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Topic: Have you guys ever used a psychic service? Part 2
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ProxyxBlue
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posted August 21, 2014 07:37 PM
  
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LOL I wish i could say i hadnt had a reading since 23rd of july if i could go a month without id be classifying myself as none addicted sensible user!!!  hahahah well done x
My last reading from Abundant Visions was on July 23rd, lol. But the most recent reading I had was two days ago, lol. I'm trying not to get another one. I know it's for my own good. I think I'll feel a lot more better when he returns, lol. It does have me slightly on edge, because sometimes when a week has gone by without a reading and I have yet to hear from him, I'd get another reading from one of the previous readers I spoke with to get an update on the return. They all keep telling me the same thing, I guess I'm anxious and in denial of that anxious feeling lol. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted August 21, 2014 07:39 PM
i just seem to go for the really challenging men who have commitment fears, tons of women wanting them and super odd bizarre and eccentric personalities and give an inch take a mile types. They also seem to be deeply wounded and overly sensitive and unable to express emotions. I think i have a lesson this life to tame a player who only plays because he's been so badly hurt he doesnt trust love anymore and to put down solid boundaries and learn to express myself. damn lessons.
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FairyDust75
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posted August 21, 2014 07:39 PM
I do the same thing. I talk to a reader who tells me one thing then go to another and hop from one to the other to the other. I get anxious and worry about everything. I need to let it go. I don't intend to have a reading when I get up in them morning but sometimes it just happens. I'm trying to hold off as long as possible and wait for some of these time frames to pass and really see if anything unfolds.IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted August 21, 2014 07:39 PM
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I can attest to that- my love interests only start coming back when I let go, for example I was so engrossed in my work for months and when I returned one drunk texted me, wanting to meet up, I could tell he missed me (though when we met he told me he has a new gf lol)Also same guy, no contact for a few months (again was very focused on work) found out he went through my facebook posts somehow (had evidence) The other guy went missing (as in just disappeared, replied to no emails), I paid no mind and one day when we emailed again (because of palestine) he said something about the border customs asked him about me since Im from x country. I asked why the custom even need to ask about me and how did he know I'm from x country? he never replied. I could just assume he had to show something, and it happened to have something related to me with him , whatever it is. I also got to meet love interests 'for free' (since all required travel) even ones I only had a slight crush on, all because of work that happens to bring me back to them. I even had to stay in one's house for 7 days *lol* Even this one cocky as hell dude that rejected me because I was unattractive- we met again by accident in a foreign country and we abe to clear things up. Before that, we hadnt met for ... 7 years! Most of them are already attached but it was cool way to get closure  all of these happened in the span of 2 years (mid 2012- to now 2014) I think what worked was, I just let go and let & trust the universe to bring the best option to me. That probably gave off less anxious energy.
My guy in question, when he disappeared for one month before, I was thinking about him every day. I tried to force myself to move on, but it wasn't working out too well because he was still in the back of my mind. Until one day I was on my laptop and I got a text from him, which shocked me. But to this day, I still think he only contacted me because he received my letter and he was happy because it was his first letter from America, lol. But he apologized for disappearing and told me why he was gone (an excuse that I now don't believe, but believed back then, lol) IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted August 21, 2014 07:40 PM
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a.1) "Alright, so before 3 months have fully transpired (meaning this may happen as early as today, or as late as June, but def. before this for sure) what I see is unfortunately one of you will be heartbroken, while the other will be disappointed - so I see some space happening/ separation due to this between you both before 3 months have passed =[. One of you will be so dissappointed while the other will be heartbroken I see that there will be some changes between you two that may be out of your control (destiny/fated)"
a.2)"So it seems like there will be some sort of separation...disappointment, heartbreak, that will drift you two apart unfortunately. Would you like to cont. looking into the future to see if things get better?"
