posted August 15, 2014 05:49 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I would be inclined to agree with you and be blunt with him. I just don't think he would answer. I just don't have a lot of faith in that. I think if I try to confront him so to speak he just wouldn't answer. I'm just going to leave it be. If he wants to talk to me he knows how to find me.

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Just remember - you need to be in a position where you are not stuck and waiting for him. If you want to leave it be and if he wants he can find you, that's fine, but don't wait for him to do that.

Start chatting to other guys etc etc

If you don't feel comfortable chatting to other guys because what if he does send you a text... then you need to be upfront with him - if he won't reply that will be your answer.

And either way you won't be in a limbo state not sure what's going on. Although there some comfort being in the limbo state, you don't get the full rejection so there's still hope but once you actually get a clear answer you can let it go and move on...

That's what I think anyway...

posted August 15, 2014 05:56 PM            

Let us look at this from the standpoint of FD being the prize. The bomb.com. OK, if we look at this station from that perspective, it really doesn't matter what he thinks. What takes precedence is if FD is comfortable taking the scraps of inconstancy that said young man is offering.

It shouldn't be about what he wants. It one million percent should be about what FD feels she is worth, the type of effort she feels she is worth, and what she is willing to settle for and/or expect/accept.

posted August 15, 2014 06:09 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Thanks Blessed but my worth isn't very high right now so I don't think I can answer that objectively.

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posted August 15, 2014 06:38 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
The free will debate discourages me…. If free will plays such a huge role, then what's the point. I think about 50 percent of the members of this forum seek guidance in matters pertaining to the future…. If free will can completely change the forecast, what's the point?

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posted August 15, 2014 06:46 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
The free will debate discourages me…. If free will plays such a huge role, then what's the point. I think about 50 percent of the members of this forum seek guidance in matters pertaining to the future…. If free will can completely change the forecast, what's the point?

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Oh I'd say more than 50%. Idk people have said it before and in some ways I do agree, that bitwine readers just don't seem to be that accurate. Some of the most accurate readings I've had have actually been from people on here....cherful is really good she nailed my career situation, so is beccathelion she got my upcoming love life, and although we don't get along very well Empress ended up being the most accurate regarding two situations of mine and I went to countless readers in bitwine at the time, specifically about one guy and they all told me he would come around and things would be great....Empress told me that she saw a stormy departure and she was right, we had the biggest row and both of us completely stopped talking to each other. Leapyearpisces was actually the first person EVER to make 100% believe that psychic ability is real, she told me something that literally 3 people on this earth know about and it would have been impossible for her to guess or infer. She didn't even have my name at the time! She didn't get the future right for me tho.

posted August 15, 2014 06:49 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
Let us for a second say, "screw this guy, what he wants, and what will make him happy." Just bare with me…

Let us look at this from the standpoint of FD being the prize. The bomb.com. OK, if we look at this station from that perspective, it really doesn't matter what he thinks. What takes precedence is if FD is comfortable taking the scraps of inconstancy that said young man is offering.

It shouldn't be about what he wants. It one million percent should be about what FD feels she is worth, the type of effort she feels she is worth, and what she is willing to settle for and/or expect/accept.

FD, it's on you.. you fabulous thing you. What are you worth?

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The reason I said FD should ask the guy if he's interested or not is because from my understanding FD is interested in him - she sent him texts because she would like to pursue something with him...

What we don't know is what he wants - cause he disappeared but he did reply afterwards.

posted August 15, 2014 06:57 PM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
Oh I'd say more than 50%. Idk people have said it before and in some ways I do agree, that bitwine readers just don't seem to be that accurate. Some of the most accurate readings I've had have actually been from people on here....cherful is really good she nailed my career situation, so is beccathelion she got my upcoming love life, and although we don't get along very well Empress ended up being the most accurate regarding two situations of mine and I went to countless readers in bitwine at the time, specifically about one guy and they all told me he would come around and things would be great....Empress told me that she saw a stormy departure and she was right, we had the biggest row and both of us completely stopped talking to each other. Leapyearpisces was actually the first person EVER to make 100% believe that psychic ability is real, she told me something that literally 3 people on this earth know about and it would have been impossible for her to guess or infer. She didn't even have my name at the time! She didn't get the future right for me tho.

Since I've cut back on the readings I've been able to take a step back and look at those who were right and those who were wrong...obviously more were wrong then right, but still the best I've have were with readers here and a few others on bitwine. I have to wonder if God isn't just playing tricks sometimes and trying to tell us to just see how things pan out.

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So true…

posted August 15, 2014 06:58 PM            

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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
Exactly!!!!!!!!!

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posted August 15, 2014 07:01 PM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
The reason I said FD should ask the guy if he's interested or not is because from my understanding FD is interested in him - she sent him texts because she would like to pursue something with him...

