posted August 23, 2014 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
She is hit or miss. When she hits, she HITS. But when she misses......

Honestly, she's been about 50/50 for me which is better than most.

However she is another one that will encourage you to wait on some loser.

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Crap.
She's the only one who saw something for me last spring that happened. But her other predictions did not. I've recently gone back to her & she seemed correct on one thing (again) but her long term outcome isn't till next feb/march.
Interestingly several other readers have given me that time frame too.
No idea anymore "shrugs shoulders"

posted August 23, 2014 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
IntuitiveJ- if I post me and my s/o's chart can you help me interpret if?

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posted August 23, 2014 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
Yes, please do!

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posted August 23, 2014 04:46 PM            

your very much the mom earth energy, healer , fixer
there is a soulmate connection here
it does make it difficult in all areas of life
so its just bout drawing strong boundaries, putting yourself first at times, and not giving away the store
boundaries are hard for you
your getting better, working on it, but still tough
like anything else in life there has to be balance
its almost like house training a puppy,
he can get this right, with consistancy, not going backwards, standing firm
he just got spoiled,, and it was out of balance, so of course you were not getting what you wanted and need
but you see if you ditch and run
it just keeps coming back, its following you
until you embrace the lesson
becuase all in life has to have balance
but your not other women
so thats his stuff, not yours
his to deal with, ,you cant fix heal or help with that
all you can do is keep doing what your doing, boundaries, speaking up
he is good guy, good heart, energy, but very child like in many ways
its hard, this new skin doesnt feel so good
but we need to be alittle selfish, its about YOU now
he can figure out his own crap
he doesnt want to loose you, he is very attached, anxious
get anxiety around him, he just really doesnt know how to do this, but he will figure it out
good girl
he will step up, open up, and this will get going again
that was a very healthy boundary
hope you went out and celebrated partied after you laid that one down
so your doing, saying the right things,
and he will get this right, mr turtle here
he is very attached, very afraid he will loose you, very much needs you in his life,
your his rock, calm collected, you bring peace
firm boundary
tell him no more texting, nothing, your done, you want need and deserve more
he can, if you step all the way back, and allow him to walk this path
he is no dummie, he is a brillant man
yeah hes exciting.
he is taking the easy out here becuase you have enabled him to all this time
and fascinating i need someone like him but they are like dancing on razor blades. lol
so stand strong on your boundaries, consistantly, and it will change the entire dynamics
hahahah, thats not funny, but been thre done that dance a few times
its also the biggest lesson you have to learn in this life, as a healer fixer
to step back, not do, not enable, demand and get what you want out of life
yes, he can, be very very loyal, lovign and kind gentle
i dont feel he has ever had peace in his life, he was always running like a mouse in a maze looking for peace, real love
always looking for a bandaid, instead of dealing with his real issues
but now he is older, more mature, and really is thinking of nesting, settling down
he is a spoiled brat
he is use to getting his way with people, he can be a steam roller at times if necessary
we all get betrayed, we all get hurt
time to pull up his big boy pants and get this right
he doesnt own betrayed, so we cant fall into that woe is him stuff
time to man up
open up, talk from his heart
until he can do that, this is stuck , not moving forward
he is very attached, but time for him to get real here
oh yes,, he is very attached, its a bit scary to him, but he is a big boy, needs to get over it and get this right
so stand firmer than ever here now
as he is try9ing to sneak in through the back door, texting etc
so again, speak up, either he gets real, honest opens up, or gets gone
sounds mean, but we need some tough love here
a kick in his
arse
yoru to nice
good, dont text, go dead quiet
when he wants to meet, tell him ok, one more time, talk or thats it
youcant keep playing into this same dynamic
it has to be broken so this can move forward
so were to the point of all or nothing
you need to tell him that
firm boundary, talk, or asta la vesta
he isnt going ot disappear or run away
he can will get this right
and its not about you talking of feelings, its HIM that needs to define here
you need to feel safe, secure
thats why you have to stand back totally
until you can regain clarity, this is exhausting, draining, and your not accomplishing anything
he needs to step up, define, get this right......its up to him now

posted August 23, 2014 04:49 PM            

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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
I can try :-)
I am super basic & just learning!
Are times of birth correct for both?

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posted August 23, 2014 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
Psyche - the only thing she said to me that is the sand is that my he and I have a soul mate connection and I have a mother healer nature and take things on. Everything else was different.

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posted August 23, 2014 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
Psyche - the only thing she said to me that is the sand is that my he and I have a soul mate connection and I have a mother healer nature and take things on. Everything else was different.

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posted August 23, 2014 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:

i reckon most women do
I'm actually super independent and not one of those very feminine women at all, i am the one who would rather work than have a kid, but i do have a healing nurturing element i think of caring for the wounded. lol.

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posted August 23, 2014 04:57 PM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
This is not a Taylor Swift song,

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Sorry, but this made laugh. I totally hear you on people not helping you move on from guys. Totally!