Are you two apart? Yes. Are you two separate? Yes. Was one of you disappointed and the other 'heartbroken'? Perhaps, I wouldn't be able to detect that now since you're not honest with me, it's obvious though that the reading has happened. Separation. Not together. Not rocket science.. ------------------
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PSYCHE
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posted August 21, 2014 07:41 PM
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I agree with all that!! You both are so on point. Love the perceptions.
expectations is HUGE
im learning this one massively
especially since i get a lot of men with commitment issues and i also have them myself its like when they come forward i get nervous and want to run and when they back off i get the pull. its ridiculous. At least I'm aware of what i do now and force mysself through. But I'm learning so much in the way i message now to not put across expectations i think the problem is we don't really even know we are doing it most the time, and then double whammy that with the energy of constant expectation its a man repeller!!!! lol IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
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posted August 21, 2014 07:46 PM
letting go is hard, I let go when I decided it is over (not blocking or burning bridges) as in "Ok, time to see the reality that no contact = no care." Bitter pill to swallow but it gets better after that. Then bam, a text. but when I let go, I really let go- as in i do not wish for anything whatsoever. I was ready to not ever get anything- to have it actually over. Only then, it is letting go. -Most recent example was when the guy I kept getting readings for told me he values me as friend and he's happy with his gf- and thinks shes special for him- my mind went to "Ah, ok, finito" mode. Late that night he texted me (didnt reply because was busy) and the next day at noon he texted me after seeing art exhibit for no reason. I replied curtly and that was the end of that- psyche: I seem to attract 'broken' or wounded women in my early years (except my first girlfriend, whom was older and gave me security). Now, I seem to get involved with only wounded men, or at least men with two facets in their lives and complex situation or at least 'different'.
But I seem to attract different types of people (who are more healthy) lately, maybe because I do not focus on finding anyone nor I'm attracted to them. Sucks, right? When you want one, they leave, when you want to be alone, they come to you...
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ProxyxBlue
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posted August 21, 2014 07:49 PM
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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I do the same thing. I talk to a reader who tells me one thing then go to another and hop from one to the other to the other. I get anxious and worry about everything. I need to let it go. I don't intend to have a reading when I get up in them morning but sometimes it just happens. I'm trying to hold off as long as possible and wait for some of these time frames to pass and really see if anything unfolds.
Yeah, that's what I need to do. You have no idea how badly I'm fighting the urge to contact AV tonight. I just wish that we all can get that contact we've been waiting for. After learning about this energy thing, I wouldn't want to delay his contact. Toria told me on Sunday that he will contact me in week and half, almost two weeks. She said that he was being very quiet and stubborn right now. I wish I would have asked her what she meant by that. It probably meant he wants to contact me, but is trying to make himself hold off on doing so. Another reader told me that he will contact me within a few days, if he hasn't already contacted me (which he hadn't.) And Divine Love Destiny said contact very soon. I really trust Toria, so I'm trying to have confidence and erase the doubt that was once in my mind one week ago. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted August 21, 2014 07:49 PM
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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
That does make a lot of sense now that I can clearly understand the meaning behind those words. By getting readings that focuses on a certain someone, their energy makes them focus on themselves more. In other words, readings aside, by focusing on myself more by doing my own thing (college, working on my novel and blog) will be putting focus on myself. I hope all of the readings I have gotten didn't delay his return. Some time frames were set for mid-August, but that's passed now. Remaining now is the end of August. Would you say that if a person is thinking about the contact that it would also effect it?
yes so i think its a mix of thing, its of course normal to think of them and probably great to think of them with unconditional love but when they become our focus and with needy energy it's not going to be good
So i guess one reading every month and letting it go maybe even two fine but lots of readings and then worrying over them focusing on what was said, the energy we have when going for th ereadind and other factors keeping us on them such as stalking etc I'm sure energetically its the hugest repellent going.!!!! reading is one thing, that just focuses on current energy and current choices and paths, changing the energy i reckon changes the reading hence how sometimes when you get loads the readings suddenly become less positive. all this i s only my guesses of course, but it fascinates me to think about it and work it out always has. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted August 21, 2014 07:52 PM
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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
That does make a lot of sense now that I can clearly understand the meaning behind those words. By getting readings that focuses on a certain someone, their energy makes them focus on themselves more. In other words, readings aside, by focusing on myself more by doing my own thing (college, working on my novel and blog) will be putting focus on myself. I hope all of the readings I have gotten didn't delay his return. Some time frames were set for mid-August, but that's passed now. Remaining now is the end of August. Would you say that if a person is thinking about the contact that it would also effect it?
