posted December 12, 2014 11:16 AM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Yeah. I remember having the same problem in March. I couldn't manifest anything because I was negative about everything and I have serious doubts.

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posted December 12, 2014 11:34 AM            

I've missed you guys! Been focusing on Horary forum. That was all the energy I could spare.

Now, what, now, PSYCHE? What was I wrong about? Do tell.

posted December 12, 2014 11:42 AM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
It's normal to get bad days doubt and emotions no one can be in the vortex 100 percent of the time it's about surrendering and accepting those moments going general with thoughts and trying to get the energy back up

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posted December 12, 2014 11:51 AM            

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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
AV predicted I would get a job within 6 weeks and had details about the position right. Well yesterday I got a job offer and she described things quite well. So after seven long months of living off savings (what was left) I have a new job.

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posted December 12, 2014 11:57 AM            

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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
I'm trying to let go currently. Meaning not thinking about any past readings I've had, in order for me to move forward and stop focusing on the time frame. I have to realize that things will happen when it's meant to happen.

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posted December 12, 2014 12:03 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Fairy dug me up.

I've missed you guys! Been focusing on Horary forum. That was all the energy I could spare.

Now, what, now, PSYCHE? What was I wrong about? Do tell.

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noone was wrong wrong or right right really, lidia and peter got dates right with new developments along the way and saw things going the way they are right now but i am sure they can be wrong too i honestly don't think anyone can be 100 percent.

but i think the guy i asked about def got a period where he got a few more negative readings and at which point i was probably in a bad space mentally and energetically and a bit obsessed, i never got the second guy show up or any sign of him, and 6 months from early september we were meant to be really tight and talking of a future, i mean i guess he still has 2 months to come and form a solid commitment with me but noone is in the offing and i just cant see babies being discussed in 6 months, I'm still not remotely maternal or interested but obviously cant comment on that one for another 6 months lol i may have a sudden maternal urge!

and then my guy i asked about opened up a ton and told me how much he's missing me and wants to see me, and i saved his life and am the only thing thats truly kept him here, the woman i saw in person said his next contact would be sexual etc or try and be sexual with me that was about 4 months ago be but he's never done that with me only rly been more on the caring side.
i truly think they all have bits and bobs here and there that were true/not true ive done a hell of a lot of self growth and started manifesting since that patch of readings and i know ive changed a lot.

im not too fussed if ppl are wrong or right but i HATE ppl who are con artists like domaine, copying and pasting is really out of order.

i honestly stopped focusing on readings, i get the odd one if i get a real feeling to but i don't really take it all that seriously, i feel much happier taking my own power and doing law of attraction stuff than focusing too much on the readings, they have their uses here and there to show me what i need to work on.

I did manifest the opening up still more to go tho
But work wise I've manifested a lot
Also a free holiday abroad
Some new friends
Money
A huge job
And a course for my dream job which wasn't available since a week ago.
I swear it rly works when you really nail it

posted December 12, 2014 01:11 PM            

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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
I'm trying to let go currently. Meaning not thinking about any past readings I've had, in order for me to move forward and stop focusing on the time frame. I have to realize that things will happen when it's meant to happen.

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Yes it's like being ok if it happens or doesn't happen even tho you fully believe in it happening at the same time it's a tricky balance to understand all the concepts and work on removing issues and wounds internally but once you begin to master that balance magic happens

posted December 12, 2014 01:26 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:

I did manifest the opening up still more to go tho
But work wise I've manifested a lot
Also a free holiday abroad
Some new friends
Money
A huge job
And a course for my dream job which wasn't available since a week ago.
I swear it rly works when you really nail it

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posted December 12, 2014 01:39 PM            

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Originally posted by SandyShore:
Waow !! Did it take long for these to manifest? I can't even start to explain my desperation and swing between letting go, putting all efforts, letting go - but still zero score. Are you using any particular technique?

