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Topic: Have you guys ever used a psychic service?
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Dreamy Fish
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From: Living in my dreams
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 15, 2014 03:52 PM
  
Hi Sophia,He's rotting as we speak; definitely go to your doctor, get blood work done for any STD's including the HIV test. When the guy I dated after BK guy (one who left me for one of his many ex's) he flat out told me one day that he thinks he may have slept with between 30-50 women and he sees nothing wrong with one night stands. Needless to say, I made an appointment the following day. Do yourself a favor delete this POS. Here's the hard part though: actually deleting and forgetting. You can do this! You have plenty of support on this forum, no judgment period. Time for some very much needed spring cleaning my dear! Throw out, delete, block, hit ignore, cry, scream, write, whatever you need to do to force yourself to move on, you'll find a way. I seriously need to do some much needed work but it's hard not reading and replying to these posts! ARGH! We all get burnt by someone; key is to never let it happen again. Of course if you don't fully allow yourself to recover, you could relapse. Make a list of all of the pros and cons; you'd be surprised how many cons (both literally and figuratively of course!) and the list will surprise. Then make a list of what it is that you want and need in a partner. Remember, no one is perfect but then again, aiming for 75% of what's on your list is better than aiming for 0 and settling. Imagine what you would tell a friend if she was in this very same position; listen to that little voice from within. Trust yourself, you can do this and you'll recover. Eventually your wounds will heal but they may leave a scar and that's ok; those are just battle wounds! Lots of hugs from snowy Chicago! DF IP: Logged |
SandyShore
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posted April 15, 2014 03:52 PM
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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
It is amazing how many psychics just didn't see this at all and talk about rose colored glasses.
Remember in November we had that pact of limiting our readings  ? This is yet another incentive to save our $$$.
I've read with GS and Sandie from those you mentioned. Did Sandie say anything about the jail etc? I am wondering how accurate she was? I won't try GS again. From the accurate readers it seems you've got all the answers about that guy so don't get tempted once you recover from your shock to go and see him to seek answers. Just saying just in case because our mind sure plays tricks on us at times... IP: Logged |
St@r2013
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posted April 15, 2014 04:35 PM
@SophiaFrank - wow it's scary to see how many readers got the situation wrong... I believe we have many paths we can follow but not sensing the guy is involved with so many other women? that's not even a future prediction bur what was happening as you were asking about him... Wow... just wow... sucks you had to go through that! Glad the guy is away behind bars so at least no one else would be fooled by him, for now.
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FairyDust75
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posted April 15, 2014 04:36 PM
Is it possible that these readers just didnt see it coming? Our fates can change every day based on decisions we make and maybe his path took him down that road that maybe they couldn't see or only saw one possible outcome based on what was going on in that point in time. Did you have any idea what he was doing as far as selling drugs? Perhaps they were only going by what you told them and not really looking further. I don't know I'm just trying to put things in a different perspective. No reader guarantees anything. According to some I read with my guy and I should be living together by now on our way to marriage. However we haven't talked in 4 months so go figure. I'm just so sorry you are going through this. No one deserves this. At least now if you choose to have another reading perhaps you can pick someone that was correct for you instead. But give yourself time and certainly don't blame yourself for anything. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted April 16, 2014 08:14 AM
I was just looking back at my transcripts and sigh...Dorothy Holder and Hayley were honest with me. I just didn't want to believe it. Can not believe I hoped for something that was obviously not going to happen.Hermes was wrong. I have blocked ex for the past two months, so there's no way he'll get back in touch or travel back to see me. IP: Logged |
lilacbreeze
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posted April 16, 2014 12:50 PM
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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Is it possible that these readers just didnt see it coming?
I think free will does come into play - but definitely not to this magnitude. At the very very least, the readers should have felt that he was hiding some serious things from her. The fact that so few readers even saw a negative aspect to him / the outcome - just confirms that those who are just in it for the money.. or don't have any real talent at all... will just tell you what they think they want you to hear.