i think when they think about us heavily or push forward we get the runner anxiety stuff
i think i do anyway
its all so ridiculous isn't it lol!!! i do think spiritual connections are quite different to other connections but same principles just a lot more intense and a lot more triggering. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted August 21, 2014 07:53 PM
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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
My last reading from Abundant Visions was on July 23rd, lol. But the most recent reading I had was two days ago, lol. I'm trying not to get another one. I know it's for my own good. I think I'll feel a lot more better when he returns, lol. It does have me slightly on edge, because sometimes when a week has gone by without a reading and I have yet to hear from him, I'd get another reading from one of the previous readers I spoke with to get an update on the return. They all keep telling me the same thing, I guess I'm anxious and in denial of that anxious feeling lol.
im 3 days clean atm !!!!!! oh god lol we are awful.
i read my own cards quite well too
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ProxyxBlue
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posted August 21, 2014 07:55 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
yes so i think its a mix of thing, its of course normal to think of them and probably great to think of them with unconditional love but when they become our focus and with needy energy it's not going to be good
So i guess one reading every month and letting it go maybe even two fine but lots of readings and then worrying over them focusing on what was said, the energy we have when going for th ereadind and other factors keeping us on them such as stalking etc I'm sure energetically its the hugest repellent going.!!!! reading is one thing, that just focuses on current energy and current choices and paths, changing the energy i reckon changes the reading hence how sometimes when you get loads the readings suddenly become less positive. all this i s only my guesses of course, but it fascinates me to think about it and work it out always has.
Yeah, I remember getting positive readings (with mixtures of not so good within those good readings.) Then suddenly I got a really negative reading and it made me feel awful. In total, I've had three negative readings. One was a long reading and the other two weren't long and simply told me that I wasn't going to get contact from him. It made me feel awful. And what did I do when I got those readings? I went to my main readers to ask them about it. So, it was reading after reading.
Sometimes, I want to go against previous readings and send him a letter, but two people said not to do it and others like AV and Toria said I could send him a letter if I wanted, but it won't make him return any faster, but Toria said that it would make him happy. IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
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posted August 21, 2014 07:56 PM
I think a good exercise is to ask yourself : Why do I need his contact so badly?
Why do I need it soon?
Why does it matter if the contact is now- or then?
When I want a contact, what kind of contact do I actually wish for? Sometimes of course our wants bypass these qs (aka we'd contact them for no reason at all), but it's a good exercise to keep your self esteem in check. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted August 21, 2014 07:58 PM
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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
letting go is hard, I let go when I decided it is over (not blocking or burning bridges) as in "Ok, time to see the reality that no contact = no care." Bitter pill to swallow but it gets better after that. Then bam, a text. but when I let go, I really let go- as in i do not wish for anything whatsoever. I was ready to not ever get anything- to have it actually over. Only then, it is letting go. -Most recent example was when the guy I kept getting readings for told me he values me as friend and he's happy with his gf- and thinks shes special for him- my mind went to "Ah, ok, finito" mode. Late that night he texted me (didnt reply because was busy) and the next day at noon he texted me after seeing art exhibit for no reason. I replied curtly and that was the end of that- psyche: I seem to attract 'broken' or wounded women in my early years (except my first girlfriend, whom was older and gave me security). Now, I seem to get involved with only wounded men, or at least men with two facets in their lives and complex situation or at least 'different'.
But I seem to attract different types of people (who are more healthy) lately, maybe because I do not focus on finding anyone nor I'm attracted to them. Sucks, right? When you want one, they leave, when you want to be alone, they come to you...
i think a lot of the answer is letting go and boundaries as I'm like you it takes me so long to cut off because once i do thats it finito !!!! for good
i delay letting go so as the option is there for me
i reckon if from day one we just put less energy in were receptive to them but didn't give them so much thinking time and didn't in any way chase, be too available as in revolve our lives round them or let personal boundaries slip it wouldnt need to get to that point!
