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Topic: Is being a fashion designer gonna be a good career path for me? Exchange.
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MineAgain Knowflake Posts: 596 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 01, 2014 09:11 AM
A piece of advice Mia: If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen. You asked for advice, you got it. If you only want people to tell you what you want to hear, then don't bother asking the question in the first place especially as you can't accept criticism in any shape or form. Fighting about who is right or wrong is a waste of everyone's energy. It won't take you anywhere. Nobody on here barred you from applying to fashion jobs. We advised you against working in this industry but you're FREE to do whatever it is you want. You have FREE WILL, so why are you acting like a spoiled brat? You know, there is a point in life where you have to realize that you have to woman up and accept other people's opinion. How do you want to last in ANY industry if you can't even formulate an articulate argument in a polite and respectful manner? I have a feeling everything turns into an argument with you. No offense, but you seem like full of REALLY bad energy. Life isn't a black or white thing. You have to open yourself up to shades of grey. You're acting like a dictator and then expect people to be "nice" to you. When things don't go your way, you throw a tantrum. I initially stopped using LL but seeing your comments worked me up. You have to grant others the respect they ought to get, otherwise I suggest you take a hike, for your own sake. So much negative energy isn't necessary on here. IP: Logged |
Moon is Lunatic Knowflake Posts: 762 From: Moon Registered: Jun 2013
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posted October 01, 2014 09:52 AM
Oh puhhlease.Why you're asking the questions in the first place, if you can't handle the answers/or if you just want to hear the "Yes!! Of course you will survive in fashion industry!!" Don't ask questions at all then. And no Mia, it's NOT about the age but about the ATTITUDE. Karka, me, m.blade and ilunatique are actually young too. I have been treated well here. Why? Because I respect people. Duhhh IP: Logged |
carm76 Knowflake Posts: 291 From: toronto, on Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 01, 2014 09:56 AM
MinceyMouse intuitivefish libran_dream ReeseC MineAgain KarkaQueen peacefulclouds BellaFenice LionfishMia, You asked a question and these people took the time and effort in replying. They are fully aware of your negative, arrogant, self-absorbed energy and yet chose to help you out anyway. I'm thankful your only 17, it means you have time to learn, change and grow. Free-will leaves the ball in your court. I was in my late 20's when I realized my attitude and choices were only impacting me negatively, I had lost out on a lot of good opportunities. Thankfully I am smart and adaptable enough to have change my live for the better. Don't give me any sob story about how you grew up without this or that, I grew up poor, abused and neglected. I have learned through self-awareness that one overcomes adversity by having an attitude of gratitude and being thankful for everything, both the good and bad. So my advice to you is change your attitude asap, be thankful to anyone willing to use their time and energy to help you. This forum has a lot of positive energy and advice from people with experience that could help you, start by giving the people listed above an apology. IP: Logged |
MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 887 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 01, 2014 12:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: 1. Learn to use the word "advice" and "advices"2. So I was wrong so what? I never claim to be the best I just give it my best, other saw what I said as good, and I was wrong for you so ignore what I said. No reader on here can say they are always right. I really dont care if you find me right or wrong. But when someone ( not only me ) other said the same thing to you, take time to even respond, it is nice to atleast say "thank you, I think you are wrong but, thank you " and not go all crazy for "advices" as you call them.
But I did tell you, that I appreciate your readings. I told you that you are a nice person. I told you very politely that I just didn't find your readings true. But you got angry at me... I don't know how else to say it politely. ------------------ Mia Pluto's Astrology Blog IP: Logged |
MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 887 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 01, 2014 12:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: Naaa we aren't fake, we're just tired of your drama and your ranting about how everyone's advice sucks and that everyone here is a liar and pessimistic.  I don't see how you're different from most 16-17 year olds, but whatever; only difference here is that you're more introverted, closed in to yourself, and have a slight interest in the metaphysical but that's not uncommon. Introversion does NOT equal intelligence, have you seen what most people post on the internet? It comes from introverts most of the time.
