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Topic: Have you guys ever used a psychic service?
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FairyDust75 unregistered
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posted March 12, 2014 08:42 PM
Yes she told me the same thing that she doesn't do timing. She tells you the cards, which I like but unfortunately I'm not familiar with. But I have looked them up after reading with her and they seemed to line up with what she said. How about Cindy? Anyone read with her? She's a bit blunt but seemed to know what she was talking about. I like comparing experiences as I feel it helps me from getting a reading. So if anyone else wants to share I hope you will. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 3195 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 13, 2014 10:19 AM
Well, I finally got Sandie again and honestly... I'm quite shocked.LP That's the next question 09:58AM sandie camara Im sorry hun but im going to have to run, I do hope the suggestions i have given will help with all this 09:58AM LP Ummm... ok, then 09:59AM LP If you don't want to read for me, I understand 09:59AM sandie camara I have been made aware of how you are feeling about me reading for you due to me only checking to see how your boss felt but not going deeper, in essence answering the question i was given. so if you feel that im not the one for you then perhaps its best to have someone else read for you in future x 10:01AM LP You have been made aware? 10:02AM LP Ok 10:02AM She can't be blaming me for this... because of the question I asked... SERIOUSLY?? This is our very first conversation. Chat started at 26 Feb 2014 01:05PM LP Hi! 01:05PM sandie camara Hello how are you today? 01:05PM LP Good afternoon! 01:05PM sandie camara Same to you 01:06PM LP I'm well. Thanks for asking! 01:06PM sandie camara You are most welcome 01:06PM LP I have two issues today 01:06PM sandie camara ok i will do my best to help with that 01:06PM LP You were recommended on a forum 01:06PM sandie camara ahh ok.. no pressure then lol. 01:06PM LP LOL!!! 01:07PM LP Ok. #1.... Seeing this man and unsure that he will make changes to commit 01:07PM sandie camara ok we can take a look at that for you 01:08PM LP #2.... There is drama developing at work. Should I be looking for another job? Is it going to become that serious? 01:08PM sandie camara ok no worries we will deal with one then the other if that suits you 01:09PM LP Fantastic! 01:09PM sandie camara do you want to do the 30 for 45 mins or the 20 for 30 mins hun 01:09PM LP I'm at work. Can't talk too long. On a 15- min break. Was hoping to do the 10 for $10 01:09PM sandie camara hmm so its from work that im feeling the anxiety then... wasnt sure if it was with the man or something else at first but there is that dread feeling there 01:10PM sandie camara ok will cover as much as i can in that time hun ok 01:10PM LP Perfect. If there is more, I'll be back 01:10PM sandie camara no worries 01:10PM sandie camara ok so lets go with what comes up here 01:10PM sandie camara ok with work.. can you place the female that seems to be standing over and swooping.. like she is on a mission.. clearing house comes to me 01:11PM sandie camara and she seems to have a male backing her... he is a bit hmm mousy wimpy can you place them for me please 01:11PM sandie camara feel she is on the lighter brown ranges.. and a bit plump..who is that here hun?? 01:12PM LP BOTH PLACED!! LOL 01:12PM LP Adding money now 01:12PM sandie camara ok who are these people hun 01:13PM LP Female is my boss 01:13PM LP Male is an analyst on the team that keeps very close to her 01:14PM sandie camara it looks like she is holding hmm almost a clipboard or check sheet.. and she is on a mission .. like she is clearing the decks.. and feels a bit vengeful to me.. like there is a nasty side going on her hun 01:14PM LP She is a bit plump Pleasantly, in my opinion, but yes 01:14PM sandie camara ahh ok... he kinda falls to the backround but i feel he whispers in her ear type deal 01:15PM LP YES!!!! 01:15PM sandie camara yes plump not a big woman but a bit plumpish lol 01:15PM LP I had issues with two people in other departments 01:15PM sandie camara got her looking over you head so you are not in her direct line of fire.. or not yet.. but there is alot of crap about to hit the fan 01:16PM LP 1 person she knows lied because a 3rd person called and verified with her 01:16PM LP The other person is making a mountain out of a molehill 01:16PM sandie camara see i get her looking at you but then it sweeps over you.. so you are not in direct line of fire.... and i keep wanting to say yet though... like you do need to be wary 01:17PM sandie camara you will have to stick up .. stand up for yourself with this and i dont like the feeling im getting here.. it feels kinda like you are being stiched up or about to be 01:18PM LP Should I be interviewing? I would much prefer to stay at this company. I love my team, but I refuse to be in drama and would like changing of jobs to be MY decision and not be fired 01:18PM sandie camara you will take a 'hit' on this but dont feel you will get fired.. i do really feel you are about to get stiched up though hun.. like you will be blamed for things you did not do or blame will be pushed towards you.. ok going to be really frank here .. i actually get someone sliding a pile of poo towards you so to me that is you will be taking on someone elses poo.. 01:20PM sandie camara make sense to you 01:20PM LP Yes!!!! 01:20PM sandie camara it feels like you take a hit but you re not going to get fired over it 01:20PM
I understand she feels bad, but this is NOT because she answered the question handed to her. Just as a person, she's wrong. And she said she was "made aware"? I'd be on the lookout for readers scanning these forum and regurgitating your words. Not sure what she meant by that, but it makes me WONDER. ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