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PSYCHE
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posted August 21, 2014 08:00 PM
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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
Yeah, that's what I need to do. You have no idea how badly I'm fighting the urge to contact AV tonight. I just wish that we all can get that contact we've been waiting for. After learning about this energy thing, I wouldn't want to delay his contact. Toria told me on Sunday that he will contact me in week and half, almost two weeks. She said that he was being very quiet and stubborn right now. I wish I would have asked her what she meant by that. It probably meant he wants to contact me, but is trying to make himself hold off on doing so. Another reader told me that he will contact me within a few days, if he hasn't already contacted me (which he hadn't.) And Divine Love Destiny said contact very soon. I really trust Toria, so I'm trying to have confidence and erase the doubt that was once in my mind one week ago.
lol I'm the one that stopped contact in my situation and he can't handle it, although i still get messages and now asking to meet, i got three messages tonight maybe its celebration of being 3 days clean of readings lol,
its a complex one but just getting contact doesn't directly make everything is rosy!!!! IP: Logged |
peacefulclouds
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posted August 21, 2014 08:01 PM
It's 'finito' that I dont think there'll be any chance for me in the future- but my feelings is still here buried deep. Last contact was 2 days ago so, very fresh of course deep inside I wish for him, but I know it wont happen, so might as well start healing and let him be- he is happy, I am happy for him. IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted August 21, 2014 08:01 PM
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im 3 days clean atm !!!!!! oh god lol we are awful.
i read my own cards quite well too
Haha, we are. We need to stop our addiction!! I do have a question in regards to spiritual connections and connections. One day, when he disappeared while we were dating (only for about 4 days or so) I had a heavy feeling that he was cheating on me. I don't know why I felt that way, but it was extremely heavy and overwhelming. It made me feel awful, because I never had that feeling about him ever before. When he came back to me, he apologized for the late reply and told me that something was wrong with his Line app and that's why he couldn't send me a message. Then he said that I hurt him. I was shocked he would say that to me because I never did anything to hurt him, so I proceeded to tell him that he hurt me. When I asked him how did I hurt him, he told me that I had others. So, basically what I'm trying to say is during those days he wasn't talking to me I had that feeling he was cheating on me and he had that same feeling that I was cheating on him during those days too. Is it possible that we were feeling each other's emotions and that it made us both paranoid? IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted August 21, 2014 08:05 PM
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Haha, we are. We need to stop our addiction!!I do have a question in regards to spiritual connections and connections. One day, when he disappeared while we were dating (only for about 4 days or so) I had a heavy feeling that he was cheating on me. I don't know why I felt that way, but it was extremely heavy and overwhelming. It made me feel awful, because I never had that feeling about him ever before. When he came back to me, he apologized for the late reply and told me that something was wrong with his Line app and that's why he couldn't send me a message. Then he said that I hurt him. I was shocked he would say that to me because I never did anything to hurt him, so I proceeded to tell him that he hurt me. When I asked him how did I hurt him, he told me that I had others. So, basically what I'm trying to say is during those days he wasn't talking to me I had that feeling he was cheating on me and he had that same feeling that I was cheating on him during those days too. Is it possible that we were feeling each other's emotions?
completely!! you can really directly be in each others head, telepathy also.
Its just sometimes hard to decipher as you also have your wounds and your fears mingled in there so unless you can get direct confirmation you will definitely have an insight but i think it can be blinded by other things. I did have things confirmed a few times with the last guy, this one we both have commented on the special connection and bought up things each other is thinking and go through exactly the same feelings at the same times even as far as we will both have insomnia at the same time, or both feel dizzy the same time, both want to give up our jobs and do spiritual stuff abroad on the same day, or both be focused on the gym at the same time, its crazy but without confirmation its hard to know what is what but its definitely something that does happen that you can be connected to him like that to feel things.
