posted December 20, 2014 07:48 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
So my AV contact didn't happen. Predicted I would see S on the 17th, 18th, or 19th. I tried texting him last night because I was in his area and I thought maybe he wanted to get together. He has yet to respond. And it's almost a full day later. I'm guessing with my track record I most likely won't hear from him again. I did speak with AV last night and she felt he would respond in less than a one. And so far nothing. She still sees me seeing him though. And gave me 5-8 days for seeing him and felt strongly that it would even be within the next 3. I'm not saying she's wrong because she has been accurate for me. But so far it hasn't happened.

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posted December 20, 2014 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
Have you ever had a reading with AV then go back for a follow up and be even more confused because the first reading regarding the person you will meet is now totally different in the second reading? I am beyond confused. She nailed the first reading, second reading I don't even know. I wonder if I should pay again to have things clarified or if I will be making things worse and more confusing.

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For me, I decided maybe I shouldn't return to her in the future. She nailed things for me the first couple of times I spoke to her. Afterwards, the last three times nothing happened. No contact, not even meeting this mysterious new person. She's a really sweet person and I always enjoy speaking with her, but I suppose it's because I spoke with her too often the last three times? I'm not sure. I asked her if maybe my doubt was the reason, but she said it had nothing to do with that.

posted December 20, 2014 09:29 PM            

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Originally posted by SophiaFrank:
@Proxy- Oh no don't be sorry, thanks for responding. I was wondering if anyone felt that way. I really can't afford to read again this month so...I will just sit still and continue watching positive thinking videos on youtube and reading Tony Robbins stuff. Ugh I try so hard and I feel like every bit of my life is like fighting a battle. Relatioships now Job/Finances..I think that's why I turned to readings so heavy. I thought I finally had my dream job and it did a 380 the very next day!!

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You're welcome! I can't afford anymore at all. I had money in my savings account that was putting towards an apartment for next year. Guess where half off that money is now? Gone. I dipped in it a few times for readings and once to help my dad out with something and another time for...black Friday shopping. I regret it so much, but I know I can get back what I had within one month or maybe two. But it still remains the problem that I dipped into it. Like you, I have been sitting still and trying to re-focus my attention to blogging on Tumblr lol.

posted December 20, 2014 09:39 PM            

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@Fairy- if I had the money I would be #6 in line but I want some lipgloss and mascara from Ulta so lol @Proxy- I know!!! I've been on Pinterest and Youtube all day. Well that's good news that you can save again and it will only take 1-2 months.

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posted December 21, 2014 10:43 AM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
A tip regarding savings from Suze Orman which I think can be great for us: whenever you want to have a reading (or spend some money) and choose not to do it write the sum down in a diary and tally how much you saved at the end of the month.

So for example, I want to have a reading on bitwine, I'll probably spend $20. I choose not to do it and write down in my diary $20. And then again and again and see how much money you saved...

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Hey that's a great tip! I'll try it the last time I got a reading on BitWine, I knew I was only doing it because I was bored and a little drunk, but I only stayed for 2 mins and spent $2. I figured what the lady was saying was utter crap.

The only person who has been 100% accurate for me was Jamey when she predicted what would happen with my job. She was stunningly accurate about timing and about EXACTLY what would happen to the letter. Don't know if she's right about the romance, but I have till February to find out.

I also spoke to Lydia about it who I believe gets bits and pieces right. She predicted that my love life would improve and I'd meet someone with a "D" name in November. Didn't happen. And that this person would lead me to a more serious relationship in March. Lol maybe. I also asked her about my job, although I was testing her since I knew the answer, and she was right though not as accurate as Jamey.

posted December 22, 2014 10:26 AM            

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Hey that's a great tip! I'll try it the last time I got a reading on BitWine, I knew I was only doing it because I was bored and a little drunk, but I only stayed for 2 mins and spent $2. I figured what the lady was saying was utter crap.

The only person who has been 100% accurate for me was Jamey when she predicted what would happen with my job. She was stunningly accurate about timing and about EXACTLY what would happen to the letter. Don't know if she's right about the romance, but I have till February to find out.

I also spoke to Lydia about it who I believe gets bits and pieces right. She predicted that my love life would improve and I'd meet someone with a "D" name in November. Didn't happen. And that this person would lead me to a more serious relationship in March. Lol maybe. I also asked her about my job, although I was testing her since I knew the answer, and she was right though not as accurate as Jamey.

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posted December 22, 2014 10:34 AM            

Sometimes you need to take a step back and let destiny handle things. I believe that getting a tarot reading about every single event can sometimes be a bad idea.

You end up spending too much money on a reading when the outcome depends on someone else's free will.

posted December 22, 2014 10:44 AM            

but, I was reading this the other day, about letting go the attachment. :
http://www.buddhanet.net/4noble14.htm

"How do you let go of things? This means you leave them as they are; it does not mean you annihilate them or throw them away. It is more like setting down and letting them be. Through the practice of letting go we realise that there is the origin of suffering, which is the attachment to desire, and we realise that we should let go of these three kinds of desire. Then we realise that we have let go of these desires; there is no longer any attachment to them.

