posted August 24, 2014 09:31 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I actually pulled back a really long time ago (March 1st). I haven't contacted him since and have completely disappeared from his life. I was literally unreachable for months.

I blocked his number then lost my phone, so I had to change my number. I also blocked him on FB (until July). I unblocked him for a couple of weeks right after I got the readings but I deactivated my account a couple of weeks later when the predictions didn't come to pass.

It could be that he looked me up back when he was blocked and couldn't find me so he didn't bother searching again. I don't know really.

It could very well be that my own actions had an impact on the actual outcome but I think the psychics should have been able to see that he wasn't going to contact me for XYZ reason.

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That's very true - they should be able to see that. That's why I say it's silly to use the free-will excuse when it comes to psychic readings. They just made a mistake, and interpreted things wrong.

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posted August 24, 2014 09:46 PM            

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Fairy...I was in the same situation as you...I deleted Facebook because that was the only way i would let go..,I spend thousands on readings because of him and only one reader or maybe two got it right, I didn't want to hear that so I just kept getting readings....I know it sounds cliche but again I say when a man wants to talk he will find u...please focus on yourself...join a gym release those endorphins, and get rid of those toxins...you will feel like a million bux and you will have the confidence to meet the man that DESERVES YOU! I only say this because I was you last year...oh and read those baggage reclaim blogs...they helped me tremendously!!!!

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posted August 24, 2014 09:52 PM            

I have met the guy that Mariama predicted I'd meet months ago. Had a reading with her yesterday and she confirmed it too. It was the said work guy. And here I was about to give up on readings.

SpiritualJade is the REAL deal! She was telling me about the guy and some other people at work who had supposed interest in me. Described them and darn! She's SO spot on. Esp with one, his personality, his little habits, his looks down to his green eyes. I was kinda skeptical, because I haven't talked to the guy much, but after she described the guy, I was curious so asked if it was a certain guy...After that we started talking more and this week we're going to hang out and probably see a movie.

posted August 24, 2014 10:00 PM            

i learnt it in a painful way.

when i was soo into A, he pulled back. i cried, thought of him day & night, trying to reach him, stalk his facebook, checked his whatsapp online time; as miserable as a person could be. i put myself in a prison. he was back & forth, like i would be there forever so he has tons of time to play around.

now i let go; totally let go. he comes back, showing up everywhere.

you should be just as bitchy as you can. you just cannot be nice to these ******** .

posted August 24, 2014 10:02 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Proxy I'm glad you are doing what you feel is best for you. No matter what the outcome at least you tried. I'm happy for you for taking the initiative.

I'm not fairing so well. I had a great read with K4S on Thursday and learned so much. On Saturday I had such a sinking feeling. I ended up talking to MsDream and Trishula. Both gave me some negative outcomes. I was kind of upset. Then it hit me today, if he wanted to talk to me he would. If he wanted to accept my friend request on fb he would have by now. For all I know he declined it. You don't get notified if someone declines you. I was going to try contacting once more but I feel so stupid now. Why would he want to hear from me. I doubt he does. So I guess I'm coming to terms with it. Even if I tried to contact I don't even know what I would say anymore. I just feel sad about the whole thing.

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Hang in there. He wasn't good enough for you anyway. He should be going out of his way to meet you again, to text and communicate-that's what you deserve. Don't be sad, there's so many guys everywhere! It's all about thinking in terms of abundance. I bought a really good book recently, you can get it on Kindle-Love will find you.
http://www.amazon.com/Love-Will-Find-You-Soulmate/dp/1569242771

Read it, do the activities, it really helps lift ya mood. And it's about sending out happy thoughts lol. In the last month, I've been asked out by at least 6 or so people. And I didn't do anything online. Some kept asking.

posted August 24, 2014 10:08 PM            

you should be just as bitchy as you can. you just cannot be nice to these ******** .

posted August 24, 2014 10:09 PM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
my experience is, MEN you cannot be nice to them.

i learnt it in a painful way.

when i was soo into A, he pulled back. i cried, thought of him day & night, trying to reach him, stalk his facebook, checked his whatsapp online time; as miserable as a person could be. i put myself in a prison. he was back & forth, like i would be there forever so he has tons of time to play around.

now i let go; totally let go. he comes back, showing up everywhere.

you should be just as bitchy as you can. you just cannot be nice to these ******** .

lesson is always: either he is the one or not, do not trap ourselves in the tunnel. the world is much bigger than we thought.

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It's not about being less nice. You just need to show you have a backbone, have opinions and aren't easily swayed. The whole respecting yourself and knowing you deserve the best.

posted August 24, 2014 10:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I've been away from Lindaland for over a month and just wanted to report back some pretty good news!

I have met the guy that Mariama predicted I'd meet months ago. Had a reading with her yesterday and she confirmed it too. It was the said work guy. And here I was about to give up on readings.