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well yes and no i tried manifesting 3 years ago and nothing at all happened i tried again and got these results in 3 weeks some happened the next day/overnight

posted December 12, 2014 01:44 PM            

i.e. that big mistake of i want…..

i began asking
'i am so grateful and lucky for…..
(even if it was about things i hadnt got yet)

i repeated speaking little sentences of what i wanted as if i had it over and over,
and watched my thoughts and language day to day to make sure i didn't say anything negative, slag off the person if it was about a person or explain what they were doing to anyone if it was bad. If someone didn't know about loa, i just didn't talk about it at all so i couldnt focus on the negative cycles.
i specifically only spoke to friends who also believed in manifesting during a period and we would even send little jokey notes reaffirming each others manifestations. If one was down the up person could help lift or speak of things that had happened for them and get the momentum going.

i visualised and wrote when i was in good energy, meditated , listened to loads of abraham hicks on youtube and tried to just get into this space of being in that really really high energy.
When you are there life just flows, things happen and you feel AMAZING, it is difficult to maintain noone can maintain it 100 percent of the time but more and more i was staying in for longer periods and starting to not drop so heavily when i came out.
if i got low or bad thoughts i surrendered to them and let them pass over me

naturally i was more able to get into the place of believing and also being ok and fine if it didn't happen anyway and lost the need and said the universe can send it to me when its the right time.

some things needed momentum building and some happened almost instantly.

I will say i have spent 3 years solidly already working on getting rid of my resistance and wounds prior to trying the law of attraction this time.

posted December 12, 2014 01:52 PM            

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Originally posted by SandyShore:
Waow !! Did it take long for these to manifest? I can't even start to explain my desperation and swing between letting go, putting all efforts, letting go - but still zero score. Are you using any particular technique?

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posted December 12, 2014 04:47 PM            

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it begins in the way you ask

i.e. that big mistake of i want…..

i began asking
'i am so grateful and lucky for…..
(even if it was about things i hadnt got yet)

i repeated speaking little sentences of what i wanted as if i had it over and over,
and watched my thoughts and language day to day to make sure i didn't say anything negative, slag off the person if it was about a person or explain what they were doing to anyone if it was bad. If someone didn't know about loa, i just didn't talk about it at all so i couldnt focus on the negative cycles.
i specifically only spoke to friends who also believed in manifesting during a period and we would even send little jokey notes reaffirming each others manifestations. If one was down the up person could help lift or speak of things that had happened for them and get the momentum going.

i visualised and wrote when i was in good energy, meditated , listened to loads of abraham hicks on youtube and tried to just get into this space of being in that really really high energy.
When you are there life just flows, things happen and you feel AMAZING, it is difficult to maintain noone can maintain it 100 percent of the time but more and more i was staying in for longer periods and starting to not drop so heavily when i came out.
if i got low or bad thoughts i surrendered to them and let them pass over me

naturally i was more able to get into the place of believing and also being ok and fine if it didn't happen anyway and lost the need and said the universe can send it to me when its the right time.

some things needed momentum building and some happened almost instantly.

I will say i have spent 3 years solidly already working on getting rid of my resistance and wounds prior to trying the law of attraction this time.

I really have only found the technique that works for me weeks ago and boy did i wish i found it sooner i havnt even listed half of what ive achieved with it so far, its incredible. the being ok with whatever and whenever is really important as is being in joy state as much as possible and being grateful and living in the now.

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I used to write my LOA's in a journal, but I haven't in a while. In the beginning, I spoke as things I would like to happen in the near future (or within those days.) Then I started writing as if it were currently happening, an the I started to use the phrase, "I am so happy and grateful now that..." and then finished the sentence with what I wanted to happen.

I never read back on my LOA's notes though. Not that it was said not to do it. It's just that I personally never read back on them days later lol.

posted December 12, 2014 05:29 PM            

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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
I used to write my LOA's in a journal, but I haven't in a while. In the beginning, I spoke as things I would like to happen in the near future (or within those days.) Then I started writing as if it were currently happening, an the I started to use the phrase, "I am so happy and grateful now that..." and then finished the sentence with what I wanted to happen.

I never read back on my LOA's notes though. Not that it was said not to do it. It's just that I personally never read back on them days later lol.

Anyways, thanks for sharing that! I'm going to work on it myself more.

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here is one example i did this special spiritual relationship counselling and i said i really feel I'm meant to do this in the future its kind of my dream, 3 weeks later they got too busy with workshops and talks they said they could no longer offer the counselling session packages and wanted to train a few people up to take over while they focus on other things,
i saw the post and said iwas keen but saw nothing else till i saw a post saying it was fully booked and they couldnt take anyone else on unless someone dropped out, as the response had been overwhelming and they had to go over all the applications and select down.