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posted August 23, 2014 04:59 PM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
Somebody was asking about Estrellas predictions so I will share my story.
(This was about two weeks ago)
I hadn't had a reading in a while but I decided to try her because I heard about her here and she has great reviews. I did the 10 deal and asked about one guy in particular. She said he loved me and felt guilty about how he had treated me in the past, now I don't believe he loves me and I did not then but a lot of psychics use the L word loosely so I let it slide. As far as him feeling guilty...idk he was treating me a lot nicer but that doesn't necessarily mean anything. She said that he was going to be taken on a new career path and it would bring him closer to me (physically, I asked if he would be moving away)-the guy is looking for a new job. No idea if he has found one or where it is. She told me he had strong feelings for me and we would be in a relationship and that he kept thinking about taking me to some kind of celebration at the end of the year. No idea on that.

So...heres what really happened:
(one week later/last week)
The guy and I hung out for hours, I honestly thought he was really liking me and that things were starting to change with us. Then he opened up to me about this girl he had met a few weeks prior that he really REALLY seemed to like (she sounds effing awful but I am biased) he was asking for my advice about her and saying that he didn't want to screw things up with her. I really like him so I'm not going to interfere with something that he is so happy about, plus I have enough self respect to not try to compete for someones affection especially since if he wanted me, he would make an effort to be with me as he has obviously done with her.

All of this ran contradictory to what Estrella said so I went back and believe it or not politely explained the situation and asked her for my 10 bucks back. She told me that I did not have faith in her readings and that I needed to give this time, then she hung up on me. And I'm left thinking, time for what? How much time? How long am I supposed to wait for another idiot to realize my worth? 2 weeks? 3 months? When they're at the altar together? This is not a Taylor Swift song, I don't have time or energy anymore to wait for someone to come to their senses or stop being on the fence about me. I deserve better than that.

Psychics have used my willingness to wait on a stupid guy to their advantage for almost two years. I'm done waiting, if a guy can't step up then I have to walk away no matter how much I like him.

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posted August 23, 2014 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
Psyche-
Can u draw the chart on astro then post it in the interpersonal forum?
I am sure you will get some great responses there but again unless times of birth are correct there is a lot missing from the synastry story.

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posted August 23, 2014 05:02 PM            

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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
Psyche-
My chat with Diana S about 6 months ago was very very similar.
I'm Mother Earth energy- he's using other women as band aids, step up or step out. Soul connection- many past lives wrapped up in the web
Just to summarize....

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posted August 23, 2014 05:06 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
I'm totally feminine and want very much to be a mother and wife... So she was absolutely right. But... I wonder how often she says that.

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posted August 23, 2014 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
maybe they are all fakes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i think this sharing is good
it proves who is at least giving wholly original readings

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posted August 23, 2014 05:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Vivi327:
Exactly...!! This really opened my eyes

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me too
its why its so good to share readings!!!
i can 100000 percent say whatever i read however good anyone thinks i am i guarantee its wholly original lol
and weirdly opposite to most readers a lot of the time when read for my friends

posted August 23, 2014 05:21 PM            

Also, I see this:he does have issues with his past and forgive me here but he also takes you for granted
No and the REALLY good news is:the future is not just predictable but it is actually INFLUENTIAL as well and with your permission only, I will explain that when you are ready.

Then he is sincerely one lucky man and he is always and I repeat always (as long as you allow it) going to be part of your life. Now a little spiritual explanation if we could ... He HAS got feelings for you that go beyond friendship, of that I am 100% psychically convinced. Furthermore, I am being shown that he wants you to "be there when he is ready" only sadly, he (this is where I have to be blatantly honest) doesn't know WHEN he is going to be ready so has become, as you so aptly put it, obsessive about you remaining in his life! Now if you can influence this guy, in the nicest possible way of course (and I am sure it would be nice with you) to stop taking you for granted, he should come forwards that little bit more and before we run out of time, my darling, I should, with your permission, like to explain how you could do just that ... The right path is friendship come relationship and you are on it now. He DOES, I promise you, know you are serious. His only problem is: in his head (where things go on I don't necessarily agree with) he feels that if he had a relationship with you, that he wants REALLY and it went wrong (which it shouldn't) then he wouldn't only lose his girlfriend but he would lose his friend at the same time and summer a "double whammy" as a result. No but you are, I feel, heading in that direction. Exactly - however, my love, I have to say to you, straight from the horses mouth so to speak, that he is actually at risk of losing you but more about that once I have given you the spiritual advice if we may ... I think you would agree that you have put more into your "friendship" with this man. Could you therefore, my love, consider giving him just 10% less than that what he has grown accustomed to.
What you are speaking of here is one almighty connection. Where there is no connection there is no friendship or relationship and as you have got a GREAT connection, then you do, indeed, have an awful lot of potential to have a wonderful relationship with each other.You have to have more my love because spirit teach that a balanced friendship or relationship (whatsoever YOU prefer) must be balanced because where there is balance there is harmony and where there is imbalance there can be discord and problems. However, you are strong enough to give him just 10% less are you not, my love? I think you would agree with me there?

posted August 23, 2014 05:27 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
Yea... My reading was nothing like that Psyche..

Hmmm...

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