posted October 26, 2014 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
is it the ones who have loads who's don't come to pass? lol
it rly has become an addiction lately, its worse since i read because i use that money as a kitty and don't feel bad about it but it feeds the addiction plus i spend extra

will cut right back i think its just been so emotional 3 months but i need to look within not without to answer it.

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No, it's mostly the ones that are very accurate with my situation and it leaves me wanting to know more lol. The one who surprised me the most is Lidia. However her predictions for contact don't come through, lol. So, I would say she is accurate 90% but predictions are like 60% or less.

Katrina the Gifted used to be very accurate for me. I remember once she saw the number 4 of Y contacting me and he contacted me on September 4th. However, lately she has been wrong. I suppose maybe she doesn't see things clearly sometimes.

Toria Has always been accurate for me, but I always doubted her lol. For an example, while Y was gone I felt within my heart that he blocked me and other readers said that he didn't. She was the only one that was firm and kept telling me that he didn't block me. And when he returned I discovered he never did block me, just as she said. However, due to Y's persona, Toria's predictions of contact may or may not happen, due to him changing his mind often, but most of the time she is about 80-90% right for me.

Rachel has only been wrong for me one time. Actually she was one of my favorites, but as of right now I'm very disappointed in her. I paid for a text reading days ago and have yet to receive a reply. I've even texted her assistant and she forwarded my message to Rachel, and told me if I still hadn't heard back from Rachel to resent my question. I resent it and still nothing. So, I text the assistant and explained my situation and now the assistant hasn't said anything back yet either. I know $6.50 isn't much, but I want it refunded back now. Besides that mess, she is normally very accurate and predictions often happen. She's about 85-90% for me.

Advisor Eve She is accurate with my situation, just as everyone else is, but predictions are a so-so with her. I'd say she falls under the 65-70% rate with predictions and 80% with everything else.

Ms. Dewey She's accurate for me. As she was the only one in the beginning to see Y contacting me in September, but everyone else saw August. BUT I noticed her running into not so good review with other clients. And another thing that bothers me now is that I paid $10 for a clarity candle weeks ago and I wanted to know about it, but she has been avoiding me. So, I guess that $10 is lost, lol. Her percentage for me is 90% accurate with the situation and 90-95% with predictions happening. Now, I must say this is for me, as I have noticed people on bitwine (judging from her negative reviews) aren't pleased with her and I have seen that she hasn't said pleasant words to the, unfortunately...

Ms. Madison I spoke with her for the first time today and she was extremely accurate with me. However, her prediction is the same as everyone else's, so we'll see. I can't give a rate on her predictions, but she was about 85-90% accurate for my situation with Y.

DLD is another is is very accurate and her predictions do happen for me, but I noticed she doesn't give short time frame dates. When I first contacted her, she give me a long term time frame month. Only one time she couldn't connect with me and ended the chat before I could reply, lol. Since then she has been able to reconnect. DLD is able 90% correct with me and predictions are about 95%

Domine Candrews is very good! She can read my situation 95% and predictions used to come the day she predicted or a day late. However lately, predictions haven't been coming to pass. Her most recent recent hasn't come up yet, it's due for tomorrow (the same as Katrina's), but I'll have to wait and see what happens (as I've been told Y changes his mind often.) Her predictions I'd say are a toss up, anywhere between 75% to 80%

Sophea I've only spoke with her 2 times, I believe. She was 95% with prediction the first time. The last time I spoke with her I think she was maybe 60-65% accurate. There were times she was 85%, but I wouldn't be going back to her.

Pixie Dust Wasn't accurate for me. I would say she is about 55-60%

Abundant Visions She is probably my number one favorite. Her predictions always come to pass for me 98% (I don't want to give anyone 100% lol, because no one is 100%, maybe close) She reads the situation very well and considering her is cheaper on her other site, I think from now on in the future, I'll go to her for sure. Her rate for accuracy I would also rate in the 90's, it would be 95% But in the beginning, she told me some things I didn't think were accurate, but now that I think about it she was accurate.

