with each other. A negative possibility is that one of you would attempt to dominate the other, causing anger and resentment in the other. You antagonize one another at times by emphasizing your individual differences and your own needs, rather than trying to cooperate or harmonize with one another. You are able to get issues out in the open, but direct confrontation can degenerate into attack if you are not careful. Be gentler with each other!

Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Sun sextile Yuting's Venus orb 0° 42'

Yours is a loving friendship, with much mutual appreciation, affection, and respect. This may grow into a very warm, affectionate love relationship as well.

Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Moon square Yuting's Jupiter orb 0° 32'

You enjoy joking and kidding each other, and you spark each other's sense of humor. In fact, it is sometimes difficult to be serious with each other; the tendency to be light-hearted and jovial is too irresistible. Also, you are very supportive and encouraging to each other, but you tend to be overly optimistic about each other and make promises that you cannot fulfill. You encourage each other to be extravagant, sometimes too much so.

Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Moon square Yuting's Neptune orb 2° 44'

You spark each other's imagination and fantasies, but the tendency to deceive each other is also very strong. You fascinate and intrigue each other, clouding your vision and causing you to often misunderstand each other. For example, you tend to project fantasies and hopes on each other - this is not necessarily bad because these fantasies can become a rich source for imaginative, inspiring works of art or music. Do not rush into a serious relationship too quickly, though, because you need time to make sure that you haven't got caught up in a romantic, idealistic vision of each other, from which you will later wake. If either of you has a major problem of a psychological, alcohol-related, or drug-related nature, this relationship can become a partnership in dissolute, self-destructive, negative habits.

Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Venus square Yuting's Neptune orb 0° 11'

Your love for each other has a very dreamy, idealistic, and romantic quality. You are infatuated with each other, sometimes almost hypnotized by each other. You tend to have glamorous and idealistic notions of each other that are far removed from reality. This relationship is prone to major disappointments when you each discover that your partner is not as perfect as imagined. Disillusionment and disappointment are likely, but you can mitigate this tendency if you allow yourself to enjoy the dreamy romanticism without projecting your wildest fantasies onto your partner, believing you have found the companion of your dreams.

Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Neptune trine Yuting's Sun orb 2° 51'

The two of you have a strong intuitive understanding of each other, and you inspire each other's imagination, idealism, and aspirations. You help each other to become clearer about your ideals and religious inclinations, and together you develop a greater sense of meaning and purpose in your lives. You help each other to look beyond the daily problems and issues of your personal lives and focus more on altruistic goals and broader issues.

END OF THE SHORT VERSION

The complete version includes:
Chapter 3
Other Themes in Your Relationship

Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Sun in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Sun in Yuting_iffyguyfriend's 9 house
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Moon in Yuting's 4 house
Yuting's Moon in Yuting_iffyguyfriend's 5 house
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Mercury in Yuting's 6 house
Yuting's Mercury in Yuting_iffyguyfriend's 10 house
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Venus in Yuting's 4 house
Yuting's Venus in Yuting_iffyguyfriend's 9 house
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Mars in Yuting's 7 house
Yuting's Mars in Yuting_iffyguyfriend's 3 house
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Jupiter in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Jupiter in Yuting_iffyguyfriend's 1 house
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Saturn in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Saturn in Yuting_iffyguyfriend's 7 house
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Uranus in Yuting's 7 house
Yuting's Uranus in Yuting_iffyguyfriend's 11 house
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Neptune in Yuting's 8 house
Yuting's Neptune in Yuting_iffyguyfriend's 1 house
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Pluto in Yuting's 6 house
Yuting's Pluto in Yuting_iffyguyfriend's 10 house
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Sun trine Yuting's Mars orb 4° 56'
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Venus square Yuting's Jupiter orb 3° 5'
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Mars sextile Yuting's Pluto orb 3° 6'
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Saturn trine Yuting's Saturn orb 3° 28'
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Saturn conjunct Yuting's Pluto orb 3° 39'
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Uranus conjunct Yuting's Jupiter orb 3° 43'
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Neptune sextile Yuting's Mars orb 3° 18'
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Pluto trine Yuting's Mars orb 4° 23'
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Jupiter trine Yuting's Ascendant orb 3° 20'
Yuting_iffyguyfriend's Ascendant sextile Yuting's Pluto orb 3 13
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astrology3d.com's report

yuting_iffyguyfriend's Sun Opposite yuting's Moon

The two of you are attracted to each other in a magnetic, almost fated, kind of way. If you aren't married yet, there is a high probability that some day you will be! The two of you are drawn to each other even though, in some ways, you have opposite personalities.

