posted February 18, 2013 07:55 PM            

You definitely have this stellium in your composite chart! The other cool thing is that Mars is also reallllly close to your stellium. I'm not sure if it makes a difference since it actually isn't aspecting (well..depending on your definition of conjunct) any of the planets in it, but in my composite with the person I was talking about we have Sun-Mercury-Mars stellium opposite Venus--basically the love stellium, plus Mars (Venus aspecting Sun in several ways, including opposite where ours is, is same as Sun conjunct Venus). For my composite chart, at least, I think Mars adds a true understanding of motivating passions between me and my composite person (again, since it's not a sexual relationship there is none of Mars' fiery libido)...your Mars is also conjunct the last planet (Venus) in your stellium, depending on if you count up to 10 degrees as conjunct.

What I do know for sure is your Mars is conjunct Pluto. Maybe this might add some sense of destruction/creation and "fatal attraction" to the relationship (but in a less consuming, more surface way....like love/hate [Libra ruling indecision and vagary, and this aspect is in Libra]...if that is possibly even healthy, haha) through your passion/shared passion with this person (sexually speaking, constant "make up sex" might be your MO if it's romantic....or if you're just friends, maybe you butt heads on what drives you two, but it is also something deeply and mutually understood that propels your relationship forward). You might also love this person deeply at certain times, but at others be totally thrown off by him/her or your feelings for him/her because of his/her actions or your own fickleness when it comes to relationships?

The fact that Mars also (possibly) conjuncts Venus can add to this "aggravation" you feel toward each other, but what perfect couple doesn't experience this?

Again, I'm not expert when it comes to any of this, but maybe you can check out the thread I'm talking about and find some more insight to your chart:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/209763.html

All in all, I hope I can find a romantic partner with the love stellium plus Mars aspecting in some way just based on the love I have and the mutual trust and respect shared in my relationship with the person whose composite chart I share I was referring to. Seems like a match made in heaven

posted February 18, 2013 09:48 PM            

You have been reading those aspect descriptions I see!!! You used a lot of the wording they use to describe those aspects. Very very nice. ! You've definitely got the hang of this.

To answer the other person's question about mars conjuncting the stellium. THE MORE PLANETS CONJUNCT a love stellium the better! as long as it is not uranus or saturn. In fact many fated friendships and relationships lack a love stellium but have a big cluster of the composite planets conjunct in a stellium. Now the ideal thing is that thered'd be a love stellium in that cluster or at least sun conjunct venus since it signifies true love, but my point is that the more planets in a stellium in the composite the more the two people feel like they belong together. You will find this written all iver the web. what is the best kind of composite to have? one that is not scattered. one where all the planets are conjunct each other.

to answer ur question no mars is not conjunct the love stellium in this case, but since in astrology everything is "gradual" I feel that a mars and Pluto CLOSE to the stellium means a more powerful relationship than if they were far apart. For example you can see Michael
Gauquelin's research which shows how astrology is about patterns that deal with the general area of clusters of planets in a chart and how that pattern changes gradually.

Now, what happens when mars conjunct a love stellium? Well mars conjunct any planet in the composite EXCITES feelings. You will se this explained in astro.com's astro-click partner. What mars does is it gives intensity to whatever feelings already exist. So if ur angry with each other, u are Really angry. If u love each other u Really feel that love intensely. Mars is also kinda fun.....it makes a relationship energetic and needing a goal....needing ambitions. You get to work together and complete projects with great enthusiasm when mars is prominent in the composite. The same happens when a love stellium is opposite mars, except of course it leads to more friction. But since it's the opposition a balance can be reached. Now the mars squares are the ones you kinda have to watch out for. Especially when mars squares the outer planets in either composite or synastry (you will see this written in both cafeastrology and astro-click partne mr on astro.com) because it means underlying tension between you that finally explodes one day and might even be so bad that it causes physical violence.

So yes, mars conjunct a love stellium will certainly make things fun and exciting for you both. Not only will you be more energetic, enthusiastic, and with a clear goal in mind when together but ull have a lot more passion.

posted February 18, 2013 09:51 PM            

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Originally posted by dyedye08:
Is this true the aspect Sun trine Saturn is a indicator for long-lasting friendships/relationships

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Right. I'm guessing you saw it said that on astro-click portrait?
Yes indeed composite sun trine Saturn means your friendship will become a stable one. It does not indicate how LoNg u will be friends, but it does indicate that you will be able to depend on each other and know exactly where u stand with each other, as well as see each other frequently for at least a long while. It gives a willingness from both people to commit more easily to the relationship. And it makes them want to be there for that person whenever they can. It adds a sense of responsibility to that person...but it comes out of love and friendship. It comes from the heart. Unlike the square or opposition where it comes from "feeling bad" or guilty

posted February 18, 2013 10:15 PM            

Two things:
1) I’ve read glimmerings of certain planets being more someone else’s (for example you say the Moon in your chart is his, the Uranus is yours), and I haven’t gotten that far in my research or understanding of composites yet to speak to who might be feel one planet more over the other.
2) You may, however, be talking about your synastry chart in the terms of his Moon/your Uranus, in which case I really cannot say anything because I haven’t even dabbled in that yet. I’m sure there are many other knowledgeable people around here who can help you out with that though ☺

That being said, you asked about two things which I can’t TOTALLY elaborate on, but I can say a few things about with my current working knowledge.

