posted September 09, 2012 08:33 PM            

You have the love stellium. Composite Sun semisquare venus and sun conjunct mercury. The semisquare here is interpreted the same as the conjunction so it's as if it were a stellium.
The stellium is conjunct mars, denoting much energy, enthusiasm, and passion is highlighted when you come together. Because you didn't provide your birth time, I can't tell how compatible you really are beyond this. You could either have moon conjunct uranus in synastry which is bad and denotes instability and on and off feelings, or you could have DW moon-neptune aspects which is very lovely, all depending on your birth time. The major problem shown is composite moon square uranus, which means that you do not see each other as often as you would like, and for some reason you cannot seem to stay in constant contact with each other for very long. There are long periods inbetween the times that you contact each other. You also have mercury square saturn in composite which means you stay quiet and don't tell each other important details about things, assuming the other person understands. In this way, many misunderstandings occur between you. Also, the guy criticizes and corrects you, interrupting you a when you talk a lot of times. Without birth time, I cannot be sure, since a possible moon conjunct uranus would be disastrous in hopes of a long-term relationship, especially with that composite moon square uranus also in place, but the love stellium is so strong an indication of love that you could overcome it. It's selfless love, one where each person puts the others' feelings before their own, and always forgives. It would be difficult for either of you to turn against each other. Even after hurting each other a lot, you would still forgive each other in your heart of hearts, even if you ever choose to part ways, there would be no real hostile feelings.

posted September 09, 2012 08:58 PM            

Okay, Very tight Love stellium conjunct pluto, trine mars and neptune

Dear, I am so sorry to see such a beautiful composite go to waste because of bad synastry.

In this relationship you feel very liberated, very happy. Your life together may be a little disorganized, but it's never boring. You like going on adventures and you feel the zest for life together very strongly. You also cannot be depressed around each other for long. Play and humor is a vital part of this relationship and you encourage your independence, ensuring that this will be a very libertating and enjoyable relationship for both of you.

You love each other very much and sexual attraction between you is also very strong. Unfortunately with moon conjunct mars, mercury square mars and mercury square ascendant you two have the tendency to argue, often over inconsequential things. With the love stellium in place, it is likely that you suppress your urge to argue and try to keep the peace at all costs, and then eventually an argument erupts when you can't take the holding in any longer. There is also a problem of sexual feelings coming and going which is very annoying. Even though the attraction is strong it seems to come in waves.

You have a lovely composite indicating a relationship that will change your life! You are intoxicated with each other. It will be a shame if you cannot overcome the arguments between you.

The presence of a Sun-Moon DW in synastry along with this love stellium conjunct pluto and trine neptune and mars in composite shows that you feel you complete with each other, like you balance each other out and fit together like pieces of a puzzle. Like I said, it would be a shame if you couldn't resolve your problems.

Sun Mutually Aspects Moon

The two of you are drawn to each other like magnets, and you may find that you keep bumping into each other even if you are not trying to. If you are not married yet, then there is a good chance that you will in the future because the attractions between you are extremely powerful. You understand and appreciate each other to an exceedingly high degree, and you are likely to have felt an instant connection when you first met each other.

Also denote the description for the following aspect in synastry:

Him's Venus square Her's Saturn orb 0° 6'

This relationship may very well lead to marriage, but there are some major negative tendencies that you both need to try to avoid. The proclivity to marriage stems from the strong sense of commitment, reliability, trustworthiness, faithfulness, and stability that this relationship offers. You both feel that you can count on each other and dedicate your lives to each other. However, this stable, reliable relationship can easily become boring, unexciting, and downright cold over time. Him, in particular, is likely to feel stifled by the relationship. Him may feel neglected, unloved, and unappreciated. Your tastes and interests are often different and you sometimes simply don't connect with each other on an emotional level. To prevent this relationship from drying up, you both must maintain your involvement in activities that inspire and uplift you, and maintain your friendships, hobbies, and entertainment you love - even when your partner does not share your enthusiasm for these activities.

NOTE: I put the older person as the guy.

I do hope you are able to put the arguments behind since this relationship is likely to be one of the most intense of your lives thanks to the love stellium being tight and conjunct pluto, and trine neptune.

posted September 09, 2012 09:09 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
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You guys have composite venus trine pluto, pretty much the strongest composite aspect imo.