When you find yourself attached, remember that ‘letting go’ is not ‘getting rid of’ or ‘throwing away’. If I’m holding onto this clock and you say, ‘Let go of it!’, that doesn’t mean ‘throw it out’. I might think that I have to throw it away because I’m attached to it, but that would just be the desire to get rid of it. We tend to think that getting rid of the object is a way of getting rid of attachment. But if I can contemplate attachment, this grasping of the clock, I realise that there is no point in getting rid of it - it’s a good clock; it keeps good time and is not heavy to carry around. The clock is not the problem. The problem is grasping the clock. So what do I do? Let it go, lay it aside - put it down gently without any kind of aversion. Then I can pick it up again, see what time it is and lay it aside when necessary."

posted December 22, 2014 02:58 PM            

I think a similar thing happened with Rachel. When she gave me a location prediction for something I asked, she made it seem like she was getting the name of my city for the answer. Granted, I live in a big city - but still... it just seems so underhanded to make it seem like that info was being shown to her, when really she was just reading it off of my paypal info.

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I had a career reading from Sophie, OMG. I think she assumed I actually lived where that fake address is. I told you guys readers feed off a lot when they see your name/address. I got absolutely nothing from that reading. -$8

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posted December 22, 2014 03:04 PM            

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Have you ever had a reading with AV then go back for a follow up and be even more confused because the first reading regarding the person you will meet is now totally different in the second reading? I am beyond confused. She nailed the first reading, second reading I don't even know. I wonder if I should pay again to have things clarified or if I will be making things worse and more confusing.

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posted December 22, 2014 03:16 PM            

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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
I haven't been as active in this thread lately, but I just wanted to wish everyone a happy holidays and...

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Thanks Proxy

And just another tip for the New Year from Gerry Gavin (I've mentioned it here before but I'm not sure if anyone done it...but it works!)

"I have a ritual that I do every December – right between my birthday and New Year’s Day. It’s something that actually began when it became part of the Angels and Shamans workshop.
You take a regular sheet of paper and fold it in half and then rip it down the middle. Only use half the sheet.

Then you write on one side three new blessings that, with the help of your angels, you would like to bring into your life – or the lives of your loves ones in the New Year.

Then on the other side you write three challenges that, with the help of your angels, you ask to be removed from your life – or the lives of your loved ones – in the New Year.

Write the same thing on the other half sheet of paper and keep that in a safe place.

Then you fold that half sheet in half and then in half again. You should have now folded that sheet into four and at this point you set it on fire in some SAFE way.

The idea is to picture the words that you wrote in this physical reality be turned to smoke and sent to your angels – where they can be re-assembled into the cellular energy to answer your prayers!

It’s a really powerful exercise that combines elemental energy with belief and that is a very strong combo!
Next year – before you do the exercise again you can take a look at what you wrote this year – and I think that you, like me, will be amazed at what has transpired with the aid of your angels!"

posted December 22, 2014 03:20 PM            

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Thanks Proxy

And just another tip for the New Year from Gerry Gavin (I've mentioned it here before but I'm not sure if anyone done it...but it works!)

"I have a ritual that I do every December – right between my birthday and New Year’s Day. It’s something that actually began when it became part of the Angels and Shamans workshop.
You take a regular sheet of paper and fold it in half and then rip it down the middle. Only use half the sheet.

Then you write on one side three new blessings that, with the help of your angels, you would like to bring into your life – or the lives of your loves ones in the New Year.

Then on the other side you write three challenges that, with the help of your angels, you ask to be removed from your life – or the lives of your loved ones – in the New Year.

Write the same thing on the other half sheet of paper and keep that in a safe place.

Then you fold that half sheet in half and then in half again. You should have now folded that sheet into four and at this point you set it on fire in some SAFE way.

The idea is to picture the words that you wrote in this physical reality be turned to smoke and sent to your angels – where they can be re-assembled into the cellular energy to answer your prayers!

It’s a really powerful exercise that combines elemental energy with belief and that is a very strong combo!
Next year – before you do the exercise again you can take a look at what you wrote this year – and I think that you, like me, will be amazed at what has transpired with the aid of your angels!"

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posted December 22, 2014 03:32 PM            

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I like that ritual too! I will definitely try it. I need to stop the readings for awhile. I spoke with AV three times last week. Mind you they were quick convos but still. I need to stop it. I do want to let things just unfold and whatever will be will be. I can't control it anyway. Don't know why I have such a strong "need to know" about things.

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posted December 22, 2014 04:01 PM            

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Definitely try the ritual, it works! (And depends on what you ask for it works super super fast).

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posted December 22, 2014 04:13 PM            

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If you don't mind me asking. What made you first want to get a reading done? Like how did it all start for you? You don't have to answer if you don't want.