Moon trine Pluto: First, trines are more powerful in synastry as far as I know, and not really in composite charts (powerful aspects in composites are conjunction, square, and opposites). Regardless, Moon trine Pluto will inevitably will lead to a deeply felt and deeply powerful sense of attachment in any situation (just maybe not as powerful a presence in terms of what else is going on in your composite). Moon deals with intimate feelings and emotions, and Pluto with the underworld, the hidden, the non-demonstrative…This leads to power struggles in your intimacy, even with the positive aspect between the two (probably why you often feel fidgety/nervous/frustrated and unable to act on your frenetic energy…also your Sun-Saturn trine makes the composite duo not real big on risk-taking…hence your hesitancy to make a move, and subsequent frustration/wrath, impulsive outbursts, what have you with all this energy but no viable outlet for it). I would think another power struggle issue would be that one person always felt as if the other was hiding (Pluto) something or keeping something from him/her in terms of emotions (Moon)….and Moon square Mars also leads to an inclination toward volatile words…I definitely know what can be said when one person feels threatened that the other is not as invested as the other in the relationship, haha (i.e. being honest and open and sharing everything typically being a sign of deep commitment…battling jealousy). I’m just going to throw it out there that it was probably you who felt this since Moon tends to be take on a feminine embodiment in charts. Did you maybe start to express a heightened amount of possessiveness in lieu of revealing your fear of him keeping secrets or you ultimately losing him? Or did he do this to you (if indeed you feel the Moon was his in your chart)? The fear of losing one another could also have been more fluid given your Venus-Mars conjunction lending to the overarching love-hate characteristic I was talking about…plus this conjunction happens on the cusp of Virgo-Libra, and Virgos strong need for analysis and order (Venus here: compartmentalizing love, needing to know Mars (male) is there and dependable), versus Libra’s characteristic indecision (Mars: impulsive, war-like, can’t give Venus (female) the stability she needs). I guess the more I look into it the more I see this relationship as deeply and intensely passionate in a way you both know that you have something you’ll never experience again, and the inability to reconcile that positive reality with a nagging sense of protecting it or one another becoming a burden and too “heavy” or exhausting given the power of the emotion present. Your Mercury opposite Saturn also lends to this: communication is painful as pulling teeth…but it also is sort of like you both already see the glass as half-empty before it even began. If you could both just adopt a more positive outlook on the situation rather than immediately bending to all the “weight” other aspects and planets contribute, maybe you’d be able to get past this. I’ve always heard that knowing the detrimental aspects in your chart can allow you to understand, internalize, and move past them since you are aware of them and can proactively act against whatever might drag you down. The good news is that I don’t think the Sun conjunct Mercury is to blame for his “sudden detachment”—I think many of these other factors I’ve pointed out are in play, and the Merc conj. Sun actually rather lends a very gratuitous hand in a “marriage of the minds” aspect here. I bet you’re both very rational about the relationship you share—I think Moon/Pluto justs get in the way maybe? Or other things?

posted February 19, 2013 12:19 AM            

1) Neptune conjunct Sun (Scorpio 2H/3H): sense of reality changing 2H—that which we own (not only material things, but also we own our inner needs and wants/emotions). 3H communication/intelligence: Identity crisis—Neptune being illusion and confusion, and conjunct Sun, which is the core of our being and essence (this makes sense in your situation). Trying to understand the self (Sun). Time of inner turmoil.
2) Pluto conjunct Uranus in Leo (Leo being ruler of 3rd house and, so, affected by this Neptune transit): Unforgettable awakening/wanting to rebel, but weighing consequences. Search for meaning. Uranus is electric/full of change, and Pluto is (again) the secret/what is beneath—Uranus also deals with enlightenment and profound realization. This is totally pulling on your situation, but it could mean pondering the “hidden” feelings he had for you and trying to come to terms with them/where to go from here, and whether or not to act on them (forward-thinking Uranus vs. wild abandon/blind urges of Uranus). Leo is in 12H which is interesting because this is a mutable house, and is all about solitude, crises, ordeals undertaken. Another “things we cannot see”/invisible dangers/or even just a tumultuous subconscious.
3) Moon opposite Saturn: A perpetual problem that surrounds someone. Doubt, fear, deep-rooted cycle of difficulty or neglect. This seems like a more “woe-is-me” situation though, something someone revels and plays martyr in because they come to expect this role. Unhappiness.