posted August 05, 2012 12:46 PM            

I am very artistic, creative and passionate and am an aspiring singer/guitarist. I feel that I really need to be with someone who shares that with me. It seems from my chart that my love life may not be exactly easy but I also think that anything worth having isn't easy...I've had somewhat of a hard life and am unsure if I would be able to relate to someone who has had it easy. I have never been in a long term relationship and am very picky about choosing partners because I would rather be single than be in a relationship that is co-dependent or unhealthy. When I was 18 I decided that I had to learn to be happy with myself before I could be in a fulfilling relationship and for the past 6 years that's what I've been focusing on- being a healthy, happy person...there's no doubt that I'm succeeding but I will admit that it gets lonely sometimes.

What does my chart say about my love life? Perhaps this sounds cliche but I really think that until I am back in school studying my passion and living my dream I probably won't find anyone suitable for me.

Any thoughts would be much appreciated. Thank you

posted August 06, 2012 11:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Don't worry too much about your Venus/Mars square as the orb is rather wide, this aspect shouldn't dominate your love life.

You have some lovely aspects in terms of marriage. Your 7th house of marriage is ruled by Jupiter, and your natal Jupiter makes a nice sextile to your Venus, so you should be able to have a happy marriage. You also have Saturn on your descendant, so even though you might experience delays in getting married, you will eventually marry someone who is older and quite serious minded.

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posted August 06, 2012 11:50 PM            

I was curious, how can you tell what planet rules a particular house? I was under the impression that my 7th house was most likely ruled by saturn. I can't see why it's ruled by jupiter, could someone please explain this to me?

posted August 07, 2012 11:23 PM            

Aries - mars
Taurus - venus
Gemini - mercury
Leo - sun
Virgo - mercury
Libra - venus
Scorpio - pluto
Saggi - jupiter
Capricorn - saturn
Aqua - uranus
Pisces - neptune

posted August 08, 2012 01:36 AM            

it is your Venus square Pluto that is part of a fixed tsquare with moon that you should be worried about

My brother has Venus sq Pluto. Power games, tendency to manipulate whoever is close to you, distance manipulation. Add moon to this that represents your organic needs - opposing Venus this means that you are deep down afraid of rejection and very insecure, therefore prefer to be alone since it is the best way of avoiding it.

self work is defo what you need and I'm not surprised you say you are artistic, since all the tension goes to Neptune. But your real solace is not artistic practices. Rather it is the energy of Jupiter, as it acts as a much more Powerful force that releases this tension. On top of all your Venus is in the house of Jupiter/Sag, complementing 7th house in Sag as someone remarked previously.

posted August 09, 2012 06:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Luminosity:
Yes, I agree that was very insightful and true. I am very scared of rejection and of getting hurt and my walls are virtually impenetrable! It's interesting that you say that I won't find solace in art...I have found that to be true as well. I struggle to try to find some solace in it and it does help but I notice that socializing and meeting people is usually what makes me feel better. Is this what you mean by jupiter energy? If I were to try to access that jupiter energy what are some good things that I could do?

Thank you for all your replies
Luminosity

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posted August 11, 2012 11:14 AM            

I'm new to astrology and I think it's amazing what you can read from the chart of someone you don't even know!

posted August 11, 2012 11:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Luminosity:
Hey, thank you for your advice. I absolutely LOVE to travel but I haven't in a few years. It makes me feel restless when I don't but I'm saving up for school. Being in school is also something that I really miss. I guess I just have to get through this period as best as I can. I like playing jazz, psychedelic rock, blues...all generes that revolve around improvisation

I'm new to astrology and I think it's amazing what you can read from the chart of someone you don't even know!

Thanks again
Rebecca

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Welc

Sag and improvisation.... Interesting..... Intuitively I can establish a connection. Wishin you luck

posted August 11, 2012 03:17 PM            

I am trying to generate a birthday list for you.

Please recheck your entry, here, in a few days to see my results.

posted August 14, 2012 01:31 PM            

Based on Synastry Astrology (Relationships) and your DOB, SD 106.88 w X, the following birthdates may suit you well.

Astrologically speaking, you are a difficult person to match with others. But, you are not alone, because most individuals are difficult to match well with others via Synastry Astrology calculations.

