posted July 13, 2014 08:50 AM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
What's your question, anyway?

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Should I continue buying furniture for my apartment?

If that's not a good question,

posted July 13, 2014 10:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
Thank you, great.

Ok, no predictive questions... Why does J.K. make advances towards me? Amusement, fun or is he really into me?

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Base: King of Pentacles
Spread: Ace of Pentacles - Queen of Swords - Two of Cups

J.K. seems to be of a career-oriented guy, into material things and responsable. He's down to earth, has a good circle of friends (not big, but not small) and is good with his hands. He has a quiet presence but makes himself noticed when he needs/wants.

I'd say he's genuine in regards to you. There's interest for you on his part. He sees your relationship as something viable, grounded, long-term and promising. The promise of you and of you dating is what has taken his fancy and he's willing to pursue you/it. He's attracted to your intelligence, to your conversation, to your personal expression. It's not that he's not into your looks, it's just that your mind appeal to him a lot more. You might be doing the talking more than he does, but this is something that really turns him on, as he's fascinated by how you look and sound when you're speaking excitedly about whatever. He's not terribly bothered that what interests you might not interest him; he's satisfied and pleased with just gazing at you while you speak. He's not going to show you this right away, but he has a very soft side to him. He's not the usual romantic, though. Don't expect love letters or anything of the like. That's not up to his alley. He's really vying for a partnership with you.

posted July 13, 2014 11:12 AM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Base: King of Pentacles
Spread: Ace of Pentacles - Queen of Swords - Two of Cups

J.K. seems to be of a career-oriented guy, into material things and responsable. He's down to earth, has a good circle of friends (not big, but not small) and is good with his hands. He has a quiet presence but makes himself noticed when he needs/wants.

I'd say he's genuine in regards to you. There's interest for you on his part. He sees your relationship as something viable, grounded, long-term and promising. The promise of you and of you dating is what has taken his fancy and he's willing to pursue you/it. He's attracted to your intelligence, to your conversation, to your personal expression. It's not that he's not into your looks, it's just that your mind appeal to him a lot more. You might be doing the talking more than he does, but this is something that really turns him on, as he's fascinated by how you look and sound when you're speaking excitedly about whatever. He's not terribly bothered that what interests you might not interest him; he's satisfied and pleased with just gazing at you while you speak. He's not going to show you this right away, but he has a very soft side to him. He's not the usual romantic, though. Don't expect love letters or anything of the like. That's not up to his alley. He's really vying for a partnership with you.

Let me know how this sounds, please.

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Wow, thank you

Your description of him seems to be accurate. I don't know him too well but your description fits (as far as I can tell).

posted July 13, 2014 11:14 AM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Stop! I got it?? For real??

Wow, ok, well I got to ask you a question yesterday about A. Could you please take another look at that for me? Anything you can tell me about the situation would be helpful to me. Is that ok? If not I can ask something else.

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Base: 10 of Cups
Spread: Queen of Wands - Four of Cups - Ace of Wands

You did! LP almost spoiled the game by guessing it right. She's such a nuisance...

Anyways, onto you and A!

I don't read reversals, so I let my intuition guide me into what the cards are saying: there's no absolute good nor absolute bad cards in my book. What I mean by this, is that that 10 of Cups basing is not as good as it sounds. For one, I don't think you've reached the stage where a committed relationship has been established - right? Secondly, it's a bit unrealistic with how things have been between the two of you. (Sorry, I was reading through the Psychics thread and saw he hasn't replied to your contats, so I think I'm correct at assessing this. If I'm not, I'm happy to be wrong. Let me know!) That tells me that you're being, creating and dreaming unrealistic scenarios for this relationship. I've been there, believe me. But this feels like you're holding on for dear life when you should be going through the motions instead. It's counterproductive to your state of mind and being. Also, you seem to have this perfect idea of what a good relationship is, how it should start off and what you should have and feel to be happy in it. You know, if you live it in your head, you can't live it in life. Life hardly ever duplicates what our minds can create at their own device.

You're passionate, but it's a passion that is currently contained, held back, stoppered. For some reason, this relationship and this man seems to be linked strongly to your ego, to your womanly sense of self. A bit like, "yes, I got him! See? I was right all along. I'm THAT desirable." It's not even that you're not self-confident or that you have self-esteem issues (which I don't feel you have), but this man has shook you and you want him to be shaken back. You want to know you've moved him in some way, even a small one. If you get this from him, you'll be one happy camper.

I told you this yesterday, but not in so many words. If he comes back, it feels like you're settling for less than you deserve. You're seeing this right now as this great opportunity for a relationship with a great guy, but you're not being objective. You're not in possession of all the facts that affect this relationship, so you're turning everything into a better light.

Lastly, I see you both ignoring opportunities and holding onto how things currently are, being innert. He doesn't seem ready or willing to reach out to you and you're not inclined to let him go. This is a standstill. One of you has to make a decision to get things going again. Either he comes back or you move on. I'm not seeing which one it'll be, sorry.

posted July 13, 2014 11:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
Wow, thank you

Your description of him seems to be accurate. I don't know him too well but your description fits (as far as I can tell).

