|
Author
|
Topic: Have you guys ever used a psychic service? Part 2
|
FairyDust75
unregistered
|
posted September 01, 2014 02:50 PM
 
I think you are right Happy. I for one go through the denial and grieving. I'm not so good with the letting go part, obviously. The truth of the situation is if someone wants to be in your life they will be no matter what. They won't ignore you because they want to chase you or because they have stuff going on. If they want to talk to you they will call, text, or send a freakin smoke signal. Plain and simple. I can't say I ever get angry because I always find a way to blame myself. I know I shouldn't do that but I do. As with A, I guess I'm beginning to realize he just doesn't want me in his life. If he wanted to talk to me he would, but he doesn't. I have to work harder to move on.IP: Logged |
blessed39
Knowflake Posts: 1160
From:
Registered: Feb 2012
|
posted September 01, 2014 02:56 PM
quote:
Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I think you are right Happy. I for one go through the denial and grieving. I'm not so good with the letting go part, obviously. The truth of the situation is if someone wants to be in your life they will be no matter what. They won't ignore you because they want to chase you or because they have stuff going on. If they want to talk to you they will call, text, or send a freakin smoke signal. Plain and simple. I can't say I ever get angry because I always find a way to blame myself. I know I shouldn't do that but I do. As with A, I guess I'm beginning to realize he just doesn't want me in his life. If he wanted to talk to me he would, but he doesn't. I have to work harder to move on.
I wonder if you blaming yourself for things not working out is more indicative of a desire to control things? If you can say its your fault, then maybe you can also say "I can do something to change the outcome." What do you think? IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
Knowflake Posts: 715
From: uk
Registered: Aug 2013
|
posted September 01, 2014 03:19 PM
quote:
Originally posted by happyaskings:
I've been thinking about this a lot the past couple days...I think that a good amount of clients going to psychics asking about when X is coming back are actually going through the grieving process and by talking to psychics they get stuck in the denial stage. I've just been reflecting on my own "love readings" and I think this is the first time I've ever recognized that for every situation, I was truly just grieving and that is what was causing me to ask psychics if they were coming back. I keep bouncing back and forth between all the stages, particularly anger and bargaining this time around. Then I'll hit the "Acceptance" phase for a bit and something will bring me right back to "Denial" which causes me to get more readings. I wish I could just accept it for good.
i do think spiritual connections even if you look at the astrological charts can keep you pulled and stuck and isn't just about not getting over someone but i do think its about putting in the work that the connection brings about and brings up not just waiting. Ive seen people just wait not do self work and readings go from good to worse to bad i guess.
there are no guarantees in any situation but guess as long as you are growing in some way its ok.
IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
Knowflake Posts: 1321
From: somewhere in south and the east
Registered: Jan 2014
|
posted September 01, 2014 03:31 PM
i'm just afraid of contact- that's when I go for reading spree."WHY DID HE CONTACT ME?!?!" then the cycle starts over again. IP: Logged |
SophiaFrank
Knowflake Posts: 618
From:
Registered: Jun 2013
|
posted September 01, 2014 03:46 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by happyaskings:
[B]I've been thinking about this a lot the past couple days...I think that a good amount of clients going to psychics asking about when X is coming back are actually going through the grieving process and by talking to psychics they get stuck in the denial stage. I agree 100% That is so true. I think I'm stuck in grieving. Learning to cope...for the first time ever..
