posted September 03, 2013 11:37 PM            

I purchased some domain names today and started writing stuff in my notebook that I will put on my light and love blog.

Sandie Camera-described my ruthless ex Jay and made a few predictions

1. i do get a move coming up... like i want to move to nicer surroundings and some kind of connection with water?? what is that about?

2. it came up as a new love .. and the only two men i have are him and J... but it feels like it would take a bit of time as he is a messed up bunny too.. not in the way j is but still a bit messed up...the good thing is that he is messed up due to past relationships not due to drink and drugs .. it feel nice even when you talk about him and everything i have here says it will blossom... im not sure if he is your forever guy... more like he is the bridge for now

^ ummm anyone care to help me understand..things will blossom but not my forever guy..not sure?

posted September 03, 2013 11:52 PM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
^Why though? I think this is another ~free will~ type of situation that I call BS on. Like, they even have the transcript how hard is it to be consistent with answers. I mean those are two completely opposite readings, it's like she could have been a totally different person. I think the "too many readings" excuse is just another cop out for "psychics" that can't keep on top of their game/aren't being honest when they have a hard time reading the energy.

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posted September 03, 2013 11:55 PM            

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Originally posted by zarea:

I'm surprised Jamey read for you repeatedly...She's pretty firm about not entertaining psychic addiction. I like the fact that she's not money hungry like so many others.

Now, it's true that the too-many readings can be an excuse for a poor reading. However, the way that Jamey explained it to me/her readers (a link that she sent after my first reading) is that the spirits give the psychic contradictory or different answers the more someone ask about the same question. maybe it's just another excuse as well. But as a "rule" I try not to go to the same psychic twice...when they're really good as in Jamey, Bev, GS, psychic reader as she worked for me, I've gone more than once. Actually not for Jamey as she wouldn't read for me more than once on the same issue...of course, I can't catch GS but really there's nothing more that she can tell me that she hasn't told me.
I like checking different readers because when differnt people say the same thing about the same questions sometimes word for word to the point that I asked myself if they were the same psychic, then I know that the predictions are valid or more likely to happen...
Anyway, i've been respecting my no-psychic rule for september so far...have no choice, i'm broke, but i've decided to invest my money in books as i used to, and soon new clothes.

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posted September 04, 2013 12:25 AM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
^ Yeah, I wasn't kidding when I said before that she was the only one I went to for a while. I think she caught on that I wasn't addicted to know the future, I truly NEEDED help and that is what I was looking for. She only turned me down once for a reading (that I can recall)...I was in a terrible relationship that had isolated me from pretty much everything else, my work situation was just as bad, my family also had tons of issues going on, my life was really in the gutter earlier this year and there were sometimes I would talk to her 4-5 times a week. A lot of times it was more counseling (something I admittedly needed) more than a reading and I don't know if she was always "tuned in" so to speak. Still, she helped me more than any one else (online or irl sadly) and it was weird the first couple weeks not talking to her because I just didn't need a reading anymore...

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posted September 04, 2013 12:34 AM            

My conviction now after so many readings is that there are really good and genuine psychics. and then there are the fake money hungry ones. I don't eliminate a reading as good just because things haven't unfolded as they said.

Actually, I've been thinking since most of us are on a break, that predictions seem to not happen because we're spending too much time focusing on them. Years ago when I saw a psychic in Cuba (a woman from santeria) and later had a tarot reading in Venezuela, both readers described my encounter with ex to a T, the woman in Cuba described his appearance in great detail...Of course during those years, I wasn't hooked on readings, I also wasn't so interested in finding out who I'll fall in love with, have a meaningful though f-ed up relationship with, I put them in the back on my mind and continued living. Often times, and still today, in hindsight I remember these readings and am amazed at how clear they were...
So the moral of the story is that too many readings delay things if only from a perception standpoint, time stands still because we're waiting and not living...more reasons to take a step back, live, love, continue writing on this thread as it's great to share with others what I'm going through and I think the same is true for many, and whatever will be will be...

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
It's not an excuse..try it yourself. Do a Tarot reading and ask the same question every day. Your guides will get tired and will just give you the answer that you want to hear.

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posted September 04, 2013 01:10 AM            

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Originally posted by lessica:
My question I had only asked it before once and that was 20 days earlier.

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posted September 04, 2013 01:10 AM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Try reading for yourself and asking the same question - tell me whether it changes or not . lol. You shouldn't ask the same question repeatedly. I'm not sure about "psychics", but with the cards it is this way. Don't ask me how/why .. ask the universe

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Thats the thing tho, when I was reading for myself the outcome was more or less the same. I would even get the same cards coming up over and over. I really didn't like the answer I was getting at the time so I kept asking but to no avail.

posted September 04, 2013 01:12 AM            

Jamey refused to read with me a while back and told me I needed to slow up on readings. (She was right, at that time I was on a rampage) I respect her for being honest. Sandie also gave me alot of extra time during the reading I had with her.

posted September 04, 2013 01:15 AM            

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Originally posted by zarea:

My conviction now after so many readings is that there are really good and genuine psychics. and then there are the fake money hungry ones. I don't eliminate a reading as good just because things haven't unfolded as they said.

