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Topic: Have you guys ever used a psychic service? Part 2
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bakaneko
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posted September 01, 2014 11:38 AM
  
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Originally posted by blessed39:
And that is exactly where it gets tricky. We have to try to determine if a reader is really good or just good at feeling out a situation and guessing the outcome based on having heard some variation of the story a million times.
This reminds me of a reading I had with Mondez Durden, via phone. Very generous man with a lot of insight. It was more of intuitive coaching because he went into the psychology of relationships and patterns, but didn't actually answer my question. I get the feeling that some people who have been doing this a long time recognize the patterns and use probability rather than intuition (not saying he is one of them, since my session was more in the lines of coaching). IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted September 01, 2014 11:45 AM
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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Yeah my plan is to seriously slow up on them. I'd like to go until October without a reading. Everyone keeps saying October A is supposed to come back around. So I want to take the time to focus on other things and see if it's really true or not that October he comes around. Of course no one said WHEN in october, beginning, middle or end lol. But whatever, if it's going to happen it will.
This guy A is an ******* and you need to drop him like a hot potato. Even if he does come back, its not going to be because he has magically come to his senses-its going to be because he's bored and lonely and knows you'll give him attention. Think about it, what kind of guy thinks its okay to talk to a girl after MONTHS of not contacting her/responding to her messages? A guy that is expecting you to take **** . AKA an ******* . Its not that he's "busy" or "has a lot going on", its that he's a jackass. Do yourself a favor, block him on everything, wash your hands clean, and move on to much better things.
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blessed39
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posted September 01, 2014 11:56 AM
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Originally posted by bakaneko:
This reminds me of a reading I had with Mondez Durden, via phone. Very generous man with a lot of insight. It was more of intuitive coaching because he went into the psychology of relationships and patterns, but didn't actually answer my question. I get the feeling that some people who have been doing this a long time recognize the patterns and use probability rather than intuition (not saying he is one of them, since my session was more in the lines of coaching).
Right. I am getting my phd in counseling and have access to counselors and therapists. Lol. I don't need that. I need pure hardcore and accurate readings!!! LOL. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted September 01, 2014 12:03 PM
has anyone ever used kimberley actuarial arts,
she never really gave predictions as such as thinks this guy is my tf but the way she described him was astounding.
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happyaskings
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posted September 01, 2014 12:11 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
has anyone ever used kimberley actuarial arts,
she never really gave predictions as such as thinks this guy is my tf but the way she described him was astounding.
What site is she on? I think you brought her up before and I googled her and didn't find anything IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted September 01, 2014 12:20 PM
Never used Kimberly.IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted September 01, 2014 12:22 PM
this was a while ago first reading but it did blow me away
ok i am feeling that he is not very grounded at the moment he feels as if he is very much up in his thoughts and has a hard time connecting to the present he feels very smart to me- philosophical and deep he is always seeking, looking inside and going deeper that makes sense.... i dont feel he is all that connected to his present reality\ he has chosen instead to go off into his imagination he feels to be a very spiritual person to me actually haha i wouldnt say crazy, but he is a brilliant thinker deep and wise and out of the box when it comes to where his thoughts go he is different and thats why you like him
so yeah he feels flighty right now as if he sort of dips his toes into the situation with you andthen pull it out 08:06PM he is in a period of deep searching trying to figure out what he wants and who he is this man is super intense he has a tendency to go towards dark thoughts it seems, he has had a painful life and this is where you come in it seems as you have the empathy to feel him and he will accept this eventually for the first time in his life whereas in the past he would put up walls and retreat inward, choosing not to let others into his world the energy in him right now feels like its brewing... he still feels dark to me, like ruminating and choosing his path honestly this guy feels like he was a sorcerer in a past life , he has an intnese control of energy and is powerful when he chooses to be yes well he is certainly magnetic but i dont feel he actually lets people in as you say he has let them into his world, into his existance but not too close to his heart and the reason why is because they did not have the capacity to feel him certainly not in the way that you do the thing with you is, he knows that you can "get him" these other girls , even though there might be many are shallow and have no idea who this man is. they could not see him for his true self if he tried although he has had many partners he has been searching for soul love... but it does terrify him it feels like this man grew up ane xisted for a long time very very alone