You are both strongly mutually attracted and feel so so in love. unfortunately, it is hot and cold and your feelings, though they don't necessarily fluctuate, it is very love/hate..so it is on and off and you probably break up and get back together again all the time (even though both your feelings are strong). You have an easy time communicating, but are not necessarily open with each other. lots of misunderstandings arguments and the like. At least you joke around easily and have mental chemistry. But again, very love/hate. it is hard to feel that your relationship is stable. it is more shocking and in ur face than you would like and very love hate. Sorry.

Either way, this relationship will be intense, healing, and will touch your depths.

Composite Venus Trine Pluto

The depth of love which you will be able to experience with one another will have a transformative, healing effect on both of you. Through your relationship, you'll realise the power of love to change lives and mend the broken places within you both. This certainly is part of the purpose of your being together. Even if other aspects of your relationship are difficult or frustrating, the intensity of your feelings for one another and your desire to be together will be very strong. In fact, it would be very difficult indeed for you to let go of one another.

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posted September 09, 2012 09:22 PM            

The major reason for your attraction to each other is composite sun square pluto and composite moon conjunct pluto as well as venus sextile pluto.

There are strong elements of saturn and pluto here, but because venus, loving aspects to the moon and sun, and more positive neptune and jupiter aspects are lacking, this relationship will feel like something is seriously missing.

Him's Sun in Leo and Her's Sun in Cancer

Both of you take life very personally, probably more personally than you realize. Your feelings and your pride are easily wounded by criticism or lack of appreciation from the people you care about. There can be an unusually warm loving bond between you, though your temperaments are quite different. Him is very proud and wants recognition, appreciation, respect, and love from a partner. Her wants to be needed and desires sympathy, tenderness, and emotional support from a partner. Him has difficulty accepting and expressing needs, sadness, or weakness, and is uncomfortable when Her expresses doubts, insecurities, weaknesses, or moodiness.

Him is the more dominant of the two of you and is likely to take the lead in your relationship - which is fine with Her, who has no need to be on top.

Him's Moon in Libra and Her's Moon in Scorpio

Him is friendly, sociable, and agreeable, with a gracious, personable manner that others find very congenial. Him enjoys people and wants so much to be liked and to be surrounded with pleasantness that Him often avoids confronting people and dealing with anger and conflict in personal relationships. Her, on the other hand, has a quiet disposition that masks much emotional complexity and sensitivity. Light, superficial social interaction doesn't interest Her at all, and, in fact, frequently makes Her feel separate and lonely.

Her feels a whole range of powerful emotions - desire, jealousy, rage, fierce loving attachments or intense loathing - and Her cannot live without relating on a very deep, intimate level, which often includes conflict and confrontation. In fact, if things become too easy and mellow, Her will (consciously or unconsciously) provoke some trouble in a relationship. Her seems to thrive on emotional drama and intensity, while Him very much prefers harmony, sweetness, and peace. Her is drawn to the hidden, dark, mysterious side of life and of people, while Him focuses on the light and good in others. Generally Him accepts people as they appear to be, while Her probes and analyzes and is more suspicious. Also, Her can be manipulative and controlling, and may be subtly dominating in this relationship.

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He is very turned on by you as well as obsessed with you his moon trines your mars and conjuncts your pluto. You both feel mesmerized by each other and fall into a state of dreamy romance. However, the relationship is unstable, as things always seem to get in the way of your plans. One of you feels like going out while the other feels like staying in, one of you may be in a very sexual or romantic mood while the other will not feel like it, and so on.

There is also quite a serious and probing side to the relationship. "You will both be changed, even transformed, if you have the courage to confront the difficulties that arise between you, though you may feel at times that it is quite a struggle. Facing the dark, painful, or serious side of life is a focus in your relationship. Work, rather than play or skimming along on the surface of life, is emphasized and this may be inner, psychological 'work' or some all-consuming personal ambition."
as well as a very safe secure side, which may feel too stifling at times. You must be careful not to act like a parent towards him. You are good at providing stability and support, yet are also restricting, disciplining, or criticizing of his supposed, what you term, "emotional, childish needs," which everyone has. Too serious and pessimistic a tone may pervade the relationship all too often, especially as time goes on. However, since you do have moon conjunct jupiter in synastry, you do thankfully have fun together as well!