yuting_iffyguyfriend's Sun Sextile yuting's Venus

Yours is a loving friendship, with much mutual appreciation, affection, and respect. This may grow into a very warm, affectionate love relationship as well

yuting_iffyguyfriend's Sun Conjunct yuting's Uranus

You inspire each other to try new things, experiment, and investigate alternatives. You may have met each other, for example, during a time period when both of you were breaking free from traditional values and exploring new possibilities. There is a lot of excitement and spontaneity in your relationship. The two of you may find it difficult to settle down into a stable life style - there will always be surprises and unexpected turns in your relationship. You encounter lots of new ideas, unusual people, adventure, and exciting times together. You both enjoy a good measure of freedom and independence in this relationship, but either of you may wish that there was more commitment, devotion, seriousness, warmth, and closeness.

yuting's Sun Conjunct yuting_iffyguyfriend's Moon

If the two of you are not married, there is a high probability that you will marry some day! You have a natural affinity for each other, feel very comfortable together, and can experience a very nourishing and intimate closeness. Even if your personalities are very different, you understand each other very well and you are truly friends as well as lovers. If you have children, you will work well together as parents and yuting_iffyguyfriend, in particular, will prove (perhaps to a surprising degree) very devoted to the family. yuting_iffyguyfriend also helps, supports, and accepts yuting, who gains much confidence and energy when the two of you are together. There is a deep, mutual appreciation of each other

yuting's Sun aspects yuting_iffyguyfriend's Moon and yuting_iffyguyfriend's Sun aspects yuting's Moon

The two of you are drawn to each other like magnets, and you may find that you keep bumping into each other even if you are not trying to. If you are not married yet, then there is a good chance that you will in the future because the attractions between you are extremely powerful. You understand and appreciate each other to an exceedingly high degree, and you are likely to have felt an instant connection when you first met each other.

yuting_iffyguyfriend's Moon Square yuting's Jupiter

You enjoy joking and kidding each other, and you spark each other's sense of humor. In fact, it is sometimes difficult to be serious with each other; the tendency to be light-hearted and jovial is too irresistible. Also, you are very supportive and encouraging to each other, but you tend to be overly optimistic about each other and make promises that you cannot fulfill. You encourage each other to be extravagant, sometimes too much so.

yuting_iffyguyfriend's Moon Square yuting's Neptune

You spark each other's imagination and fantasies, but the tendency to deceive each other is also very strong. You fascinate and intrigue each other, clouding your vision and causing you to often misunderstand each other. For example, you tend to project fantasies and hopes on each other - this is not necessarily bad because these fantasies can become a rich source for imaginative, inspiring works of art or music. Do not rush into a serious relationship too quickly, though, because you need time to make sure that you haven't got caught up in a romantic, idealistic vision of each other, from which you will later wake. If either of you has a major problem of a psychological, alcohol-related, or drug-related nature, this relationship can become a partnership in dissolute, self-destructive, negative habits.

Composite Report for yuting and yuting_iffyguyfriend

Sun in Virgo

As a couple your desire is to make the world a better place, and you begin by trying to be better people. Don't be too hard on yourselves. You are good at analyzing the relationship, but don't let this detract from your enjoyment of each other

Moon in Gemini

Your emotional life is active, varied and colorful. You both like to be where things are happening. You have a constant desire for emotional stimulation. This can be nerve-racking but anything is better than boredom. You love to travel.

Ascendant in Aquarius

There is an electricity between you that is attractive and interesting. Your interests and the things you do and say are unusual in some way. You're sociable and comfortable in groups of people. The image you project is tolerant and humanitarian.