SandyShore Knowflake Posts: 386 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 13, 2014 04:40 PM
There is a lot there for a 10 minute reading. Sometimes a reader takes longer than that to connect. She did get about 80% right. Probably needed more time to probe the 'feeling' and other 20%- but then I don't really know how it works and I am extrapolating from your reading. All I know is nobody is 100% correct.You did tell her that she was recommended on a forum. That does not make it difficult to google one's name. We used to abstain from giving any reader's full name but its no longer the case. So no surprises here ! LP, I really hope that all works out for you. From the description of the 2 persons in your reading, it is certainly good riddance. On the other hand, Sandie's reading suggests to stand your ground, that is if you really want to keep that job or leave on your own terms. Maybe you could document and defend your case, have support from other colleagues or go to human resources. Or negotiate with your manager that you are not fired but will leave of your own accord in 15 days so that your future work prospects are not jeopardized or something like that? Best of luck. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 3195 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 13, 2014 08:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by SandyShore: There is a lot there for a 10 minute reading. Sometimes a reader takes longer than that to connect. She did get about 80% right. Probably needed more time to probe the 'feeling' and other 20%- but then I don't really know how it works and I am extrapolating from your reading. All I know is nobody is 100% correct.You did tell her that she was recommended on a forum. That does not make it difficult to google one's name. We used to abstain from giving any reader's full name but its no longer the case. So no surprises here ! LP, I really hope that all works out for you. From the description of the 2 persons in your reading, it is certainly good riddance. On the other hand, Sandie's reading suggests to stand your ground, that is if you really want to keep that job or leave on your own terms. Maybe you could document and defend your case, have support from other colleagues or go to human resources. Or negotiate with your manager that you are not fired but will leave of your own accord in 15 days so that your future work prospects are not jeopardized or something like that? Best of luck.
Actually, this is only 1 reading. I also had another 30-min reading beyond this where she did look at it again. Didn't discuss this on here. That was jus a caveat for others. Sure she may have seen this conversation, but I'm not concerned with that. You sound a lot like Sandie with the 80%/20%, but my question was "should I be looking for another job?" I didn't ask her what my boss looked like. That 20% was the correct answer to my question. I don't know what country you're in, but that does not work here. No one has a right to at-will employment. It does not work this way. I'm not a unioned worker. None of that is or was ever possible. ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
St@r2013 Knowflake Posts: 2259 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 14, 2014 04:57 PM
So I decided to get a Horary chart, although I'm not having any readings, I thought I can "cheat" and get a Horary because it seems to be so accurate and I really wanted some good guidance regarding job hunting. I got an awful reading - I replied to the guy saying I didn't get the information that I was hoping to get (as in, he provided so little information that I could use to help me find good employment that his reading was basically useless to me). I'll see what his reply will be .... Don't understand why lately I'm getting such useless (paid) readings - just vague and unhelpful readings... On a plus side, haven't had readings from Bitwine, which is good... IP: Logged |
St@r2013 Knowflake Posts: 2259 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 14, 2014 05:00 PM
Sorry DP IP: Logged |
FairyDust75 unregistered
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posted March 14, 2014 06:27 PM
I get these emails just about every other day from someone named Tara who keeps saying "I saw this positve/negative thing for you coming up, contact me immediately, I can help you." Anyone ever get stuff like this? I must have clicked a link or something somewhere and not have realized it and now I keep getting these long emails about how something is changing for me for better/worse and if I contact Tara she can reveal all, just $19.95 lol. IP: Logged |
St@r2013 Knowflake Posts: 2259 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 14, 2014 06:33 PM
^ I used to get those emails lol, they were something along the lines of - I can see your luck is about to change, you will be rich but need my help yda yda yda - I directed it to my junk mail and forgot about them....IP: Logged |
happyaskings Knowflake Posts: 1107 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 14, 2014 10:24 PM
Sooooo.....Sandie Camara, aboutagirl, shy owl, and some randomer Victoria Love were all wrong. Not just wrong but pretty much the exact opposite of what actually happened. Shocker. I'm being sarcastic, but honestly the first three were my go-to's (especially aboutagirl for timeframes) and they all had the exact prediction with the exact dates. Smh. I'm not even disappointed at this point, I just wish I could get my money (and mental health) back.IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 3195 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 10:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by happyaskings: I'm not even disappointed at this point, I just wish I could get my money (and mental health) back.
