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Topic: Have you guys ever used a psychic service? Part 2
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Haplesschild*
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posted July 08, 2014 05:03 PM
  
It just comes down to if a guy's really into sb NOTHING will keep them away...And they can be extremely consistent and often overly communicative. And same applies the other way around. You can try for their attention all you like and they could care less. Experience and books really have shown this to be true. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted July 08, 2014 05:22 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
It just comes down to if a guy's really into sb NOTHING will keep them away...And they can be extremely consistent and often overly communicative. And same applies the other way around. You can try for their attention all you like and they could care less. Experience and books really have shown this to be true.
100% ACCURATE! LOL!!!! 
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EmpressMendez
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posted July 08, 2014 05:23 PM
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Originally posted by St@r2013:
When a guy is interested in you he will enjoy any communication with you and won't consider it 'you bugging him' because he genuinely wants to chat to you. When the guy isn't interested, you can send him a text in a space of two weeks and he'll think you're bugging him.
OMG!! I know! That's why I keep AWAY from those people. They are psycho..it's like..I'm not annoying -- YOU ARE! LOL! Really silly, I can't help but laugh though and LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER..ugh  lol. ------------------
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St@r2013
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posted July 08, 2014 05:32 PM
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OMG!! I know! That's why I keep AWAY from those people. They are psycho..it's like..I'm not annoying -- YOU ARE! LOL! Really silly, I can't help but laugh though and LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER..ugh lol.
Yep! My rule when it comes to relationships - if it's easy it's meant to be, if it's already difficult from the start it's just not meant to be... This keeps me from making the same mistake of trying to fix him, trying to fix myself, trying to do anything to make it work... umm no, not anymore. If it requires so much work from the beginning then this is not 'it'. When it's right things just flow easily (especially in the beginning). IP: Logged |
MineAgain
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posted July 08, 2014 05:33 PM
I agree with you ladies. Men like to chase women they're into. There's no way a man will allow himself to act passive if he's into a woman. If a man can't be bothered to answer your texts then kick him to the curb. He's not worth your time or energy. You deserve to be treated like a priority, not an option. If he's not answering your texts, then you're clearly not a priority. Men can move mountains when they're really into someone. Don't fool yourself into thinking he's busy. The moment you start looking for excuses to justify his lack of follow through, you start allowing him to string you along. Don't come up with excuses for him. Please. This is the mistake I made with N. last year. I kept making up excuses as to why he always kept cancelling dates on me, ignoring my texts. I put it all down on the "business" of his schedule. That's what also caused me to allow him back into my life again months later. Please. If I were smart enough then, I would have kicked the man to the curb instantly. That would have probably stopped him from stringing me along and breaking my heart in the process. Don't make excuses up for him. He's a grown man. He knows the rules. He just doesn't want to be bothered, end of. Grant yourself some self-respect and move on to someone who will treat you like the precious soul you are! Don't lower your standards, self-respect, dignity for this sort of selfish pigs. Tables eventually turn anyway. IP: Logged |
MineAgain
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posted July 08, 2014 05:35 PM
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Originally posted by St@r2013:
Yep! My rule when it comes to relationships - if it's easy it's meant to be, if it's already difficult from the start it's just not meant to be... This keeps me from making the same mistake of trying to fix him, trying to fix myself, trying to do anything to make it work... umm no, not anymore. If it requires so much work from the beginning then this is not 'it'. When it's right things just flow easily (especially in the beginning).
Amen sister! This is what I've been telling myself lately! I realized that most of my relationships had a rocky start and now I realize that if they were meant to be, none of that mess would have happened.
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EmpressMendez
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posted July 08, 2014 05:54 PM
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Originally posted by St@r2013:
Yep! My rule when it comes to relationships - if it's easy it's meant to be, if it's already difficult from the start it's just not meant to be... This keeps me from making the same mistake of trying to fix him, trying to fix myself, trying to do anything to make it work... umm no, not anymore. If it requires so much work from the beginning then this is not 'it'. When it's right things just flow easily (especially in the beginning).
Not always true.. most of my long term relationships have been VERY HARD. It depends on the person's destiny in life..yep, even friendships, family, etc ------------------
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EmpressMendez
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posted July 08, 2014 05:55 PM
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I agree with you ladies. Men like to chase women they're into. There's no way a man will allow himself to act passive if he's into a woman. If a man can't be bothered to answer your texts then kick him to the curb. He's not worth your time or energy. You deserve to be treated like a priority, not an option. If he's not answering your texts, then you're clearly not a priority. Men can move mountains when they're really into someone. Don't fool yourself into thinking he's busy. The moment you start looking for excuses to justify his lack of follow through, you start allowing him to string you along. Don't come up with excuses for him. Please. This is the mistake I made with N. last year. I kept making up excuses as to why he always kept cancelling dates on me, ignoring my texts. I put it all down on the "business" of his schedule. That's what also caused me to allow him back into my life again months later. Please. If I were smart enough then, I would have kicked the man to the curb instantly. That would have probably stopped him from stringing me along and breaking my heart in the process. Don't make excuses up for him. He's a grown man. He knows the rules. He just doesn't want to be bothered, end of. Grant yourself some self-respect and move on to someone who will treat you like the precious soul you are! Don't lower your standards, self-respect, dignity for this sort of selfish pigs. Tables eventually turn anyway.
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blessed39
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posted July 08, 2014 06:22 PM
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
REALLY?! LMAO!! I know PLENTY!!! lol
LOL!! I know men who like the attention of women, but not a "bugging" energy…. More like a….. "come hear big daddy" type of energy. LOL!