Moon Semisquare Saturn

The fate of this relationship is not especially promising, at least as far as emotional satisfaction, closeness, and intimacy is concerned. It is very difficult for you to feel and to stay emotionally connected and open to one another. You are oversensitive to criticism and lack of support from one another, and this could become a major, separative issue between you. Through this relationship you are intended to learn about those aspects of yourselves that cause you the most difficulty, discomfort, fear, and insecurity, the barriers you have to being to close - and you evoke all of these things in one another. It is much more common to shut down and withdraw from one another in such a situation than to see it as an opportunity to learn about your weaknesses. You will not be able to totally relax and "give in" to this relationship. Emotionally you will be forced to take care of yourself, and this can be quite fruitful, especially if you have been excessively childlike and dependent. Nevertheless, it won't be a lot of fun. Ultimately, you both may just feel lonely in this relationship

Moon Sesquiquadrate Uranus

The two of you are destined to have a rather unsettling affect upon one another. Your relationship may begin quite suddenly and unexpectedly, disrupting your normal routines and perhaps other relationships you are engaged in. There is an electric excitement between you which can be very thrilling, but also unnerving. Emotional impulsiveness and "acting crazy" together, doing things that are totally out of character or far more radical and daring that either of you would be inclined to do alone, are to be expected. For a long time you may have an unstable, on-again/off-again connection with one another, and unless there are other stabilizing factors between you, that's all it may ever be
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posted February 23, 2012 03:24 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Yuting and iffyguyfriend (libra with leo moon)

This is basically a friendship where you have no chemistry with each other, but still something draws you together. I am sure the friendship will soon dissolve. This composite is the most scattered a composite chart could possibly be. Also, there are no significant or even nice aspects whatsover except for maybe venus sextile moon. Your synastry and composite also shows elements of uranus where you relationship is fun and adventurous and you encourage each other to party it up and do zany things together but you wish your friendship was more stable and that you knew where it was all heading and how both of you feel. The lack of substance here shows little to no chemistry.

He is drawn to you because you have double whammy sun-moon aspects, and strong sun-moon aspects at that (sun opposite moon, and sun conjunct moon---both marriage aspects)

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This double whammy can basically bring together two people who do not have much of anything else going on in either synastry or composite, and that is the case here. It has happened to me before too And it was frustrating because i knew we didnt really have any chemistry yet i was still drawn to this person.

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Actually that's good, cos I find him fun and nice, but not attracted to him in a romantic way. He is way to young and I am more interested in Mr. Divorcee for now anyway. So good to know it is mutual. I can just enjoy the fun.

posted February 23, 2012 03:38 AM            

My Analysis

Being born 4 days away from your ex-boyfriend, this relationship is very similar to the ex-bf in synastry and composite, which is no coincidence!!! for this is very comaptible with you!! except with this penpal you have more aspects in synastry, and you have a better composite with the ex-bf bc of the moon trining the stellium. This is no coincidence, as it is simply a very compatible match up with you, and you would be a lot more compatible with this online friend of yours than with the divorcee guy.

Soulmates, anyone? In this composite AGAIN we have the love stellium with pluto thrown into the mix and uranus hovering a bit further away. You also have composite venus conjunct pluto. Sun and venus conjunct pluto along with moon square venus shows there are deep feelings here. A difference between this and the ex-bf is that with the ex you had moon in negative aspect to pluto in composite which creates strong feelings as well. Pluto with the love stellium means this is a very loving and fulfilling relationship. You also have double whammy venus-jupiter aspects just like with your ex-bf which means you have a ton of fun and chemistry together and so much appreciation for each other. Uranus hovering at the end of the stellium means this relationship is not likely to be in your face and out right rebellious, but it does indicate that the two of you being together is unusual in some way, or that you could not fall into a traditional role of stable boyfriend and girlfriend. Uranus as we know rules online communication so this would be fitting here. Also this is descriptive of the unusualness of your online friendship:

yuting_penpal's Sun Conjunct yuting's Uranus

You inspire each other to try new things, experiment, and investigate alternatives. You may have met each other, for example, during a time period when both of you were breaking free from traditional values and exploring new possibilities. There is a lot of excitement and spontaneity in your relationship. The two of you may find it difficult to settle down into a stable life style - there will always be surprises and unexpected turns in your relationship. You encounter lots of new ideas, unusual people, adventure, and exciting times together. You both enjoy a good measure of freedom and independence in this relationship, but either of you may wish that there was more commitment, devotion, seriousness, warmth, and closeness.

as well as this

Penpal's Uranus opposition Yuting's Moon orb 0° 3'

Penpal is instrumental in freeing Yuting from many old habits and attitudes. Both of you find this relationship enlivening and you often get into a free-spirited, even zany, mood together. Any contracts or commitments you make to each other, however, may be short-lived as events and circumstances are likely to change so often that your plans need to be constantly revised.

