posted August 04, 2014 06:31 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
You're so right! If we think it won't happen our negative energy could affect it. But I'm so skeptical. I had so many people tell me P was coming back and guess what, he never came back. Now I have a new situation going on and a whole new slew of readers. They all agree the new guy has issues but yes I will hear from him again. They all agree that there will be something but doesn't mean it will progress the long term I'm wanting. I've had the best give me dates that have come and gone and still nothing. Do I continue to remain positive or let it go? The only think I'm doing differently from P is that I'm actually still going out and talking to others. With P I didn't try to still meet other people. This time I refuse to do that. I'm not going to be stuck with nothing. I'm still trying to meet new guys but I still am wondering if the new guy actually will appear again. I'm confused about it all really.

Even Anthon St Maarten who is on the top 10 list said he will reappear in my life and try to rekindle something. The new guy not P. He said not to expect a long term relationship turning into marriage from him but we will have something. His timing is for the fall. I so want to believe it but my brain wants to say not to.

Oh and last time I talked to K4S she still said P will contact me again. I flat out told her I'm very skeptical of that. And she said he will. However none of her time frames of new guy contact have come to pass either. Abundant Visions picked up on P and said she feels no contact from him. He's gone. So who to believe? I didn't even as AV about P but he came up.

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I think truly believing it because you feel a high self worth and high self love and don't have any energy blocks sabotaging or holding you back energetically from something is very different to believing someone's coming back and being told a lot. I experience that with someone for a long time! Years ! And looking back I wasn't rly in a high vibrational self loving believing place

posted August 04, 2014 07:20 PM            

I totally agree and it took me 2 years to understand why most reading don't come out accurately. I wish I saw this before my addiction to psychics started!

QUOTE]Originally posted by PSYCHE:
Personally I believe that readings are a marker of our current energy and prediction based upon that. I've had enough readings and tested the theory enough my energy shifts, my thoughts shift, my vibration drops or raises and the readings also change.
They match our thoughts rly and probably because our thoughts create our reality. I guess a good reading if it makes you truly believe something and lifts the mood in some ways can actually make it happen as self belief is higher. I thin some things are more likely than others but I promise I see things change as I do

Some people don't do much self work so readings can pretty much manifest if people do I reckon things can totally change [/QUOTE]

posted August 04, 2014 07:26 PM            

.... and I knew it wasn't going to happen. so she told me what I wanted to hear.

She told me that my ex was going to be a good wife to he just got married to... and me and him get back together. It's a year later and he never did leave her and we never did get back together

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Originally posted by lilacbreeze:
Sorry to hear that cherful - did the opposite happen of what she predicted? Or did she predict an event that didn't happen at all?

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posted August 04, 2014 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I personally don't ever expect to hear from P again. Why would he even bother? Why would I even bother? I am moving on with my life and trying to date again. I haven't had a ton of luck. Most of the men I've spoke to recently are only interested in one thing. I have one who asked me if I would with him. I declined that. I actually want a relationship not just a one night stand.

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posted August 04, 2014 11:02 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I personally don't ever expect to hear from P again. Why would he even bother? Why would I even bother? I am moving on with my life and trying to date again. I haven't had a ton of luck. Most of the men I've spoke to recently are only interested in one thing. I have one who asked me if I would with him. I declined that. I actually want a relationship not just a one night stand.

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posted August 04, 2014 11:04 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
she has literally got everything spot on for me so far date wise, and whats happened by virgo time i will know if everything absolutely was spot on but to date over course of a year everything has happened to the month she has said.

she can sometimes get confused and be a bit long winded to get there and change her mind a bit the first reading i rated her quite badly but then the things she said actually happened i couldn't believe it and i went back and apologised and had quite a few reads with her since and its all happened so far, i although her opinions have changed slightly the timelines always remain the same and do happen.

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posted August 04, 2014 11:05 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
lol lines like

i think he has too many issues to deal with i wouldnt want to but then i wouldn't want to deal with most men to be honest!

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posted August 04, 2014 11:44 PM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
from my personal point of view
getting marry is not a free will thing.
same as who is your parents and will you have kids, who will spend life time with you...they are all destiny. No free will can change these.

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posted August 05, 2014 12:34 AM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
from my personal point of view
getting marry is not a free will thing.
same as who is your parents and will you have kids, who will spend life time with you...they are all destiny. No free will can change these.

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posted August 05, 2014 01:16 AM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Funny you say that. Anthon brought that up to me. He told me I have a negative self image of myself and my negativity projects. He told me to change my thoughts and how I view myself and it will help me. He said to go and pamper myself and then when I feel worthy the positive will come in. So I've been trying to work on that. I started on my trip. Doing things for myself to boost my esteem. I just keep trying to let the positive thoughts in and not listen to the negative thoughts.

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posted August 05, 2014 01:25 AM            

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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
Agree!!

