posted August 24, 2014 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
I thought a couple people had bad experiences with Lidia? Or, am I confusing her with someone else?

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posted August 24, 2014 06:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Vivi327:

It was my birthday and my phone broke...a week later when my phone was fixed I got a message from my ex saying he's been trying to reach me to wish me a happy birthday...my point is...when a man wants to find you he will

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posted August 24, 2014 06:25 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
I thought a couple people had bad experiences with Lidia? Or, am I confusing her with someone else?

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posted August 24, 2014 06:27 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
that my dear is so true!!!! lol
i think most of us forget that too.

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posted August 24, 2014 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
Well I was conversing with Jessica Insight back and forth on bitwine, and she helped me understand a few things in regards to readings a bit more. She also said something very similar to what Psyche said on here. Jessica told me that if you get too many readings done it could ultimately change the outcome.

[b]Now time to insert my taxi reading confessional:

In total, since mid-July I've spoken with over 14 readers (I think 14.) 12 readings from bitwine, 1 from Keen and 1 from Kasamba. I asked them all mostly the same type of contact question (along with other questions), with the exception of one person who I didn't ask about contact. I've come to realize that I've been focusing too much on wanting to know the answer to when will Y contact me. When I tell myself to stop, I stop for a certain amount of time (the longest time I went without a reading was two weeks.) Yet, whenever I want another update to see if the contact is the same or changed, I'll either get a new reader or return to someone I've spoken to already (this person would be Toria, who I've spoken to more than anyone else.)

Fairy told me on here a few pages back something. Follow my heart and do what I think is best. I've come to the conclusion of what I plan on doing tomorrow. I will follow my own guide, which is my heart, and do what I truly want to do. I can't say rather or not it will lead me to contact or not, but I don't want to think back one day and wish I did something that I didn't do. I don't want to feel any regrets.

I need to stop relying on what readers predict for me. Because of how many readings I've gotten over the past month, I've probably delayed Y contacting me without even realizing it because I was so anxious for contact. Of course I want contact because I miss him, but there is something more important that I really need to tell him that goes beyond "missing him." It's something that he really needs to know.

Today, I sent him a message on the Line app we used to communicate on. I have a feeling he blocked me on there, even though Toria said he didn't (whereas three other readers said he did), but even so. I followed my heart and sent a message. If I am blocked, he'll never see it and if I'm not blocked, we'll see what happens. Tomorrow, I plan on also following my heart by mailing him a letter. This is something I've been avoiding doing for weeks, but I feel in my heart its something that I need to do.

Deep down in my heart, I feel that I need to stop focusing on the doubt which has been plaguing my mind and focus on the positive. Whatever happens, happens. From now on, I'll decide what I think is best for me.

Sorry for the long message. I just feel like I needed to release that instead of holding it in. I'm starting to feel better, there is a slight pulse in my chest (that feeling of anxiousness), but I know once I mail that letter, everything will go from there and I know I'll eventually get my answer sooner or later. [/B]

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Good idea Proxy. If you want to talk to him, try and contact him. Waiting around for someone to contact me drives me crazy. When I was asking about my ex, some readers were like don't contact him, he will get back to you and want you back blahblah. Then one reader told me to hit him up and gave me advice on what to say, and it was a disaster. Then I just gave it up until I realized he was looking at my social media...then I ended up contacting him to tell him to stay away...then he contacted me...then i contacted him but he ignored me....basically, I think you should just do what your heart tells you to.

posted August 24, 2014 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
I'm similar like it makes sense to my situation but i do feel could fit a lot of pals its not THAT specific

I love kimberley actuarial arts one day ill post that one as that is scary detail wise she describes my guy to a tee.

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What did she say to you in the reading if you don't mind me asking? I want to see how it compares
I got a reading from her before I realized she was light4u... She was wrong for me a while back but it was a smaller reading I was actually having her look at somethig that was to occur that night.

posted August 24, 2014 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
That's what I assumed too. I could have swore I saw people say they had bad experiences with her, but just like you, I assumed maybe I got it mixed up with someone else.

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posted August 24, 2014 06:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Damali:

I think someone said that she was off for them. Don't remember exactly. I've been back and forth with her but I'm still waiting it out to see.

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posted August 24, 2014 06:40 PM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
What did she say to you in the reading if you don't mind me asking? I want to see how it compares
I got a reading from her before I realized she was light4u... She was wrong for me a while back but it was a smaller reading I was actually having her look at somethig that was to occur that night.

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Who Jodee Lynn I just feel rly repetitive I'm tired but tmrw will post some up

posted August 24, 2014 06:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Damali:
Good idea Proxy. If you want to talk to him, try and contact him. Waiting around for someone to contact me drives me crazy. When I was asking about my ex, some readers were like don't contact him, he will get back to you and want you back blahblah. Then one reader told me to hit him up and gave me advice on what to say, and it was a disaster. Then I just gave it up until I realized he was looking at my social media...then I ended up contacting him to tell him to stay away...then he contacted me...then i contacted him but he ignored me....basically, I think you should just do what your heart tells you to.

You definitly need to talk to him, you need some kind of closure or understanding of the situation. But if things don't work out, honestly you can do better. I don't mean to be presumptuous, but he sounds like kind of a douche disappearing on you when you two were in a relationship. That's rude as hell unless there is a really, really good reason, i.e. something happened to him that prevents him from picking up a phone or driving over to see you. AKA, it's inexcusable. You deserve more than that from someone who claims to love you.

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Yeah, getting closure is something that I really want. I've had two readers tell me not to contact him and wait for him to contact me. AV, Toria and someone else (I forgot who) told me that I could, but it wouldn't make him respond any faster, but it would make him happy (what Toria said). However, this was almost a month ago, when I asked them that question to them.

posted August 24, 2014 06:48 PM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
When are your predictions supposed to come to pass?