I emailed on the off chance and was like well if I'm mean to get it i will at this time i know i will do it but if its now or not is up to the universe now and i let it go and then they replied they had one spot left and that they already knew me and would love me to do it and be on board.

posted December 12, 2014 05:30 PM            

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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
I used to write my LOA's in a journal, but I haven't in a while. In the beginning, I spoke as things I would like to happen in the near future (or within those days.) Then I started writing as if it were currently happening, an the I started to use the phrase, "I am so happy and grateful now that..." and then finished the sentence with what I wanted to happen.

I never read back on my LOA's notes though. Not that it was said not to do it. It's just that I personally never read back on them days later lol.

Anyways, thanks for sharing that! I'm going to work on it myself more.

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posted December 12, 2014 05:40 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
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Yes, everything was happening that I wrote. It mostly had something to do in regards to Y and me starting my job. For example, I would put something about Y contacting me the following day or within that week, he and I talking for about an hour or more, him opening up more and so on. Everything that I wrote happened. He would call on the day I wrote. We would talk on the phone for 1 hour or 2 hours. He started to open up bit by bit and so on. In regards to my job, during that time it was taking forever to get a start date and when I wrote a start date (I put within that following week or so, I believe), and it happened that following week and I started work.

posted December 12, 2014 05:43 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:
here is one example i did this special spiritual relationship counselling and i said i really feel I'm meant to do this in the future its kind of my dream, 3 weeks later they got too busy with workshops and talks they said they could no longer offer the counselling session packages and wanted to train a few people up to take over while they focus on other things,
i saw the post and said iwas keen but saw nothing else till i saw a post saying it was fully booked and they couldnt take anyone else on unless someone dropped out, as the response had been overwhelming and they had to go over all the applications and select down.

I emailed on the off chance and was like well if I'm mean to get it i will at this time i know i will do it but if its now or not is up to the universe now and i let it go and then they replied they had one spot left and that they already knew me and would love me to do it and be on board.

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posted December 12, 2014 06:28 PM            

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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
I'm really glad things are happening for you with LOA! It makes me really want to give it a go again. Currently, I know in order for things to go better, I need to let go. Let go of me pondering when Y will contact me and be willing to let him go as well. It's hard, but it's something I know that needs to be done. I need to move forward because lately all I've been feeling is anxiousness and worry (worried that he won't contact and worry for him, due to personal reasons within his life.) But when it's meant to happen, it will happen

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the thing is i think we mistake letting go for giving up its not giving up its just saying thanks for making this happen universe and being so sure you don't focus on it or get down about it and are happy so happy you can live happily with or without it happening even though you know its going to !

posted December 12, 2014 06:31 PM            

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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
Yes, everything was happening that I wrote. It mostly had something to do in regards to Y and me starting my job. For example, I would put something about Y contacting me the following day or within that week, he and I talking for about an hour or more, him opening up more and so on. Everything that I wrote happened. He would call on the day I wrote. We would talk on the phone for 1 hour or 2 hours. He started to open up bit by bit and so on. In regards to my job, during that time it was taking forever to get a start date and when I wrote a start date (I put within that following week or so, I believe), and it happened that following week and I started work.

However, all of this was back in October and since then nothing had manifested that I wrote in November and I would say its because of the doubt that started to brew within me.

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posted December 12, 2014 09:18 PM            

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Originally posted by PSYCHE:

thats amazing to read! honestly think psychics just pick up our point of focus and resistance to it,
i say this as a reader myself,
i actually feel it so strongly now I'm questioning doing readings at all really.

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Psyche, that's a little disappointing because I feel that you have guidance to offer and maybe it's the type of readings that people are looking for that throw this off.

I've been intuitive for much of my life and have done mediumship since the age of 2. I tend to second guess when it comes to myself, so will end up getting a reading for confirmation of a message or path. I don't read for anyone unless something compels me to. The resistances that I pick up for people, despite getting glimpses of what happens beyond that point of fear (yes fear), usually will be a warning that a person isn't ready to hear the message.

posted December 12, 2014 11:43 PM            

Basically we were discussing Y and this new person I'm supposed to meet soon. She informed me that Y has been in non-communication with me for various reasons.