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I'm not sure I feel my guidance changes all time with regards to if I will ever have kids.

posted August 05, 2014 01:28 AM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
Carla is very spot on with the current issues; she & yazmin were the only one can see B is traveling now. Will we get there finally she said we could if we give patience & time.
things are pretty much align with Rachel & Yazmin.
and i dont feel she hates men lol, she said my guy is very sincere but the path is extremely bumpy.
why she hates guys..may i know? lol

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Urgh mine is so confusing as no one has said I won't get the offer of a proper relationship even her but she is the only one who doesn't see him being a good person for me that he may go back to old habits she doesn't know and won't say for sure but she's the only one who's negative on him. I rly feel I will get the option too and it's weird to love someone so much but not rly be sure if you should even go there if it does get offered :/ confusion I don't even know my own feelings lol I have blown up psychic reading with this one have to stop

posted August 05, 2014 01:30 AM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
lol she said similar things to me
why bother to be with a guy with so many bagagges. XDXDXD

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That's what I mean I mean I do feel she taps into so so so much and her card reading is like beyond amazing the best there is but then when she throws in her own ideas and opinions I'm not so sure that it's guided stuff she's passing on. She based the future on me saying I was nervous about something and she said why would u want a man when shown that red flag ? I genuinely don't know if that was her reading or just passing on her ideas

But yeah when u look back at her readings she's always amazing
A lot of the good readers do pick up and are very useful for current energy but very few does stuff actually happen as they say but maybe it's a possibility on one timeline and we do or don't stay in that timeline.

I read for myself actually and notice my readings do change based on me changing to some extent.
Some things stay more fixed
I do believe maybe karma has to played out or something but some relationships that arnt spiritual ones are maybe less destined and more free will

posted August 05, 2014 02:04 AM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
I'm not sure I feel my guidance changes all time with regards to if I will ever have kids.

What if you didn't marry but ended up in a long term relationship forever with someone just didn't legalise it with marriage ?

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posted August 05, 2014 02:17 AM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
Urgh mine is so confusing as no one has said I won't get the offer of a proper relationship even her but she is the only one who doesn't see him being a good person for me that he may go back to old habits she doesn't know and won't say for sure but she's the only one who's negative on him. I rly feel I will get the option too and it's weird to love someone so much but not rly be sure if you should even go there if it does get offered :/ confusion I don't even know my own feelings lol I have blown up psychic reading with this one have to stop

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is it because you are a psychic yoruself so you are sooo difficult to read?

seriously i am not defending anybody; but i do meet few psychics are real and they proved to be accurate. not because they said things i like to hear (this is hard to swallow honestly, read few times here some said psychic A or whoever is real and some said just because she said things the customer likes to hear? that not just so disrespectful to that reader but to the customer as well...just an example not saying you did this, you didnt) but what they said DID happened; time frame maybe off but they did happen.

maybe i am easier to read, i think.

posted August 05, 2014 02:23 AM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
That's what I mean I mean I do feel she taps into so so so much and her card reading is like beyond amazing the best there is but then when she throws in her own ideas and opinions I'm not so sure that it's guided stuff she's passing on. She based the future on me saying I was nervous about something and she said why would u want a man when shown that red flag ? I genuinely don't know if that was her reading or just passing on her ideas

But yeah when u look back at her readings she's always amazing
A lot of the good readers do pick up and are very useful for current energy but very few does stuff actually happen as they say but maybe it's a possibility on one timeline and we do or don't stay in that timeline.

I read for myself actually and notice my readings do change based on me changing to some extent.
Some things stay more fixed
I do believe maybe karma has to played out or something but some relationships that arnt spiritual ones are maybe less destined and more free will

I'm so fascinated by free will

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"she said why would u want a man when shown that red flag" i think this is her opinion.

posted August 05, 2014 03:16 AM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
is it because you are a psychic yoruself so you are sooo difficult to read?

seriously i am not defending anybody; but i do meet few psychics are real and they proved to be accurate. not because they said things i like to hear (this is hard to swallow honestly, read few times here some said psychic A or whoever is real and some said just because she said things the customer likes to hear? that not just so disrespectful to that reader but to the customer as well...just an example not saying you did this, you didnt) but what they said DID happened; time frame maybe off but they did happen.

maybe i am easier to read, i think.

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I don't know I think I'm quite open and easy to read a surprising number won't read for me though because I'm registered as an advisor lol
I am always totally suspicious of those people I mean what's the difference

posted August 05, 2014 03:19 AM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
"she said why would u want a man when shown that red flag" i think this is her opinion.

if someone is destined; then no matter what, how he will come over, for good or for bad. we cannot avoid it.
if someone is just in our life giving us a footprint or a lesson; then freewill could play a little bit to delay or advance or change the way he comes; but lesson will come no matter what.
just like why i was bornt in this family; from day 1 0 min 0 second i was bornt i felt like the universe was playing me, not even 1 day my childhood was good. NOT even one day; i had been so bitter and curious for many years, finally Buddhaism gave me the answers, ALL the answers. it is the past life connection and lessons i have to go through no matter what this life i will need to go through all of these. be bornt in this family, be one of the sibilings be suffered. The big monk told me if i do not understand this, face this, let go of this; then next life i will still have this connection and be surrounded by these ppl again so if i dont want them to be around me further, let go; put everything down and close this chapter nicely.
and i did.
that is why i said; important people VIP are destined. your parents, your sibilings, your kids, your kids father they are all destined.

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Almost everyone I've read with has said that the only free will we have getting together is timing. 🙈

Truly I don't know anymore lol !
Most ppl say once gets over his protective barrier will not be like he was in the past but Carla just says why get involved with someone with issues lol