Everyone before AV is from bitwine, in case anyone was wondering. I would list others, because I have spoken to other readers, but I only listed a few. My trusted reader list has been going up and down. Currently, I think I'll just stick with AV and Toria, because those two are most accurate and predictions have come to pass with them. The only thing is Toria isn't very detailed and in order for her to type enough, I have to ask questions within questions or ask her to clarify what she is telling me, that way it is a bit more detailed. It still isn't a lot of words like Rachel types, lol, but it's better.

posted October 26, 2014 07:46 PM            

I find it helpful to have someone to talk to when u need to get a reading, or someone to send email to. Sometimes we need to ask ourselves ' why do i need so much getting readings about this situation ? '

posted October 26, 2014 07:47 PM            

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Hi Proxy,

I think you're in good company as many of us have experienced this addiction in various degrees. Like Fairy, I had a "wth" moment earlier this year and saw how much money I wasted asking about the muck in my life. So I decided to get a life coach, paid for package sessions that were to take place across the span of a few months. I never got my pre-paid sessions and this almost had to go to court for me to get the refund (it was in the thousands). The life coach was suggested by several friends who couldn't understand why I wouldn't talk to them about what was going on in my life. My friends are judgmental and anytime they're around me, I'm listening to their problems. I allowed the people closest to me to take away my personal power. The lesson I learned from that was that you need to be selfish sometimes, tell the person that you care about them but step away before it intrudes on your energy. I can't imagine what readers have to clear out...

I've been focusing my energy into various projects. I sometimes get readings 2-3 times a month, if needed, but I place a strict budget on them. Even when I was getting readings more frequently, I didn't let them hinder my own intuition and never allowed them to dictate my choices. They were and still are for another perspective or insights to the missing puzzle piece.

Like Fairy said, one day at a time and soon you'll find that the need fades.

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Yeah, I had that moment last week when I looked back at how much I've spent on readers since late September up until I noticed and it's probably close to $650 if not close to 700. I'm really disappointed in myself to allow it to go that deep. Someone on here once warned me to be careful and I remember telling them that I wouldn't do that, but I did...I don't have anyone to tell my problems to, with the exception of my cousin and my good friend who is like a younger brother to me, but sometimes I feel like they get tired of me talking about Y with them, lol, even though they say they don't. If not them, I write in my journal or blog about it on my Tumblr. When it comes to actually telling Y how he makes me feel sometimes, I get nervous and don't want to tell him because I'm afraid of his reaction and afraid that words will make him disappear. Y isn't like that and always tells me that I can open up to him and will ask me what is on my mind if he feels something is wrong. It's just the fear that I have that holds me back from opening up.

posted October 26, 2014 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Hey proxy, i think i have seen you on bitwine (guessed your name there) and i was wondering about your depart from lindaland if it helped... Glad you decided to let this out though.

I find it helpful to have someone to talk to when u need to get a reading, or someone to send email to. Sometimes we need to ask ourselves ' why do i need so much getting readings about this situation ? '

If anyone needs an ear to listen or eyes read your vent/rant so u can type your anxiety away to distract u from getting readings, feel free to send me emails
Peacefulclouds at mail dot com
I might pull a card or two for you, but mostly so you can release your anxiety away at someone and get feedback from it, it might help.

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Really? I'll have to ask you in an email which person you guessed I am on there, lol. Yeah, I really needed to let this out with people that understand. I've talked about it with my cousin a bit, but she can't fully understand because she isn't going through what I'm going through. She hasn't had paid readings, at least not to my knowledge, and only talks to them for free not not nearly as often as me. She more so relies on her horoscopes.

That is something that I'll think about whenever I feel myself wanting a reading.

posted October 26, 2014 08:01 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
It's mail.com not gmail or yahoo yeah, so whenever your anxiety strikes, just type an email about it (make rethorical questions if u want to), sometimes we all just want reassurance but you know, i believe deep down we all know what the answer usually is. I will always read and reply, even if not instant.