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lilacbreeze
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posted April 16, 2014 12:54 PM
I know how you feel! Hindsight is 20/20. I had a reading with Dorothy a long time ago - but her predictions are for this summer, so we'll see if that happens. Hermes, unfortunately, I'm not surprised about. Completely wrong about everything I asked about. quote:
Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I was just looking back at my transcripts and sigh...Dorothy Holder and Hayley were honest with me. I just didn't want to believe it. Can not believe I hoped for something that was obviously not going to happen.Hermes was wrong. I have blocked ex for the past two months, so there's no way he'll get back in touch or travel back to see me.
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SophiaFrank
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posted April 16, 2014 03:53 PM
Dreamy- you are so right. I have learned such a lesson. I am praying I don't have anything. My intuition told me early on but I ignored it...Hugs to you and thank you.Sandy- Sandie mentioned he would face a huge slap of karma in our last reading but she never mentioned jail. Sandie overall has been accurate for me. I will try and not seek validation. GS has been 60/40 for me and I am so surprised at Hermes because he had predictions come to pass however he said I would end up with this guy. Star- I would say 95% of the readers I read with told me what they fed me I wanted to hear Fairy- It is possible that the readers didn't see the jail time coming because I would only ask about his intentions or I would give two guys and see if they could read into the situation. However one in particular did see he would be in jail and for cocaine. He is now accusing me of betraying him because his girlfriend or the girl he wants to be with is saying that I called her and told her everything. Her and I had a conversation but she was doing most of the talking and I guess she hacked into his email and saw everything. Either she is trying to turn him against me (which is fine because I'm cutting him of) or he is lying about all the things she said about me. It is a complete utter mess. IP: Logged |
St@r2013
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posted April 16, 2014 04:09 PM
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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Is it possible that these readers just didnt see it coming? Our fates can change every day based on decisions we make and maybe his path took him down that road that maybe they couldn't see or only saw one possible outcome based on what was going on in that point in time.
They didn't see it coming so they're not very good - it's not that they didn't predict the future correct (at all!) but they weren't able to tell her that the guy is involved with drugs (illegal activity, destructive activity) and involved with many many women and is obviously not for her. I don't understand how they could have seen such a rosy picture when who in their right mind would want this guy had she known all the facts? And although I like to defend the psychics from time to time but in this case - they could have caused her real problem, getting involved deeply with this guy.... And if they really saw a rosy picture then they suck, seriously no other way to explain it because there's no way this could have turned out well ... IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted April 16, 2014 04:37 PM
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Originally posted by St@r2013:
They didn't see it coming so they're not very good - it's not that they didn't predict the future correct (at all!) but they weren't able to tell her that the guy is involved with drugs (illegal activity, destructive activity) and involved with many many women and is obviously not for her. I don't understand how they could have seen such a rosy picture when who in their right mind would want this guy had she known all the facts? And although I like to defend the psychics from time to time but in this case - they could have caused her real problem, getting involved deeply with this guy.... And if they really saw a rosy picture then they suck, seriously no other way to explain it because there's no way this could have turned out well ...
Seriously! This is why it's important to be wary of psychics with picture perfect outlook. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Always trust your gut, if you have to go to more than two psychics...you already know the probable answer!