Overall, this relationship is obsessive. But not healthy. And certainly not loving, and not true love. You will feel more struggle than you would care to in this relationship. It's not worth it and will not end well. You will soon find out it isn't love at all and that this person doesn't consider your needs as he should.

posted September 09, 2012 09:33 PM            

I was wondering if you would be willing to do a synastry or composite reading for me? I know you already are doing some for a lot of people so its ok if you say no. If yes, I could post the aspects

posted September 09, 2012 10:02 PM            

I was only confused about a point you made about it being obsessive. Am I the obsessive one or he or both? And you're basically saying that the obsession is what we mistook for love. Obsession aside, he just doesn't care for me the way he should right?

All this sounds perfectly accurate.
While we were in the high, I don't think either of us felt as though anything was missing, but certainly when problems cropped up, we just never saw eye to eye.

Sigh. I hate that I have to go out and "try again" to find true love with some stranger.

posted September 09, 2012 10:06 PM            

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I do enjoy helping people with their relationship compatibility interpretations but as much as i want to do it for free on the forum, and i used to do it all the time, i think it would be more fair if i got paid a little in return bc it is a bit of work in the end. The price i ask is very low an amount, because I want to make sure anyone can get a reading! I'm not trying to spam the forum lol but I just feel it's only fair when...the link is obviously in my signature.

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Its ok I totally understand you

The thing is I have gotten probably 10 synastry readings of this relationship before so I don't know if I really need another one.

posted September 10, 2012 03:48 AM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Its ok I totally understand you

The thing is I have gotten probably 10 synastry readings of this relationship before so I don't know if I really need another one.

With the composite though, he doesn't know his birth time so that won't really help now will it lol

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ok sweetie, it sounds like you've been struggling quite a lot with the relationship if you've had that many readings done. I'm sorry to hear you've been going through so much difficulty. I'll take a look as well. Post the birth info here then u can delete it later tonight.

About birth time...the only thing that sometimes changes drastically are moon and asc aspects in synastry and Double whammies. Bad DW's and bad moon aspects can seriously hinder a relationship while good ones can seriously help it. But, these moon aspects only change this drastically when birth time is unknown for both people. Even still, a lot can still be told from the composite chart which doesnt change according to birth time...Only thing that changes is maybe one or two moon aspects, and of course house placements which i dont ever really look at anyway unless it's the 7th or 6th house. (one is the best to have imo, the other is the worst to have), also 1st house composite planets since they greatly define the relationship.

posted September 10, 2012 04:04 AM            

Am I the obsessive one or he or both? You were both obsessed, but he was more obsessed with you. He chased. It's not to say you didn't have strong feelings in return. He just was the one who chased.

And you're basically saying that the obsession is what we mistook for love.
Yes, exactly what I'm saying.
Some relationships are obsessive but have love, but this one didn't. It's hard to compromise, accept each other as you are, consider each others' needs as you should, have an unspoken understanding between you where you don't have to explain ourselves etc.

Obsession aside, he just doesn't care for me the way he should right?
No. He doesn't put your needs first. Obsession aside, it's not true love and so you will not feel very loved by him in the end.

You are welcome, dear. I'm sure someone so cordial and sweet will have no problems finding love again. I wish we had a way to bring the people who were compatible with us to cross paths with us, huh.

posted September 10, 2012 04:09 AM            

Novermbermuse, if you see this, you can ask for a reading at any point in time

For now I am going to do cherful24 as well, since i've only done 4 readings in total.

posted September 10, 2012 05:23 AM            

Unfortunately this seems like a setup for unrequited love. Your moon is conjunct his pluto meaning you're obsessed with him. Your mars square his venus meaning you come on too strong and aggressive in your attraction to him. Your saturn conjunct his sun and mercury meaning he feels repressed by you, and also you interrupt him often when he talks and try to correct him and you also tend to ignore or judge him in general when he talks. A composite love stellium conjunct saturn, meaning the atmosphere of the relationship is restrictive even though you guys are friends. Composite sun semisquare mars denoting arguments. The sole good thing going for this relationship is: DW venus-mars aspects and venus conjunct mars in synstry. This probably speaks to the attraction on your side. But with all the other negative aspects occurring, I can't see him feeling the same way.