This uranus energy in synastry is one which makes your relationship very different from what it would possibly be without it.

This could very well be a love relationship, venus mutually aspects ascendant, so you see the beauty in one another and make each other feel beautiful, happy, appreciated, and loved. But uranus prevents it from being a normal relationship following traditional roles. You have strong saturn trines in composite like you did with the ex of course as it is the same composite chart except for position of moon, but here u have a strong element of uranus added, which was not there in the synastry and composite with the ex.
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Penpal's Sun in Libra and Yuting's Sun in Leo

Of the two of you, Yuting is the stronger individual, and the balance of power may be somewhat lopsided in your relationship. Penpal is more willing to compromise and accommodate others than Yuting is, and Penpal is also subtler, more diplomatic and indirect. Yuting has a very strong ego and pride and Penpal usually has the tact and delicacy not to offend Yuting, so you are likely to get on well. However, Penpal also has a strong sense of fairness, expects attention and favors to be reciprocated, and may balk at Yuting's tendency to be self- centered. You share a strong interest in style, fashion, and aesthetics or appearances.

Penpal's Moon in Taurus and Yuting's Moon in Aries

Yuting wants action and stimulation, and enjoys the challenge of a new environment, whereas what Penpal wants above all else is tranquillity, stability, and security. Penpal puts down roots and gets emotionally attached to a familiar place, but Yuting is much more eager to change and uproot when conditions feel stagnant or a new opportunity presents itself.

Where Yuting is volatile and expressive, Penpal tends to be calm, steady, and impassive. Penpal is usually understanding but unperturbed by Yuting's occasional outbursts of indignation, impatience, frustration, etc. Sometimes Yuting may long for 'a good fight' or a stronger emotional reaction from Penpal, but most of the time Penpal's even temper and calmness have a soothing, healing effect on Yuting.

Yuting's first response to any situation is action (whether appropriate and helpful or not); Penpal's is to wait-and-see, or to let the situation resolve itself in its own time.

Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together

Venus Mutually Aspects Jupiter

As mentioned below several times, this friendship is blessed with a high degree of good will, harmony, and appreciation for each other. A great deal of merry-making, partying, and socializing makes this relationship an outgoing, enjoyable one. Your appreciation for each other is very strong - this is a friendship that is long-lasting, fulfilling, and rewarding in many ways, emotionally and spiritually as well as materially.

Venus Mutually Aspects Ascendant

This is a wonderful friendship, with much mutual emotional (and possibly financial) benefit. Cooperation, sociability, and pleasant recreation are keynotes. You see the beauty in one another and make each other feel beautiful, happy, appreciated, and loved.

Penpal's Venus conjunct Yuting's Jupiter orb 2° 11'

You enjoy each other's company immensely and you put each other in a happy mood. You make each other laugh and you feel very open, loose, and jovial around each other. There is a great deal of generosity between you, and you may benefit one another financially and materially as well as emotionally. A wonderful friendship!

Penpal's Mars conjunct Yuting's Pluto orb 0° 44'

You draw out of each other your deepest drives and desires. The two of you arouse a zeal and sense of mission in each other that makes it possible for you to jointly accomplish extraordinary tasks. However, your fears and anxieties are brought to the surface too, and there is no guarantee that your zealousness will produce positive, constructive results. You may become fanatical in an extreme and unbalanced manner. Also, jealousy and competition can be very volatile, disruptive, obsessive, and intense in this relationship.

Penpal's Uranus opposition Yuting's Moon orb 0° 3'

Penpal is instrumental in freeing Yuting from many old habits and attitudes. Both of you find this relationship enlivening and you often get into a free-spirited, even zany, mood together. Any contracts or commitments you make to each other, however, may be short-lived as events and circumstances are likely to change so often that your plans need to be constantly revised.

Penpal's Venus opposition Yuting's Ascendant orb 2° 45'

There is a great deal of harmony between you, and you love one another's companionship. Penpal brings out Yuting's lovingness, cooperation, appreciation for beauty, and desire for sweetness and pleasure.

An especially close, satisfying friendship is very likely between you.