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FairyDust75
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posted April 17, 2014 09:42 PM
So years ago I used to go on Astronet. I remember at night they had a chat room where you could go in and try to get a free reading. Anyway, there was a reader there who read me named Jedi. I just remember she was very accurate. She had predicted where I would work in the future and and that I would be there many years. Well I have to say she was dead on with it as I'm currently in that place she said I would work at and I've been there many years now. I only wish I could remember what she said about my love life lol. I wonder if Jedi is around anywhere. I wouldn't even know how to find her. Anyway, just somethin I was thinking of. IP: Logged |
St@r2013
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posted April 17, 2014 11:01 PM
@FairyDust, did you try google or contacting the site maybe? Predictions that actually happen are so uncommon (for me anyway...)I had another reading with Sandie and I can't deny that she has the gift - I just asked her - 'I want to ask you about a job opportunity whether I should take it or not' From that she could tell me that this opportunity involves relocation (correct), there's some dark haired guy involved (correct), I told her that maybe other people from work will join too - she saw 3 other people (correct) and she saw us sharing a place (we were discussing the possibility of sharing a place). She told me to go for it, but obviously now I'm a bit more hesitant because I don't know if it's just a rosy prediction - but I was amazed at the information she was able to give me just from my question (I didn't give her any other info only confirmed her information and I didn't give her my name or DOB). So, wow Sandie! As for this job opportunity I'll do another horary chart to make sure - horary brings no emotions - it's either yes or no...that's what I need.
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FairyDust75
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posted April 18, 2014 08:09 AM
I know the site is long gone. Ad for Jedi I haven't really tried to google her. I just figured it would be like looking for a needle in a haystack sort of thing. But maybe one of these days when I have nothing to do ill give it a shot and try and look for her. That's so great about Sandie! She is very good. I hope the job works out for you. I think if you want it you should take it no matter what any reader tells you though. But please let us know how it all works out for you. Good luck with it. IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
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From: somewhere in south and the east
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 19, 2014 05:17 AM
Does anyone have tried Robin Bluedragon? IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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posted April 19, 2014 05:52 AM
I've tried him before. He is very nice and generous with the time, especially if you ask for a flat rate. None of his predictions came to pass for me though. I haven't tried him in months and months now. Anyone ever try Siobhan? Tried her as well. Very nice but none of her contact predictions came through. Was just wondering is anyone had similar experiences. IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
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posted April 19, 2014 06:06 AM
Was he accurate in assessing situation? I actually don't really need predictions, just the present moment.What do you guys think of psychics that ask for birthdates? IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted April 19, 2014 06:25 AM
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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Was he accurate in assessing situation? I actually don't really need predictions, just the present moment.What do you guys think of psychics that ask for birthdates?
I would recommend white guide. She's blunt though- so be warned. She's usually spot on with the situations and people.. just not with career. Miss Janie is also good. Not too sure about how much is sugarcoated at this point. She asks for b'day.. I don't give it. Shy Owl. Recommended. Bennett is asleep right now.. grr.. http://www.psychicircle.com/ (they are close friends, but ridiculously spot on. They are usually my first port of call if they aren't asleep). I don't like it when they ask for b'days. Makes me feel like they have a transcript somewhere. IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
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posted April 19, 2014 06:40 AM
Miss Janie was very sympathetic but her reading was very positive. Normally it's a good thing, but I don't know lol I guess Im not used to positive readings at all.
I'm no longer trying psychics, since the last 3-4 said the same thing. At this time I'm just looking for a negative answer I guess, which is not a good way looking for a reading. IP: Logged |
St@r2013
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posted April 19, 2014 07:52 AM
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What do you guys think of psychics that ask for birthdates?[/B]
It worries me sometimes, because i think they quickly check which year I'm having and make "predictions" IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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posted April 19, 2014 08:23 AM
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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Was he accurate in assessing situation? I actually don't really need predictions, just the present moment.What do you guys think of psychics that ask for birthdates?
He was good at assessing the situation and telling me what was going on. He's pretty honest and I did like him. Give him a try. I'm so confused with readings I don't even know if I should try anymore. As of late they ALL say P is going to contact again but no one is sure when. I've had so many dates come and go with nothing. I truly don't know f I believe that he will anymore. It's been 4 months, why would he talk to me now? But everyone says contact again, and I've had some pretty good readers tell me that. So I don't know. I'm not waiting for it anymore but I just wish it would either happen or I'd meet someone else and get over it completely.
