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Topic: Have you guys ever used a psychic service? Part 2
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bakaneko
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posted August 23, 2014 02:02 PM
  
That was one of the things I had problems with (empath). I worked on protection and cutting cords, so it wouldn't overwhelm me. I knew I had to because this guy left the country on a family emergency on the other side of the world where time zone was a factor. I'd get taken over by his waking emotions and he had the same issue with me. One point I tripped while walking and pain went through my leg; I couldn't reach him and found out later when he woke up from surgery that he was shot in the calf.This soul relationship closed out almost two years ago and left many positive impressions. I'm going through another one now with a different person, different lesson, but he's no where near as mature (spiritually) as the other person was. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted August 23, 2014 02:05 PM
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Originally posted by bakaneko:
That was one of the things I had problems with (empath). I worked on protection and cutting cords, so it wouldn't overwhelm me. I knew I had to because this guy left the country on a family emergency on the other side of the world where time zone was a factor. I'd get taken over by his waking emotions and he had the same issue with me. One point I tripped while walking and pain went through my leg; I couldn't reach him and found out later when he woke up from surgery that he was shot in the calf.This soul relationship closed out almost two years ago and left many positive impressions. I'm going through another one now with a different person, different lesson, but he's no where near as mature (spiritually) as the other person was.
im also an empath and the hard thing is i think i used to feel the other one constantly thinking about me like constantly and i would pick up all his emotions and i think reach out thinking it was guidance when really it was probably ruining letting him reach out, i once had a huge panic attack in a car park from nowhere and was so sure he was going to commit suicide i actually called him even tho we haddnt spoken in months to check he was ok, and he said he was in a really bad way i was onto something but then just basically blanked me again.
it was good confirmation though. I think the problem is when you feel someones emotions so closely you just let them vampire off your energy and end up feeling sorry for them and not shifting your energy away and let them get away with bad behaviour. It is a long process to learn to protect your energy when you are really open and i do think it has a lot to do with boundaries and self love.
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peacefulclouds
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posted August 23, 2014 02:07 PM
yes, and that is why I think it's better for me to move on- I have no desire to change him- I really want to see him happy but I have to take care of my own being too... I'll miss him terribly, but in the end I have to love myself also. EDIT: thank you for your kind words  I am venting, I know I will be ok after some decent sleep, good thing I have work even on weekends.
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PSYCHE
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posted August 23, 2014 02:08 PM
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Originally posted by bakaneko:
That was one of the things I had problems with (empath). I worked on protection and cutting cords, so it wouldn't overwhelm me. I knew I had to because this guy left the country on a family emergency on the other side of the world where time zone was a factor. I'd get taken over by his waking emotions and he had the same issue with me. One point I tripped while walking and pain went through my leg; I couldn't reach him and found out later when he woke up from surgery that he was shot in the calf.This soul relationship closed out almost two years ago and left many positive impressions. I'm going through another one now with a different person, different lesson, but he's no where near as mature (spiritually) as the other person was.
omg you didn't meet in 2010 did you?
thats when i met my first one very similar to you and that pretty much ended 2 years ago and now i have another one with someone with almost the same name and born in the same place but its not so horrible and vampire esque and this one is actually more spiritually mature.
I learnt a lot from BOTH.
You know what though just meeting this one at least allows me to know there is more than one when i met the other one i thought that was my only chance at love
to meet another spiritual connection at least lets me know if one doesnt work there will be another! it was a big relief. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted August 23, 2014 02:09 PM
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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
yes, and that is why I think it's better for me to move on- I have no desire to change him- I really want to see him happy but I have to take care of my own being too... I'll miss him terribly, but in the end I have to love myself also.