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posted September 04, 2013 01:15 AM            

I agree with everything you say. I love readers that have strong spiritual backgrounds and beliefs like santeria, or whatever -- they are usually very accurate! I want to go see the first psychic card reading I went to in the US again. I went last year after not going to him since I was 17 and he was spot on with everything. This time I'll make sure to ask the right questions though! lol..

He predicted the father of my kids, told me his name (well his brother's name haha), how we were going to have a baby, etc..and everything unfolded as he stated it. He is amazing..and like you at the time I was also not hooked on readings/psychics either, but then again that was my first reading .

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Originally posted by zarea:
lol Empress...I'm not really into proving this to be true or not. I was providing a different perspective to Happyasking. typical me, i leave the door opened to possibilities which is why i wrote that it may be a ruse.

My conviction now after so many readings is that there are really good and genuine psychics. and then there are the fake money hungry ones. I don't eliminate a reading as good just because things haven't unfolded as they said.

Actually, I've been thinking since most of us are on a break, that predictions seem to not happen because we're spending too much time focusing on them. Years ago when I saw a psychic in Cuba (a woman from santeria) and later had a tarot reading in Venezuela, both readers described my encounter with ex to a T, the woman in Cuba described his appearance in great detail...Of course during those years, I wasn't hooked on readings, I also wasn't so interested in finding out who I'll fall in love with, have a meaningful though f-ed up relationship with, I put them in the back on my mind and continued living. Often times, and still today, in hindsight I remember these readings and am amazed at how clear they were...
So the moral of the story is that too many readings delay things if only from a perception standpoint, time stands still because we're waiting and not living...more reasons to take a step back, live, love, continue writing on this thread as it's great to share with others what I'm going through and I think the same is true for many, and whatever will be will be...

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posted September 04, 2013 01:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
lol Empress

Question for all of you guys, do you think psychics, tarot readers or clairvoyants and what not are able to tell you about how to go in obtaining something? Like what steps to take, I remember before I got a reading with GS I would frequent her site trying to catch her and she would put on her intro you know those orange letters..i can guide you in the right direction the steps to take to make the outcome favorable to you. SO that kinda has been on my mind lately..do you think they can tell you how to go about something to obtain it? But what if whatever you want is not meant to be? how can they still say guide you as to what steps to take?

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posted September 04, 2013 01:17 AM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
Thats the thing tho, when I was reading for myself the outcome was more or less the same. I would even get the same cards coming up over and over. I really didn't like the answer I was getting at the time so I kept asking but to no avail.

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posted September 04, 2013 01:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
lol Empress

Question for all of you guys, do you think psychics, tarot readers or clairvoyants and what not are able to tell you about how to go in obtaining something? Like what steps to take, I remember before I got a reading with GS I would frequent her site trying to catch her and she would put on her intro you know those orange letters..i can guide you in the right direction the steps to take to make the outcome favorable to you. SO that kinda has been on my mind lately..do you think they can tell you how to go about something to obtain it? But what if whatever you want is not meant to be? how can they still say guide you as to what steps to take?

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posted September 04, 2013 01:26 AM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
Thats the thing tho, when I was reading for myself the outcome was more or less the same. I would even get the same cards coming up over and over. I really didn't like the answer I was getting at the time so I kept asking but to no avail.

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posted September 04, 2013 01:26 AM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
^Is Biddy good?

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I believe she is, yes. She is very honest..every time I went with her she always saw the bad things in my relationship with the ex. I didn't want to believe her at times because he would act so differently in front of me, so I was always down with her reading because it was never positive news but she was right every time. Just look at us now

posted September 04, 2013 01:26 AM            

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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
Ohhhh I know. GS told me if I wanted a certain guy I need to post a pic once a week via social media, ignore text, ignore calls and go out once a week also....I believe her exact words were this will help things manifest quickly...however...if I don't do these things I wonder if they won't at all. I am emotionally exhausted with "M" and my other ex also.

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posted September 04, 2013 01:43 AM              

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
I stopped going to Biddy though even though she's good. She got WAY TOO EXPENSIVE...plus she doesn't really make "predictions" it's more like what she sees (a picture of what she sees) and lots of insight/advice. But she is accurate..actually the outcome of the reading (she uses spreads) does happen though.

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@Sophia yes that does sound like too much work, :-/ and I wonder too hmm do you want to follow her suggestion?

posted September 04, 2013 02:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
@Sophia yes that does sound like too much work, :-/ and I wonder too hmm do you want to follow her suggestion?

@Empress
Would you happen to have the link so I can read up on her, I don't want a reading now but I am curious...I want something for myself but I am not sure on how to go about it, I don't want it now but later on yes definitely.

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