posted February 24, 2012 09:04 PM            

<----but very weak because Sun and Venus are barely conjunct (The relationship is also "hell on earth")
<----Strong hesitation to get into the relationship in the beginning, but if they do, the relationship lasts a long time, but both people are very unhappy together
<---Whenever you see this image, it's because you have a composite chart pattern that shows a hell on earth relationship with unrequited love and emotional abuse

My analysis

Once again we see here the exact same pattern as Jojo had with her "hell on earth" ex-marriage of sixteen years. Hannarama also has very similar composite with her crush, also with jupiter thrown into the love stellium, except uranus and saturn afflicts the weak love stellium, but not pluto. For hannah, this means there will be much less suffering since pluto afflicting the love stellium is much worse, but it will still be unstable and very hard to deal with. Here in this case once again we see a weak love stellium (venus being farthest away from the sun) with jupiter thrown in the mix (jupiter squares are very similar to the conjunction) and pluto and saturn both afflicting the stellium. Once again the diagnosis is the same so I'm just going to copy and paste from Jojo's reading with her ex-husband:

"I only see people being attracted to each other with this many afflictions to a love stellium only if they have jupiter involved in the stellium. So, think about how much the love energy is being restricted here. You have nice synastry, however, it makes sense that even though the relationship started out great, eventually you separated, because of the bad composite. Pluto afflicting the love stellium means major power struggles, being insensitive to the others feelings, a general brashness when dealing with the other. Saturn afflicting the stellium means you feel a lot of duty and responsibility for each other but u also depress each other a ton. You don't want to let each other down and break off the relationship bc u feel a strong duty but you are not happy together! Also saturn here indicates a marriage would have tons of financial, health problems, family interfering, etc. You probably got together for reasons of security....not out of true love. You do love each other, but are not in love, so to speak. This is a very troubled composite, one of the worst I've seen, and the love normally expressed by the love stellium is totally blocked my power struggles, criticism, depression and instability."

Note what JoJo later expressed about her marriage:

My relationship with Ex-Husband was hell on earth. We were together 16 years and the life blood was literally sucked out of me. The happiest day of my life was when I finally got the courage to leave. It was an emotionally abusive relationship and the only regret I have is that I stayed so long.
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Still_Hopeful's feedback:

RAS thank you
The composite was with the father of my baby. But we are not together as a couple.
I broke it off, because of well..... multiple reasons.
Ur analysis was dead on.
The relationship is Horrible. But we have to co-exist we are parents to a little girl.
Lots of power play, mistrust, and hurt.

SO WATCH OUT FOR THIS PATTERN IN YOUR COMPOSITE CHART WITH A CRUSH. STAY AWAY FROM THEM BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT IT WILL LEAD TO..

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A second instance where the love calculator is dead wrong:

posted February 24, 2012 09:46 PM            

<----Strong hesitation to get into the relationship in the beginning, but if they do, the relationship lasts a long time, but both people are very unhappy together

The relationship unfortunately didn't last because of its saturn-heaviness. You both felt restricted and like you focused too much on responsibilities and not enough on each other's feelings and on fun and play. There was a strong bond which synastry and composite indicates. All the planets conjunct like that in composite as we have noted before does lead to a strong bond, and your synastry as well has a lot of pluto and neptune as well as mutual sun-moon aspects. Also there was the problem of composite moon in negative aspect to uranus which lead to kind of an on and off friendship

Composite Moon Sesquiquadrate Uranus

The two of you are destined to have a rather unsettling affect upon one another. Your relationship may begin quite suddenly and unexpectedly, disrupting your normal routines and perhaps other relationships you are engaged in. There is an electric excitement between you which can be very thrilling, but also unnerving. Emotional impulsiveness and "acting crazy" together, doing things that are totally out of character or far more radical and daring that either of you would be inclined to do alone, are to be expected. For a long time you may have an unstable, on-again/off-again connection with one another, and unless there are other stabilizing factors between you, that's all it may ever be

Composite Venus and mercury conjunct saturn and c. moon in negative aspect to saturn:

Best's Moon square Loveless's Saturn orb 2° 34'

This relationship is not an easy one! There is a sense of responsibility towards each other that may incline you to marry or form some kind of long-lasting commitment to each other. But although the union is likely to be long-lasting, it is also likely to have more than its fair share of frustrations and difficulties. At times you both feel emotionally constrained and inhibited by being together, and this relationship may feel like a form of imprisonment! Best, in particular, may feel disheartened by Loveless's criticisms, worries, fears, or need to dominate Best's life. Best's emotional needs and feelings are ignored and neglected at times, leaving Best feeling alone in this relationship. Most likely there is too much emphasis on responsibilities and obligations and not enough attention given to the needs for acceptance and tenderness. The serious tone of the relationship also stifles play and light-hearted fun-loving activities. This relationship may endure even when your feelings towards one another have cooled because there is a great deal of security in it, even if there is little satisfaction over time.