ok he is your twin flame FYI so im sure you know how difficult these types of situations are first off the guides say that the other one did not go badly so dont look at it that way it feels as if there were issues of honesty and trust and a lack of revealing with that past one and even though it wounded you, it got you to the level of emotional maturity that you need to be to tackle the big fish- which is ***** also, yes it is sort of a continuation of an energy path but it is that of coming into alignment the guides say no no he was not the past one all soul mates are mirrors but think of the past one as a dirty mirror with ****, even though its more complicated, its cleaner as he is actually able to see you
ok when i focus on you 'clamming up' as you say the guides say that there is a part of you that doesnt feel you deserve the love you know is possible with him you both have a long way to go here.... and so i think the best thing to do is work on the issues within yourself which prevent you from being able to open wide with him dont worry about the physical yet... i am pretty sure you woudl explode if you connected that way it would be too much... and freak you both out to no end
but dont devalue the nature of love none of that frivolous behavior made him happy none of it satisfied his soul and even though you may not have his sexual experience in terms of the crazy things, you are both on the same level in terms of connecting intimately and deeply on a soul level with another i feel he is still in breakdown phase and kind of, so are you not like 'losing it' but breaking down the barriers so to speak i am asking the guides now what we can do to help you so that you can get to where you need to be to accept him do u do reiki ? i feel you have the capacity to heal yourself energetically
omg no no no dont worry about the romantic situation let things happen with him just as they are even if nothing sexual is happening trust me on this... dont think of it as eating your life thats throwing away a half baked cake because you were tired of waiting for it to come out of the oven when its perfectly fine yes that is bad dont do that you are ready for things just as they are right now and if you trust that you are... things will start to open up its going to take time, but the best relationships are built on a solid foundation of friendship and trust the lesson is for you to trust in who you are enough to share it with someone else unabashedly s it feels like you're more afraid of showing him your cards than anything dont worry about that but the fear is more terrified of opening up to him mmmm you have some more healing to go if you want the real thing 0 the thing with him is- you dont need to worry about being vulnerable because he will accept all that isof course there will be emotional pain that comes with this the guides keep saying 'maya' to me maya are illusions and it seems that you have wrapped yourself up in a lot of exterior illusions that not only dont suit you, but are not the REAL you and he is forcing you to shed these little layers and re examine yes im pretty sure you wont find anyone else like him for quite a while its awesome really, the rocketpowered evolution thats happening take it for what it is, and be thankful that things are platonic right now because its giving you this opportunity to evolve and be safe i know... its impossible nothing will ever be the same no try to?/ no definitely do try thats the whole lesson as in doing so ou will find your higher self and live more truely with you and ******* you both have some low vibrational energies you have to slough off its great hearing this from you bc i remember when i was in this phase myself its reminding me of a lot of things bc i felt that same way - where nothing felt real anymore in comparison to what i felt towards my twin over the next year you'll watch as your friendships evolve people not on your vibration are just going to fall out of your existance and everything is going to change its good ... also it will help as a reader bc you will get higher vibrational clients and both of you have a little ego attached that u have to shell off it is... it is nothing dont dig your heels in also if you can try not to defne things too much just focus on yourself and your current state i have found that when people who understand what a twin is, etc if you get too analytical about the process it can pull you back from working through your own things its almost better to sort of not know
haha i see him getting visions- i think he was seeing your past lives together on some dimensiona nd he freaked out he is extremely clairvoyant i sense that you 'feel' things more... he 'sees' because you are afraid you will start i would meditate on your fears w when you see yourself pulling back, go into your meditation after and ask your guides and your angels to show you the root of WHY I could do this for you.. but i know you can do it yourself you can send reiki to the entire situation with you and him for best possible outcome highest good as well as well as send reiki to the situation the guides show you this will help a ton if you do it every timeIP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted September 01, 2014 12:23 PM
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Originally posted by happyaskings:
What site is she on? I think you brought her up before and I googled her and didn't find anything
http://bitwine.com/users/176931-shaktinyc
sjes not on much but has a website
i sort of wish looking back id stuck to her,
i only had two readings i may go back as a next one bit over btiwine.IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted September 01, 2014 12:27 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by happyaskings:
[b] What site is she on? I think you brought her up before and I googled her and didn't find anything
http://bitwine.com/users/176931-shaktinyc
sjes not on much but has a website
i sort of wish looking back id stuck to her,
i only had two readings i may go back as a next one bit over btiwine.[/B][/QUOTE]OMG ! Ok yes I have used her, she used to go by a different name but the link was the same. She was totally off base for me. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted September 01, 2014 12:29 PM
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Originally posted by happyaskings:
OMG ! Ok yes I have used her. She was totally off base for me.
really ?
she absolutely nailed the guys personality tbh,
i mean i didn't say anything at that point
and he pretty much is everything she described, i don't know anyone else who has such a fascination in the dark side as much as him or is as off beat, it wouldnt apply to any other guy i know how was she off base?