SpiritualJade is the REAL deal! She was telling me about the guy and some other people at work who had supposed interest in me. Described them and darn! She's SO spot on. Esp with one, his personality, his little habits, his looks down to his green eyes. I was kinda skeptical, because I haven't talked to the guy much, but after she described the guy, I was curious so asked if it was a certain guy...After that we started talking more and this week we're going to hang out and probably see a movie.

Still waiting on the promotion to take place. But only had one reading in the last 5 weeks. I'm trying to be less reliant on them.

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Damn for real? I had a readig with her in early August. It was during those times when I was just bored and looking for a reading, and I felt like she was being kind of generic, but it could also be that I was just closed off to her. And then we got cut off during the reading. So initially I asked for a refund, but she told me to come back. But for some reason it was so hard for me to get back in touch with her to finish the reading. She was either never online when I checked. Or it would show she was online but when I clicked to chat, she would tell me that she was actually busy with another customer. And then when I tried to set up times to finish my reading with her, she would get my message too late and not be available.
I thought she was trolling me after a while. Finally, I just gave up and deleted my bitwine. But she messaged me to say that I should come back when I wanted a reading.

posted August 24, 2014 10:13 PM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
my experience is, MEN you cannot be nice to them.

i learnt it in a painful way.

when i was soo into A, he pulled back. i cried, thought of him day & night, trying to reach him, stalk his facebook, checked his whatsapp online time; as miserable as a person could be. i put myself in a prison. he was back & forth, like i would be there forever so he has tons of time to play around.

now i let go; totally let go. he comes back, showing up everywhere.

you should be just as bitchy as you can. you just cannot be nice to these ******** .

lesson is always: either he is the one or not, do not trap ourselves in the tunnel. the world is much bigger than we thought.

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posted August 24, 2014 10:14 PM            

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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
@Vivi I love baggage reclaim! I watched all the videos on youtube!

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posted August 24, 2014 10:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Damali:
Damn for real? I had a readig with her in early August. It was during those times when I was just bored and looking for a reading, and I felt like she was being kind of generic, but it could also be that I was just closed off to her. And then we got cut off during the reading. So initially I asked for a refund, but she told me to come back. But for some reason it was so hard for me to get back in touch with her to finish the reading. She was either never online when I checked. Or it would show she was online but when I clicked to chat, she would tell me that she was actually busy with another customer. And then when I tried to set up times to finish my reading with her, she would get my message too late and not be available.
I thought she was trolling me after a while. Finally, I just gave up and deleted my bitwine. But she messaged me to say that I should come back when I wanted a reading.

I think I might go re-look at the transcript and message she sent, maybe try to get in touch again.

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Yeah it's not that guy I mentioned about a month and abit ago. He is currently moving slow (as it's been predicted sigh...A couple of psychics a few months ago mentioned sth about barrier at the start and communication issues) but anyway, regarding esp two other people...She got their personalities spot on. And how they acted towards me. That guy, she said he took short frequent breaks at work and would look away sometimes and smile, AND HE DOES! Got his looks and figure totally accurate as well. Also described another guy accurately like she knew him. How he was alot louder and always went out of his way to come to my area to talk, how he was around my height. The second guy's asked me out a few times now.

posted August 24, 2014 10:19 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Happless I'm glad your predictions are coming true. I'll have to check out that book. I've been on OK Cupid before. Just be careful, some are just looking for hookups. I mean, it's true on any dating, but for some reason OK Cupid seems to have a bit more. At least that was my experience. But I hope it goes well you and you meet someone great! Keep us posted on how it's going.

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Haha yeah I know. But I probably won't be meeting any of them. It's just more for uh energy?

posted August 24, 2014 10:48 PM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
my experience is, MEN you cannot be nice to them.

i learnt it in a painful way.

when i was soo into A, he pulled back. i cried, thought of him day & night, trying to reach him, stalk his facebook, checked his whatsapp online time; as miserable as a person could be. i put myself in a prison. he was back & forth, like i would be there forever so he has tons of time to play around.

now i let go; totally let go. he comes back, showing up everywhere.

you should be just as bitchy as you can. you just cannot be nice to these ******** .

lesson is always: either he is the one or not, do not trap ourselves in the tunnel. the world is much bigger than we thought.

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Lol I started reading Why Men Love ******* again ... so true...

On the other hand - if someone is not interested in you, then he's just not and we shouldn't expect communication etc from them. The people I wasn't into - they haven't heard from me once that final communication happened because I wouldn't contact someone who I have no interest in, what's the point?

So we shouldn't be angry at guys for not contacting us if they're simply not interested ... it's actually more mean if they're not interested and keep contacting...

posted August 24, 2014 10:52 PM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
truely, seriously, i hate to see other girls wasting the time like what i did.
but been 3 yrs, my emotions was like roller coaster, if he text me even just a good morning, i have few days happy; if he disappeared; i felt like living in hell. i couldnt even function normally. i was surviving by few words from him!!
why i have to do this to myself? why?
love yourself more than anybody else in the world; put yourself up highest, take care of yourself most.
i know it is the lesson i have to learn, but if i love myself more the lesson should be shorter lol

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posted August 24, 2014 11:01 PM            

I know when I asked about my ex, those who saw that he's with someone said only negative things about her and how it won't last...