i hope he comes round some day or you have a stronger connection out there ! xxx
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peacefulclouds
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posted August 23, 2014 02:13 PM
Thank u psyche
I also have deep empathy, and can 'read' people im not emotionally attached to very, very well to the point people consult me for new romances and others. I can predict the outcome of a relationship easily/intuitively- but only ppl I'm not emotionally involved with ( pics or in person)
I think this is why my career goes pretty well, despite being a loner I network VERY well and able to make ppl trust me by just talking, since I'm direct... This increased after I met 2 ppl last year, including this guy. Maybe my lesson with him is patience and letting go without cutting off. eitherway I am thankful. Just sad it was not mutual. Hope I can find peace soon enough yes! IP: Logged |
bakaneko
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posted August 23, 2014 02:14 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
im also an empath and the hard thing is i think i used to feel the other one constantly thinking about me like constantly and i would pick up all his emotions and i think reach out thinking it was guidance when really it was probably ruining letting him reach out, i once had a huge panic attack in a car park from nowhere and was so sure he was going to commit suicide i actually called him even tho we haddnt spoken in months to check he was ok, and he said he was in a really bad way i was onto something but then just basically blanked me again.it was good confirmation though. I think the problem is when you feel someones emotions so closely you just let them vampire off your energy and end up feeling sorry for them and not shifting your energy away and let them get away with bad behaviour. It is a long process to learn to protect your energy when you are really open and i do think it has a lot to do with boundaries and self love.
Nodding in agreement to all of this, especially the last part. IP: Logged |
bakaneko
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posted August 23, 2014 02:23 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
omg you didn't meet in 2010 did you?
thats when i met my first one very similar to you and that pretty much ended 2 years ago and now i have another one with someone with almost the same name and born in the same place but its not so horrible and vampire esque and this one is actually more spiritually mature.
I learnt a lot from BOTH.You know what though just meeting this one at least allows me to know there is more than one when i met the other one i thought that was my only chance at love
to meet another spiritual connection at least lets me know if one doesnt work there will be another! it was a big relief.
I met him in 2011 and that was towards the end of my relationship with someone else. We befriended each other and I had been emotionally dead for years, so having that connection with him was an eye opening learning experience. We parted on friendly terms, but I never felt that I wouldn't meet someone else with a deep connection. Thankfully that's the case (yay!). IP: Logged |
lilacbreeze
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posted August 23, 2014 02:40 PM
Right. It's not to say that there wasn't a connection between you two. Maybe it's more like in this life you're just meant to have the time you had together. You are worth fighting for! And I think by telling yourself that you're holding out for someone who recognizes that in you - and will do that for you - that may help you work through the pain. Though, I can imagine how hard it must be for you. Sending positive vibes your way! quote:
Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
If im honest, my gut feeling say he is good with this lady, but not as good communication like us. Or else things wont drag out as much as we did (and mostly his doing)I mean i knew we have certain connection, but the fact is, he is 50, i am 28, our backgrounds are too different. The lady is better choice (same interests, age, wealth and same level of education bg) But i think im just taking an extreme way. I have to coldly cut my hopes, or else, i will keep aching, no? I mean.. I think i'm worth fighting for, no? 
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blessed39
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posted August 23, 2014 02:53 PM
Ohhhh I forgot to say... Diana S. accurately predicted something. On Tuesday I asked her how my s/O was feeling about a specific event that took place. I was freaking out and I feared he was upset with me. She told me I was blowing it up in my head and he hadn't thought twice about it. She was right. Coincidence? Not sure. But she was right. Tonight I will see if a prediction that both Gaia, K4S, and Diana comes to pass. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted August 23, 2014 03:14 PM
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Originally posted by blessed39:
Ohhhh I forgot to say... Diana S. accurately predicted something. On Tuesday I asked her how my s/O was feeling about a specific event that took place. I was freaking out and I feared he was upset with me. She told me I was blowing it up in my head and he hadn't thought twice about it. She was right. Coincidence? Not sure. But she was right. Tonight I will see if a prediction that both Gaia, K4S, and Diana comes to pass.
She gave me a positive outcome like most very positive actually but wow is she hard
Lol
She takes no prisoners
Her advice was the toughest of anyone's Probably right tho ! I choose the hard ones lol IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted August 23, 2014 03:19 PM
Annoying thing is I've put so much time and emotion and effort into this even behind the scenes I don't know if I can accept I anymore I'm so resentful
Not a great trait but I just feel I can't accept anymore yet u can't forget either I probably could if I met an equally strong connection IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted August 23, 2014 03:21 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
She gave me a positive outcome like most very positive actually but wow is she hard
Lol
She takes no prisoners
Her advice was the toughest of anyone's Probably right tho ! I choose the hard ones lol
Yea she doesn't sugar coat things. She appears to be honest. That's why I want to believe her. IP: Logged |
PSYCHE
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posted August 23, 2014 03:25 PM
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Originally posted by blessed39:
Yea she doesn't sugar coat things. She appears to be honest. That's why I want to believe her.