Penpal's Ascendant opposition Yuting's Moon orb 1° 12'

Although your tastes and preferences are often completely opposite from each other, you feel an almost maternal tenderness for each other, and the warm sympathy and caring that you feel for each other fosters a close and lasting friendship. There is a 'soul kinship' between you.

Penpal's Moon trine Yuting's Mercury orb 0° 0'

You enjoy long talks and you feel very much at home with each other. You are able to openly share your feelings about almost any subject. You will find that as you spend more time together, your tastes, interests, hobbies, and activities tend to blend together harmoniously. Your friendship is a strong and lasting one.

Penpal's Moon square Yuting's Venus orb 2° 19'

There is much warmth and kindness in this relationship and you are supportive and helpful to each other. However, many times the expression of your affection or high regard for each other is frustrated by your differing tastes and values. A classic example of this problem is one of you buying a birthday present for the other but unfortunately the present does not suit the taste and preferences of the one receiving it.

Penpal's Mercury sextile Yuting's Venus orb 1° 49'

You are able to share your feelings, interests, and ideas with an unusual degree of openness and honesty. It is likely that you enjoy discussing at length your feelings and thoughts about literature, the arts, and psychology, and these conversations are invariably mutually stimulating, interesting, and harmonious. It is also possible that you will successfully work together in some creative area.

Penpal's Mercury trine Yuting's Mars orb 2° 25'

You inspire each other to refine and clarify your ideas, plans and strategies. You are an effective team in research, writing, or business pursuits. You also help each other to successfully implement a plan or follow through on an idea until it manifests as a successful product or creative work. You also have spirited, feisty debates with one another.

Penpal's Mars sextile Yuting's Jupiter orb 0° 15'

You work together very harmoniously and you have a knack for helping each other discover new approaches to problems and new strategies for reaching goals. You are likely to combine energies in a successful business enterprise or creative undertaking.

Penpal's Jupiter sextile Yuting's Mercury orb 0° 51'

Friendly, enthusiastic conversations are frequent. You enjoy joking with each other and you inspire each other to take an optimistic view of life. Communication between you is open and candid as well. The mental rapport between you is very strong and fosters a very harmonious friendship.

Penpal's Jupiter square Yuting's Venus orb 1° 26'

You enjoy laughing, playing, socializing, and going out together to have a good time. You are expansive and generous with one another, and are inclined to spend unwisely, overeat, or otherwise overindulge when you're together. If you live together or work closely with one another, disagreements regarding finances, budgeting, or investments are likely to arise.

Penpal's Ascendant sextile Yuting's Venus orb 1° 22'

The pleasant and happy companionship and affection that you share with one another makes this friendship a particularly felicitous one. You make one another feel lighter and more sociable. Common artistic interests, recreational pleasures, or social activities are a bond between you.

END OF THE SHORT VERSION

The complete version includes:
Chapter 3
Other Themes in Your Relationship

Penpal's Sun in Yuting's 6 house
Yuting's Sun in Penpal's 10 house
Penpal's Moon in Yuting's 12 house
Yuting's Moon in Penpal's 6 house
Penpal's Mercury in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Mercury in Penpal's 11 house
Penpal's Venus in Yuting's 7 house
Yuting's Venus in Penpal's 10 house
Penpal's Mars in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Mars in Penpal's 4 house
Penpal's Jupiter in Yuting's 6 house
Yuting's Jupiter in Penpal's 2 house
Penpal's Saturn in Yuting's 12 house
Yuting's Saturn in Penpal's 9 house
Penpal's Uranus in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Uranus in Penpal's 12 house
Penpal's Neptune in Yuting's 7 house
Yuting's Neptune in Penpal's 2 house
Penpal's Pluto in Yuting's 5 house
Yuting's Pluto in Penpal's 12 house
Penpal's Mercury sextile Yuting's Sun orb 2° 53'
Penpal's Mercury opposition Yuting's Moon orb 4° 23'
Penpal's Mercury conjunct Yuting's Uranus orb 3° 48'
Penpal's Venus sextile Yuting's Pluto orb 3° 11'
Penpal's Mars sextile Yuting's Neptune orb 3° 1'
Penpal's Saturn square Yuting's Sun orb 3° 47'
Penpal's Saturn square Yuting's Mars orb 4° 15'
Penpal's Uranus sextile Yuting's Venus orb 2° 38'
Penpal's Uranus trine Yuting's Saturn orb 4° 51'
Penpal's Pluto sextile Yuting's Neptune orb 2° 8'
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yuting_penpal's Sun Conjunct yuting's Uranus

