posted November 17, 2014 02:53 PM            

Talking about birthdays, my boss (who is one year older than me) will be getting married on my birthday next month... I wish I could at least go for a romantic getaway on my birthday... Ain't gonna happen...

If the readings have thought me anything is that the most important things that happened to me this year were never predicted... I haven't met 'the one' but I met some really interesting people as I went out to single events. With some I actually became really close friend (really didn't think that was gonna happen).

So, my aim is to continue going out to new events. Explore new activities (going to a cooking class this Sunday with a friend I met in that singles event) and find things that I'd enjoy doing.

If you deleted all your online dating memberships Fairy, still go out there. Maybe you won't meet 'the guy' but you'll be doing something you enjoy doing and perhaps even meet interesting people. Much better than staying at home (and that's coming from someone who loves staying at home and forces herself to go out).

posted November 17, 2014 04:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Jerseyshore:
Generally I keep a low profile on this thread, but after reading all of the recent posts about "psychics" who mislead I feel the need to share a gem I have discovered.

I've been getting readings with this advisor for months. She has never given me false hope or painted a picture of the fairytale ending. She predicted I would meet someone towards the end of the year but ONLY if I put myself out there. She gave a physical description, personality traits, and even the initial of his first name. Accurate! Accurate! Accurate! We're set to go on a date this week.

Like so many of you I have an ongoing love saga with one man in particular. This lady has thus far nailed how things were/are going to pan out. She even told me about a conversation we'd have regarding taking a trip together. At the time I thought "Yea, right!" Sure enough hints were dropped, just like she said, and the conversation did take place. 

There are many more examples I could give, but I won't write a novel LOL. Suffice it to say I am currently in the midst of another on/off period with the big man - another prediction she called from the very beginning, but this time I feel empowered and in control. This lady is not just a psychic but also a Spiritual Advisor. She has never encouraged me to sit around and wait for him. I know he'll be back, but in the meantime I will NOT stop living my life or hanging on to false hope.

Not everyone connects on the same level, but she is worth a try in my opinion. Honest & talented readers are hard to find. Since I know most of us are seeking truth & guidance I just wanted to share my experience with all of you. No one is 100% accurate all of the time, but so far she has been the most on point for me.

I'll post her Facebook & Bitwine links for those who are interested.

https://www.facebook.com/AscendedMastersLight
http://bitwine.com/search?query=spiritualjade

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posted November 17, 2014 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
How good is she with timing?

( spiritualJade from Jerseyshores post )

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posted November 17, 2014 08:20 PM            

The person she described for me was almost verbatim what DivineDimension saw, personality, physical traits. Both gave similar guidance on the clutter (exes) that needs to be dealt with.

posted November 18, 2014 06:20 AM            

My main question has basically been the same thing with the readings that I've been having and I've mostly gotten the same answer with some different details. During LoveLakes reading she told me she saw a guy popping up and saying hi, not the Scorpio guy the reading was about but another guy. She had problems seeing more but she said that it wasn't Scorp and not a new guy either. She gave me a couple of numbers I should watch out for in the prediction timeline and one of them was 7. She was my first reader and since i got a couple of more readings after, her predictions didn't really stay in my mind.

So imagine my surprise when exactly 7 days later i get a text from this old fling saying hi. I NEVER expected it to be him since the last time we talked about 6 months ago I broke it off with him because I couldn't see a future between us and felt as I was wasting time even having him in my life.

Nobody else saw this or predicted it, this definately gives the rest of the reading validation haha no but I did feel a connection when I had the reading and I liked that you could see her in action on the webcam. But I did and do feel that she's more expensive than others I've chatted with on Bitwine that basically gave me the same info.

Anyways, thought Id give a mini update to you all

posted November 18, 2014 06:57 AM            

MysticRachel: Felt a connection here, she was a fast typer and I asked her one thing and she basically went with it, didn't need that much probing she would just write paragraphs on her own.

Sophea (rravenmoon): Really short reading, not really sure how I feel about her, she said we would have face to face contact within 6 weeks, we'll see about that...

Lidialadelle: Another reader that doesn't need much probing and writes long paragraphs. She basically gave me the same info as MysticRachel and Samantha Aura. Good insight into the situation.