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IntuitiveJ
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posted July 08, 2014 06:35 PM
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Not always true.. most of my long term relationships have been VERY HARD. It depends on the person's destiny in life..yep, even friendships, family, etc
Same here.
All of my long term relationships (including a marriage) took a ton of work & dedication. Even in the beginning.
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LoadedPistil
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posted July 08, 2014 07:30 PM
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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
Same here.
All of my long term relationships (including a marriage) took a ton of work & dedication. Even in the beginning.
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EmpressMendez
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posted July 08, 2014 07:30 PM
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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
Same here.
All of my long term relationships (including a marriage) took a ton of work & dedication. Even in the beginning.
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St@r2013
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posted July 08, 2014 09:37 PM
Guys, it's just my rule.. It works for me but I'm not saying you have to do itIP: Logged |
minimini
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posted July 08, 2014 10:01 PM
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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Thanks Mini for sharing all of that info about Rachel. It does give me a little hope that she will be right about me. I have to say, she was right that if I tried to text A he would still give me the cold shoulder. She said he will still reach out on his own in about a week give or take, but if I wanted to try to reach out it wouldn't affect things. She was right, last night I decided to try for the heck of it and he didn't answer. So we'll see what happens. But thanks for sharing all of that. It's good to know someone is having things happen for them!
mind you FD, her timeline could be really off; i have never seen someone good at timeline at all; NEVER. so just keep him in your heart and believe he will come close. also remember the law of attraction 
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Haplesschild*
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posted July 09, 2014 05:44 AM
Rachel Maie said my ex would contact me in 2 weeks... So was meant to hear from him start of Aug LAST year... He never did. We finally spoke this year around 3 and half weeks ago lol... IP: Logged |
St@r2013
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posted July 09, 2014 05:50 AM
^ did he contact you?IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted July 09, 2014 07:13 AM
Nah I caught him on skype n said hi. We spoke for 2 and half hrs n it was nice-it made me feel a lot more settled in my heart.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted July 09, 2014 09:02 AM
Totally agree though sometimes they're not pigs...They just not interested, that's all. quote:
Originally posted by MineAgain:
I agree with you ladies. Men like to chase women they're into. There's no way a man will allow himself to act passive if he's into a woman. If a man can't be bothered to answer your texts then kick him to the curb. He's not worth your time or energy. You deserve to be treated like a priority, not an option. If he's not answering your texts, then you're clearly not a priority. Men can move mountains when they're really into someone. Don't fool yourself into thinking he's busy. The moment you start looking for excuses to justify his lack of follow through, you start allowing him to string you along. Don't come up with excuses for him. Please. This is the mistake I made with N. last year. I kept making up excuses as to why he always kept cancelling dates on me, ignoring my texts. I put it all down on the "business" of his schedule. That's what also caused me to allow him back into my life again months later. Please. If I were smart enough then, I would have kicked the man to the curb instantly. That would have probably stopped him from stringing me along and breaking my heart in the process. Don't make excuses up for him. He's a grown man. He knows the rules. He just doesn't want to be bothered, end of. Grant yourself some self-respect and move on to someone who will treat you like the precious soul you are! Don't lower your standards, self-respect, dignity for this sort of selfish pigs. Tables eventually turn anyway.
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EmpressMendez
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posted July 09, 2014 11:37 AM
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Totally agree though sometimes they're not pigs...They just not interested, that's all.
They should make themselves clear. I always tell a man upfront when I'm not interested in them. ------------------
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MineAgain
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posted July 09, 2014 11:51 AM
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
They should make themselves clear. I always tell a man upfront when I'm not interested in them.
My thoughts exactly! They're pigs because if they weren't, they wouldn't string you along to keep their options open! Any man who isn't upfront and strings you along is a pig. IP: Logged |
IntuitiveJ
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posted July 09, 2014 12:56 PM
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
They should make themselves clear. I always tell a man upfront when I'm not interested in them.
Ditto!
Wouldn't want to be strung along therefore I wouldn't do it to someone else IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted July 09, 2014 02:58 PM
I agree with Hapless... I know sometimes we as women can get caught up making the man the villain and calling him everything but a child if god. Lol. In some cases he is the villain and other cases he is just simply not interested and his lack of communication is a direct indication of his interest or lack thereof. That's not necessarily stringing a woman along. Ideally, it would be great if some men were more communicative. But in reality many are not. So, we have to take the onus to use our wits and evaluate the situation ourselves without him spelling it out for us. At the end of the day, we are accountable for our own happiness. I have found when I tend to take more ownership over my own emotions and decisions, I tend to deal with less frustration. Of course, dating remains to be challenging but not for the same reasons it was when I was in my early 20's. If a man is playing games and
is not pursuing me, "buy bye". Don't let the doorknob hit you where the good lord split you. I try not to get into obsessing over what he's doing and not doing because it drives me up the wall. It doesn't matter if he is a pig or not. No sense in me agonizing over it. All that matters is he is not treating me the way I want to be treated. If I choose to stick around after he has shown me that, whatever happens next is my responsibility. IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted July 09, 2014 06:52 PM
When I tell you the woman is on fire BE-LI-EVE it!!Another one of K4S's predictions is coming to pass. It was not a prediction about a specific event taking place. More so, about behavior. Regardless, it is happening just as she said. More and more everyday. IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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posted July 09, 2014 08:01 PM
What was it that she predicted for you Blessed?Has anyone had K4S tell them that something wasn't going to happen or the exact opposite happened? IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted July 09, 2014 08:22 PM
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What was it that she predicted for you Blessed?
She made a prediction that about my boyfriend and his behavior. Said he would would start moving towards me and not be so distant. IP: Logged |
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