She holds no prisoners rly told me off haha
Made sense tho
This is kind of what I'm saying tho she picks up his fear and issues and feelings but still bangs me with rly rly strong harsh advice I think that when most pick up someone ha feelings and fears they just end up making us too wish washy and accept anything and just not make them step up I think she's good IP: Logged |
filleaspirant
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posted August 23, 2014 03:26 PM
I'll be erasing this in 24 hours. No quoting. Thanks!------------------
♍ Sun | ♒ Moon | ♎ Mercury | ♌ Venus | ♈ Mars Rx | ♑ Rising "The detached one with the big heart." IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted August 23, 2014 03:43 PM
Are you pleased with that reading? I'd be ****** if I paid $99 for that garbage. I seriously thought you had run some kind of chart report on a generic website for a moment.IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted August 23, 2014 03:44 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
She holds no prisoners rly told me off haha
Made sense tho
This is kind of what I'm saying tho she picks up his fear and issues and feelings but still bangs me with rly rly strong harsh advice I think that when most pick up someone ha feelings and fears they just end up making us too wish washy and accept anything and just not make them step upI think she's good
Other than her getting on me about worrying too much and to just relax, the majority of what she said was predictions and reading the current situation. Not too much advice.
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PSYCHE
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posted August 23, 2014 03:47 PM
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Originally posted by blessed39:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by PSYCHE:
[b] She holds no prisoners rly told me off haha
Made sense tho
This is kind of what I'm saying tho she picks up his fear and issues and feelings but still bangs me with rly rly strong harsh advice I think that when most pick up someone ha feelings and fears they just end up making us too wish washy and accept anything and just not make them step upI think she's good
Other than her getting on me about worrying too much and to just relax, the majority of what she said was predictions and reading the current situation. Not too much advice. [/B][/QUOTE]I got massively told
And so did he virtually lol
I'll paste when in home
Check not same advice
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filleaspirant
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posted August 23, 2014 03:57 PM
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Originally posted by happyaskings:
Are you pleased with that reading? I'd be ****** if I paid $99 for that garbage. I seriously thought you had run some kind of chart report on a generic website for a moment.
I did expect a bit more, but there ARE things in the reading that will only apply to me. The job, for instance. It sounds like a wonderful, dreamy job, I know. But it exists and it's within my reach. I just need to work a bit more to get it. I also know for a fact V has a deep-rooted commitment issue that steams from his mother. And he's a workaholic, even though he hides it behind an easy going, fun persona. The book I want to write is about "when things were simple". I thought of that phrase myself. I don't know... I felt it applied accurately to my case, and I still do in a way. I just kinda wished she'd given me more details. I know that the timing for the career prediction will be off. They won't be examing applicants before January 25 and their process consist of others exams, that can take over a whole year before it's concluded. ------------------
♍ Sun | ♒ Moon | ♎ Mercury | ♌ Venus | ♈ Mars Rx | ♑ Rising "The detached one with the big heart." IP: Logged |
IntuitiveJ
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posted August 23, 2014 04:01 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
omg m so lostastrollogy is so complex for me
does this mean anything?