EXACTLY ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
FairyDust75 unregistered
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posted March 14, 2014 11:16 PM
@Happy, what happened to you? None of your top readers came through? Sorry to hear that. If I had the money back from all of the readings I've had I could certainly go on a great vacation, first class all the way!IP: Logged |
St@r2013 Knowflake Posts: 2259 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 14, 2014 11:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by happyaskings: Sooooo.....Sandie Camara, aboutagirl, shy owl, and some randomer Victoria Love were all wrong. Not just wrong but pretty much the exact opposite of what actually happened. Shocker. I'm being sarcastic, but honestly the first three were my go-to's (especially aboutagirl for timeframes) and they all had the exact prediction with the exact dates. Smh. I'm not even disappointed at this point, I just wish I could get my money (and mental health) back.
That sucks, I know how you feel, had so many predictions that never happened and I just wish they had to refund the money if it doesn't happen... At least it won't be just money down the drain... The only reader who refunded me money on Bitwine was empress because she didn't feel she connected to me, I really respect empress for that... In general I feel like readings given by different members here is actually more accurate than bitwine readers.... My plan is start mediating more and grounding myself so I'll stop being so confused, but yeah, it's not easy... IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 8223 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 14, 2014 11:39 PM
I feel sandiecamara is not good at predicting the future. More good at describing people and their feelingsIP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 533 From: MOMument (; Registered: Oct 2016
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posted March 14, 2014 11:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by St@r2013: That sucks, I know how you feel, had so many predictions that never happened and I just wish they had to refund the money if it doesn't happen... At least it won't be just money down the drain... The only reader who refunded me money on Bitwine was empress because she didn't feel she connected to me, I really respect empress for that... In general I feel like readings given by different members here is actually more accurate than bitwine readers.... My plan is start mediating more and grounding myself so I'll stop being so confused, but yeah, it's not easy...
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St@r2013 Knowflake Posts: 2259 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 15, 2014 05:49 AM
^ I was disappointed we weren't able to have a reading Empress, but was so amazed that you didn't want to continue since you felt there was no connection and refunded immediately. I wish more readers were like you! IP: Logged |
FairyDust75 unregistered
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posted March 15, 2014 08:25 AM
So it seems like people are having predictions made about things and the opposite happen. Has anyone been told a prediction that was very negative and then have it actually turn out positive? I know many people recommended Lisa and Astrid. Has anyone had their predictions pan out positively or negatively for them?IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 533 From: MOMument (; Registered: Oct 2016
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posted March 15, 2014 08:45 AM
Thanks @Star . I feel that all readers should do that actually..to me personally it feels like stealing (no offense to anyone reading this, but it's just how I feel).Fairy, with Astrid her tea leaf readings for me have been completely accurate for the most part (everything she mentioned). With Lisa..she doesn't reply to the e-mails. The readings are very short..not too much details in mine. And when I asked for more clarity..no response. I admit I was disappointed because she only wrote around a paragraph of info. very vague.."someone from your past is returning" .. that could be anyone - but I'm just disappointed in the fact that she didn't reply and elaborate on that..not worth the $20 + don't really think I will go back at all. ------------------ **STUDENT 4 LIFE** Tarot Readings by Me Facebook - ReadingsbyAzul Be careful! I have a lil WITCH!Bwahah loveher. Me - Virgo Sun. Cancer Moon. Aquarius Ascendant Kidsfather - Pisces Sun. Sagittarius Moon. Libra Ascendant Son - Virgo Sun. Libra Moon. Virgo Ascendant Daughter - Virgo Sun. Aquarius Moon. Sagittarius Ascendant IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 8223 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 15, 2014 09:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by St@r2013: ^ I was disappointed we weren't able to have a reading Empress, but was so amazed that you didn't want to continue since you felt there was no connection and refunded immediately. I wish more readers were like you!
