posted August 15, 2014 12:38 AM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Thanks Dreamy for sharing your story. I always feel like this love stuff never works out for me in the right way. I'm just tired of the effort. Part of me wants to walk away but I'm not quite there yet. Still giving it a try and seeing what could happen. But I'm going to continue to explore other avenues as well.

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You're most welcome FD and it will work out for you. Maybe not with this guy, but eventually it will, perhaps with someone better. Only you know when you truly will be ready to walk away, just don't wait as long as I did.

posted August 15, 2014 12:39 AM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Well it's funny, they all predicted contact but felt he would be the one to initiate it. However, when I first texted him he didn't know it was me. So how was he going to text me if he didn't have my number anymore? But they were all correct about stuff that's been going on with him. They still feel something developing. But he would have to answer me back for that to happen. If I were to even try texting him again I don't know what to say. One friend told me to tell him something like, "Hey I guess you don't want to hang out with me so I'm not going to try anymore." But I feel like, why would he answer that. They feel like I keep showing interest in him and maybe he wants to chase instead. I don't know about that. I just wish it was easier. Maybe the correct answer IS the fact that he hasn't responded so just give it up.

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posted August 15, 2014 01:18 AM            

minimini: yeah, i tried divine_love_destiny the first time just because I was very down and she was always online when I do. I found a few bad reviews online about her afterwards, (and the satisfactory ones on bitwine) so I was like oh, maybe I wasted my $- oh well. Until everything she said started manifesting.

I think my last reading w/ her I actually just asked if she can see other candidates in the future, any other men/women in my future since things has changed. She said there wont be a need since the first guy still will be there- and explained what happened and everything (this time she didnt ask for names/dob), gave me timeline + prediction, late aug/early sept. She basically said whatever I do or he does, we cant avoid each other, can run away but cant ever run from it.

I guess people like her style because she is very direct and adamant in her prediction (which can give ppl hope.. which is why I was very wary at first). I ended up slightly arguing with her at some point -- because what she said couldn't possibly true (but it ended up being too true :/ )

posted August 15, 2014 07:22 AM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Well it's funny, they all predicted contact but felt he would be the one to initiate it. However, when I first texted him he didn't know it was me. So how was he going to text me if he didn't have my number anymore? But they were all correct about stuff that's been going on with him. They still feel something developing. But he would have to answer me back for that to happen. If I were to even try texting him again I don't know what to say. One friend told me to tell him something like, "Hey I guess you don't want to hang out with me so I'm not going to try anymore." But I feel like, why would he answer that. They feel like I keep showing interest in him and maybe he wants to chase instead. I don't know about that. I just wish it was easier. Maybe the correct answer IS the fact that he hasn't responded so just give it up.

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Guy 2: went out for 2 weeks. "I'll call you back" turned into never hearing from him again. 1 year later showed up at my house after a tour in Afghanistan

Guy 3: dated before divorce was final. 5 mos of basically fooling around no matter how much he said he wanted to be my man. Admitted he had sex with another woman and broke up with me. "Ok, bye" 5 mos later.... "Hey" GTFOMF

FIRST OF ALL!!! That "who's this?" is a game. Don't buy it so easily. Even so, men find me when they want me. Unfortunately, my moon is in Scorpio and I never want them back. If I don't respond to you with something sweet or emotional, you may as well save the rest if your ego.

posted August 15, 2014 08:56 AM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by FairyDust75:
[b]Well it's funny, they all predicted contact but felt he would be the one to initiate it. However, when I first texted him he didn't know it was me. So how was he going to text me if he didn't have my number anymore? But they were all correct about stuff that's been going on with him. They still feel something developing. But he would have to answer me back for that to happen. If I were to even try texting him again I don't know what to say. One friend told me to tell him something like, "Hey I guess you don't want to hang out with me so I'm not going to try anymore." But I feel like, why would he answer that. They feel like I keep showing interest in him and maybe he wants to chase instead. I don't know about that. I just wish it was easier. Maybe the correct answer IS the fact that he hasn't responded so just give it up.