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posted August 24, 2014 06:51 PM            

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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
Yeah, getting closure is something that I really want. I've had two readers tell me not to contact him and wait for him to contact me. AV, Toria and someone else (I forgot who) told me that I could, but it wouldn't make him respond any faster, but it would make him happy (what Toria said). However, this was almost a month ago, when I asked them that question to them.

Y has disappearing issues, lol. I do agree that it was very wrong of him to disappear like that while we were in a relationship. And trust me, you aren't the first to say that he isn't a good guy to do something like that. It hurt me, and I'm still a bit heartbroken about it. I've tried asking readers why he does that, most of them all gave me general a response that sounds similar to each other (when he gets too close, he disappears, he needed time to think, he has a habit of doing it and etc etc). However, only he really knows why he disappeared. In the letter I'm getting ready to write him, I want it to be very nonchalant. I don't want to give away too much that I missed him, but just enough to let him know that he was on my mind. It's up to him to see if he'll respond back or not after that (which I'm hoping he will.)

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I hope you get what you need. I hope he is able to work through those issues, if he does have a habit of disappearing. I hope he responds to your letter

I do know some guys like that who do the disappearing act that aren't bad guys. So, it is wrong of me to make blanket judgements.

posted August 24, 2014 06:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Damali:
End of August from both Toria and Lidia. From what I am seeing, it will more likely be very early September.

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Sorry to jump in, but my prediction was also set for the end of August from Toria. She told me that although Y was being really quiet right now and a little stubborn, that he will contact me in a week in a half, almost two weeks. That was last Sunday when she told me that. So, I'm assuming contact anytime this upcoming week or so.

posted August 24, 2014 06:52 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:

Who Jodee Lynn I just feel rly repetitive I'm tired but tmrw will post some up

Omg I'll be hated on bitwine lol

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posted August 24, 2014 06:54 PM            

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I hope you get what you need. I hope he is able to work through those issues, if he does have a habit of disappearing. I hope he responds to your letter

I do know some guys like that who do the disappearing act that aren't bad guys. So, it is wrong of me to make blanket judgements.

Anyway, good luck!

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posted August 24, 2014 08:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Damali:
End of August from both Toria and Lidia. From what I am seeing, it will more likely be very early September.

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posted August 24, 2014 08:22 PM            

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Proxy I'm glad you are doing what you feel is best for you. No matter what the outcome at least you tried. I'm happy for you for taking the initiative.

I'm not fairing so well. I had a great read with K4S on Thursday and learned so much. On Saturday I had such a sinking feeling. I ended up talking to MsDream and Trishula. Both gave me some negative outcomes. I was kind of upset. Then it hit me today, if he wanted to talk to me he would. If he wanted to accept my friend request on fb he would have by now. For all I know he declined it. You don't get notified if someone declines you. I was going to try contacting once more but I feel so stupid now. Why would he want to hear from me. I doubt he does. So I guess I'm coming to terms with it. Even if I tried to contact I don't even know what I would say anymore. I just feel sad about the whole thing.

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Thanks! I feel better to follow my own heart instead of listening to what the readers tell me to do.

posted August 24, 2014 08:34 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Well when I look at his page it just says friend request sent. I don't know if it would still say that if he declined. I could send him a message through fb but I have his number so I could just text him too. But I don't think he wants to talk to me.

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When someone declines a friend request, it would have it as if you never sent the request and you would have to send the request again. So, for it to still be there as sent, then it's a chance he either hasn't seen it yet, or probably debating rather or not to answer it.

posted August 24, 2014 08:38 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Well when I look at his page it just says friend request sent. I don't know if it would still say that if he declined. I could send him a message through fb but I have his number so I could just text him too. But I don't think he wants to talk to me.

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posted August 24, 2014 09:08 PM            

some are kinda 'mean' and said she's manipulative, clingy, possessive etc and this will be the reason that he will leave her.

the others were like "simply they're not what each other looking for"

a couple are nicer and just said they are trying hard to make it work (but probably wont work), so a year maximum.

I guess i'm just blanketed with a bit of pain, but I know my gut feeling said intuitively they have problems in relationship despite the affectionate attitude + PDAs when I spent time with them together. they're physically compatible, affectionate talk to each other a lot, and joke around a lot but you can tell they don't have that quiet understanding, almost like the affectionate attitude is an overcompensation.

but, i also understand that even so, he chose her not me, if they broke up doesn't mean he will seek me out (even if the psychics mostly said he -will- seek for me, whether for selfish reasons or to seriously pursuing)

what I need to remind myself is if a man does not want to be with me, then he does not see me as someone worth fighting for or worth risking/invest his life for. I can give unconditional love (wishing for his happiness) but I shouldn't settle for that kind of treatment..

posted August 24, 2014 09:20 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Nope nothing bad happened at all. No fight or anything like that. The one thing all readers seem to agree on is that he's got a lot going on right now in his personal life so he's not in a good place to start a relationship. They all say the feeling is there from him but he feels he doesn't have anything to offer me. They also all seem to feel he's protecting me from his ex who he's still friends with on fb. That he will accept it eventually but not now. They aren't together but they still talk. He doesn't want her to see me because she would give him a diffucult time. Apparently she's the jealous type. They all feel that because their tie isn't cut completely that he doesn't want her to know about me. Like he's protecting me from her. I don't know.

Deleting fb isn't an option for me. I enjoy having it and don't want to get rid of it. I'm trying to find things to occupy myself to not think of the situation.

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Same situation as me. He and I never argued or anything like that. I hope things clears up for the both of us and we get the contact we're looking for, even if it's closure.