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PSYCHE
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posted September 01, 2014 12:30 PM
actually kati a rose is good
i forgot to say before but when i very first connected to this guy he had another sort of relationship ending this was before we met,
only ONE person picked up on it even later, and that was katia rose so credit to her there.IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted September 01, 2014 12:31 PM
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Originally posted by happyaskings:
OMG ! Ok yes I have used her, she used to go by a different name but the link was the same. She was totally off base for me.
This made me literally LOL. "She was totally off base for me". The story of our lives. Lol. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted September 01, 2014 12:32 PM
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Originally posted by blessed39:
This made me literally LOL. "She was totally off base for me". The story of our lives. Lol.
LOOOOOOOOL I KNOW!!!!!!
i can't speak for some of what she says but she did describe the guy and he's a VERY unusual guy IP: Logged |
IntuitiveJ
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posted September 01, 2014 12:34 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by happyaskings:
[b] What site is she on? I think you brought her up before and I googled her and didn't find anything
http://bitwine.com/users/176931-shaktinyc
sjes not on much but has a website
i sort of wish looking back id stuck to her,
i only had two readings i may go back as a next one bit over btiwine.[/B][/QUOTE]She's full of crap.
Told me the guy I'm asking about is my TF too. He may be. But her predictions were so wrong.
Then told me all about HER TF in the session I was paying for.
Never again.
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happyaskings
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posted September 01, 2014 12:37 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
really ?
she absolutely nailed the guys personality tbh,
i mean i didn't say anything at that point
and he pretty much is everything she described, i don't know anyone else who has such a fascination in the dark side as much as him or is as off beat, it wouldnt apply to any other guy i knowhow was she off base?
I was trying to see if I could find the transcript but I'm pretty sure I went unregistered with her. Anyway she was super sunshine and rainbows with me.... she even said that I gave the guy butterflies. I don't think 25 year old men get butterflies but okay. Needless to say none of the happy ending ever came true. IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted September 01, 2014 12:38 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
LOOOOOOOOL I KNOW!!!!!!
i can't speak for some of what she says but she did describe the guy and he's a VERY unusual guy
LOL!! Well…. Thats good she was able to pick up on that. Lol. Smh. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted September 01, 2014 12:38 PM
on a side note since the last meeting with the guy i have felt the HUGEST energy shift, i always felt some weird invisible block between us that even though i thought he was hot and interesting as well as hugely irritating and annoying, and iw as taking these weird guided steps to express and open upi actually didn't really know if i wanted anything. If he had actually initiated something or responded i would have 100 percent ran away got freaked out and i wasn't sure if i could actually kiss him or certainly not more, it was a very weird connection we had.i spent 80 percent of my time just terrified wanting to not meet him, i would avoid speaking to him or taking calls half the time too, he even called me out on hiding behind a profile pic and phone, i always wanted to make excuses not to meet or talk to him but simultaneously feeling unable to quit it and drawn. Since we last met and i pushed through that one more big block and we just had a good time, he probably saw the real me for the first time since we first started messaging 8 months ago, i don't know something has shifted so hugely,
i feel less scared by miles, more open, more attracted, like some invisible wall came down, my personal power, lack of expectations and ability to be fun and live in the moment is sky high too. I do feel that the spiritual counselling ive been doing and pushing through my own fears has probably meant more change than the readings
they probably kept me a bit stuck. It is crazy when you feel those walls literally fall away and your spirit becoming free. He was trying to meet me right away but ive been away and now he is be really intesteing how it translates in person as its the first time truly i would be going to meet him not having panic attacks and anxiety.
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PSYCHE
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posted September 01, 2014 12:40 PM
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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
She's full of crap.
Told me the guy I'm asking about is my TF too. He may be. But her predictions were so wrong.
Then told me all about HER TF in the session I was paying for.
Never again.