After the first couple of readings I had hopes that the predicitions would come true, but because of my own self doubt I continued having readings because I wanted to see if anybody would see something different that would validate the other readings being fake. I don't know why but I have a hard time believing that it will come true and I'll be in a relationship with scorpio during 2015 (that's what they all are saying). At the same time i do feel a connection during the reading which makes me think it could all happen. Haha I'm gonna go crazy if i keep thinking about it. All that's left to do is to give life some time and see what happens. Clearly more readings won't help as they all basically see the same thing.

Oh yeah I forgot I had an email reading from Divine Dimensions (After giving up on AVs callback line). It was a short one question reading that said the same thing as the others.

I would say that my favourite readers are MysticRachel and Samantha Aura.

posted November 18, 2014 07:55 AM            

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Originally posted by bakaneko:
I've used Jade twice, but she's been hard for me to catch...so the readings were at least two months apart. Her reading style is friendly and spiritual without the misleading fairy tales. She really is more a spiritual advisor and not so much a fortune teller, which I like.

The person she described for me was almost verbatim what DivineDimension saw, personality, physical traits. Both gave similar guidance on the clutter (exes) that needs to be dealt with.

The two drawbacks for Jade in my own case is: 1) I can't seem to catch her online 2) It took weeks for one follow up - me asking to make an appt; and I'm waiting to hear back regarding something else she was going to follow up on...that's been almost two weeks.

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posted November 18, 2014 09:23 AM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
That's great Starchild! Who else did you try? If you don't mind sharing that is.

I have to say I was tempted to go to SpiritualJade last night. I had tried her way back in July but I honestly can't remember the details of the reading. Good thing I fell asleep before I could go through with it. I'm totally over it today. Today is a contact date from Lidia. I would be shocked to pieces if it happened. I'm definitely not expecting it or basing my day around it. I have such a busy day today!

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posted November 18, 2014 04:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Jerseyshore:
She's always been great at getting back to me. Maybe it was a technical issue. Either way she's still fab.

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It's funny, but it works out in it's own way, because I never feel the need to contact her a lot since her readings are about redirecting energy to work on manifestation. I'm fine with not being able to catch her.

posted November 18, 2014 04:48 PM            

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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
@IJ-Thanks for responding. I was very curious about your experience with AV. PDreamy Fish-you are not alone for sure. That's exactly how I feel also. This cold weather is making me feel a bit more lonely. I've been rumbling through dating sites all day and I don't like nobody. I spent my entire liposuction fund on readings...which honestly I'm glad I didn't go through with the lipo..wouldn't have made me happy, just a temporary happiness. AV predicted marriage in 30+ months then possibly 2016. My intuition is telling me that I need to chill and just be still. Write in my journals and move forward with readings from only members from this discussion board. I don't feel comfortable with bitwine/keen anymore.

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Thanks Sophia and I can't believe you even had a lipo fund! Sad to think that if there was $5,000 in that fund that all of that money went to false hope (

posted November 18, 2014 04:57 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
@DreamyFish you summed it up best! I feel exactly like you do! I'm going to be 39 in 2 days and there are no romantic prospects for me right now. I gave up all of my online dating memberships. They were causing me nothing but heartache. I've never felt more alone. I've given up on the idea of having a family. Let's face it even if I meet someone tomorrow I will be too old biologically to have a child. It makes me sad to think there won't be anyone romantically for me. I tried and tried and spent tons of money on readings too. The reality is some people are meant to have that happiness and others aren't. I'm one of them not meant for it.

On a side note, Lidia's contact date it tomorrow give or take a few days, as she said. I'm not counting on it coming to pass though. I would be shocked if it did. But if something should come through you all will be the first to know.

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Fairy, you're meant for something big. Just because you'll be 39 tomorrow means nothing; just another number. I know that it doesn't feel that way and you and I can relate on several matters. I'll be 35 in less than 4 months, no prospects, no dates, and this cold frigid weather is making me feel even more sorry for myself. Just know that someone in the windy city is feeling your exact pain, that you're not alone. Make a pact to cut down on readings; see if you can make it the rest of the year without one. Not much left in 2014 so just save those extra $$$ and buy yourself a nice pair of Jimmy Choos! If only...