And yeah, 90% when I've asked about guys I was told - something will happen/good relationship - when in fact 100% of the time nothing happened...

posted August 24, 2014 11:19 PM            

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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
That is exactly how I felt with "M" I was an emotional wreck on an emotional rollercoaster. I'm hoping that noone has to go through what I did. 90% of the psychics told me I would end up with ¾E" smh funny because ¾E" is officially locked up for the next 15 years and we talking Federal time!

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posted August 24, 2014 11:31 PM            

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Lidia wasn't accurate for me and kept adjusting her reading when I corrected her on present details. An example was, "When will I be financially stable again?" She assumed I wasn't employed. I told her I was...she switched and said she saw "lack of work", then proceeded to tell me I'd get a promotion in August (this month). That's impossible, unless my business partner dies and her son doesn't inherit her half, I'm not getting promoted - I mean this very sarcastically. Yes, I will do temp work and contract for a change of pace, but that isn't a promotion. The relationship part of the reading was all kinds of wrong; she told me when my partner and I settle back in together, despite the strong connection I would meet a man named Mark who I will choose to marry and have children with. Time frames have passed already.

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Wow....that sounds similar to what she told me. You will get a job by end of August. You will meet someone named Mark or Martin.

Eff her. I was on the fence bakaneko because I wanted to believe her, but you've convinced me she's full of hot air. Our readings are too similar.

I just had a reading which was dumb. Because it told me things I don't really want to hear. And it's a little harder to dismiss because the lady used astrology (so I can check and verify for myself) and tarot. She pulled up my chart and used the cards to get additional detail and what she told me kind of depressed the hell out of me.

Saturn is currently in my career house, and will be there until around the end of 2014. So she doesn't see me getting a fulltime job till 2015. Which just blows. It blows so hard. And she said that my love life is about to blow up. Like she talked about five different guys who are going to enter my life over the next year. Which I think is ****** because I would rather have a job than a man, especially multiple men entering my life.

I've never had a reading like that. I'm not even going to go into more detail because it sounds kind of nuts.

posted August 24, 2014 11:49 PM            

Someone has said it before, but most relationship readings fall into the cookie cutter: he's hot and cold, he misses you, he's not ready for a relationship, etc.

GS also told me to try the online dating energy thing. I told her no, I get stalked a lot, I don't need to send out anymore energy. She insisted, so I joined Plenty of Fish, created my profile and went away for the weekend with no internet access. Came back to an inbox 400+ messages, and at that time private pics were allowed so many of them had nekked photos. The only interesting person of the 400+ was my friend's ex husband who messaged me to contact her because she and her fiancee broke up and she needed a friend. So that profile got deleted quickly.

posted August 24, 2014 11:56 PM            

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@Damali Best of luck on the interview! When I saw your post it reminded me a little bit of my reading, but Mark is a common name.

Someone has said it before, but most relationship readings fall into the cookie cutter: he's hot and cold, he misses you, he's not ready for a relationship, etc.

GS also told me to try the online dating energy thing. I told her no, I get stalked a lot, I don't need to send out anymore energy. She insisted, so I joined Plenty of Fish, created my profile and went away for the weekend with no internet access. Came back to an inbox 400+ messages, and at that time private pics were allowed so many of them had nekked photos. The only interesting person of the 400+ was my friend's ex husband who messaged me to contact her because she and her fiancee broke up and she needed a friend. So that profile got deleted quickly.

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Thank you!
I guess I can say Lidia was wrong for me. I actually went to her twice. The second time to clarify things. She told me that the job I would eventualy be hired for was one I had already had contact with. She said I may have already been interviewed. And that I had even started applying in June. I didn't know wtf she was talking about, so I forgot about it and then a job that I had applied to in June called me around middle of August and I was psyched, but they didn't hire me. Which is fine because I don't think I'd have liked it.

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Thank you!
I guess I can say Lidia was wrong for me. I actually went to her twice. The second time to clarify things. She told me that the job I would eventualy be hired for was one I had already had contact with. She said I may have already been interviewed. And that I had even started applying in June. I didn't know wtf she was talking about, so I forgot about it and then a job that I had applied to in June called me around middle of August and I was psyched, but they didn't hire me. Which is fine because I don't think I'd have liked it.

Online dating is pretty sketch.

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i talked to Lidia once. she was very accurte with the facts:
1. he just recently pulled back
2. he is in different country
3. he has a woman around him now

but then she couldnt pick up i will see him at september and i will see him again at october....she said things will get really intense at october but not seeing the visit....her predictions align with other trustful ones though...but i was not sure about her ability when she couldnt see the 2 visits...so i think she is real, maybe we just didnt connect so well; but i will not go back again.