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Topic: Have you guys ever used a psychic service? Part 2
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SpiritualSadie
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posted October 27, 2014 02:17 PM
 
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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
Thanks for sharing Sadie!!Your story sounds very similar to mine. May I ask if the man in question ever stepped up? Or was it simply too late?
No, he didn't. If he did now it would be too late. IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
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posted October 27, 2014 02:30 PM
SpiritialSadie that is so similar to mine also! Fear expressing etc. Now I realize how ******** it sounded! I guess it could be that psychics feeding same info to everyone... Though, in my case, there is a legitimate fear: the 20+ years age gap. But either way, if a man would step up, he would. Never be anyone's safety net I guess. IP: Logged |
IntuitiveJ
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posted October 27, 2014 02:39 PM
I think many of us have heard the same story/are in similar situations.
In my opinion - if a man wants you he will do whatever it takes to make it happen. Of course timing in life plays a factor but I am somewhat disgusted with myself for feeding into the "give him time, he loves you" readings. Which 95% have been btw.Whatever will be will be. I don't want to try & control or worry about the outcome anymore.
We all have lives to live. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted October 27, 2014 02:45 PM
You know what?It's no different when the guy actually DOES step up. Now that M has made changes (and still is; one thing he does that still irks me) I still look back at what I spent. I look back at what I spent or readings in Grad School... Even with a successful ending, I still feel like over 1/2 of what I spent was a waste of money. The human condition is just LIKE that, tho. I spent maybe $150 this weekend on readings about Fille and that's OBVIOUSLY not going to change anything. Think of it as therapy- a survival/coping mechanism. Because that's what it really boils down to regardless of the outcome. People talk to psychologist at a much higher rate and still have poor outcomes sometimes. I never think it's a complete waste of money. A positive reading could be what's getting some people out of bed every day. Would M have stepped up and made changes without all these readings? Sure. Was it better with the reassurance? Yes, but I do feel the number of readings was overkill regarding him, college, career... Spending $100 on readings to ask if finances will improve is just ridiculous. ------------------
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peacefulclouds
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posted October 27, 2014 02:45 PM
I guess personally the 'hook' between me and the man was the fact we actually had an almost excellent rapport & communication both verbal and non-verbal. We can even 'fight' constructively (never out of malice), and even when we had arguments it never was about blaming each other.It was never that hard for us to talk to each other about our annoyances, worries and all (almost compulsive)- EXCEPT the relationship itself. And timings. and the age gap..... And, well, he did say what his fear once ("I'm too old for you, I'm too ****** up."/"I won't be able to be with you for long.") but only when he was super drunk. Sober, he would just say he sees me as a good friend and won't sleep with me (???? still wondering why he even brought that up no less than 5 times without any prompt whatsoever.) Maybe he want to emphasize he doesn't see me that way.
oh well, it's been almost a month and my heart is already tired, knowing he chose someone else :P
in hindsight, these readings actually predicted a lot of things right except the actual 'relationship' itself, I will make it into a new post below.
SpiritualSadie, which readers told you you're twinflames/soulmates ? I want to avoid those lol. IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
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posted October 27, 2014 02:51 PM
^^^^ LP, believe it or not I think I accidentally came across Fille's youtube account today and my heart sank. I suppose you guys were very close, be strong. She's lucky to have you as a friend. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted October 27, 2014 02:57 PM
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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
^^^^ LP, believe it or not I think I accidentally came across Fille's youtube account today and my heart sank. I suppose you guys were very close, be strong. She's lucky to have you as a friend.
I'll be making a post about that Video and a sychronicity I'd been having about the number 7:17 since I met M. Although, I didn't realize the synchronicity until I went digging through screenshots of readings she did about M to show him. She came into my life when he left and 4 days after he comes with intention to stay for good, she's gone for good. IP: Logged |
SophiaFrank
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posted October 27, 2014 03:02 PM
Omgosh wait are who is Fille's and what happened?????IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted October 27, 2014 03:06 PM
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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
Omgosh wait are who is Fille's and what happened?????
Ummm... go to personal readings and follow the trail of blue. IP: Logged |
SophiaFrank
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posted October 27, 2014 03:14 PM
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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Ummm... go to personal readings and follow the trail of blue.