I never said being an introvert makes one more intelligent. Don't know what made you think that... ------------------ Mia Pluto's Astrology Blog IP: Logged |
MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 887 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 01, 2014 12:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Moon is Lunatic: Oh puhhlease.Why you're asking the questions in the first place, if you can't handle the answers/or if you just want to hear the "Yes!! Of course you will survive in fashion industry!!" Don't ask questions at all then. And no Mia, it's NOT about the age but about the ATTITUDE. Karka, me, m.blade and ilunatique are actually young too. I have been treated well here. Why? Because I respect people. Duhhh
I was looking for a tarot reading. With real explanations for the cards. Not advice based on their personal opinion of me here. Because that in my opinion is a bit irrational. I never insulted anyone here. I only said that there was a person who's readings never resonated. And it was true so idk what makes you think that's disrespectful. If respect makes me cost lies and fake niceness than I can't afford it. Because I'm not like that. If I like someone I'm honest about it, and the same with when I don't. And I have my reasons. And I do not hate anyone here. Unlike everyone, I don't judge people here. I don't know any of you and don't need to. I don't care what you are. I care about good contribution. ------------------ Mia Pluto's Astrology Blog IP: Logged |
MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 887 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 01, 2014 12:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by MineAgain: A piece of advice Mia: If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen. You asked for advice, you got it. If you only want people to tell you what you want to hear, then don't bother asking the question in the first place especially as you can't accept criticism in any shape or form. Fighting about who is right or wrong is a waste of everyone's energy. It won't take you anywhere. Nobody on here barred you from applying to fashion jobs. We advised you against working in this industry but you're FREE to do whatever it is you want. You have FREE WILL, so why are you acting like a spoiled brat? You know, there is a point in life where you have to realize that you have to woman up and accept other people's opinion. How do you want to last in ANY industry if you can't even formulate an articulate argument in a polite and respectful manner? I have a feeling everything turns into an argument with you. No offense, but you seem like full of REALLY bad energy. Life isn't a black or white thing. You have to open yourself up to shades of grey. You're acting like a dictator and then expect people to be "nice" to you. When things don't go your way, you throw a tantrum. I initially stopped using LL but seeing your comments worked me up. You have to grant others the respect they ought to get, otherwise I suggest you take a hike, for your own sake. So much negative energy isn't necessary on here.
I never asked for advice. ------------------ Mia Pluto's Astrology Blog IP: Logged |
MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 887 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 01, 2014 12:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: And she has the gall to call her astrology website a "professional page". Girl do you even see yourself?  You're so arrogant and you don't even realize it.
I realize that I come off as arrogant. But I don't mean to and I'm not arrogant. I called it professional for a reason. Because I only write things in my website which I have approved of. I made my site to share the knowledge that I learnt, to shed some light for people who are interested in what I have to say. ------------------ Mia Pluto's Astrology Blog IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 212 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 01, 2014 12:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by MiaPluto: But I did tell you, that I appreciate your readings. I told you that you are a nice person. I told you very politely that I just didn't find your readings true. But you got angry at me...I don't know how else to say it politely.
untrue, show me where I got angry at you ?I never got angry at that or anything like that, I said you were rude for your other posts, DO NOT twist whats been said
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MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 887 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 01, 2014 12:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: [QUOTE]Originally posted by MiaPluto: [b] But I did tell you, that I appreciate your readings. I told you that you are a nice person. I told you very politely that I just didn't find your readings true. But you got angry at me...I don't know how else to say it politely.
untrue, show me where I got angry at you ?I never got angry at that or anything like that, I said you were rude for your other posts, DO NOT twist whats been said[/B][/QUOTE] You're angry again. I didn't say that you SAID you were angry. I only said that the way you wrote seemed like you were very angry. ------------------ Mia Pluto's Astrology Blog IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 212 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 01, 2014 12:49 PM
no Mia, you said I got angry at you telling me my reading did not resonate with you, which is utter BS !! btw , you dont know what angry is if you call this angry. I told you you were rude in your posts and you were and you said rude things to me also. you forgot already? You have been rude to all others also. You still dont get it do you? someone give you advice or reading ( not me but for ex. people who told you about the fashion thing) and you dont even bother to say . OH yea thanks guys but you get all defensive. and then your exit strategy is - intuitivefish was wrong for me? are you serious. Im done, from now on I am ignoring your posts. BYE IP: Logged |
MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 887 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 01, 2014 12:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: no Mia, you said I got angry at you telling me my reading did not resonate with you, which is utter BS !! btw , you dont know what angry is if you call this angry. I told you you were rude in your posts and you were and you said rude things to me also. you forgot already? You have been rude to all others also. You still dont get it do you? someone give you advice or reading ( not me but for ex. people who told you about the fashion thing) and you dont even bother to say . OH yea thanks guys but you get all defensive. and then your exit strategy is - intuitivefish was wrong for me? are you serious. Im done, from now on I am ignoring your posts. BYE
You sound pretty angry to me. Anyways. Bye have a nice day. ------------------ Mia Pluto's Astrology Blog IP: Logged |
MineAgain Knowflake Posts: 596 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 01, 2014 01:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by MiaPluto: I never asked for advice.
You need to grow up, fast. Have a nice day.
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MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 887 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 01, 2014 01:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by MineAgain: You need to grow up, fast.Have a nice day.