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posted December 22, 2014 05:04 PM            

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I don't mind you asking at all. I've always had readings done, but NEVER as frequently as I do now. I've gone to psychic fairs and places like that over the years. And it's funny, it kind of started with P. I went to a psychic fair and she described a man I would meet and have a relationship with. Literally about 3 hours later I met P on line on a dating site. He was totally the guy she described in every way. Looks, personality, etc. I was blown away. Then we had our thing and when it began to fall apart a friend of mine gave me the name of a reader she knew and I thought, what the heck. She was very insightful and really gave me some good info as to what was going on with P. Well I was satisfied with that, but then I discovered bitwine and readings on the internet. It was like a whole new world. It was a downward spiral from there. I guess for me it's like a deep need to want to know. I can't describe it. I eventually really began to cool off with the P readings and I met A. I didn't even feel like I needed a reading until again, things went south. I guess the readings give me hope for some odd reason. And now with S, I've spoken with AV a few times about him. He has cooled off quite a bit suddenly which is also something LP said, that he would sort of disappear for a bit. But AV swears he's not gone. I'm actually feeling ok about S, whether he comes back or not I'm ok. I guess I feel like with the readings like I have some kind of control, even though I really don't have any control over the outcome. It's not totally up to me since there's another person involved. I've certainly cut back on who I go to. My list is only AV, Carol (MsDream), LP, and the reader my friend introduced me to, Amanda. Who I must say predicted quite a few things for me and other people that was just amazing and unbelievable. I do often wish I would just stop completely and not have another reading though. It's a ridiculous waste of money. I was doing well with it too but now I'm a bit down the rabbit hole.

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I see. You're similar to me actually. Almost so similar it's somewhat scary lol. For me it started back in June. I hadn't heard from Y in quite sometime, not really that long (maybe a week.) But I was worried and and obsessing over the fact that he hadn't reached out to me. I contemplated contacting a reader and right when I getting ready to go into a session, I decided not to do it because my intuition told me not to. Thankfully, I didn't because within a few hours, Y had called me. However, things changed in July which is when he disappeared for a long time. Days turned into weeks and weeks into one month and then two months. During those months (from July to the end of August) I was getting readings like crazy. Mostly all of the readings were on Bitwine. I discovered Bitwine because I was googling something, but I don't remember what and it led me to this forum and seeing other people give recommendations made me want to get even more readings. Especially when the first reader I went to (Marva on bitwine) her prediction never happened. I needed to know why he disappeared, and when he was going to contact. So, he eventually did contact me me on September 4th and he stuck around for quite some time. He did have dry spells where I wouldn't hear from him in a few days but he would always contact me right away again. He didn't start disappearing again until Nov 16th, and since then I have gotten a lot of paid readings wondering when he would contact me again (up until a few days ago.) So basically, every reading I've had has been about him (and about 10% about myself.) About 90% of the readings I've had are accurate, but because how confusing Y can be time frame predictions is a toss up with him, which I've come to realize. It is hard to come out of it once you've gotten so many, especially on the days when you're thinking about him and suddenly feel lonely or whatever emotion you may feel and then you want to get a reading done. Because that's me, even if I'm bored, I'd go to Bitwine to see if any readers I've spoken to are online.

posted December 22, 2014 06:02 PM            

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I see. You're similar to me actually. Almost so similar it's somewhat scary lol. For me it started back in June. I hadn't heard from Y in quite sometime, not really that long (maybe a week.) But I was worried and and obsessing over the fact that he hadn't reached out to me. I contemplated contacting a reader and right when I getting ready to go into a session, I decided not to do it because my intuition told me not to. Thankfully, I didn't because within a few hours, Y had called me. However, things changed in July which is when he disappeared for a long time. Days turned into weeks and weeks into one month and then two months. During those months (from July to the end of August) I was getting readings like crazy. Mostly all of the readings were on Bitwine. I discovered Bitwine because I was googling something, but I don't remember what and it led me to this forum and seeing other people give recommendations made me want to get even more readings. Especially when the first reader I went to (Marva on bitwine) her prediction never happened. I needed to know why he disappeared, and when he was going to contact. So, he eventually did contact me me on September 4th and he stuck around for quite some time. He did have dry spells where I wouldn't hear from him in a few days but he would always contact me right away again. He didn't start disappearing again until Nov 16th, and since then I have gotten a lot of paid readings wondering when he would contact me again (up until a few days ago.) So basically, every reading I've had has been about him (and about 10% about myself.) About 90% of the readings I've had are accurate, but because how confusing Y can be time frame predictions is a toss up with him, which I've come to realize. It is hard to come out of it once you've gotten so many, especially on the days when you're thinking about him and suddenly feel lonely or whatever emotion you may feel and then you want to get a reading done. Because that's me, even if I'm bored, I'd go to Bitwine to see if any readers I've spoken to are online.

Since 2015 is approaching, I want to make it my year of new beginnings. I know it will take me time to really go cold turkey on the readings, but I will really work on it! I hope you can to, so we can save our money, but in the end...despite knowing the unknown, what is destined to happen will happen regardless of a reading. We must learn to trust our intuition and listen to our higher self. It would really be helpful for us!

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Winter solstice which it is today 21 st is all about letting go of what doesn't serve us and allowing. Be that bad energy even.
It's a great day to choose to do that and talk about it