I wish there was something else I could tell that I haven't already told myself but there really isn't. Stay strong, no more readings on bogus A; instead, if you do get a few more readings, ask about new love versus old and tired love. Out with old, in with the new.

posted November 18, 2014 05:06 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Well that was a great start to my day. Just was on Facebook doing my stalking and lo and behold A's gf changed her profile pic to a pic of the two of them. I don't know why it's bothering me. I knew they were together. I guess just seeing it like that really confirms it for me. I'm guessing Lidia's contact prediction is totally wrong now. I highly doubt he will be contacting me anytime soon. I don't know why I'm still hung up on him hopin for somethin that I know will never happen. Sorry for the rant just had to get it out.

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Step away from the computer and quickly run away! Don't hurt yourself in that matter. It's a painful reminder of what it is that you wanted with A and that you don't have it. I know why you're still hung up on this character: it's because you actually felt some chemistry with this person and for the first time in a while you felt somewhat safe and now you feel betrayed. It also doesn't help that every time you asked about A most predicted contact. It's hard to give up when you're being assured that it will happen, that he will reach out. Deep down inside you know that most of the readings were lies; they just fed on your current energy. You felt a sigh of relief, hearing that he would re-connect. You would walk away from the reading feeling a sense of joy, a sense of calmness. I know this because I too felt that initial thrill after a reading about new love. Then those time frames come and go and you suddenly have a need to go back, to get clarification. You start to think to yourself: 'Why didn't he contact me? You said on such and such day/time that he would and he didn't, why?' I know those lines all to well, as many here probably do too. Then they feed you another time frame and then another, and another, until finally something inside of you will snap and you won't go back for more torture. No more will you look to readings for reassurance. Don't give up on yourself and assume because the contact didn't happen that you'll be alone forever. This person did you a favor by cowardly walking away without saying a word.

posted November 18, 2014 05:38 PM            

When I spoke to my numerologist I asked him whether there's anything in my numbers to indicate that I'll get back to my ex.

He replied no and asked if my ex even contacted me - I said no. Then, said my numerologist, there's no point in asking about the ex. Only if the ex contacts me and I'd think about returning to him should we discuss about my ex and what to do. There's no point talking about it now.

posted November 18, 2014 06:08 PM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
A good rule to follow regarding asking when someone will contact us.

When I spoke to my numerologist I asked him whether there's anything in my numbers to indicate that I'll get back to my ex.

He replied no and asked if my ex even contacted me - I said no. Then, said my numerologist, there's no point in asking about the ex. Only if the ex contacts me and I'd think about returning to him should we discuss about my ex and what to do. There's no point talking about it now.

I think it's a good rule - don't have readings asking when will you hear from X rather once you do hear from him and want guidance get a reading then. Think of all the $$$ you'll save.

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Very good point St@r2013! So easy and practical yet it can be so hard to do.

posted November 18, 2014 06:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreamy Fish:
Step away from the computer and quickly run away! Don't hurt yourself in that matter. It's a painful reminder of what it is that you wanted with A and that you don't have it. I know why you're still hung up on this character: it's because you actually felt some chemistry with this person and for the first time in a while you felt somewhat safe and now you feel betrayed. It also doesn't help that every time you asked about A most predicted contact. It's hard to give up when you're being assured that it will happen, that he will reach out. Deep down inside you know that most of the readings were lies; they just fed on your current energy. You felt a sigh of relief, hearing that he would re-connect. You would walk away from the reading feeling a sense of joy, a sense of calmness. I know this because I too felt that initial thrill after a reading about new love. Then those time frames come and go and you suddenly have a need to go back, to get clarification. You start to think to yourself: 'Why didn't he contact me? You said on such and such day/time that he would and he didn't, why?' I know those lines all to well, as many here probably do too. Then they feed you another time frame and then another, and another, until finally something inside of you will snap and you won't go back for more torture. No more will you look to readings for reassurance. Don't give up on yourself and assume because the contact didn't happen that you'll be alone forever. This person did you a favor by cowardly walking away without saying a word.

Time to ask about new love.

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You hit the nail right on the head. Exactly how I feel. I know I'll get over it. Just a painful reminder and a smack in the face today. Just need to refocus myself in a different direction.

posted November 18, 2014 07:54 PM            

Freaking why is everyone I don't like hitting me up on okcupid for fluffy gals...