The best things about your friendship:

Moon Mutually Aspects Neptune

There is a very high degree of fascination for each other. You spark each other's imagination, and there is a fantastic, almost mystical, quality to your relationship. You explore the imaginative, psychic realm together; you are inclined to pursue artistic, musical, altruistic, religious, or psychic areas together. There is also a high degree of romance, dreaminess, and fantasy in your relationship. If either of you has an alcohol abuse or drug abuse problem, or serious psychological problems, you are likely to go off the 'deep end' together, so try to avoid engaging in underhanded, deceptive, or psychically unbalanced activities together.

Sun Mutually Aspects Moon
The two of you are drawn to each other like magnets, and you may find that you keep bumping into each other even if you are not trying to. If you are not married yet, then there is a good chance that you will in the future because the attractions between you are extremely powerful. You understand and appreciate each other to an exceedingly high degree, and you are likely to have felt an instant connection when you first met each other.

bestie's Sun Square loveless's Pluto

Your relationship is intense, magnetic, and complex. You are fascinated by each other and you engage in deep, intense discussions and encounters that unveil your innermost thoughts, feelings, goals, hopes, fears, and ambitions. This is not a superficial relationship! You are very uninhibited with each other, and you open up to each other more readily than to others. Be wary of power struggles, however, as loveless, in particular, may be tempted to use the magnetic attractive power over bestie to manipulate and control bestie. Also, either of you may feel threatened, embarrassed, or disempowered by revealing so much of yourself to the other, and consequently feel the need to be secretive and competitive with each other. You have a profound influence upon one another, for good or ill
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Feedback from L0veLess:

posted February 24, 2012 09:47 PM            

<----Strong hesitation to get into the relationship in the beginning, but if they do, the relationship lasts a long time, but both people are very unhappy together
URANUS HEAVY

With moon mutually aspecting mars, venus sextile pluto, moon conjunct pluto, and composite sun semisquare pluto there is a strong pull here, fascination and sexual attraction. There is also a lot of romance as you also have c. sun conjunct neptune and in synastry mercury conjunct neptune. However, you also have c. venus conjunct saturn and c. sun conjunct uranus, as well as your saturn conjunct his venus and his saturn conjunct your mercury. this is the description for your saturn conjunct his venus:

Boyfriend's Venus conjunct Loveless's Saturn orb 0° 37'

This is a deep and serious relationship. You feel very secure with each other and you both feel comfortable making a lasting commitment to each other. However, the relationship tends to highlight the importance of responsibility and loyalty to one another, and you may cut yourselves off from other people or from activities you enjoyed before you came together, and this is likely to eventually lead to feelings of boredom, constraint, and being restricted. The commitment to the relationship may eventually become burdensome, especially to Boyfriend, who is likely to feel unappreciated and emotionally inhibited by Loveless, while Loveless may feel that there is a lack of acknowledgment for the efforts and sacrifices made for Boyfriend. This can become a rather joyless union unless you can build enough time for fun and play into your lives and thereby not become burdened by the demands of the relationship.

His saturn conjunct your mercury means he gets tired of listening to you talk and gets annoyed by what you talk about. C. venus conjunct saturn means you will never really be close, there is like a wall between you for some reason.

With C. sun conjunct uranus and your saturn on his venus, it is no wonder he doesn't want to commit. He probably won't either. So stay away. As usual, with heavy saturn, there has to be some jupiter to balance things out, as is the case here. You have c. sun opp jupiter and c. moon trine jupiter which helps to lighten the mood between you.

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Feedback from L0veLess:

i'd have to say there is no romance or if there is its not the right kind i want.
this is how i feel when we hang out
There is a pleasant, harmonious quality to your relationship that makes the two of you really enjoy your times together. Whether you are talking, playing, or taking care of daily chores together, you find that you invariably appreciate and enjoy each other's company.
then theres lots of this when i'm alone:
Loveless feels a whole range of powerful emotions - desire, jealousy, rage, fierce loving attachments or intense loathing - and Loveless cannot live without relating on a very deep, intimate level, which often includes conflict and confrontation.
and thiiiiis:
His saturn conjunct your mercury means he gets tired of listening to you talk and gets annoyed by what you talk about. C. venus conjunct saturn means you will never really be close, there is like a wall between you for some reason.
all that. he always makes me feel dumb or bad for not knowing things or doing things right. So nitpicky! But I feel like i learn things which is good. I feel like im too boring also. And I'm trying hard to hold onto him as my friend. I hardly have friends and yet the ones I have are hard on me and stress me out sometimes! But it only makes me want to keep them more and everyone else seems boring compared to them. I like that difficulty and like it said about my moon that i even CREATE drama if there is a lack of it to keep things exciting for myself! I do everything the hard way. Thank you so much!