What we don't know is what he wants - cause he disappeared but he did reply afterwards.

Once FD gets a clear answer from him she can take some action..

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posted August 15, 2014 07:24 PM            

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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
I will say it took everything for me to break down and ask a guy if he was interested. I don't really know the rules of dating. Like at all. So I decided to read why men marry **/63. The only thing that I took from the book was if all else fails ask* and be direct. I struggled because I felt that a male would get seriously turned off if you ask..then my mind said if you have to even ask why even bother. So then I read the 5 Languages of Love...and I decided to ask the guy if he was interested. All I can say is it was the best decision I ever made...only wish I had made it earlier. I was sitting around asking psychics and all I had to do was ask him. Problem was solved. However..some guys are liars so idk

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I think most guys would answer truthfully but some might give you fluff and you'll have to read between the line ('I would like something to happen but this isn't the right time for me/ I'm so busy right now = not interested).

When I was asked whether I'm interested in something to happen I've been honest and said no... (and the guys replied thank you for your honesty so that's nice..).

posted August 15, 2014 08:11 PM            

Like SophiaFrank said, we spend so much money on psychics asking about what does the guy feel, what does he want etc and then waiting for their predictions when you can get your answer and save yourself the time and money.

If he is interested he'll say so, if he says no (or doesn't respond) then he isn't.

posted August 15, 2014 08:16 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
So you guys think I should work up the nerve to just ask him if he's interested or not? I just feel like he'll ignore it. Early on when he stopped communicating I sent him a very open ended text to the effect of I'm interested if you are. Even if you just want to be friends sort of thing. If not no hard feelings. And he didn't answer. I'm just afraid it will go that way again. But last week when we were texting he was all flirty and cute. So I responded to him. Now it's been a week and nothing.

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Honestly I would let it go and move on to better. It seems liek you have already put yourself out there and that is great! If its this early and he already seems to be playing games/it doesn't feel right, theres really no point in carrying on. The right will make sure you feel comfortable and secure. (I'm telling this to you as much as I am telling it to myself, man its easy to get stuck on the jerks! lol)

posted August 15, 2014 08:36 PM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
Honestly I would let it go and move on to better. It seems liek you have already put yourself out there and that is great! If its this early and he already seems to be playing games/it doesn't feel right, theres really no point in carrying on. The right will make sure you feel comfortable and secure. (I'm telling this to you as much as I am telling it to myself, man its easy to get stuck on the jerks! lol)

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posted August 15, 2014 08:45 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
Ok... I'm concerned. Lol.

I could have sworn I read that a few ppl had positive experiences with Diana S on bitwine?

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posted August 15, 2014 08:51 PM            

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Which one is she? I can only recall one Diana on bitwine and she was a tarot reader...not a very good one at that

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posted August 16, 2014 12:21 AM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
I had one guy ... Pretty much a sexual thing. He separated at one point like all psychics predicted, but went back to her. I was interested in no one for years so I let it continue. Then M came along. I cut him off and he went through this whole ego trip " We wouldn't have worked anyway, right? But maybe we would've!" I recorded the conversation, so I won't convince myself he said anything but what he said.

He came back months later. "But what if it works out with you and M and my situation doesn't work out. What about me?"

WHHHHHAAAAAAATTTTTTTT?!?!?!?!?!!!!!!
GET OFF MY STOOP

Btw, I made this gif myself.

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posted August 16, 2014 01:04 AM            

Not a major one, but it's better than nth.

posted August 16, 2014 04:57 AM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
To be honest, I think the reason I haven't been rejected so much is that I just don't act on any of the attractions I feel for guys. I don't know why, I just don't feel compelled to go after strangers, even though I feel a initial pull. In all fairness, it takes me 1-2 years to even trust my feelings for a person for me to do anything about it.

I'm turning 26 this September and I haven't ever had a boyfriend or gone on a romantic date. I'm by no means asexual, but I can't work up the will to go on blind dates or chat up guys I know nothing about. I do want the experience of dating and being in a relationship, but I just don't feel that for most guys. To push through my reservations just to be a couple with someone I'm not in love with doesn't appeal to me. I want what I want and I want to be treated the way I want. I can't compromise on anything aside that - that would feel like settling for less and I wouldn't be true to myself if I did that. I'd rather be all alone for the rest of my life than to have a lukewarm relationship with a guy.

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i identify with you so much i was very much like you till i met a really strong soul connection at 28 another at 30 and another at 31 and i am now 32 at least as i am growning I'm finding more connections i fall in love with it just seems to be the connection i need for a relationship seems to be soul connections full of lessons lol

posted August 16, 2014 06:24 AM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
The free will debate discourages me…. If free will plays such a huge role, then what's the point. I think about 50 percent of the members of this forum seek guidance in matters pertaining to the future…. If free will can completely change the forecast, what's the point?

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