IP: Logged |
Vivi327
Knowflake Posts: 1845
From:
Registered: Jul 2014
|
posted September 01, 2014 04:22 PM
I've tried Gaia about 2 years ago when my ex broke up with me. She kept tellin me he will be back soon but he never came backIP: Logged |
St@r2013
Knowflake Posts: 2258
From:
Registered: Jun 2013
|
posted September 01, 2014 04:28 PM
I'm with you Vivi, Gaia told me my ex will contact me in November (last year) nope and I'll meet a guy, Roger, who is a merchant or something by the end of last year , January - as soon as I read that I was like 'huh? No way'... Never happened. Oh, and I asked her about a job I was waiting to hear from - she saw me getting the job, being a temp and then getting the contract extended - never heard from that job, the agency who told me about it, kept saying there's some issue and they're waiting.... And then nothing. IP: Logged |
happyaskings
Knowflake Posts: 1079
From:
Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted September 01, 2014 04:33 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Vivi327:
I've tried Gaia about 2 years ago when my ex broke up with me. She kept tellin me he will be back soon but he never came back
She told me my ex wasn't going to break up with me and he did about a week later (Praise Jesus she was wrong!) She's never been accurate for me to the point where I consider her to be fake, but others have had good luck with her on here. Its interesting though, I remember I went to I think about 3-4 different psychics during that time asking if my ex would break up with me... Like I must have known he would but not wanted to face it. They all said no, he wouldn't leave. He did. IP: Logged |
lilacbreeze
Knowflake Posts: 691
From:
Registered: Oct 2013
|
posted September 01, 2014 04:43 PM
Ya I didn't have success with Gaia either. Said I'd meet a fair haired man in January that would have a T in his name- never happened.IP: Logged |
St@r2013
Knowflake Posts: 2258
From:
Registered: Jun 2013
|
posted September 01, 2014 04:58 PM
Just want to make it clear, I don't think Gaia or Aboutagirl are fakes - just not right for me. Gaia was kinda right with one prediction for my sister, timing was wrong but overall she was right. IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
unregistered
|
posted September 01, 2014 05:02 PM
I tried Gaia once but she said she couldn't connect with me so she didn't read me. I was disappointed because she seemed good. I tried about a girl as well. I think she was pretty on with the situation but not the outcome. IP: Logged |
Vivi327
Knowflake Posts: 1845
From:
Registered: Jul 2014
|
posted September 01, 2014 05:35 PM
Has rachel marie ever been wrong for any of you?IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
Knowflake Posts: 715
From: uk
Registered: Aug 2013
|
posted September 01, 2014 05:38 PM
Gaia definitely isn't a faker and got my situation Rachel Marie taps in but she's been wrong for me loads
IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 6641
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted September 01, 2014 05:48 PM
on what sort of things has Rachel been wrong? on time or other things ?IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
Knowflake Posts: 715
From: uk
Registered: Aug 2013
|
posted September 01, 2014 06:01 PM
quote:
Originally posted by intuitivefish:
on what sort of things has Rachel been wrong? on time or other things ?
that i would end up with someone who never contacted me again and prediciotns of how certain meetings would go with another person not one prediction to time but they do feel right or have been accurate in ways with this one.
IP: Logged |
intuitivefish
Knowflake Posts: 6641
From: Europe
Registered: Aug 2014
|
posted September 01, 2014 06:06 PM
quote:
Originally posted by PSYCHE:
that i would end up with someone who never contacted me again and prediciotns of how certain meetings would go with another person not one prediction to time but they do feel right or have been accurate in ways with this one.
oh thats not good.
just shows how everyone is different in connecting IP: Logged |
blessed39
Knowflake Posts: 1160
From:
Registered: Feb 2012
|
posted September 01, 2014 06:22 PM
Again, its so interesting how certain readers can pick up on some people's situation and provide accurate predictions. There is only one predictions Gaia provided that did not come to pass. Others did but timing was a bit off. IP: Logged |
happyaskings
Knowflake Posts: 1079
From:
Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted September 01, 2014 06:22 PM
quote:
Originally posted by PSYCHE:
that i would end up with someone who never contacted me again and prediciotns of how certain meetings would go with another person not one prediction to time but they do feel right or have been accurate in ways with this one.
Yeah I got this too. She saw a future for me with this guy that stood me up and I never heard from him again. Its funny now, especially since he was really easy to get over...like 48 hours easy lol IP: Logged |
happyaskings
Knowflake Posts: 1079
From:
Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted September 01, 2014 06:26 PM
Relationships are so bizarre. Like how come some guys I can get over in 2 days and then other guys it takes me over a year?The guy that took me longest to get over I was actually WITH him for a shorter amount of time than it took to get over him! We were together for about 7-8 months, it took me a year and a half to get over it lol. Pathetic. Then again I was with a guy for 4 years,we were solid not off again on again and I grieved for about a week after the break up. I hate it! IP: Logged |
Damali
Knowflake Posts: 199
From: Manhatten, New York USA
Registered: Aug 2013
|
posted September 01, 2014 06:27 PM
I don't believe in this twin flame stuff. I think it's just another crappie term psychics use to give people warm feelings inside...God, I'm so happy to not only be single, but to no longer be attached to anyone. It's a wonderful feeling. My head is so clear. And i keep thinking of all the great things about my life now that I no longer have a man in my life and I just keep getting more and more content. IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
unregistered
|
posted September 01, 2014 06:34 PM
I get that Happy. I don't know why I get so attached so quickly. If A hadn't come along I'd still be stuck on P, I'm sure of it. But A came along and I got over P. Now I just need to get over A all together, with no one else coming in. So I'll tell you all what happened and please no judging.I decided today to just text A for the heck of it. I texted this morning. Kept it simple with just "hey A so how are you?" His answer came a little after 5 tonight with "who's this??" I said "Its S.." Haven't heard a peep since. This tells me a few things. 1. He never kept my number so any reader who said he would call or text me again was probably wrong. Can't text or call someone if you don't have their number.
