posted April 07, 2014 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
The best advice (which I keep repeating on here & I know is easier said then done) is to wait on no one. EVER. Go about living your life, make yourself happy & whole. Waiting puts us in a state of "attachment". We want to be detached!
Detachment also means that you trust the higher powers enough to know that you cannot be responsible for other people, so you let go of trying to control other people emotionally or otherwise.
The only ones we can control is ourselves. :-)

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posted April 07, 2014 07:20 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Oh, we could put that we're busy by default (if we step away from the comp. etc) - don't have to be in a chat to do so =)

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posted April 07, 2014 07:23 PM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
Stephanie Theresa gave me almost word for word the exact same reading as she gave me last July. Same exact reading she just took the time to type it out and slap a new date on it. Unbelievable. Not sure wether to laugh or cry.

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posted April 07, 2014 07:28 PM            

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Originally posted by lilacbreeze:
Wow. That's definitely cause for a refund. Were you under a different user name or the same one?

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posted April 08, 2014 04:12 AM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
Stephanie Theresa gave me almost word for word the exact same reading as she gave me last July. Same exact reading she just took the time to type it out and slap a new date on it. Unbelievable. Not sure wether to laugh or cry.

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That's awful. Did you call her out on it?
I had a copy n pasted reading too, I think I just ended the chat.

posted April 08, 2014 11:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
^ she was really off on both career n love for me. Guess she just couldn't connect.

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posted April 08, 2014 11:06 AM            

On the iPhone 5s/5c, you can block an ex for example and you won't get any texts, calls, missed call notifications or voicemail notifications. They're still able to leave you a voicemail but you won't get any notification of it so unless someone else left you a voicemail, say a friend, and you went to check it, only then would you see the voicemail from the ex.

posted April 08, 2014 11:58 AM            

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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
The best advice (which I keep repeating on here & I know is easier said then done) is to wait on no one. EVER. Go about living your life, make yourself happy & whole. Waiting puts us in a state of "attachment". We want to be detached!
Detachment also means that you trust the higher powers enough to know that you cannot be responsible for other people, so you let go of trying to control other people emotionally or otherwise.
The only ones we can control is ourselves. :-)

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Hey thanks

Yeah, but it's so difficult. Sometimes I can't help but to think about it, or sometimes my heart just ache so badly like idk what to do with it.

I'm learning though.

often I would pray to get the ease I want too.

posted April 08, 2014 12:36 PM            

I've cried like no tomorrow before. Haha.

posted April 08, 2014 03:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreamy Fish:
Hey SophiaFrank,

On the iPhone 5s/5c, you can block an ex for example and you won't get any texts, calls, missed call notifications or voicemail notifications. They're still able to leave you a voicemail but you won't get any notification of it so unless someone else left you a voicemail, say a friend, and you went to check it, only then would you see the voicemail from the ex.

Hope this helps!

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posted April 08, 2014 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by manques:

Hi Haplesschild*, u referring to Lidia?

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posted April 08, 2014 09:38 PM            

I've been reading your stories on here on your heartache and I just wanted to give you my two cents if you don't mind.

No amount of readings is going to give you any peace or serenity. Yes it hurts but it's only temporary.

Let me quickly tell you my sob story:

I was madly in love with a man I 'dated' for almost 7 years. I say 'dated' because even though we did everything a couple would do (dine out, hang out, travel) I never once met a friend; in 7 years I met his mother twice and the 2nd time I saw her was at his father's funeral. I never went to a family event much less an event where other people would be. I tried my hardest to give him everything and anything. I tried so hard for him to see me for the awesome woman that I am that I went bankrupt because of him. That's right: I PAID FOR EVERYTHING, VACATIONS, RESTAURANTS, CLOTHES, ACCESSORIES, SHOES, ELECTRONICS, FURNITURE, EVEN A DAMN MOPED AND A LAND ROVER! I put myself in debt to the amount of $300,000. He in return did nothing for me. He wasn't there for me when I needed him the most: when my uncle died whom I was close to, when I had surgery and was hospitalized for a week, when I almost got fired from my job, every dramatic family event, etc. I was always there for him yet he treated me like complete crap and I still stayed. I tried everything, spent countless hours reading books on 'how to get him back', 'how to get him to want you', etc. i spent hundreds if not thousands of $ on readings, compatibility charts, cleanings. You name it I did it. I spent countless hours in therapy on a weekly basis for almost a year because of what I endured from him.

Want to know how I finally cut the chord? After sitting at home one night going over my bankruptcy papers, counting every single cent I spent, read every single journal entry I wrote within the past 7 years, it finally hit me that he was never going to change, that I was his meal ticket, that I allowed him to treat me like garbage and I kept going back because I truly believed he could change, that he would change for me, that I would truly end up with him. Every reading told me that he would come back and finally commit and we'd get married. That was supposed to happen in 2012...I kicked him out of my life in July 2013 and I haven't looked back since.

Don't buy into the hype ladies and gents. You are all worth much more. Don't waste another single second of your time with someone who doesn't care an ounce for you. If you continue to get readings on the same topic, you're just going to confuse yourself even more. If you constantly ask the same question regarding the same individual, you should know the answer: they're not coming back. And if they did, they'll leave again and you'll be back to where you started which is getting more readings.

I may not know any of you but your stories are all very personal and mean something to me, I feel bad reading them all. Love can be good but it can also be deceitful and at that point it's just lust.

Of course I am no one to give advice on love but my last reading was September 2013. My last reading had nothing to do with the ex, it had to do more with me, where my life was going. I felt good afterwards because I didn't ask about my BK guy as I've come to call him or the last guy I dated after him who after dating me for 3 months flat out told me one day that he missed his ex and was going back to her; HE TOLD ME AS HE LAID IN MY BED! Sure my ego was crushed but I didn't feel like I lost all hope in love or in the possibility in finding a true and committed partnership like I did with BK guy. Of course this last guy realized he made a mistake and tried to come back on several occasions but I thought to myself: I refuse to be someone's 2nd choice; I want to be with someone who chose me 1st.

I thank the BK guy though for making me realize what I'm worth, what I deserve. I hated him for a really long time and it wasn't a good time for me at all. Here I was hating him every single second while he went on with his life, here I was all heart broken, losing sleep, losing weight because I wasn't eating, having a swollen face due to the many endless nights of crying and screaming. I was wasting away for someone who just didn't care as he only cared about himself. I met him when I was 25 and I thought I wasted my 'good' years on him! Well now at 34, I've never felt better! I know that 'the one for me' is out there so in the mean time, I'll just continue being ME and living my life. Being ME means training for the Chicago Marathon, taking Reiki Level 2, reading more self-help books, going back to school next month, doing activities on my own, things I kept putting off for BK guy, for someone else.

Please, take care of yourselves first. The dark clouds will pass and this isn't forever. Love wasn't meant to be easy and it's difficult to navigate. If you want to change, do it for you, not for anyone else. Be the person you've always dreamt about and do the things you've always wanted to. I'm sorry if I sound like a silly book on positivity but I'm telling you from experience: I thought BK guy ruined my life, I was literally a walking zombie, I hated my life, I hated my job. I sucked! Now that he's gone along with the fool who flip-flopped on me, I truly feel better and it shows on the outside. People close to me have told me that they've seen a change in me. It doesn't have to be a big change either, just cutting the chord was enough of a start for me.