1. He is a horrible communicator (which I already knew)
2. He has been in communication with another woman (I'll delve into this more later)
3. He has been depressed.

I had to ask her why I'm so fixated on Y and she told me that I'm not fixated, it's more so me dreaming about the fantasy of what could be between us and him coming to see me, which isn't a bad thing, the only thing is Y has a lot going on. She said there could be a potential between us that will be long term, but there are things that he needs to work on and it will take a while. He has money issues and his family will not be supportive with him coming to America. Not only that he is not a big communicator and although he will get better with it, that will be an issue at times.

The woman he is talking to, he doesn't have any feelings for her and is only talking to her for selfish reasons. He is not ready for commitment and the person he is talking to doesn't want that either, so he feels comfortable with that, but the person is confusing him (not in a sense that he wants to be with her, because he doesn't.) And he doesn't speak with her often. She told me that Y will come to visit me next year and will stay with me for a while, but will not move here because of restrictions with money and it would be hard for him to walk away from his life. The only way for him to put a pep in his step for wanting to be in a relationship with me if he knew there was someone else and she said with 5-6 weeks he is going to tell me that he wants a stronger commitment with me and there will be new beginnings for he and I. He will no longer be in contact with the other woman when he does contact me and within 5-6 he is going to start making plans to come see me.

However, the thing with Y is that it would be very hard because he isn't good with communication. The communication has nothing to do with me, because he is like that with everyone. She said he isn't a big talker in general, which is true because he told me some months back that he doesn't like using his phone and etc. And despite how hard it would be (due to his communication problems,) he will be a faithful guy tp me when he gets everything together (not to say he is a cheater when he doesn't have everything together, lol.) The thing is, she said I could be waiting 2 years for him to come here for for good and that would be very hard on me, but overall outcome with Y would be good and he IS coming next year to visit me, but not to move. But because I'm young (26), that I shouldn't be waiting that long because of how hard it would be on me.

She told me to put Y on on the back burner, let him come to me and focus on myself and be opened to date more people. She said when I do that Y will come around, but still have trouble communicating, lol. Also, with this other woman, they do not spend time together. It is all phone conversations and this person is at a distance from him. She told me that he feels that I already know he is talking to someone else and he feels dishonest about it and that if I knew about it I would be angry. He feels regret about not talking to me and knows it's selfish of him to do what he is doing, because she said he is not stupid and knows what he is doing. She told me that Y is hopeful to see me and wants to spend time with me, sees me as caring, kind and loving woman that he can see himself with and wants new beginnings and wants to take me with him. Basically, his intentions towards me are good, but he does have his issues. However, I must not chase him, but don't cut him off either.

Last time she and I spoke, she gave me a 8 for contact. The contact number is a 7 now and she explained to me what the 7 means and what it isn't. She said when he does contact me, communication will be better...for a "little" while, lol. She got a 1, meaning that communication with me would be good for one week, one month or January. I didn't bother to ask for how long would he continue to do it, because judging by what she was saying Y is horrible either way with communication, but things would get better.

posted December 12, 2014 11:46 PM            

So, I'm going to put Y on the back burner. I feel it's for the best and put my focus elsewhere and welcome 2015 with open arms and be opened to this new guy.

posted December 13, 2014 02:04 AM            

Guy is not over his baggage. I won't be giving him any more chances.

No more readings for me. At least for the next month or two. I'm over predictions changing and info changing 180 degrees within a couple of short months.

posted December 13, 2014 04:26 AM            

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Originally posted by bakaneko:
Psyche, that's a little disappointing because I feel that you have guidance to offer and maybe it's the type of readings that people are looking for that throw this off.

I've been intuitive for much of my life and have done mediumship since the age of 2. I tend to second guess when it comes to myself, so will end up getting a reading for confirmation of a message or path. I don't read for anyone unless something compels me to. The resistances that I pick up for people, despite getting glimpses of what happens beyond that point of fear (yes fear), usually will be a warning that a person isn't ready to hear the message.

I think it's because I've been able to go as far ahead as 25 years for some, that I personally feel it has to do with vibration and connection, and also the type of reader the person is. I've noticed that when the reader's vibration doesn't match my frequency or go beyond it, they tend to shut down on me or are inaccurate [which is really saying there was no connection].

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