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posted October 26, 2014 08:52 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Proxy AV is my number one too! I went back yesterday and reread the readings I had. I have to see she was spot on with how things went and even some of the timing was dead on. She had said 9/1 for contact and it did happen on the day. So I do think she's pretty accurate. And I like that she's straightforward as well.

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I like that about her too! The last I spoke with her was last Thursday. I made a request for her to call me and it happened right as I was getting in my car on my way to drive back home, lol. Luckily I heard my phone lol. She saw the number 3. She didn't know if that meant 3 hours, 3 o'clock, 3 days or Nov 3rd. She was really hoping that it wasn't Nov 3rd as she didn't want me to have to wait that long, lol. I'm hoping it won't be that long either!

posted October 26, 2014 09:49 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
oh yeah,

have you guys ever tried Toria's email reading? lol
http://mysticalmisstoria.wix.com/misstoria#!miss-torias-shop/c3t8

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posted October 26, 2014 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Never tried it, but maybe

Oh, Domine's prediction about my VIsa came to pass. Not the contact though

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posted October 26, 2014 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
So Proxy has she been accurate for you majority of the time with timing? She just has a way about her I like. She's honest but isn't mean. She does give me her opinion but not in an offensive way. Like it comes from an objective place. She'll say "well I'd like to see you do this, but...." meaning she knows even if she tells me not to do something there's a good chance I'm going to do it anyway. She always tells me, you have to do what's right for you regardless of what I or others think. She always says it's not her place to judge and i truly don't feel like she does. And I have to say, she's predicted a few times exactly what I would do or how I would feel and was exactly right.

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Yes, she has been right for me. I've only spoken with her three times. Once towards the end of July, the second time was towards the end of August and the third time was last Thursday. The second time I talked to her was to basically get an update from the first reading she gave me. I barely remember what was said in the second reading because it was only for 2mins, lol. It happened so fast and we were cut off and I only heard her seeing the numbers 6 and 20. I had to email her about it and she responded back to me, fortunately and explained to me when the contact would be and she was right. He contacted around the time she said he would. Which is why I have faith in her readings, but boy do I hope contact isn't on Nov 3rd, lol.

posted October 27, 2014 04:39 AM            

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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
Yeah, I had that moment last week when I looked back at how much I've spent on readers since late September up until I noticed and it's probably close to $650 if not close to 700. I'm really disappointed in myself to allow it to go that deep. Someone on here once warned me to be careful and I remember telling them that I wouldn't do that, but I did...I don't have anyone to tell my problems to, with the exception of my cousin and my good friend who is like a younger brother to me, but sometimes I feel like they get tired of me talking about Y with them, lol, even though they say they don't. If not them, I write in my journal or blog about it on my Tumblr. When it comes to actually telling Y how he makes me feel sometimes, I get nervous and don't want to tell him because I'm afraid of his reaction and afraid that words will make him disappear. Y isn't like that and always tells me that I can open up to him and will ask me what is on my mind if he feels something is wrong. It's just the fear that I have that holds me back from opening up.

I'm going to try my hardest not to get any readings this week and see how long I can keep it up. Not including my pending reading that I'm still waiting for from Rachel...

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posted October 27, 2014 08:30 AM            

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No, it's mostly the ones that are very accurate with my situation and it leaves me wanting to know more lol. The one who surprised me the most is [b]Lidia. However her predictions for contact don't come through, lol. So, I would say she is accurate 90% but predictions are like 60% or less.

Katrina the Gifted used to be very accurate for me. I remember once she saw the number 4 of Y contacting me and he contacted me on September 4th. However, lately she has been wrong. I suppose maybe she doesn't see things clearly sometimes.

Toria Has always been accurate for me, but I always doubted her lol. For an example, while Y was gone I felt within my heart that he blocked me and other readers said that he didn't. She was the only one that was firm and kept telling me that he didn't block me. And when he returned I discovered he never did block me, just as she said. However, due to Y's persona, Toria's predictions of contact may or may not happen, due to him changing his mind often, but most of the time she is about 80-90% right for me.