2. Every reader was wrong in saying I was still on his radar and that he thought of me. If I wasn't in his phone any longer then no way he ever thought of me. 3. He just doesn't want to talk to me since he never answered back. So after all those readings and promises of October now I know and I won't be anticipating anything in October. I'm sad but in some weird way relieved. At least now I know and I won't be so disappointed when October rolls around and there's no word from him. I know you will all say I shouldn't have texted. Probably right. But I just felt I had to try one more time. Now I know and I won't ever try him again, that's for sure. He must think I'm pretty desperate and ridiculous right now. At least that's how I see myself. But I just wanted to share my experience today and the lesson I learned, STOP with the readings! IP: Logged |
happyaskings
Knowflake Posts: 1079
From:
Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted September 01, 2014 06:46 PM
When was the last time you heard from him ? Which psychics told you he would contact?Yeah, now at least you won't be in purgatory until Oct. edit; if it makes you feel any better AAG time frame isn't happening for me...nor is Prediction Queen...or Jodi Lynn...Serenity Garden... or basically anyone else I've read with in the past few weeks. Whateva, whateva time to turn up! IP: Logged |
Vivi327
Knowflake Posts: 1845
From:
Registered: Jul 2014
|
posted September 01, 2014 06:47 PM
quote:
Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I get that Happy. I don't know why I get so attached so quickly. If A hadn't come along I'd still be stuck on P, I'm sure of it. But A came along and I got over P. Now I just need to get over A all together, with no one else coming in. So I'll tell you all what happened and please no judging.I decided today to just text A for the heck of it. I texted this morning. Kept it simple with just "hey A so how are you?" His answer came a little after 5 tonight with "who's this??" I said "Its S.." Haven't heard a peep since. This tells me a few things. 1. He never kept my number so any reader who said he would call or text me again was probably wrong. Can't text or call someone if you don't have their number.
2. Every reader was wrong in saying I was still on his radar and that he thought of me. If I wasn't in his phone any longer then no way he ever thought of me. 3. He just doesn't want to talk to me since he never answered back. So after all those readings and promises of October now I know and I won't be anticipating anything in October. I'm sad but in some weird way relieved. At least now I know and I won't be so disappointed when October rolls around and there's no word from him. I know you will all say I shouldn't have texted. Probably right. But I just felt I had to try one more time. Now I know and I won't ever try him again, that's for sure. He must think I'm pretty desperate and ridiculous right now. At least that's how I see myself. But I just wanted to share my experience today and the lesson I learned, STOP with the readings!
I hope you deleted him from your phone! IP: Logged |
happyaskings
Knowflake Posts: 1079
From:
Registered: Dec 2012
|
posted September 01, 2014 06:48 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Damali:
I don't believe in this twin flame stuff. I think it's just another crappie term psychics use to give people warm feelings inside...God, I'm so happy to not only be single, but to no longer be attached to anyone. It's a wonderful feeling. My head is so clear. And i keep thinking of all the great things about my life now that I no longer have a man in my life and I just keep getting more and more content.
I don't really buy the twin flame thing either. Honestly, I'm on the fence about "soul mates" too...like if everyone has a soul mate then why do so many people end up alone? Just another colloquialism to allow people to justify their dumb decisions. IP: Logged |
lilacbreeze
Knowflake Posts: 691
From:
Registered: Oct 2013
|
posted September 01, 2014 07:15 PM
@fairy - definitely not judging you... You went with what you felt was right and followed through - that's good. And look now you know the reality of the situation and can move forward - which will allow for bigger and brighter things to enter. It's awful that so many readers just had it so wrong. Had you not contacted him, you may have been holding on to all of "predicted potential". I definitely agree that you should delete his number from your phone!!IP: Logged |
Topic Closed
Lindaland
UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! 