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PSYCHE
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posted August 21, 2014 08:06 PM
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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
It's 'finito' that I dont think there'll be any chance for me in the future- but my feelings is still here buried deep. Last contact was 2 days ago so, very fresh of course deep inside I wish for him, but I know it wont happen, so might as well start healing and let him be- he is happy, I am happy for him.
yeah it sucks when they have a partner and you have feelings, i havnt even been in that position but my friend is ;( sucky lesson.
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ProxyxBlue
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posted August 21, 2014 08:10 PM
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completely!! you can really directly be in each others head, telepathy also.
Its just sometimes hard to decipher as you also have your wounds and your fears mingled in there so unless you can get direct confirmation you will definitely have an insight but i think it can be blinded by other things.I did have things confirmed a few times with the last guy, this one we both have commented on the special connection and bought up things each other is thinking and go through exactly the same feelings at the same times even as far as we will both have insomnia at the same time, or both feel dizzy the same time, both want to give up our jobs and do spiritual stuff abroad on the same day, or both be focused on the gym at the same time, its crazy but without confirmation its hard to know what is what but its definitely something that does happen that you can be connected to him like that to feel things.
Wow, that's amazing to feel connected in that way where you both feel the same things and such. I thought that was very unique though when I found out he was feeling that way too. I wonder did that mean last week, and two weeks before that, was he feeling that he wanted to let me go. Because I had felt a strong urge to let go of him. I didn't want to let go of him, but that feeling was there. Eventually days later it went away. I don't know if he was feeling that way since I haven't talked to him. IP: Logged |
SophiaFrank
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posted August 21, 2014 08:12 PM
@Jersey-great mind think alike I see..haha @Proxy-Omgosh Scorpio Love!! You get a hug!! Now this explains all the intesity on the board..I'm a Scorpio and I am something else..IP: Logged |
ProxyxBlue
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posted August 21, 2014 08:15 PM
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@Jersey-great mind think alike I see..haha @Proxy-Omgosh Scorpio Love!! You get a hug!! Now this explains all the intesity on the board..I'm a Scorpio and I am something else..
Haha, thank you! Haha, I suppose it does. XD What else are you? IP: Logged |
Damali
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posted August 21, 2014 08:15 PM
So much great advice in this thread. I love it IP: Logged |
bakaneko
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posted August 21, 2014 08:16 PM
I was experiencing that telepathic connection the past couple of weeks. After my 2 readings early August, I wrote them down in my journal and released them. One aspect was me getting close to another man, but on that friendship level MSDream described way back. As I'm getting to know this guy, I started running into synchroncities with my toxic soul mate relationship. It got to the point of dreaming about him cheating on me, etc. So I decided to go Annie Heaven (who I go to for spiritual guidance) and see what was going on.She explained that he felt the disconnect of my energy and felt he was losing me to someone else and started tugging on me...which is causing me to dangle. Annie advised to ask my guides to protect me from his energy because this man needs to go through his life lessons. I was getting concerned because it was affecting my sleep, and I'd get vision flashes while I was awake, sensations etc... So I took her advice and the past few days I've been back to normal. And except for now, wasn't really thinking about it. --Oh that whole pay to remove a negativity thing, I need $300 for special meditation candles, or pay me to do special prayers for you otherwise you'll always be cursed happened A LOT on kasamba and bitwine. I left negatives on kasamba for that and asked for a refund, but kasamba wouldn't refund me. Their forms was down and they only allow 72 hours, then told me I passed the timeframe. I went through Paypal and got my money back, then kasamba disabled my account. IP: Logged |
IntuitiveJ
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posted August 21, 2014 08:16 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
im 3 days clean atm !!!!!! oh god lol we are awful.
i read my own cards quite well too
I'm a bit confused about cards vs no tools readers.
I understand the concept of both.
Why would card readings vs no tools readings (for me) have completely diff outcomes?
I was in a good place by having very few readings for a very long time. I fell off the wagon recently. But interestingly it seems as if no 2 readers see the situation the same. Frustrating to say the least! IP: Logged | |
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