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Guy 2: went out for 2 weeks. "I'll call you back" turned into never hearing from him again. 1 year later showed up at my house after a tour in Afghanistan

Guy 3: dated before divorce was final. 5 mos of basically fooling around no matter how much he said he wanted to be my man. Admitted he had sex with another woman and broke up with me. "Ok, bye" 5 mos later.... "Hey" GTFOMF

FIRST OF ALL!!! That "who's this?" is a game. Don't buy it so easily. Even so, men find me when they want me. Unfortunately, my moon is in Scorpio and I never want them back. If I don't respond to you with something sweet or emotional, you may as well save the rest if your ego.

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posted August 15, 2014 09:07 AM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Do psychics use the term kindred spirits or soulmates a lot in any of your love readings? sometimes I wonder if they do. I don't believe in them (soulmates) but I got those a lot in my readings, which was why I was a bit weirded by it.

minimini: yeah, i tried divine_love_destiny the first time just because I was very down and she was always online when I do. I found a few bad reviews online about her afterwards, (and the satisfactory ones on bitwine) so I was like oh, maybe I wasted my $- oh well. Until everything she said started manifesting.

I think my last reading w/ her I actually just asked if she can see other candidates in the future, any other men/women in my future since things has changed. She said there wont be a need since the first guy still will be there- and explained what happened and everything (this time she didnt ask for names/dob), gave me timeline + prediction, late aug/early sept. She basically said whatever I do or he does, we cant avoid each other, can run away but cant ever run from it.

I guess people like her style because she is very direct and adamant in her prediction (which can give ppl hope.. which is why I was very wary at first). I ended up slightly arguing with her at some point -- because what she said couldn't possibly true (but it ended up being too true :/ )

If what she said actually manifests again, geez, I don't know, I feel like I'm living in a truman show or something.

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i chatted with DLD few times but do not know why never really take her serious until one time. few months ago i was very ****** by both guys so i approached one guy i like buy not my type. he didnt response the way i wanted...lol. so i went to DLD i was frustrated told her did i ruin the friendship i was just looking for some attention. she perfectly described the guy told me do not do anything more, he will approach you. i was like wait a min...he was running away from me....so i left the chat with doubt. some time later the guy did approach me.
then i started taking her serious.
but she is always busy so hard to catch her.

posted August 15, 2014 09:50 AM            

@LP- lol!! Girl teach me how to do this!! Teach Meeeeee!!!

posted August 15, 2014 10:45 AM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
divine_love_destiny....yes, i was surprised how accurate she was too to be honest. and her price is really low that made me feel even more amusing lol

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posted August 15, 2014 10:46 AM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
divine_love_destiny....yes, i was surprised how accurate she was too to be honest. and her price is really low that made me feel even more amusing lol

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posted August 15, 2014 10:47 AM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
Sooooo…. I tried Diana S. I couldn't take it any longer. LOL.

She was pretty good. Picked up on my situation very quickly. She moved fast and was very clear. She made a few predictions and gave me a couple time frames.

We shall see says the blind man.

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hahah sorry i really shouldn't be suggesting more people i was just impressed by the way she taps into the issues and makes self suggestions more than basing everything on the other persons feelings and predictions which i find so important with soul connections. Only time will tell if she is right mind you.

posted August 15, 2014 10:50 AM            

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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
It was quite strange. So the guy in question who I wrote off because he disappeared for three weeks has been texting sweet messages every morning. I already knew this guy had some ex gal issues. Which aligns with what K4S predicted about him coming to a decision.

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posted August 15, 2014 10:53 AM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
If you do decide to leave it be and let him pursue you, I would not announce it. I would just do it. I would just leave it be. The whole, "I won't bother anymore" might sound a bit dramatic and over the top to man who just met a woman.

If you want to keep it light and flirty, saying that will not do it. Lol. I don't think… I would just not text or call and allow him to return my last attempted contact. No need for an announcement, I don't think. Just makes it look like you are searching for a response.

If you want to contact him, fine. But PLEASE don't say that. Just say "hi" or leave it be. Lol.