You inspire each other to try new things, experiment, and investigate alternatives. You may have met each other, for example, during a time period when both of you were breaking free from traditional values and exploring new possibilities. There is a lot of excitement and spontaneity in your relationship. The two of you may find it difficult to settle down into a stable life style - there will always be surprises and unexpected turns in your relationship. You encounter lots of new ideas, unusual people, adventure, and exciting times together. You both enjoy a good measure of freedom and independence in this relationship, but either of you may wish that there was more commitment, devotion, seriousness, warmth, and closeness.

yuting_penpal's Moon Trine yuting's Mercury

You enjoy long talks and you feel very much at home with each other. You are able to openly share your feelings about various issues, whether they are political, religious, or personal in nature. You will find that as you spend more time together, your tastes, interests, hobbies, and activities tend to blend together harmoniously. The feeling of friendship and inner understanding of each other is very satisfying and of a very positive nature.

yuting_penpal's Moon Square yuting's Venus

You love each other very deeply and the attraction between you is very strong, but your relationship is also prone to emotional ups and downs. It is not unusual for the quality of feelings that you have for each other to be quite different and this can lead to misunderstandings. For example, yuting may be in a romantic mood at a given time while yuting_penpal is feeling friendly, but not romantic. The roles sometimes reverse, and you find that your feelings frequently just won't synchronize. You also easily hurt each other's feelings, not realizing how much the other person loves and cherishes you. By being flexible and adaptable, and really trying to sympathize with each other, you can avoid these problems most of the time.

yuting_penpal's Moon Conjunct yuting's Ascendant

The two of you probably felt like old friends right from your first meeting. You have a natural affinity for each other, and it is very likely that you will remain life-long friends. You enjoy each other's company, feel very at home with each other, share many of the same interests, preferences, and tastes. You have a direct, intuitive understanding of each other that allows you to communicate and share your feelings and thoughts very openly with each other. yuting tends to "mother" and care for yuting_penpal, and yuting_penpal easily can become dependent on yuting. In fact, a mutually dependent relationship is very likely.

Composite Report for yuting and yuting_penpal

Sun in Virgo

As a couple your desire is to make the world a better place, and you begin by trying to be better people. Don't be too hard on yourselves. You are good at analyzing the relationship, but don't let this detract from your enjoyment of each other

Moon in Aries

This relationship can be very demanding. You have fiery, impulsive wants and needs. You feel adventurous when you're together. Anger may rise between you quite often, but it passes quickly. Impatient. You arouse each other.

Ascendant in Leo

You are proud to be seen together. There is something about the two of you when you're together that makes people take notice. You enjoy, and are good at, doing things that bring you into the limelight. A warm and gracious couple.

Sun Conjunct Mercury

Yours is an intellectual relationship, among other things. Exchanging thoughts, studying together, sharing information, talking and bantering, turning one another on to new books or ideas, sparking one another's curiosity and interest in the world - all of these are important aspects of your relationship. A certain detachment and the ability to think about and talk about what is going on between you are also highlighted. Put simply, becoming more conscious or more informed and educated is a significant reason the two of you are drawn together.

Sun Sextile Jupiter

Through your relationship to one another, you both develop greater understanding, wisdom, confidence, and faith in yourselves and in life. You help each other be the best you can be, encourage one another to take risks, envision the possibilities rather than focusing on the impossibilities.

Materially, you could generate much prosperity and financial well-being if that is your mutual goal. You have very good fortune together in that way. Fulfilling self-expression, and joyful recognition for what the two of you do together, are even more of a focus, however. Whatever endeavors you pursue as a duo will seem somehow blessed or unusually well-received

Sun Conjunct Pluto

There is definitely an element of destiny or inevitability, something which cannot be resisted or avoided, in the two of you coming together. This relationship can take you further into your own depths than you've ever been before, and truly be life-changing for both of you. You have a profound and powerful influence upon one another for good or ill, and once joined, it will be extremely difficult to ever totally sever your connection. You really get inside each other. You may become one another's psychotherapist in a manner of speaking, because being together dredges up a lot of your hidden agendas or motives and you become aware of many more facets of yourselves than you were ever conscious of before.

