posted January 21, 2015 05:47 PM            

He taught me how to let go and gathering parts of my soul that is left within OD- if I have loved OD truthfully and honestly, there are remnants of my soul that's left in his energy and I have to 'call' it back. After I practiced the meditation, I can actually sleep and wake up without feeling deep pain in my chest. And now whenever I started to have the similar feeling coming up my throat, I just meditate it again and it's gone, little by little.

posted January 22, 2015 09:35 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Hello, chatted with Rares Mardare for the first time- my last reader on bitwine, because i had hard time sleeping and centering myself. 10 euros but he went over time, way overtime, 30 mins. His cards showed my situation exactly (him engaged/victory/success with someone else (opposing force, ace of wands), our /wasted/ potential (10 of cups), our situation (tower) and his current happiness (the sun) but imminent problem that is not addressed that bordering on deceit mostly to himself/not being honest (high priestess) though maybe not being honest to me from the very beginning). Karmic connection that is past due, time for me to move on and get myself back.

He taught me how to let go and gathering parts of my soul that is left within OD- if I have loved OD truthfully and honestly, there are remnants of my soul that's left in his energy and I have to 'call' it back. After I practiced the meditation, I can actually sleep and wake up without feeling deep pain in my chest. And now whenever I started to have the similar feeling coming up my throat, I just meditate it again and it's gone, little by little.

He seems ethical and see you as a person and treat you like one, not just feeding you what you want to hear for business and his reading is on point.

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posted January 25, 2015 11:43 AM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
So what do you do when one reader sees one outcome while another sees the opposite? I've had that happen to me before and was curious how others handle that. I guess that's why I've narrowed down who i go to for readings.

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I would say you have to go with who you have the better connection and history with in terms of previously providing accurate details that panned out

posted January 26, 2015 03:44 AM            

But now, maybe this is where free will came from. from associating with this guy, I realized while OD & I had deep connection, my ideals and his ideals were incompatible. The way it has ended, I did not feel any nagging 'unfinished business' like I did before. In fact, since a day after the devastating news, I haven't thought about him- not in pain at least, and the staunch clarity feels intensely familiar, exactly like when I heard my ex got married, 6 years ago.

I won't blame the psychics for feeding me false hopes, I think many predictions came to fruition which helped me a lot at bad times. I think psychic readings can be real, but I now believe only ourselves can 'walk' through our own destiny, and we can choose who we want in our lives and psychics can only see paths but never exact future or other people's destiny.

The future doesn't seem as bleak now, and I definitely look forward to meeting interesting people (not married please)

posted January 28, 2015 05:00 AM            

You all probably already know because you're all smart cookies that we're at the beginning of ANOTHER Mercury in Retrograde in period. We covered the last one quite a lot so I'm not going to say an awful lot about it. Just remember it affects contact, travel. Exes coming back... **hides under duvet** .

Tea & Tarot: Asking the Right Questions: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SD8OFZsNSzg

The above video link is an episode from an acquaintance's web series called Tea & Tarot, quite coincidentally this is what I was going to be doing the first newsletter of 2015 on. Frankly, I think Laura explains it well enough. If you get a chance, also check out the other Tea & Tarot episodes they're very informative & Laura presents them in a very non-condescending way.

Off the back of this video I'm going to explore predictions & accuracy...

Predictions & Accuracy:

I'm not providing readings commercially any more but I do still want to provide you with information that can help you make the most out of the readings that you get with other psychics & I think this is really an important topic to discuss.

Often when we think of psychics we have the image of a gypsy at the end of the pier reeling off huge life predictions. This can be a lot of fun & if it's a genuine psychic, can give you a lot of forewarning about huge life changes. But this can conjure up a lot of fear & isn't always what we want from a reading. This also, isn't how most modern psychics work.

For about every 9 readings out of 10 I've given, clients come back & tell me how accurate my predictions are. This actually astounds me more than the clients. I'm not saying this to be boastful, my point is rather that I think (I don't know for sure) that my accuracy success is largely due to how I present the information to the client & the steps they have taken following our sessions.

Of course some things are black & white & will have a straight forward answer. But other circumstances will have variable outcomes, depending on all kinds of factors. When giving predictions it's often the most likely outcome that will come through the strongest (that's kind of obvious I guess) ˇV especially if these are not huge life events. You may well be destined to meet somebody but the hows & where's may depend on your actions.

For example, you have a reading & it's going well. You feel connected with the psychic & they've told you that you will meet a cute blond man in a club on Friday night. But Thursday morning you do the school run & little Jenny Johnson vomits on you giving you norovirus. Come Friday night your arse is glued to the loo & your head in a bucket! You're not likely going to meet the cute blond man are you? It's quite possible you meet said blond man at the bingo hall on Sunday night though.

So what usually happens in this scenario is that the psychic is given a less than favourable because ˇ§timing was offˇ¨ or ˇ§prediction didn't come trueˇ¨. The psychic may well have been off, that's always possible. But think about what you asked & how the information was presented....

Did you ask how likely that outcome was? Did you ask what steps to take in order for this prediction to come true? Chances are you didn't. Chances are you got excited about the cute man & the reading moved on beyond the immediate future. That's not really the psychic's fault. Remember, they're often working on a timer & (the good ones) are trying to answer as much of your questions as possible for time that you have.

More practical psychics & those trained in things like law of attraction will likely squeeze the steps needed for predictions to come true in anyway. What I find useful if on a timer or doing short email readings is to add a percentage of likeliness. I find this useful as a reader because it displays to the client that not everything is set in stone & it also gives them the chance to respond, ask for clarification, ask what would happen in the percentage of unlikeness, ask what steps to take to make sure it happens.

Now, if your psychic isn't automatically doing something like that, it doesn't make them a bad psychic. As said, most are catering to your wants. But it is OK to ask for something like this. Maybe something that suits you a 1-10 scale perhaps.

So, we know how to ask questions thanks to Laura & we know that we can get a likelihood of the answers coming to pass. But what happens if you ask the right questions, get the steps to take for desired outcome but ignore it or do the exact opposite?

Firstly, nobody is forcing you to do what your psychic says ˇV but the guidance is usually given for a reason (notably that you asked for it). But it does help for a better reading understanding & psychic-client rapport, if you actually follow the guidance.

The main reason for that is, it's not advice. Psychics aren't guiding you based on personal experience. The information is provided from a higher source. I think that part is often forgotten. Regardless of how the reader works, the information is from a higher source!

With that in mind, if you do the opposite of the guidance/steps provided. More likely than not the prediction will be the opposite. Not the psychic's fault, that's kind of your own doing. You're almost going against nature or even destiny in a sense when you ignore key information.

Please do keep these points in mind when you have readings, particularly if you have an on-going situation & you're finding the outcomes falling flat. Think about what YOU did or didn't do.

i didnt ask for his approval to post it here; so may need to delete it soon; but i hope someone could read it and learn something from it.