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posted August 15, 2014 10:58 AM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by FairyDust75:
[b]Well it's funny, they all predicted contact but felt he would be the one to initiate it. However, when I first texted him he didn't know it was me. So how was he going to text me if he didn't have my number anymore? But they were all correct about stuff that's been going on with him. They still feel something developing. But he would have to answer me back for that to happen. If I were to even try texting him again I don't know what to say. One friend told me to tell him something like, "Hey I guess you don't want to hang out with me so I'm not going to try anymore." But I feel like, why would he answer that. They feel like I keep showing interest in him and maybe he wants to chase instead. I don't know about that. I just wish it was easier. Maybe the correct answer IS the fact that he hasn't responded so just give it up.

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Guy 2: went out for 2 weeks. "I'll call you back" turned into never hearing from him again. 1 year later showed up at my house after a tour in Afghanistan

Guy 3: dated before divorce was final. 5 mos of basically fooling around no matter how much he said he wanted to be my man. Admitted he had sex with another woman and broke up with me. "Ok, bye" 5 mos later.... "Hey" GTFOMF

FIRST OF ALL!!! That "who's this?" is a game. Don't buy it so easily. Even so, men find me when they want me. Unfortunately, my moon is in Scorpio and I never want them back. If I don't respond to you with something sweet or emotional, you may as well save the rest if your ego.

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im a bit like that i think it's a pisces thing too. i am way way too patient hold onto the dream too long turn a blind eye for too long then when i make a decision loose the feeling completely and can never get it back and could live my whole life happily never hearing from the person again that counts for friends and men. It's just once I finally manage to let go I really do let go if i ever felt like giving someone a second chance i would truly know it was meant to be.

posted August 15, 2014 11:03 AM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
lol this made me laugh......sorry i know it is not funny LP ………
well at least the 2nd one he was on military...(right??)

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1) He wasn't scheduled to leave any time soon while we were talking.
2) He was a Navy Seabee. They don't go for long, usually. I think he did 6 months.

See... He came around in a brand new car. Got his military pay and all that. That's nice. Go find a Capricorn with Aquarius moon because I'm not impressed. ✌️😒

posted August 15, 2014 11:05 AM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I agree. I think announcing I'm not going to pursue him anymore is a bit extreme. It just doesn't feel like the right approach to me.

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i know its frustrating when you want to talk to someone but i think the only thing that gives you any chance is to leave it and never double message etc, just reply and leave it however long it takes to get a reply.
It is truly frustrating.

posted August 15, 2014 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
FIRST OF ALL!!! That "who's this?" is a game. Don't buy it so easily. Even so, men find me when they want me. Unfortunately, my moon is in Scorpio and I never want them back. If I don't respond to you with something sweet or emotional, you may as well save the rest if your ego.

@LP- lol!! Girl teach me how to do this!! Teach Meeeeee!!!

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posted August 15, 2014 11:19 AM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
[b]FIRST OF ALL!!! That "who's this?" is a game. Don't buy it so easily. Even so, men find me when they want me. Unfortunately, my moon is in Scorpio and I never want them back. If I don't respond to you with something sweet or emotional, you may as well save the rest if your ego.

@LP- lol!! Girl teach me how to do this!! Teach Meeeeee!!!

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posted August 15, 2014 11:31 AM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
she was completely absolutely wrong for me but then most people were back then i assumed she was fake but i guess its possible she was just wrong for me.

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posted August 15, 2014 11:33 AM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
whats odd is i see you are leo and any leo friends i have moved away from literally cannot let go period. It must be the mix of signs not just the sun i guess.

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It is a mix. I'll hold on and even when I let go, try to go back. You know.... Just in case it could be good (that goes for everything). Then Scorpio moon is over it. That's where my emotions are and I just cannot fake them. I cannot maintain bulls*** relationships. I just cannot.

posted August 15, 2014 11:33 AM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
[b]FIRST OF ALL!!! That "who's this?" is a game. Don't buy it so easily. Even so, men find me when they want me. Unfortunately, my moon is in Scorpio and I never want them back. If I don't respond to you with something sweet or emotional, you may as well save the rest if your ego.

@LP- lol!! Girl teach me how to do this!! Teach Meeeeee!!!

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hahaha

posted August 15, 2014 11:52 AM            

He came back months later. "But what if it works out with you and M and my situation doesn't work out. What about me?"

WHHHHHAAAAAAATTTTTTTT?!?!?!?!?!!!!!!
GET OFF MY STOOP

Btw, I made this gif myself.