Together, you can also be an incredibly potent force in other peoples' lives. Your charisma and influence as a couple far exceeds your individual powers. If the two of you are tempted to misuse this, you could be involved in manipulative games and power plays, Machiavellian exploits of all kinds. Using your powers creatively and positively, you could become healers or agents of transformation and renewal in the world.
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Apparently sasstorlogy love calculator thinks it is a strongly sexual relationship...I disagree. I didn't see any strong sexual attraction indicators in synastry though there may be an attraction (venus conjunct pluto in composite tends to do that just sayin :])

posted February 23, 2012 04:06 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Yuting and penpal

My Analysis

Very similar to Yuting and ex-bf in both synastry and composite, except you have more aspects in synastry, and you have a better composite with the ex-bf.

Soulmates, anyone? In this composite AGAIN we have the love stellium with pluto thrown into the mix and uranus hovering a bit further away. You also have composite venus conjunct pluto. Sun conjunct and venus conjunct pluto along with moon square venus shows there are deep feelings here. This with the love stellium means this is a very loving and fulfilling relationship. You also have double whammy venus-jupiter aspects just like with your ex-bf which means you have a ton of fun and chemistry together and so much appreciation for each other. Uranus hovering at the end of the stellium means this relationship is not likely to be in your face and out right rebellious, but it does indicate that the two of you being together is unusual in some way, or that you could not fall into a traditional role of stable boyfriend and girlfriend. Uranus as we know rules online communication so this would be fitting here. Also this is descriptive of the unusualness of your online friendship:

This uranus energy in synastry is one which makes your relationship very different from what it would possibly be without it.

This could very well be a love relationship, venus mutually aspects ascendant, so you see the beauty in one another and make each other feel beautiful, happy, appreciated, and loved. But uranus prevents it from being a normal relationship following traditional roles. You had strong saturn trines with the ex-bf which gave a lot of stability, whereas with this very similar match you have uranus instead.
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Since their dates of birth are only a few days apart, I could expect a lot of similarities. Like with ex, easy to "talk" to him. And more so, I think he feels it is easy to talk to me. As for attraction, I never felt that for him (at least his looks is not my type). Just feels he is an easy friend to have, but he told me recently that he had a crush on me during our college days So nice on my ego

Uranus: internet, on and off (we were chatting online daily for 2.5yr, then lost contact for like 15yr. Just found each other again when I joined FB)

posted February 23, 2012 04:36 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
oh i edited the post

Pretty sure i edited before you replied....weird that it shows my old post in the quote. Maybe the reply just took a while to show up

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Read your revised. I would say it is true that relating with penpal & ex is easier than with divorcee. But it is also interesting to note that for both penpal and ex there were unusual circumstances making romantic involvement not possible/desirable. And in both case, I am ok with being just long-term friends. Penpal has been happily married for quite a while. And I think I was the catalyst for my ex to make up his mind about marrying his long-term gf/now wife (and before that, it was not easy relationship at all, more like roller coaster emotions for me). He is also happily married now.

I can be soulmates with both of them, but not necessarily in a romantic/marriage relationship. Esp with penpal, I have really never felt any spark. Just comfortable.

posted February 23, 2012 04:45 AM            

The only reason why i said ex-bf was "soulmate" material is because you have pluto in the love stellium. But you do have the love stellium with divorcee as well. Just be careful with neptune and the saturn heaviness. Neptune can deceive....as you already know with the ex-bf's composite moon square neptune, and saturn is not likely to make matters easy or lighthearted between you. But the synastry is nicer than with ex-bf and penpal guy, plus it denotes strong sexual attraction.

posted February 23, 2012 09:33 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Well, to be honest the synastry with divorcee is a lot better than with ex-bf and i did hint at that in the the analysis if u scroll up

Good luck.

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Synastry vs composite is an interesting topic. Actually, I have a better composite with my ex than he with his wife, but those two have a very flowing synastry. If you are interested, I can pass you his wife's DOB so you can study their case too.

posted February 23, 2012 11:57 AM            

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Originally posted by yuting:
Synastry vs composite is an interesting topic. Actually, I have a better composite with my ex than he with his wife, but those two have a very flowing synastry. If you are interested, I can pass you his wife's DOB so you can study their case too.

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