Sacred Divine Love Reunite did that. (Liveperson) He said it might be that when he's doing spells he has a lot of trouble connecting and wasnt feeling he could connect with me that session so just sent me a msg letting me know. He actually doesnt start charging u right away ...and tells u to come back in a few minutes to make sure he establishes a connection.
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FairyDust75 unregistered
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posted March 15, 2014 10:45 AM
I did think Lisa's was a little short as well but it was to the point and answered my questions. I did find her to be accurate in feeling/emotions/situations. She gave me a time frame of contact which is coming up soon so we'll see with that. She did answer my emails when I emailed her to clarify something and, I did ask another question and for a little advice. She replied right away and was very kind. I would try her again at some point.IP: Logged |
hummingbird Knowflake Posts: 34 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 01:54 PM
Guys, I've been thinking... this forum has been around for so long and yet how many have had predictions from psychics that actually came true?? There were probably only a few that actually did. Shouldn't this be a wake up call for you guys that the future is for you to create and not blindly rely on psychics?From when the topic started there were "recommended psychics but haven't you notice that as time moves forward when their timeframe doesnt come true or the situation the "recommended psychic" had predicted turns out to be false/opposite of what had happened. You guys quickly look for a new psychic to be recommended? I've been reflecting on this for a while. I've started having readings in 2012, from that point onward I've gotten tons of readings... maybe an estimate of 40 or more because I was so impressed on my 1st accurate reading but guess what... only right about 2-3 of them actually came true after. Who is to say that maybe those 2-3 right predictions could have been just a coincidence?? I've wasted so much of my life and the opportunity to start a relationship because of psychics. There were predictions in 2012 that I might meet someone that I should be careful of, this made me wary of starting relationships during that time but thinking about it now I was really stupid for faitfully believing in it. I genuinely had the opportunity during that time to start a relationship with a girl I could probably be interested in but flat out rejected it even before I had the chance to even get to know her more. In early-mid 2013, I also became wary because there were psychics who predicted my soulmate will come in late 2013-early 2014. These stuffs never came true. Timeframes are going to keep on pushing back when you ask them. I've also had negative readings that came out to have positive outcome and positive readings that came out to be the opposite of what had happened. Live your life guys! You are the master of your future. I am starting to believe in the power of free will + God. If a psychic said something negative about a situation prove them wrong. I've had this happen with a business of ours that some predicted is going to turn out bad but actually turned out well in real life. Only God is 100% correct. Being addicted to psychics about the future is dangerous and could steal your life away. Just a note that I do still believe in psychics, that one accurate readings just have too much an impact for me. The thing is though guys, maybe just maybe a reading will only turn out to be accurate if you "genuinely" need help. PS- Just an update, Gaia's prediction about someone new I'll be meeting in her timeframe did not came true. IP: Logged |
FairyDust75 unregistered
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posted March 15, 2014 02:51 PM
@Hummingbird, I think you're right. I had a reading done not too long ago and it came out with a very negative result. Of course it practically devastated me. But I'm slowly realizing, maybe it is correct and maybe it's not. I just don't know anymore. I guess I have to live my life and make it happen. Whatever will be will be. Of course we all want a happy ending but sometimes we get it and sometimes we don't. One reader says yes, one says no, and one says maybe. Which do you believe? I guess my point is that if free will always plays a hand then I need to take back my free will and just live and not worry so much about the outcome. If I continue to worry I'm going to miss out on far greater things. IP: Logged |
St@r2013 Knowflake Posts: 2259 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 15, 2014 05:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by EmpressMendez: Thanks @Star . I feel that all readers should do that actually..to me personally it feels like stealing (no offense to anyone reading this, but it's just how I feel).