I had no idea. Sorry for asking in this thread (it's the only one I've ever wrote in) Wow just wow I'm so shocked. I talked to her on September 9th. IP: Logged |
IntuitiveJ
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posted October 27, 2014 03:27 PM
@peaceful clouds 8 out of 10 readers have said that the man in question is either a high level soulmate for me or a twin flame. @LP- very very valid points. I'm so fortunate to have found you & this board to exchange with/read for. I do put my heart into all of my readings for anyone while sadly feel many readers on paid sights are in it for the money.
Are there some gifted readers? Yes.
Are many many trying to sell you a dream? Probably. It's sad. Maybe my energy is confusing or his is as very very little has happened as predicted (even way beyond time frames given).
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FairyDust75
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posted October 27, 2014 03:33 PM
Well today I woke up craving a reading. For some reason I feel very down and unsettled. I'm resisting the temptation but I wanted one badly. It's not easy sometimes but I know it's not going to do anything for me except act as a quick fix which may fuel me for more. I think I'm going to read through my notes and on the readings I've had. Maybe that will help me in some way. But I have no extra money at the moment so there will be no reading for me. @LP I'm just stunned over Fille. I didn't know her personally but we did interact and she read me a few times on the forum. She seemed like a good person. I can only imagine how you must be feeling. It's such a shock to lose someone so suddenly. I'm thinking of you and all I can say is to take it one day at a time. It's just a shock. Her family must be devastated. IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted October 27, 2014 04:45 PM
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Originally posted by SpiritualSadie:
Probably one of the most profound things that was said to me that really helped me break the addiction was that I needed to stay grounded. I'd heard the term before but when this person explained to me that staying grounded means living in the moment, in today, and not focusing on tomorrow and the "what ifs" that can come with it, it resonated (because the readings were all about the what ifs and what's coming) I started to really focus on living in the moment. Every moment that's spent thinking about tomorrow is a moment that's taken from today.
I think that’s probably what anyone that has an addiction with this need to hear. To stay grounded, living in the moment is what some people do. Yet, when a person such as us, we get readings done and start focusing so much on when the prediction is set to happen instead of “living in the moment IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted October 27, 2014 04:49 PM
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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
Abundant Visions is one of the very few Psychics that I haven't tried. I read her profile and reviews and she seems to be very accurate for a lot of people. The only thing that truly stopped my heavy addiction was me looking at a savings account that I had with $5900 in it go to $0 from Psychic Readings. Not only that but I lost my job. It made me realize how backwards my priorities had been. I was so worried about "M" and wanting to be with "M" it was primary focus in life and it created a toxic addiction and I was in a toxic situation. "M" is now in jail and several readers got it right about him. He was not a good person and deep down I knew but I loved him... @Sandie- Very well written and I agree with you 100% Are you reading books on spiritual growth? If so can you please share those
Yes, she's really good. She can pick up things easily and her predictions do come to pass. At least for me they also do. Wow, really? I’m glad that you truly stopped. Thank you for sharing this! I was thinking about thiat almost two weeks ago. I’ve been saving for my own place and I was thinking to myself that if I did have my own place, I probably wouldn’t have enough money for rent the way I was going. IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted October 27, 2014 04:53 PM
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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
I think many of us have heard the same story/are in similar situations.
In my opinion - if a man wants you he will do whatever it takes to make it happen. Of course timing in life plays a factor but I am somewhat disgusted with myself for feeding into the "give him time, he loves you" readings. Which 95% have been btw.Whatever will be will be. I don't want to try & control or worry about the outcome anymore.
We all have lives to live.