there seem to be a few roids
i think worked out the time from trying various things and remembering bits. i am def interested at some point in getting a chart reading? do u have a listing for it i can look at?x
List of Aspects
Jupiter Conjunction Pluto Orb 5°15'
Moon Conjunction Neptune Orb 5°44'
Sun Conjunction Mercury Orb 6°10'
Uranus Conjunction MC Orb 6°35'
Mercury Opposite Jupiter Orb 1°24'
Sun Opposite Pluto Orb 2°18'
Mercury Opposite Pluto Orb 3°51'
Sun Opposite Jupiter Orb 7°34'
Mars Opposite AS Orb 8°53'
Mars Square MC Orb 2°44'
Venus Square Neptune Orb 4°49'
Moon Trine Mercury Orb 0°38'
Sun Trine Mars Orb 1°34'
Mars Trine Neptune Orb 1°46'
Moon Trine Mars Orb 3°57'
Mercury Trine Mars Orb 4°35'
Sun Trine Moon Orb 5°31'
Mercury Trine Neptune Orb 6°22'
Mars Sextile Pluto Orb 0°44'
Moon Sextile Jupiter Orb 2°02'
Neptune Sextile Pluto Orb 2°31'
Moon Sextile Pluto Orb 3°13'
Venus Sextile Saturn Orb 4°41'
Mars Sextile Jupiter Orb 6°00'
Mercury Inconjunction MC Orb 1°51'
Moon SemiSquare Saturn Orb 0°15'
Jupiter SesquiQuadrate AS Orb 0°06'
Venus SesquiQuadrate Uranus Orb 0°56'
Moon Quintile AS Orb 0°50'
Venus BiQuintile Mars Orb 0°36'
Moon SemiSextile MC Orb 1°13'
Let's look at orbs under 3 degrees unless it involves luminaries (sun/moon)
Conjunction & opposition & squares will be felt strongest & trines/sextiles are good but can be "soft" aspects.
Moon you won't be able to verify unless his TOB Is correct. Angles too. IP: Logged |
IntuitiveJ
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posted August 23, 2014 04:13 PM
Psyche-
Can u draw the chart on astro then post it in the interpersonal forum?
I am sure you will get some great responses there but again unless times of birth are correct there is a lot missing from the synastry story.IP: Logged |
IntuitiveJ
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posted August 23, 2014 04:14 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
i always wished she had been right about stuff just because she would eb my reader of choice but apart form one reading she's always been wrong ultimately and the odd wrong is acceptable but not as many times as she has been.
That sucks to hear....
Has Rachel been correct for anyone?
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happyaskings
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posted August 23, 2014 04:18 PM
Somebody was asking about Estrellas predictions so I will share my story.
(This was about two weeks ago)
I hadn't had a reading in a while but I decided to try her because I heard about her here and she has great reviews. I did the 10 deal and asked about one guy in particular. She said he loved me and felt guilty about how he had treated me in the past, now I don't believe he loves me and I did not then but a lot of psychics use the L word loosely so I let it slide. As far as him feeling guilty...idk he was treating me a lot nicer but that doesn't necessarily mean anything. She said that he was going to be taken on a new career path and it would bring him closer to me (physically, I asked if he would be moving away)-the guy is looking for a new job. No idea if he has found one or where it is. She told me he had strong feelings for me and we would be in a relationship and that he kept thinking about taking me to some kind of celebration at the end of the year. No idea on that. So...heres what really happened:
(one week later/last week)
The guy and I hung out for hours, I honestly thought he was really liking me and that things were starting to change with us. Then he opened up to me about this girl he had met a few weeks prior that he really REALLY seemed to like (she sounds effing awful but I am biased) he was asking for my advice about her and saying that he didn't want to screw things up with her. I really like him so I'm not going to interfere with something that he is so happy about, plus I have enough self respect to not try to compete for someones affection especially since if he wanted me, he would make an effort to be with me as he has obviously done with her. All of this ran contradictory to what Estrella said so I went back and believe it or not politely explained the situation and asked her for my 10 bucks back. She told me that I did not have faith in her readings and that I needed to give this time, then she hung up on me. And I'm left thinking, time for what? How much time? How long am I supposed to wait for another idiot to realize my worth? 2 weeks? 3 months? When they're at the altar together? This is not a Taylor Swift song, I don't have time or energy anymore to wait for someone to come to their senses or stop being on the fence about me. I deserve better than that. Psychics have used my willingness to wait on a stupid guy to their advantage for almost two years. I'm done waiting, if a guy can't step up then I have to walk away no matter how much I like him. IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted August 23, 2014 04:19 PM
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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
That sucks to hear....
Has Rachel been correct for anyone?
She is hit or miss. When she hits, she HITS. But when she misses...... Honestly, she's been about 50/50 for me which is better than most. However she is another one that will encourage you to wait on some loser. IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted August 23, 2014 04:20 PM
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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
I got massively told
And so did he virtually lol
I'll paste when in home
Check not same advice
Yes, please do! IP: Logged |
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