I agree with you, what's even worse, I had readings where the reader didn't even use the free time - they just asked me what's my question/how can they help and when I told them my question a second later the payment link would appear... I get that many people just want a free reading so they have to be careful but on the other hand how do they know we've got a good connection? IP: Logged |
happyaskings Knowflake Posts: 1107 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 16, 2014 01:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by hummingbird:
I've been reflecting on this for a while. I've started having readings in 2012, from that point onward I've gotten tons of readings... maybe an estimate of 40 or more because I was so impressed on my 1st accurate reading but guess what... only right about 2-3 of them actually came true after. Who is to say that maybe those 2-3 right predictions could have been just a coincidence?? I've wasted so much of my life and the opportunity to start a relationship because of psychics.There were predictions in 2012 that I might meet someone that I should be careful of, this made me wary of starting relationships during that time but thinking about it now I was really stupid for faitfully believing in it. I genuinely had the opportunity during that time to start a relationship with a girl I could probably be interested in but flat out rejected it even before I had the chance to even get to know her more. In early-mid 2013, I also became wary because there were psychics who predicted my soulmate will come in late 2013-early 2014. These stuffs never came true. Timeframes are going to keep on pushing back when you ask them.
I can totally relate to this! When I first started getting readings and they would tell me about someone I was going to meet, I would find myself "looking" for who they were describing whenever I went out, it made me shy away from potential matches a bit to be honest. I would also get disappointed at times because they would describe someone that I could NOT see myself with...then I would have to get 3 more readings to confirm that I wouldn't end up with someone I wouldn't be attracted too. It was a vicious cycle. Ditto to the time frames getting pushed back, when I first started this over a year and a half ago, they told me I would meet someone in the spring, then spring came around and they said summer...and in summer they said fall. Now its nearing spring and guess what, they're all telling me summer! It so happens that I DID end up getting into a short-term relationship in the fall...but he was NOTHING like what any of them predicted. I didn't meet him the way any predicted, he didn't look as predicted, he didn't work/have the personality as predicted. It wasnt a long lasting, swept off my feet romance, he wasn't "the one". Be weary of vague validations, these readers get dozens of people every day asking about contact/someone coming back/etc. I'd hear things a lot like "I feel someone wants a relationship, but the other wants to stay single doesn't want to commit"...odds are if the client feels the NEED to ask a "where is the heading" type of question, they are feeling off balance and its already apparent that whoever they are interested in isn't wanting commitment. If you're asking about contact, you'll probably get a vague "did you and he have an argument" type of response. I always find it funny when this isn't the case...nope I just date a lot of inconsistent jerks. Speaking of jerks, watch out for the readers that feed you fairy tales, I can't tell you how many readings I've had where the guy and I had a "great connection" with "long term potential" only to have the guy tell me to my face that he wasn't looking for anything serious. From my expericence its pretty rare for a psychic to tell you it won't work (in the beginning stages) most of them tell you it will. Contact predictions are also tricky, I've had so many 2-3 week predictions only to have the guy contact me the next day. Then I've been told 3-4 days only to have the guy drop off the face of the planet and never be heard from again. I do feel the need to give Aboutagirl some credit here, she's been accurate with me for timeframes about 75% of the time...thats really damn good considering how many people have been off. FINAL THOUGHTS (for now) be EXTREMELY CAREFUL ABOUT FALLING INTO THE "THIRD PARTY" PREDICTION!!!!!! I got a reading on the guy I mentioned above and the reader saw that he was talking to another girl...she was accurate about a lot and I believed her. He wasn't. This wasn't the end of our relationship but it caused a huge rift between us. After things did come to an end, I had tons of readings on him and everyone kept saying "third party" or "another woman" blah, blah, blah....When we finally reconciled I snooped like never before, I asked around, checked fb...everything and you know what I found...nothing. He never cheated, he never was even talking to anyone else at any point in our relationship or after it. This prediction is common and in my case it was inaccurate and caused a lot of damage. IP: Logged |
St@r2013 Knowflake Posts: 2259 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 16, 2014 02:58 AM