With me, I get that I have to go slow with him due to his persona. Y doesn’t express himself and they all tell me that he will start to open up more, which he was starting to do. He offered to tell me things he didn’t have to tell me, even told me that he wanted to marry me when he comes to America next year, which shocked me because Y never spoke that way with me before and he seemed very happy to announce that to me. I have gotten a few not so good readings, but generally all of my readings have something good to say about Y and I future, but that he needs to work on himself and learn to open up more. IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted October 27, 2014 04:58 PM
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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
You know what?It's no different when the guy actually DOES step up. Now that M has made changes (and still is; one thing he does that still irks me) I still look back at what I spent. I look back at what I spent or readings in Grad School... Even with a successful ending, I still feel like over 1/2 of what I spent was a waste of money. The human condition is just LIKE that, tho. I spent maybe $150 this weekend on readings about Fille and that's OBVIOUSLY not going to change anything. Think of it as therapy- a survival/coping mechanism. Because that's what it really boils down to regardless of the outcome. People talk to psychologist at a much higher rate and still have poor outcomes sometimes. I never think it's a complete waste of money. A positive reading could be what's getting some people out of bed every day. Would M have stepped up and made changes without all these readings? Sure. Was it better with the reassurance? Yes, but I do feel the number of readings was overkill regarding him, college, career... Spending $100 on readings to ask if finances will improve is just ridiculous.
I’m glad that you have a successful ending though, LP  I do agree that things will happen on it’s own without the reading, but having that reassurance can make a person feel better (or worse depending on the reading.) I’ve gotten so many readings done over the course of four months and 90% of my questions were about Y and the rest of the percentage was about my personal life (career, my novel and moving into my own place.) Some readings I do feel good about because the predictions came to pass and it made me feel happy. Yet, it’s the money that I spent looking back on everything that makes me feel disappointed in myself.
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ProxyxBlue
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posted October 27, 2014 05:03 PM
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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
I guess personally the 'hook' between me and the man was the fact we actually had an almost excellent rapport & communication both verbal and non-verbal. We can even 'fight' constructively (never out of malice), and even when we had arguments it never was about blaming each other.It was never that hard for us to talk to each other about our annoyances, worries and all (almost compulsive)- EXCEPT the relationship itself. And timings. and the age gap..... And, well, he did say what his fear once ("I'm too old for you, I'm too ****** up."/"I won't be able to be with you for long.") but only when he was super drunk. Sober, he would just say he sees me as a good friend and won't sleep with me (???? still wondering why he even brought that up no less than 5 times without any prompt whatsoever.) Maybe he want to emphasize he doesn't see me that way.
oh well, it's been almost a month and my heart is already tired, knowing he chose someone else :P
in hindsight, these readings actually predicted a lot of things right except the actual 'relationship' itself, I will make it into a new post below.
SpiritualSadie, which readers told you you're twinflames/soulmates ? I want to avoid those lol.
Yeah, for me it’s somewhat similar. Y and I have a good connection whenever we talk. We’re always laughing on the phone, or he is teasing me and mimicking my voice. We used to talk on the phone for like 5 hours in the beginning, but now it’s maybe close to 2hrs or so. The thing is, I’m sensitive to certain things and he doesn’t fully express himself and has a habit of disappearing. We’ve never argued, as neither of us like confrontation. So, the main reason I tend to get readings is whenever I don’t hear from Y, because my fear lies in losing him again and I always want to make sure he is still around and not gone again. When I get that reassurance I feel better, and 100% more better when the prediction comes to pass and he contacts me. It’s when I don’t hear from him that I panic and become filled with anxiety and doubt. IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted October 27, 2014 05:08 PM
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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
@peaceful clouds 8 out of 10 readers have said that the man in question is either a high level soulmate for me or a twin flame. @LP- very very valid points. I'm so fortunate to have found you & this board to exchange with/read for. I do put my heart into all of my readings for anyone while sadly feel many readers on paid sights are in it for the money.
Are there some gifted readers? Yes.
Are many many trying to sell you a dream? Probably. It's sad. Maybe my energy is confusing or his is as very very little has happened as predicted (even way beyond time frames given).
I’ve been told by a few of my trusted readers that Y is a soul mate. Others just said he and I are supposed to be together, not really using the word “soul mate.” I do know Y’s energy confuses readers. AV, Rachel, Katrina and a few others had trouble with him in the beginning and had to tell me that he is hard to read. So, sometimes it takes longer for a reading until they feel they are connected and even when they are connected, Y ‘s mind doesn’t stay focus and tends to waver constantly and changing his mind about contact and things, which makes things confusing for them sometimes.