Not good, not good.
Best to keep away from this one.

A good description of the entire relationship:

His Sun conjunct her Saturn
One strong factor that attracted you to each other (perhaps unconsciously) is the feeling that you can have a deep, stable, permanent relationship and settle down together, facing life's responsibilities in a mature way, tackling challenges together such as raising children, becoming financially secure, etc. These concerns can gradually cause your relationship to become too absorbed with "serious" matters, causing both of you to feel limited and stifled by the relationship. her has a strong tendency to criticize and judge him's actions, sometimes accurately and sometimes unjustly. her should guard against this tendency to dampen him's enthusiasm, and him needs to avoid being overly sensitive to her's suggestions and criticisms. her's tendency to dominate, control, or even repress him makes him feel resentful at times, and him may feel lowered vitality and self-confidence after being with her for a long time. You must make room for lightness and play, or you both will feel burdened by the tone that is set between you.

Some bonus aspect descriptions from grupovenus.com

Venus Mutually Aspects Mars

Romance! In a word, that summarizes the quality of your relationship. If you find each other physically attractive, then it is almost inevitable that a irresistibly passionate love affair will develop. Even if the physical attraction is not great, you will find yourselves strongly attracted to each other anyway. At times you will feel madly in love with each other, and unable to stay away from each other. Intense desire for each other at times can be so strong that any propensity towards jealousy and possessiveness will be brought out. So although the romantic and sexual intensity is exciting and fulfilling, it may also be stormy at times.

Him's Mars conjunct Her's Venus orb 0° 15'

The romantic and sexual attraction between you is almost irresistible. This relationship is one that was probably 'more than just friends' from the start. The intensity of your feelings for one another is unlikely to fade over time, and you find much fulfillment in your love for each other.

Him's Pluto conjunct Her's Moon orb 2° 28'

Her's emotional responses to Him are very intense. If Him is physically attractive to Her, then the attractive power of Him over Her is extremely powerful. However, the attraction tends to have a love/hate quality to it, and you feel drawn to each other, but also wary and distrustful of each other. It is likely that you feel both drawn to each other and repulsed by each other at the same time! The emotional response to each other is intense and complex, and the ultimate outcome of this deep, complex emotional tie is difficult to predict, but one thing is certain: this is not a lukewarm relationship and you 'get under each other's skin', evoking intense feelings from each other. Her can easily become obsessed with Him!

Him's Venus square Her's Mars orb 1° 43'

This is likely to be a stormy and fiery relationship. The romantic attraction between you is very strong, but your feelings are often not in tune with each other. One of you (typically Her but sometimes Him) may feel sexually aroused by the other and consequently be too aggressive in approach, while the other person feels great love and affection, but is not feeling as sexually attracted. Jealousy and possessiveness are also likely. Feelings can swing back and forth and you may not realize how much you love each other until you are away from each other.

posted September 10, 2012 09:53 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Hmm....looks like lilithpluto decided to give her spot away bc she never came back.
I also never wrote down novermbermuse's info, not noticing that lilithpluto hadnt posted her info.

Novermbermuse, if you see this, you can ask for a reading at any point in time

For now I am going to do cherful24 as well, since i've only done 4 readings in total.

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posted September 10, 2012 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
ok sweetie, it sounds like you've been struggling quite a lot with the relationship if you've had that many readings done. I'm sorry to hear you've been going through so much difficulty. I'll take a look as well. Post the birth info here then u can delete it later tonight.

About birth time...the only thing that sometimes changes drastically are moon and asc aspects in synastry and Double whammies. Bad DW's and bad moon aspects can seriously hinder a relationship while good ones can seriously help it. But, these moon aspects only change this drastically when birth time is unknown for both people. Even still, a lot can still be told from the composite chart which doesnt change according to birth time...Only thing that changes is maybe one or two moon aspects, and of course house placements which i dont ever really look at anyway unless it's the 7th or 6th house. (one is the best to have imo, the other is the worst to have), also 1st house composite planets since they greatly define the relationship.