Your post made me sad @happyaskings because for the past year I've been getting so many readings and nothing has been happening and I've been telling myself to stop but I still kept getting them - that's the frustrating part - I should have just stopped... But yeah, like you said - had a few readers who told me I'd meet someone in August, then September then October then end of year but definitely this year and the year finished and a new cycle began - I'm suppose to meet him in May/June etc etc Same thing when I ask about getting a new job - I should have already been at the new job for months... right... All I can do now is just (again) write down the readers that didn't work for. Maybe this will help others and as for myself, I need to delete my Bitwine account.. The readers that NOTHING they said happened: - Aboutagirl - Melanie Simms - Psychic Love Master (I left the chat quickly when she told me my Ex will be back, I asked whether he's in a relationship with someone, she said no, well his FB profile pic says otherwise - I said thank you and left) - Psychic Alex Love Helper - STAY AWAY FROM HER - Beverley Ann - I was sure she'll be right cause she provided so much details - nothing. - Dee Clare - EffieK (effiek) - Psychic Maestro (maestro) - if he's a psychic I'm a shoe - Jennifer Doswell - the opposite to what she said happened - sent her a message she didn't even bother responding. - The Seers Voice - Jamey - Nice lady, although I think she blocked me - but nothing she said happened... - Celeste - Tarot Manhattan - Astrid Psychics that some predictions happened/kinda - Gaia - nothing major and not in the time frame she provided but yeah 2 things happened - her major predictions didn't - my Ex hasn't contacted me last Nov (and we're in March now) and no new job - Miss Toria - she was right for me with a few different things. I stopped using her when she told me I'd get the job and the next day I got a rejection email. - Goddess Serenity - I think I met the person she described but it wasn't as deep connection as she said - other than that nothing unfortunately happened. - Dorothy Holder - kinda happened - but majority of the stuff she said didn't happen. Time frames are yet to pass - Anna Yusim - I had a reading with her last year in October at the time I thought she was completely wrong but it could be she's the only person who was right - need to wait for June - Hermes - one prediction was absolutely wrong - saw me getting a job, I got rejection email the next day - other predictions the time frame is yet to come... - Ssandie camara - all the predictions are for a bit later (in about a month or 2 months) so I don't know but she gave me details about my current job and exs so that was cool.... and she's really generous with her time. - Wren Kennedy - again it hasn't reached the time yet but so difficult to understand this reader... - Tarot by Lisa - I doubt what she said will happen (don't really want it to happen..) My STAY AWAY from them list - readers who really shouldn't be allowed to read: - Psychic Alex Love Helper - Tricia - www.mystictricia.com - Psychic Maestro
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happyaskings Knowflake Posts: 1107 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 16, 2014 04:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by St@r2013: Your post made me sad @happyaskings because for the past year I've been getting so many readings and nothing has been happening and I've been telling myself to stop but I still kept getting them - that's the frustrating part - I should have just stopped...
Same here. I know I need to stop, I know the readings are now doing more harm than good. I just struggle with quitting. Getting all of that out felt good. I was googling psychic addiction this past week and I found a blog that a girl had been writing...it seemed like she was dealing with a lot of mental instability but she had been hanging on to an ex and a big part of it was because of all of the readings, they kept telling her he was coming back. She hadn't spoken to him in TWO YEARS. He had completely moved on with his life and had dated multiple people. She tried contacting him and he didn't respond and they told her it was because his feelings were so strong and that he was afraid. That really hit home to me. I haven't had a reading since Friday, I know its not a lot but considering I've been getting a reading pretty much every day for a month now, its something. I feel like the fog cleared a little this weekend. I've just been bored and depressed and alone and going to psychics and having them tell me that one of these guys is going to step up and love me or that someone new is just around the corner that is going to make all my dreams come true was pacifying my fears. I'm 23 and afraid that I'm never going to find anyone that loves me. I'm looking for someone that I think is good enough to tell me that I am good enough. Having psychics tell me that this wasn't going to happen initially helped, but eventually it just turned my fears/anxieties into a downward spiral. Something shifted in me today though, I'm not sure what but it kind of hit me that I don't care if these guys contact me or not anymore. I don't care if my "true love" comes along this summer or fall or blah blah blah. I hate feeling terrible all the time. I just want to be happy and I'm exhausted from letting my happiness depend on someone else. I hope this feeling sticks. I hope I can get real help and be happy and stop wasting my hard earned money on people who for all I know could just be making everything up. IP: Logged |