Yeah i know this guy is a strong connection but i try not to connect to labels rly on that front but i thought she got the guy and situation quite accurate
oh god another false start haha
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blessed39
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posted September 01, 2014 12:53 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
on a side note since the last meeting with the guy i have felt the HUGEST energy shift, i always felt some weird invisible block between us that even though i thought he was hot and interesting as well as hugely irritating and annoying, and iw as taking these weird guided steps to express and open upi actually didn't really know if i wanted anything. If he had actually initiated something or responded i would have 100 percent ran away got freaked out and i wasn't sure if i could actually kiss him or certainly not more, it was a very weird connection we had.i spent 80 percent of my time just terrified wanting to not meet him, i would avoid speaking to him or taking calls half the time too, he even called me out on hiding behind a profile pic and phone, i always wanted to make excuses not to meet or talk to him but simultaneously feeling unable to quit it and drawn. Since we last met and i pushed through that one more big block and we just had a good time, he probably saw the real me for the first time since we first started messaging 8 months ago, i don't know something has shifted so hugely,
i feel less scared by miles, more open, more attracted, like some invisible wall came down, my personal power, lack of expectations and ability to be fun and live in the moment is sky high too. I do feel that the spiritual counselling ive been doing and pushing through my own fears has probably meant more change than the readings
they probably kept me a bit stuck. It is crazy when you feel those walls literally fall away and your spirit becoming free. He was trying to meet me right away but ive been away and now he is be really intesteing how it translates in person as its the first time truly i would be going to meet him not having panic attacks and anxiety.
Thats awesome! What is most important is that you are growing and learning. Readings or no readings.  IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted September 01, 2014 12:59 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
on a side note since the last meeting with the guy i have felt the HUGEST energy shift, i always felt some weird invisible block between us that even though i thought he was hot and interesting as well as hugely irritating and annoying, and iw as taking these weird guided steps to express and open upi actually didn't really know if i wanted anything. If he had actually initiated something or responded i would have 100 percent ran away got freaked out and i wasn't sure if i could actually kiss him or certainly not more, it was a very weird connection we had.i spent 80 percent of my time just terrified wanting to not meet him, i would avoid speaking to him or taking calls half the time too, he even called me out on hiding behind a profile pic and phone, i always wanted to make excuses not to meet or talk to him but simultaneously feeling unable to quit it and drawn. Since we last met and i pushed through that one more big block and we just had a good time, he probably saw the real me for the first time since we first started messaging 8 months ago, i don't know something has shifted so hugely,
i feel less scared by miles, more open, more attracted, like some invisible wall came down, my personal power, lack of expectations and ability to be fun and live in the moment is sky high too. I do feel that the spiritual counselling ive been doing and pushing through my own fears has probably meant more change than the readings
they probably kept me a bit stuck. It is crazy when you feel those walls literally fall away and your spirit becoming free. He was trying to meet me right away but ive been away and now he is be really intesteing how it translates in person as its the first time truly i would be going to meet him not having panic attacks and anxiety.
Thats awesome! What is most important is that you are growing and learning. Readings or no readings. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted September 01, 2014 01:08 PM
i just feel alive and full, i think right now in this moment i understand the stage
'bliss stage'
andliving in the NOW, with no expectations
i guess trick is staying here though right lol
I'm sure its terribly easy to let the head take over again.IP: Logged |
bakaneko
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posted September 01, 2014 01:10 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
i just feel alive and full, i think right now in this moment i understand the stage
'bliss stage'
andliving in the NOW, with no expectations
i guess trick is staying here though right lol
I'm sure its terribly easy to let the head take over again.
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PSYCHE
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posted September 01, 2014 01:12 PM
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Originally posted by bakaneko:
Congrats Psyche to the progress
thank you its been a long process its been 4 years over now since i met my first strong soul connection that got me into the twin flame stuff, and have been constantly working on myself since,
ive done quite a few of the courses out there if anyone is consideing one pls ask as everyone needs different things but i can def share my experience I'm currently doing the root camp with lee and sherry and i truly have gotten SO much out of it.
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peacefulclouds
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posted September 01, 2014 01:38 PM
congrats psyche, with such strong mind it only can get better and better IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted September 01, 2014 02:08 PM
I've been thinking about this a lot the past couple days...I think that a good amount of clients going to psychics asking about when X is coming back are actually going through the grieving process and by talking to psychics they get stuck in the denial stage. I've just been reflecting on my own "love readings" and I think this is the first time I've ever recognized that for every situation, I was truly just grieving and that is what was causing me to ask psychics if they were coming back. I keep bouncing back and forth between all the stages, particularly anger and bargaining this time around. Then I'll hit the "Acceptance" phase for a bit and something will bring me right back to "Denial" which causes me to get more readings. I wish I could just accept it for good. IP: Logged |
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