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posted September 10, 2012 02:50 PM            

In general, though, and not in your case..
About birth time...the only thing that sometimes changes drastically are moon and asc aspects in synastry as well as Double whammies. Bad DW's and bad moon aspects can seriously hinder a relationship while good ones can seriously help it. But, these moon aspects only change this drastically when birth time is unknown for BOTH people. Even still, a lot can still be told from the composite chart which doesnt change according to birth time...Only thing that changes is maybe one or two moon aspects, and of course house placements which i dont ever really look at anyway unless it's the 7th or 6th house. (one is the best to have imo, the other is the worst to have), also 1st house composite planets since they greatly define the relationship.

posted September 10, 2012 03:18 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I'm on asc linbrasagsun. I'm always on at this time right now. Basically 3PM in the United States

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posted September 10, 2012 04:04 PM            

Basically, this is really simple and straightforward. In the relatinoship, the feelings are strong. You have a love stellium conjunct uranus with venus on the outside of the stellium conjunct pluto. You love each other. However, you tend to kidding and goading each other, and you also are reckless together and take foolish risks for no reason. A jolly and free/rebellious atmosphere is the theme here, but you take foolish risks together and are wasteful when you get together. Also, if you live together, one of you will want an open relationship. I imagine it is the guy who does. You also shift from optimism to pessimism. Usually one of you takes the pessimistic role while the other takes the optimistic role. I'm not sure how to fix these problems, but that's what I see.

The only advice I can give is:

You love each other for sure, it's true love.
But no matter how intense the feeling, recognize that any attempt to hold onto this relationship is probably doomed to failure. If you want it to last, you must give each other lots of room to move. Also your living arrangements must be as unconventional as possible, and you must be a very uncoventional couple. You can by no means give in to routine in this relationship. Adventures galore and not fitting into the stereotypical married couple norm is the calling here. You must strive for that, or else, this guy is going to want a more open relationship arrangement....specifically dating other girls while he dates you.

posted September 10, 2012 04:24 PM            

About the only nice aspects here are composite sun conjunct neptune and composite moon sextile venus and Sun conjunct venus and moon in synastry, the rest of the aspect are bland to say they least. Sun conjunct neptune is probably the strongest along with composite venus square pluto because of the sexual attraction caused by one, and the sense of coming together with your soulmate that is caused by the other.

However, that's not enough to keep a relationship going.

The best way I would describe this relationship is the following

Your feelings towards each other change quickly and you often react to each other rather impulsively. When the mood is right, you find each other sexually irresistible, but at other times you get on each other's nerves. You may feel like you fall in and out of love on a monthly basis! It seems that you are either making love, fighting with each other, or indifferent to each other, and you may sometimes wish for greater constancy. Your domestic life is likely to be very unstable. If you can be flexible and flow with the fluctuating feelings, this relationship can be exciting and fascinating - otherwise your patience will wear thin and you will perceive your relationship as hopelessly unstable and your partner as unreliable and untrustworthy.

posted September 10, 2012 04:47 PM            

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asclibrasagsun compat reading

About the only nice aspects here are composite sun conjunct neptune and composite moon sextile venus and Sun conjunct venus and moon in synastry, the rest of the aspect are bland to say they least. Sun conjunct neptune is probably the strongest along with composite venus square pluto because of the sexual attraction caused by one, and the sense of coming together with your soulmate that is caused by the other.

However, that's not enough to keep a relationship going.

The best way I would describe this relationship is the following

Your feelings towards each other change quickly and you often react to each other rather impulsively. When the mood is right, you find each other sexually irresistible, but at other times you get on each other's nerves. You may feel like you fall in and out of love on a monthly basis! It seems that you are either making love, fighting with each other, or indifferent to each other, and you may sometimes wish for greater constancy. Your domestic life is likely to be very unstable. If you can be flexible and flow with the fluctuating feelings, this relationship can be exciting and fascinating - otherwise your patience will wear thin and you will perceive your relationship as hopelessly unstable and your partner as unreliable and untrustworthy.

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