Regarding his intentions: well, he is far younger than I and I would have never considered him to hit on me (Boy, you are sooo young while I am sooo old!) and I've been very denying to him but he would ignore and keep on hitting on me (that really surprised me as he seems to be a quite shy guy) but what you saw in the cards provides with an explanation. And yes,I do often speak about things very excitedly.

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Great! Thanks for the great feedback!!!

If he's not underage and illegal, I'd give him a chance. He might surprise you. He's mature enough to keep up with you

posted July 13, 2014 11:22 AM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
LP almost spoiled the game by guessing it right. She's such a nuisance...

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posted July 13, 2014 11:37 AM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Should I continue buying furniture for my apartment?

If that's not a good question,

Why was P outside my house this week?

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Yes, you should continue - 7 hearts, 2 hearts, 5 clubs. Btw, there's a literal message with these cards: a second chance at a relationship will cause a sudden change. I kid you not.

Base: Ace of Cups
Spread: Six of Wands - the Empress - the Tower

She's feeling emotionally deserted and she was looking for a way to reverse that. I'd say she's upset, but I'm not sure whether she's upset that she went to see you or that she didn't catch you while there.

She went there to get recognition from you, a reaction. Most likely an apology. She wants you to see that she's on top of things. Feeling a bit of animosity here. Feisty!

Btw, you're both the Empress here. She thinks you have it all and she thinks - and most importantly wants YOU to think - that she's got it all now, too. Very, "Here, IN YOUR FACE." Basically, she wanted to create drama and she went prepared for drama.

I think she may have gone there just to get people off her back. Stop with the whole, "Go to LP and make things right." She was trying to be the bigger person, but she kinda wanted a confrontation too.

posted July 13, 2014 11:40 AM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Wow thanks so much. You are right, he hasn't responded to me now in two weeks time. My last contact to him was Wednesday and I got no response back. So I guess right there that should be a sign. The only thing that I disagree is that I do have some self esteem issues. I don't really think I'm that attractive or that anyone would want me. I guess with A since he seemed like he was attracted to me it threw me and made me feel worthy. So I guess I'm a bit stuck because of that. I know I won't try contacting further it's up to him. So I guess really the ball is in his court and it appears that right now he doesn't want to play. I will try my best to move on and hopefully someone new will come in. Thanks for the read it did help!

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You're welcome, hun!

You didn't feel to have self-esteem issues to me, anyhow. Sorry about that. I just felt you to be very confident... don't know why I got this wrong.

posted July 13, 2014 11:51 AM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Yes, you should continue - 7 hearts, 2 hearts, 5 clubs. Btw, there's a literal message with these cards: a second chance at a relationship will cause a sudden change. I kid you not.

Base: Ace of Cups
Spread: Six of Wands - the Empress - the Tower

She's feeling emotionally deserted and she was looking for a way to reverse that. I'd say she's upset, but I'm not sure whether she's upset that she went to see you or that she didn't catch you while there.

She went there to get recognition from you, a reaction. Most likely an apology. She wants you to see that she's on top of things. Feeling a bit of animosity here. Feisty!

Btw, you're both the Empress here. She thinks you have it all and she thinks - and most importantly wants YOU to think - that she's got it all now, too. Very, "Here, IN YOUR FACE." Basically, she wanted to create drama and she went prepared for drama.

I think she may have gone there just to get people off her back. Stop with the whole, "Go to LP and make things right." She was trying to be the bigger person, but she kinda wanted a confrontation too.

You dodged a bullet here.

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C and her Father L is trying to get us to make up. L is telling C that I should appreciate P. P could've made up when she lived next door. If she wanted confrontation, it was because she wanted everyone to think I was in the wrong (and I wasn't). Second, if she wants confrontation, she can have it. I will punch her in the face coming to my house with nonsense.

I don't believe you on the first spread. *talk to the hand* ✋😒

ETA: forgot my manners. Thank you so very much

posted July 13, 2014 01:48 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
C and her Father L is trying to get us to make up. L is telling C that I should appreciate P. P could've made up when she lived next door. If she wanted confrontation, it was because she wanted everyone to think I was in the wrong (and I wasn't). Second, if she wants confrontation, she can have it. I will punch her in the face coming to my house with nonsense.

I don't believe you on the first spread. *talk to the hand* ✋😒

ETA: forgot my manners. Thank you so very much

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You're always welcome. :*

She just wants to provoke you into attacking her, so she can look good in comparison. Shrug.

posted July 14, 2014 09:15 AM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I only wish you could see if he was doing to contact or not! It's taking up too much mental space in my head right now.

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Asked if he was going to contact you before the end of the year and still got a no - 10 spades, Ace clubs, 6 clubs. I'm not a professional reader though, so you shouldn't let this get you down. If the pros are telling you he's going to contact you, think positively.