Rachel has only been wrong for me one time. Actually she was one of my favorites, but as of right now I'm very disappointed in her. I paid for a text reading days ago and have yet to receive a reply. I've even texted her assistant and she forwarded my message to Rachel, and told me if I still hadn't heard back from Rachel to resent my question. I resent it and still nothing. So, I text the assistant and explained my situation and now the assistant hasn't said anything back yet either. I know $6.50 isn't much, but I want it refunded back now. Besides that mess, she is normally very accurate and predictions often happen. She's about 85-90% for me.

Advisor Eve She is accurate with my situation, just as everyone else is, but predictions are a so-so with her. I'd say she falls under the 65-70% rate with predictions and 80% with everything else.

Ms. Dewey She's accurate for me. As she was the only one in the beginning to see Y contacting me in September, but everyone else saw August. BUT I noticed her running into not so good review with other clients. And another thing that bothers me now is that I paid $10 for a clarity candle weeks ago and I wanted to know about it, but she has been avoiding me. So, I guess that $10 is lost, lol. Her percentage for me is 90% accurate with the situation and 90-95% with predictions happening. Now, I must say this is for me, as I have noticed people on bitwine (judging from her negative reviews) aren't pleased with her and I have seen that she hasn't said pleasant words to the, unfortunately...

Ms. Madison I spoke with her for the first time today and she was extremely accurate with me. However, her prediction is the same as everyone else's, so we'll see. I can't give a rate on her predictions, but she was about 85-90% accurate for my situation with Y.

DLD is another is is very accurate and her predictions do happen for me, but I noticed she doesn't give short time frame dates. When I first contacted her, she give me a long term time frame month. Only one time she couldn't connect with me and ended the chat before I could reply, lol. Since then she has been able to reconnect. DLD is able 90% correct with me and predictions are about 95%

Domine Candrews is very good! She can read my situation 95% and predictions used to come the day she predicted or a day late. However lately, predictions haven't been coming to pass. Her most recent recent hasn't come up yet, it's due for tomorrow (the same as Katrina's), but I'll have to wait and see what happens (as I've been told Y changes his mind often.) Her predictions I'd say are a toss up, anywhere between 75% to 80%

Sophea I've only spoke with her 2 times, I believe. She was 95% with prediction the first time. The last time I spoke with her I think she was maybe 60-65% accurate. There were times she was 85%, but I wouldn't be going back to her.

Pixie Dust Wasn't accurate for me. I would say she is about 55-60%

Abundant Visions She is probably my number one favorite. Her predictions always come to pass for me 98% (I don't want to give anyone 100% lol, because no one is 100%, maybe close) She reads the situation very well and considering her is cheaper on her other site, I think from now on in the future, I'll go to her for sure. Her rate for accuracy I would also rate in the 90's, it would be 95% But in the beginning, she told me some things I didn't think were accurate, but now that I think about it she was accurate.

Everyone before AV is from bitwine, in case anyone was wondering. I would list others, because I have spoken to other readers, but I only listed a few. My trusted reader list has been going up and down. Currently, I think I'll just stick with AV and Toria, because those two are most accurate and predictions have come to pass with them. The only thing is Toria isn't very detailed and in order for her to type enough, I have to ask questions within questions or ask her to clarify what she is telling me, that way it is a bit more detailed. It still isn't a lot of words like Rachel types, lol, but it's better.

