posted September 03, 2014 06:23 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:

to be honest i think most men reach out if ignored long enough with zero contact.

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posted September 03, 2014 06:25 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:

Lol that's so crazy because only just I was like why does she have baby yoga in a sig then I saw I read wrong

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posted September 03, 2014 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
this guy i added as practise with a player he's turning out to be the opposite yo ureally can't judge a book.

But the weirdest thing happened we exchanged whatsapp numbers today and he asked me not to send him any naked pictures of myself,
i was like
are you actually kidding me? your pretty safe on that one.
I don't think ive ever sent someone a naked pic of myself maybe something a bit sexy if I'm properly dating and into someone.
He reckons that women just send them almost as soon as he adds them on whatsapp and he hates it.
I truly didn't know this.
What are women doing to the dating world!!!
we all blame men but when women do this no wonder men turn into douches.
I am kinda in shock that women do that so easy.

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wellllllllllll, i used to do that a lot. it started because i kept being asked to and then i just gave in. then i started to find it fun to do as in wow!! my body is gorgeous and i like having people appreciate me that way. then i stopped because....well for reasons i dont feel like writing.

but i still blame guys. if soooo many guys didn't want/ask for/expect that, women wouldn't just do it. unless they really enjoyed it and if you really enjoy it, i say go for it!

posted September 03, 2014 06:43 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
Did it include words like

He feels a lot of guilt
And owes you an apology
Is another woman around
Legal
Etc

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posted September 03, 2014 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Damali:
wellllllllllll, i used to do that a lot. it started because i kept being asked to and then i just gave in. then i started to find it fun to do as in wow!! my body is gorgeous and i like having people appreciate me that way. then i stopped because....well for reasons i dont feel like writing.

but i still blame guys. if soooo many guys didn't want/ask for/expect that, women wouldn't just do it. unless they really enjoyed it and if you really enjoy it, i say go for it!

I've done a total 180 tho. I'm debating on whether I want to remain celibate till marriage nowadays.

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I has one guy sent me things it put me off totally
But I found it fun to challenge him to recreate poses for a bit he even left his face in them

It was a bit mean I know
But hey I didn't share them nor did I ever date him

posted September 03, 2014 06:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Damali:
that's every reading ive gotten about my ex minus the legal part

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Really no ones ever said those exact lines

posted September 03, 2014 06:50 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Lol no I didn't delete his number yet but I will sooner rather than later. Wait I want to know if he blocked my number. How do i do that?

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Delete his number. You need to close that door, don't leave it open just a crack 'just in case'. If he reaches you , you can be the one replying 'who's this'.

Regarding the discussion about how could the psychics be so right about current prediction and wrong about the future ... That is the million dollar question. I had GS, Gaia, another bitwine reader tell me I'll get the job, all saw it as first being temp then permanent = didn't get an interview.
I had miss Toria and Hermes tell me I'll get the job = didn't get to the second interview stage.

Think about those readings about P - you also got readers saying he'll contact you ... Good thing you weren't waiting by the phone...

posted September 03, 2014 06:51 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:

to be honest i think most men reach out if ignored long enough with zero contact.

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posted September 03, 2014 06:54 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
Did it include words like

He feels a lot of guilt
And owes you an apology
Is another woman around
Legal
Etc

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All of the above except legal

posted September 03, 2014 06:56 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:

I has one guy sent me things it put me off totally
But I found it fun to challenge him to recreate poses for a bit he even left his face in them

It was a bit mean I know
But hey I didn't share them nor did I ever date him

I've never sent naked pics I don't want everyone seeing that too easily nor do I want chances of it all over social media
I don't think it looks good to succumb to ppl asking for that too soon rly

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yes. i see that. and i dont think i would do it now. my ideas have changed.

but im also not going to be shamed for it.
just like I'm not going to be shamed for how many people I've slept with or any of the many other things people shame women about.

if it turned off a guy, i wouldn't have cared either because i was going through men like crazy back then.

i feel like if you like your body, and you know someone else likes looking at it, and you both feel good about it, why not?

posted September 03, 2014 06:58 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I just wanna know if he blocked my number now lol. I don't think so. If he was going to go the blocking route I think he would have blocked me on fb too. But whatever. Not going to sit around and stew on it much longer.

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posted September 03, 2014 06:59 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:

to be honest i think most men reach out if ignored long enough with zero contact.

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Don't think so. Some guys don't reach out because they're not interested. They've moved on.

Same with us girls. There are guys I went on first dates with, I wasn't interested and after that last goodbye haven't heard from me... Why would they? I'm not interested.

Why do you think it's different for guys and they would definitely reach someone? Guys can also be not interested and you'll never hear from them again.

If he's interested = he'll let you you.
If he's not interested = you'll know

posted September 03, 2014 07:00 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I just wanna know if he blocked my number now lol. I don't think so. If he was going to go the blocking route I think he would have blocked me on fb too. But whatever. Not going to sit around and stew on it much longer.

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you should send him a message on facebook like "you sucked in bed, anyway" and then block him so he has no way to contact you or respond.

posted September 03, 2014 07:03 PM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
Don't think so. Some guys don't reach out because they're not interested. They've moved on.

Same with us girls. There are guys I went on first dates with, I wasn't interested and after that last goodbye haven't heard from me... Why would they? I'm not interested.

Why do you think it's different for guys and they would definitely reach someone? Guys can also be not interested and you'll never hear from them again.

If he's interested = he'll let you you.
If he's not interested = you'll know

Oh and I spoke to a guy friend of mine, asked him what's the deal with guys who suddenly appear and disappear and he said - they basically don't want to close the door completely in case they can get sex.