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St@r2013
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posted April 19, 2014 09:25 AM
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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
He was good at assessing the situation and telling me what was going on. He's pretty honest and I did like him. Give him a try. I'm so confused with readings I don't even know if I should try anymore. As of late they ALL say P is going to contact again but no one is sure when. I've had so many dates come and go with nothing. I truly don't know f I believe that he will anymore. It's been 4 months, why would he talk to me now? But everyone says contact again, and I've had some pretty good readers tell me that. So I don't know. I'm not waiting for it anymore but I just wish it would either happen or I'd meet someone else and get over it completely.
Fairy, would would happen if he does contact you? Would you want a relationship with someone who's been a douche and hasn't contacted you for 4 months? I've also been given predictions about Exs coming back into my life - hasn't happened... 3 years passed for one and 2 years for the other - absolutely no contact! I think at this stage it's the prediction that you hope will happen because you've invested so much energy into it - but in all honesty do you really feel that something good can happen if he does contact you? Why would you want him? I hope it's okay, me saying that - it's just that today I had a session to unblock my relationship blocks and one of those was my ex - finally feel like I'm ready for something new and I would want you to also aspire for a better relationship with someone who will deserve you! IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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posted April 19, 2014 09:36 AM
St@r, you are right. It's been 4 months so what would I hope to get out of it. For me I think I just need the closure. In some sense the knowing what happened. I KNOW it wasn't me, it was him. But I guess it's just the wondering of what could have been. The feeling like its done but not really. Does that make sense? And I guess it's partly too that I don't have much else going on so I end up being focused on it. When I'm busy and occupied I don't think about him. I know I need to get over it and chalk it up to something that just didnt work out. I don't know why I can't just say oh well and forget it. I was so close! I haven't had a paid reading in 2 weeks now which is good. I have had little readings done on here and I truly feel that those that have read for me here are more honest. Like the people that read for others tell
It like they see it. They aren't getting paid they do it out of kindness and have nothing to gain or lose by telling the truth. For example, I pay for a reading on bitwine and maybe the reader tells me something I don't want to hear. They may be too afraid to be honest because they don't want a negative review. Not that I would do that I NEVER have. But I could see how some sugarcoat instead of tell the truth. But here at least everyone is honest in what they see. For me I just feel like there are things with P that have to be resolved between us. I just want that final word or closure I guess. Do I sound like I'm crazy? IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
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posted April 19, 2014 09:54 AM
in my experience, there's never a final word of closure in relationships... I knew, I've been there many times. Closure is in the hands of ourselves. 4 months already a clear enough sign. Not saying that he wouldn't contact you, but even if he does, it wouldn't be an actual closure. there's never a perfect closure..... I find going to psychics and hearing positive/"he will contact you" actually prolong the pain, especially if you kept going back to other readers to confirm yet the event never actually came to pass... which is why i'm trying to just make peace with myself  despite the positive assessments (I don't care about prediction), the reality is that he's with someone else. Where's my self-respect? IP: Logged |
lilacbreeze
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posted April 19, 2014 10:05 AM
@Fairy - no, of course you don't sound crazy. You want some closure and that's completely understandable. However, in my experience - even if he does contact you, it's unlikely you'll receive the kind of closure that you're looking for. I hope you don't mind, but I'm going to suggest something that did work wonders for me. Write a letter / email - whichever you prefer. Don't send it - but just get all your hurt feelings, your questions, everything you've been thinking / wondering about out. Create your own closure. You're already saying that after 4 months of no contact, you can't imagine a positive outcome - so this is kind of a way of releasing your connection to him and giving yourself the closure you need. That because of this treatment etc. you no longer want this for yourself and are closing the door on that so that you can open yourself up to new possibilities.
This really helped me feel "at peace" and let me have the closure that I needed. IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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posted April 19, 2014 10:11 AM
Thanks everyone for your guidance. I do appreciate it. I'm working on it. I think lately I've been going for readings because I want to be told no he's gone no contact. It would be easier to hear that now. I guess that's why I haven't paid for a reading in two weeks. I just don't want to know anymore. Whatever will be will be I suppose. Contact or not life will go on. IP: Logged |
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