Besides all of that, I really need to cut down on readings. I try to follow my own intuition, but I can be paranoid and my intuition is no good when I'm like that, lol. [/B]

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ive always really felt like lidia got things right on but then yeah predictions don't always happen to time,
katrina requested a refund as i felt she was fake she twisted her predictions around what i said, honestly.

miss tori a was wrong last time but havnt been back since

rachel nails it for me but often predictions don't happen or at least not a the right time
they have here and there tho gone to plan

i also waited 2.5 weeks for a text reading i emailed etsy messaged and then i just unboxed her on bit wine and told her, she said she would get into trouble talking about it in there but i ploughed on and she eventually sent, she reckoned had been sent loads of times ages ago and sometimes she has issues with server, i don't know!

id love to try abundant visions but i don't like keen so much as a platform, and each time i looks he's not on

Domine Candrews i tried her the other day for the first time and there is one minor detail she picks up that others havnt that i felt in my intuition he felt a bit suddenly unsure if he didn't the right thing and regretful but others say he was happy with it so its hard as my intuition did feel what she said so maybe she read my mind! lol glad to hear she's been good for ppl tho.

posted October 27, 2014 09:14 AM            

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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
Hi Proxy...
I am the one that warned you about this a while ago
And I said it with the best of intentions because it happened to me.
But I spent way more then $600. Sad but true.
And overall- very very little that was predicted for me, actually happened.
A little thing or a minute detail here & there.
A 1% accuracy rate. Not good.
If you are recognizing it you can take the first step towards turning it around.
Please post & tag me if you ever need me to pull cards for you, for free.
I never want to see anyone go through what I did as far as spending so much money AND energy that I can never get back.
Do I still get readings? Yes. Are they less frequent? He** yes. Do I take them all with a grain of salt? 100%.
We create our own reality.
I got tired of expending THAT much of my energy and love on someone who wasn't returning it.
I wish you well

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I wish I would have paid more heed to your words. Back then I didn’t realize how addictive it can be. Now I am living it myself by seeing how it truly is. Thank you for warning me back then, nonetheless I’m glad that I am recognizing it now and not later. I’m feeling a little anxious now because today was a few readers prediction for contact. I know it’s early in the morning, but this is normally around the time Y contacts me, as it is night where he is now and he is most likely off from work now. Domine did tell me that he could contact during my evening, so maybe there is still some hope left for today, no sure yet. I keep looking at Lidia online right now just to know what Y’s current feelings are of contacting me due to him always changing his mind and it could be different now, but I feel like I shouldn’t bother her, lol.

posted October 27, 2014 09:24 AM              

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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
Hi Proxy...
I am the one that warned you about this a while ago
And I said it with the best of intentions because it happened to me.
But I spent way more then $600. Sad but true.
And overall- very very little that was predicted for me, actually happened.
A little thing or a minute detail here & there.
A 1% accuracy rate. Not good.
If you are recognizing it you can take the first step towards turning it around.
Please post & tag me if you ever need me to pull cards for you, for free.
I never want to see anyone go through what I did as far as spending so much money AND energy that I can never get back.
Do I still get readings? Yes. Are they less frequent? He** yes. Do I take them all with a grain of salt? 100%.
We create our own reality.
I got tired of expending THAT much of my energy and love on someone who wasn't returning it.
I wish you well

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I can relate to this. My experience is quite similar.

The readings, designed to bring guidance and comfort, became an addiction and a security blanket for me. Ironically, because I quit relying on my own intuition, the "security" became a source of anxiety. It was a pretty bad cycle.

I also had to question why I put so much time and effort into a man who I couldn't directly speak to about my feelings. If we'd had a healthy enough relationship, I feel I wouldn't have needed to learn how he feels from outside sources. I eventually put that behind me and moved on to a healthy relationship with great communication. The difference is truly amazing.

posted October 27, 2014 09:25 AM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
ive always really felt like lidia got things right on but then yeah predictions don't always happen to time,
katrina requested a refund as i felt she was fake she twisted her predictions around what i said, honestly.

miss tori a was wrong last time but havnt been back since

rachel nails it for me but often predictions don't happen or at least not a the right time
they have here and there tho gone to plan

i also waited 2.5 weeks for a text reading i emailed etsy messaged and then i just unboxed her on bit wine and told her, she said she would get into trouble talking about it in there but i ploughed on and she eventually sent, she reckoned had been sent loads of times ages ago and sometimes she has issues with server, i don't know!

id love to try abundant visions but i don't like keen so much as a platform, and each time i looks he's not on

Domine Candrews i tried her the other day for the first time and there is one minor detail she picks up that others havnt that i felt in my intuition he felt a bit suddenly unsure if he didn't the right thing and regretful but others say he was happy with it so its hard as my intuition did feel what she said so maybe she read my mind! lol glad to hear she's been good for ppl tho.

i mean right now give or take a bit they all say the same, i really blew out this weekend been in bed ill with a cold, had a lot happen and gave a lot of readings so only spent a bit but man probably had like 12 readings, in a way its good tho as i think ive just let go a lot by being so bored of it all lol.