Why are you copying what I said? What do you mean by 'growing up'? ------------------ Mia Pluto's Astrology Blog IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 6336 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted October 01, 2014 03:09 PM
No, because you're like " I'm so different from everyone else b/c I'm super introverted and spend time to myself, I'm so deep and omg everyone else my age is stupid and annoying I can't stand them!" We're the judgmental ones? I got it, despite our kindness and our patience with your immaturity; WE judge. Despite you criticizing everyone and trying to be "polite" (lmao) we're the ones who are all against Poor lil Mia who never did a thing wrong in her life. Okay I admit, we're all sorry for hurting Mia who has no faults and everyone is a big mean idiot who misunderstands this precious creature! I'm sorry Mia, may the angels bless you and your immortality.  IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 6336 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted October 01, 2014 03:10 PM
Her response: "I never said I didn't do anything wrong, I just disagree with the people on this forum. You guys can't respect others opinions. That's all I ever wanted. x. Thanks for your time"^^^ LOOOOL instead of directly responding and if you do, it's a silly rant that still doesn't directly address the issue at hand. IP: Logged |
MineAgain Knowflake Posts: 596 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 01, 2014 03:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by MiaPluto: Why are you copying what I said?What do you mean by 'growing up'?
Copying what you said? I don't have time to check every single of your posts, honey. I have better things to do. You're rude and an immature self-righteous spoiled brat. End of. Goodbye. IP: Logged |
MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 887 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 01, 2014 04:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by MineAgain: Copying what you said? I don't have time to check every single of your posts, honey. I have better things to do. You're rude and an immature self-righteous spoiled brat. End of. Goodbye.
But you did check my post. It means you have enough time. And no I am none of the above. It's only what you think so think what you want because I can't change your mind. ------------------ Mia Pluto's Astrology Blog IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 1194 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 01, 2014 05:09 PM
Here is the real question: why did you bring up Intuitive's 2 readings that didn't work for you- it had NOTHING to do with the thread. It was petty and rude, and more importantly unnecessary. 2 readings doesn't make someone a bad reader- no one is 100% perfect. A lot of it has to do with energy too- many established readers won't take on the client if the energy is bad. More importantly, telling her she wasn't 'intuitive' was another passive-aggressive dig that had no place here. A 'x' at the end doesn't make your rudeness okay. If you don't agree with someone's reading or feedback that fine, but don't act all high and mighty as if we are supposed to kiss the ground you walk on. Be grateful for the time and energy people put into readings- you aren't entitled to it even if it is 'free'- time isn't free. IP: Logged |
MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 887 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 01, 2014 05:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: Here is the real question: why did you bring up Intuitive's 2 readings that didn't work for you- it had NOTHING to do with the thread. It was petty and rude, and more importantly unnecessary. 2 readings doesn't make someone a bad reader- no one is 100% perfect. A lot of it has to do with energy too- many established readers won't take on the client if the energy is bad. More importantly, telling her she wasn't 'intuitive' was another passive-aggressive dig that had no place here. A 'x' at the end doesn't make your rudeness okay. If you don't agree with someone's reading or feedback that fine, but don't act all high and mighty as if we are supposed to kiss the ground you walk on. Be grateful for the time and energy people put into readings- you aren't entitled to it even if it is 'free'- time isn't free.
I had to tell intuitivefish because I thought it was necessary. I wanted to tell for a long time and I did because last time I didn't. I don't know whether she really has intuitive powers or not. Maybe she does maybe she doesn't. Please read my previous post or I'll just quote an extract from it that might answer the question for your last sentence. quote: And I was never offended by your 'advices'. I never asked for them in the first place. You say I'm ungrateful that you give me something for free like an advice, but what if I said I don't even want it even if you pay me for it? Yeah. That's how much I don't need your 'advices'.
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KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 6336 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted October 01, 2014 06:31 PM
2 gifs to describe how LL feels about Mia's negative presence: IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 8378 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 01, 2014 06:54 PM
Seriously? Why hasn't this been locked yet. Nothing is coming from arguing.IP: Logged |
Damali Knowflake Posts: 194 From: Manhatten, New York USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 01, 2014 07:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Seriously? Why hasn't this been locked yet. Nothing is coming from arguing.
Its kind of funny tho.. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 6336 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted October 01, 2014 07:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Damali: Its kind of funny tho..
true, im always the one to take it too far also IP: Logged |
Damali Knowflake Posts: 194 From: Manhatten, New York USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 01, 2014 07:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: true, im always the one to take it too far also
Its ok lol. I don't blame you for saying what you said. I thought you took it well. But yeah, Mia is cracking me up lmao. IP: Logged |