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total agreement with the last part. my ex keeps ******* texting me and i literally have nothing to talk to him about. i blocked him on my phone and then he messaged me on facebook, asking me why i was ignoring him. and he also asks me to send him pics everytime we talk so i'll send him pics of me with face cream sometimes when im bored.

posted September 03, 2014 07:03 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I just wanna know if he blocked my number now lol. I don't think so. If he was going to go the blocking route I think he would have blocked me on fb too. But whatever. Not going to sit around and stew on it much longer.

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posted September 03, 2014 07:03 PM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
Delete his number. You need to close that door, don't leave it open just a crack 'just in case'. If he reaches you , you can be the one replying 'who's this'.

Regarding the discussion about how could the psychics be so right about current prediction and wrong about the future ... That is the million dollar question. I had GS, Gaia, another bitwine reader tell me I'll get the job, all saw it as first being temp then permanent = didn't get an interview.
I had miss Toria and Hermes tell me I'll get the job = didn't get to the second interview stage.

Think about those readings about P - you also got readers saying he'll contact you ... Good thing you weren't waiting by the phone...

I recently want back to online dating. Just getting messages and checking guys already shifted my energy and I haven't been thinking about B .... Much better than readings.

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i wish this helped me
i bailed on a few guys and i do have a connection to one
he's really cute we get on well chatting similar sense of humour but it just makes me realise the connection i have with the other guy even more and chatting to him as actually made the whole situation more painful not less

i thought a distraction would be good but it reminds me too much i think, its not like on paper this other guy is anything i want remotely but its that damn connection lol

posted September 03, 2014 07:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Damali:
total agreement with the last part. my ex keeps ******* texting me and i literally have nothing to talk to him about. i blocked him on my phone and then he messaged me on facebook, asking me why i was ignoring him. and he also asks me to send him pics everytime we talk so i'll send him pics of me with face cream sometimes when im bored.

just kidding

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not too sure about that hot and cold thing
ive had a very hot and cold spiritual connection and we hadn't even had sex,
he would vanish then come round and tell me he had never met anyone like me and we had a spiritual connection and it was too much for him blah blah we would date then he would vanish but i mean

we didn't even have sex first time round and second only once.
it wasn't like i was someone he could get sex from when he blew back in it was normally just few texts, or occasion the meeting where he blew all his money he didn't have much of buying me expensive cocktails and travelling miles to see me.

posted September 03, 2014 07:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Damali:
you should send him a message on facebook like "you sucked in bed, anyway" and then block him so he has no way to contact you or respond.

just kidding.

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looooool
if someone from my past asks to see me again ive already got it planned

'get in line'

posted September 03, 2014 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Damali:
total agreement with the last part. my ex keeps ******* texting me and i literally have nothing to talk to him about. i blocked him on my phone and then he messaged me on facebook, asking me why i was ignoring him. and he also asks me to send him pics everytime we talk so i'll send him pics of me with face cream sometimes when im bored.

just kidding

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The reason I have baba yaga as my signature is because I heard her name inside my head. Didn't know wtf baba yaga was so I Googled it, and voila..

I feel there's something deeper than the tale there..
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baba_Yaga

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posted September 03, 2014 07:17 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
not too sure about that hot and cold thing
ive had a very hot and cold spiritual connection and we hadn't even had sex,
he would vanish then come round and tell me he had never met anyone like me and we had a spiritual connection and it was too much for him blah blah we would date then he would vanish but i mean

we didn't even have sex first time round and second only once.
it wasn't like i was someone he could get sex from when he blew back in it was normally just few texts, or occasion the meeting where he blew all his money he didn't have much of buying me expensive cocktails and travelling miles to see me.

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posted September 03, 2014 07:18 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I just wanna know if he blocked my number now lol. I don't think so. If he was going to go the blocking route I think he would have blocked me on fb too. But whatever. Not going to sit around and stew on it much longer.

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posted September 03, 2014 08:20 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
Did it include words like

He feels a lot of guilt
And owes you an apology
Is another woman around
Legal
Etc

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posted September 03, 2014 08:45 PM            

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Originally posted by lilacbreeze:
This is what is so confusing! I remember you saying how all of these readers were able to accurately describe your current / past with whoever you were asking about. How / WHY are the future predictions completely wrong?? Have you thought about contacting the readers to tell them just how incredibly wrong they were? I definitely would.

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Psyche posted a theory back a couple pages about changing the energy of the reading by invoking "free will", or maybe that's just how I read it lol. I understand free will is debatable and many readers use it when their predictions don't pan out, but if a reader is adamant about what is being delivered in advice, like: "Let him reach out to you." Let him reach out, but don't wait, let it go and move on with your life. Waiting sends that annoying signal to the person, they constantly feel your energy and why would you want someone suffocating you all the time?

At least that's how it is with me and people. I can feel their energy and will go as far as to ask my guides to protect me from them, and also visualize the white light of protection and mirrors around that circle to deflect it. Otherwise it will cause insomnia for me.

Oh, back to the "free will" shifting energy. Like the example I gave with my friend who had readings on me asking whether or not we'll have a relationship. He was advised to leave me alone, what did he do? He insisted on pouring his problems, kept sending me playlists of songs that he thought would mean something to me, and tried to guilt me when I wouldn't reply. Even though I told him, "I wasn't ready for any type of relationship besides friendships. I need to get my life in order, give me time." His constant attention and need of it was just that to me, "needy". When we did get back in contact and he grew a bit, we were both at different places. I don't think the readers were wrong in his case, he just kept pressing when told not to. But it worked out for the better, he found a woman who loves the attention he can give and they adore each other.