posted February 24, 2012 10:48 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Yuting and her brother

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The Saturn heavy for us? Anyway, with the Saturn being in part of the mystic rectangle, I dont feel too much heaviness, maybe a mature relationship. We really had fun together as kid (even with the fights). I guess for reading non-romantic relationships, it is important to read patterns and energy flow. This could tell whether the two persons can work together on common goals etc.

posted February 24, 2012 11:07 PM            

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You have many of the same feelings and it is rare to meet someone who feels all the same things as you, so appreciate this. At the same time, though, there is a strong tendency to criticize each other and feel that you hold each other back because of the composite sun square saturn. This is a complex relationship which is hard to deal with because you two care a lot about each other but it is so intense you may feel like you wish you were adopted by another family!

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posted February 24, 2012 11:11 PM            

<---but very weak because sun is not in aspect with venus at all

posted February 24, 2012 11:29 PM            

<---But not too tight in orb
URANUS HEAVY

Sun sq neptune and uranus, venus sq neptune, moon opp pluto, moon trine neptune and uranus. Other than venus and mercury conjunct jupiter absolutely no nice aspects. Stellium is int he 7th house and moon in 8th like a previous chart.

posted February 24, 2012 11:36 PM            

Sun-mars-mercury stellium denotes lots of energetic and fun communication. Much mental chemistry. Neptune conjunct the stellium makes it romantic..more than just friends. Moon opposite neptune and uranus shows why the relationship has never gotten off the ground and feelings are so unstable. Moon opposite uranus will ensure that the relationship is always unstable and will never be able to settle together.

posted February 24, 2012 11:45 PM            

<---Very tight orb! The love is strong!

posted February 24, 2012 11:57 PM            

<---Whenever you see this image, it's because you have a composite chart pattern that shows a hell on earth relationship with unrequited love and emotional abuse

posted February 25, 2012 12:07 AM            

Venus Conjunct Uranus
With Venus conjunct Uranus in the composite chart, you will have to keep certain points in mind in order to get the most out of your relationship.
If this is a sexual relationship, it is very likely that your feelings for each other arose suddenly. But no matter how intense the feeling, recognize that any attempt to hold onto this relationship is probably doomed to failure. If you want it to last, you must give each other lots of room to move.
A relationship like this shakes your established thought patterns and gives you both the opportunity to find something new in yourselves.
This relationship may very well change your life. Give yourselves the freedom to go where it takes you.

mercury opp saturn means you do not try to communicate

posted February 25, 2012 12:18 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
He doesnt depress you or criticize you even a little bit...with composite sun sq saturn? Are you sure? lol

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Everyone says sth annoying to someone else at times (esp when we have lived together so many years), but nothing that sticks to mind. Btw, maybe the orb you are using is too wide. It is a 10' orb for a sq, which personally I wont count when reading for others. In addition, we have a 3' orb moon sextile Saturn and a 1' orb mer trine Sat to support a mature relationship based on emotional and mental rapport So, no, I dont really feel it.

posted February 25, 2012 12:19 AM            

<---very tight orb! The love is strong!

<--true love!
<---Whenever you see this image, it's because you have a composite chart pattern that shows a hell on earth relationship with unrequited love and emotional abuse

I am so sorry, dear, but the astrologers are right!

Not only is the love stellium all square uranus, neptune and saturn, but so is the moon. This is terrible and you would eventually be very unhappy together...Read the other interpretations posted here that have the "Danger" image

posted February 25, 2012 12:34 AM            

<--But very weak because sun and venus are barely conjunct

<--whenever you have this it means you have a composite chart pattern that shows this relationship will be emotionally abusive and you will feel used and unappreciated in the end!

Scoot says:

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I would love a reading between my son's dad and I.

We are no longer together, but living as roommates with our son. He ended it. It be nice to get insight on what is sooo incompatible between us that we can't be lovers.

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The reason you are not together is because the love stellium is weak and afflicted. Sun and mercury are both square pluto and saturn. If you had venus conjunct the stellium and thus also square these two planets, you could basically count on the "hell on earth" experience two others have expressed in the other reports about their hellish marriages. Look for the other charts with the "Danger" image. Because venus is not afflicted, it is not as bad...But when the love stellium is afflicted you can count on either both people hating each other or there at least being unrequited love.

Sorry, it's just not meant to be!

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Scoot's feedback:

posted February 25, 2012 12:55 AM            

If you have the following pattern in your composite with someone, watch out for a disastrous break up and very high chance of unrequited love if they are your crush. The pattern is: The love stellium in negative aspect to two planets of the following: uranus, saturn, neptune, pluto

These are my own failed relationships and friendships...hell on earth is fitting for all of them!