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Yeah, that is true about Lidia, but I do like her a lot. She’s really spot on, similar to AV in a way, it’s just that prediction either don’t happen or are a few days late or earlier than expected, lol. As far as Rachel, I contacted her on bitwine and she replied back telling me that she couldn’t discuss anything about it due to bitwine policies. I still responded back and also sent an email to her that I found on her website. Still nothing yet. If he contacts me before her, I’m really going to ask for a refund because I’ve been waiting for days now, but not as nearly as long as you had waited. Wow, 2.5 weeks? I really like Rachel, but after this I’ll just stick with talking to her on Bitwine.

Domine is really good, but the predictions are a tossup and I think it has more so to do with him than her.

posted October 27, 2014 10:09 AM            

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Originally posted by SpiritualSadie:
I can relate to this. My experience is quite similar.

The readings, designed to bring guidance and comfort, became an addiction and a security blanket for me. Ironically, because I quit relying on my own intuition, the "security" became a source of anxiety. It was a pretty bad cycle.

I also had to question why I put so much time and effort into a man who I couldn't directly speak to about my feelings. If we'd had a healthy enough relationship, I feel I wouldn't have needed to learn how he feels from outside sources. I eventually put that behind me and moved on to a healthy relationship with great communication. The difference is truly amazing.

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That is great to hear!!!
And very true.
Out of curiosity- did your readings mostly say the same thing about the man in question? And were they mostly positive?

I am truly happy you broke the cycle

posted October 27, 2014 11:37 AM              

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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
That is great to hear!!!
And very true.
Out of curiosity- did your readings mostly say the same thing about the man in question? And were they mostly positive?

I am truly happy you broke the cycle

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Yes, they all said similar things about him. Some were more positive than others. Almost all of them said he'd open up more and tell me how he felt about me. He was said to love me and have very strong feelings, a soul mate, some said twin flame.

Almost all of them said we'd have another chance at a relationship. Some were more practical than others in that they'd say it wouldn't be an easy road. Others said he'd change and be who I wanted him to be.

I think it was that...the idea that he had these really deep feelings for me but due to fear was unable to express them, that kept me hanging on far too long. I was afraid I was going to miss the opportunity if I did anything different. It (I) put me in a state of waiting.

I don't blame that on the readers. I do believe they (many of them) picked up accurate feelings about me, him and the situation. If I hadn't had the insight, I would have read this more based on what was known and what he did/didn't show me and would have acted accordingly. I would have walked. That may have spurred action on his part and it may not have. But one thing's for sure...I wouldn't have held on to next to nothing based on what should happen tomorrow.

That was my biggest mistake.

I still get readings from time to time. I still have a couple of preferred readers who were very realistic about their readings. Didn't sell fairy tales. But I'm working more on my own spiritual growth right now and tapping into my own intuitive gifts.

posted October 27, 2014 02:12 PM            

The only thing that truly stopped my heavy addiction was me looking at a savings account that I had with $5900 in it go to $0 from Psychic Readings. Not only that but I lost my job. It made me realize how backwards my priorities had been. I was so worried about "M" and wanting to be with "M" it was primary focus in life and it created a toxic addiction and I was in a toxic situation. "M" is now in jail and several readers got it right about him. He was not a good person and deep down I knew but I loved him...

posted October 27, 2014 02:12 PM            

Your story sounds very similar to mine.

May I ask if the man in question ever stepped up? Or was it simply too late?