You may notice a large number of years or gaps between your dates; this is because the matches are base on Astrology aspects. These aspects come and go through a repetitive cycle. It takes time for strong aspect combinations to form with your natal aspects and the faster moving planets fall in and out of favorable aspects quickly, this is why you will see gaps between many dates and why the time span is so large.
Please note: 0117.60 = birthdate January 17, 1960

0117.60
0118.60
0119.60
0120.60
0121.60
0123.60
0124.60
0126.60
0127.60
0323.60
0811.60
0812.60
1207.62
0122.63
0123.63
0126.63
1118.63
0410.65
0412.65
0902.65
0903.65
1026.65
1027.65
1028.65
0207.66
0613.66
0903.66
0904.66
0924.66
0925.66
0308.67
0310.67
0313.67
0810.68
0410.69
0411.69
0413.69
0424.69
0504.69
0513.69
0829.69
0830.69
1205.69

0630.72
0703.72
0704.72
1118.72
0122.73
0528.73
0709.74
0712.74
0713.74
0307.75
0308.75
0309.75
0310.75
0701.75
0702.75
0703.75
0908.75
0910.75
0911.75
0912.75
0913.75
0914.75
0915.75
0916.75
0917.75
0919.75
1102.79
1208.79
1210.79
1211.79
1214.79
1215.79
1217.79
1218.79
1224.79
1227.79

0105.80
0107.80
0109.80
0111.80
0123.80
0227.80
0228.80
0905.80
0525.81
0902.81
0906.81
0907.81
1205.82
1207.82
1220.85
1223.85
1229.85
1230.85
0410.86
1215.86
0226.87
0426.87
0504.87
0505.87
0506.87
0709.87
0711.87
0811.87
0919.87
1124.87
1207.87
1209.87
1210.87
0123.88
0124.88
0228.88
0301.88
0615.88
0410.89
0412.89
0413.89
0627.89

0308.91
0310.91
0311.91
0313.91
1207.91
1208.91
1209.91
1211.91
1213.91
1215.91
1216.91

Disclaimer:
Astrology is nothing more than statistics. It is a tool that suggest the potential in human dynamics. It is a method of putting into words, the possible potentials that a person may have as an individual or, on how two or more individuals may interact with each other - with the operative word being "may". The results for any given person or persons will never be one hundred percent good and whatever results are given, do not represent an absolute given. The dates given above are derived from Synastry Astrology (relationship) calculations using 5 degree orbs and pertain to the person the dates were researched for. No guarantees are given or implied, as to the accuracy of results given and or to the potential failures and or successes the chart and aspect readings suggest. No other astrological resource can produce a Synastry birthdate list in this manner.

Data Sources:
The American Ephemeris at "Noon" were used. The Moon moves approximately 12 degrees per day. Using a "Noon" Moon ephemeris cuts the movement in half, this allows for the best possible results with the Moon aspects when not knowing or using the exact time and place, of birthdate prospects. The primary Synastry aspect interpretations were acquired from "Do It Yourself Relationship Astrology" by Lyn Birkbeck 1999.

How to Apply Your List:
In the real World, your family values, mindset and, social influences tend to dictate your actions and interactions with others. It is quite possible to meet two or more people with the same birthdates that are provided above. But how these people influence you will depend on your mindset.

People with these birthdates come in all colors, gender, intellect, shapes, sizes, handicaps, religious beliefs and, sexual preferences. So when trying to locate people with these dates - temper your expectations and treat each new person as a fresh new beginning. Keep in mind, that you are working from your list of possibilities, but the people you are researching do not have a list of any sort and will not be looking at you in the same light. So keep your excitement in check and carefully work towards the results you hope to have. Also, keep in mind that having this list will not insure that each person researched will be law abiding, healthy, wealthy, and or honest. This information will not protect you against Aids or STDs. If you are looking for a love relationship, then it may be quite possible to find a suitable selection from your list. But, there is much much more here than just a love potential list, the list also represents some of the finest potentials for solid friendships, study partners and working companions best suited to you. There are plenty of good people around for you to know who are not part of this list. But, astrologically speaking, you would be very wise indeed, to use this list as a reference to help identify quality people for you to know, after you have found the love of your life.

Best of Luck!

Slowpoke

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f

http://www.astrologyfiles.com/free-horoscope-matching/

Slowpoke's Aspects To Live For
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/202766.html

Slowpoke's: Synastry Aspects - Void of Planet Linkages
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/214576.html

The Transiting Sun makes favorable aspects to SD 106.88 natal planets on the following dates:
Note: 605 = June 05, of any given year.

605 thru 610

828 thru 912

1203 thru 1212