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ProxyxBlue
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posted October 27, 2014 05:12 PM
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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Well today I woke up craving a reading. For some reason I feel very down and unsettled. I'm resisting the temptation but I wanted one badly. It's not easy sometimes but I know it's not going to do anything for me except act as a quick fix which may fuel me for more. I think I'm going to read through my notes and on the readings I've had. Maybe that will help me in some way. But I have no extra money at the moment so there will be no reading for me.
Yeah, one reading can fuel for another one. When I reread my transcripts on Bitwine, it doesn’t help me much unfortunately lol. It just makes me want another reading if I find something I missed and want to ask another question. Or if their prediction was within the week, for example, both Domine and Katrina predicted I would hear from Y today (Monday). If I were to go on Bitwine right now and reread the transcripts with them, I would eventually want another session to make sure if he will still contact me today or has it changed. If it changed, I will ask why and then more and more questions will be asked until another prediction time frame is set and I find myself waiting again. It’s just one horrible process for me. IP: Logged |
SpiritualSadie
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posted October 27, 2014 09:21 PM
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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
Abundant Visions is one of the very few Psychics that I haven't tried. I read her profile and reviews and she seems to be very accurate for a lot of people. The only thing that truly stopped my heavy addiction was me looking at a savings account that I had with $5900 in it go to $0 from Psychic Readings. Not only that but I lost my job. It made me realize how backwards my priorities had been. I was so worried about "M" and wanting to be with "M" it was primary focus in life and it created a toxic addiction and I was in a toxic situation. "M" is now in jail and several readers got it right about him. He was not a good person and deep down I knew but I loved him... @Sandie- Very well written and I agree with you 100% Are you reading books on spiritual growth? If so can you please share those
I'm not reading any books right now. I am working with someone one on one. AV is still one of my go to readers. She's very straightforward and one that never tried to sell me a fairy tale. Although she still sees this man's return, she's been very clear the whole way that he is one difficult man. She's picked up things others haven't as well, things that I know for a fact are accurate that she'd have no way of knowing. She's a good one! IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
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posted October 27, 2014 09:35 PM
I agree AV is a good one. She still sees A returning although I'm very skeptical of it. But she's told me some stuff I know to be true. She even told me when he does return I'll feel optimistic but I'll be wiser to him. She wants me to tell him to go to hell but she said she knows I'll still talk to him and see him. She told me NOT to be intimate with him because he will try right away. We shall see. I'm skeptical of it all. IP: Logged |
IntuitiveJ
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posted October 27, 2014 09:36 PM
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Originally posted by SpiritualSadie:
I'm not reading any books right now. I am working with someone one on one.AV is still one of my go to readers. She's very straightforward and one that never tried to sell me a fairy tale. Although she still sees this man's return, she's been very clear the whole way that he is one difficult man. She's picked up things others haven't as well, things that I know for a fact are accurate that she'd have no way of knowing. She's a good one!
Do you feel he will still return?
I know you said earlier it's too late for you anyway.... IP: Logged |
SpiritualSadie
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posted October 27, 2014 09:38 PM
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SpiritualSadie, which readers told you you're twinflames/soulmates ? I want to avoid those lol. [/B]
I don't have those reading transcripts anymore. When I made a commitment to get a handle on this, I deleted my account at Kasamba (formerly LivePerson). That's where I spent my time (and so much money I don't even want to think about it lol). This relationship with this man spanned a few years so there were a lot of readings. But even AV said it was a soul mate connection/possible twin flame connection and she's a superb reader so I personally don't take that as a bad thing. IP: Logged |
SpiritualSadie
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posted October 27, 2014 09:54 PM
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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
Do you feel he will still return?
I know you said earlier it's too late for you anyway....
I actually feel we will cross paths again. In what capacity, I'm not sure. I'm involved with someone now and it's getting pretty serious, so unless that goes south for some reason, I don't see me being open to him. ETA: I've always been drawn to this man, and for quite a while I feared he would return and I'd mess up this good relationship I have now. As time goes by, that fear does get less. I hope my emotional self is as strong as my logical self if that time ever comes.
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IntuitiveJ
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posted October 27, 2014 09:58 PM
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Originally posted by SpiritualSadie:
I actually feel we will cross paths again. In what capacity, I'm not sure. I'm involved with someone now and it's getting pretty serious, so unless that goes south for some reason, I don't see me being open to him.
I totally understand.
Happy for you that you're in a better place!
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