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St@r2013
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posted January 31, 2015 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for St@r2013     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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@star I get tingles in my stomach knowing that maji was so right for you! I lovvvvvee her!

Maji also described the guy I'd meet before this guy and that was accurate too...

I also asked Maji if I'd communicate with my ex and she replied yes and described what will occur... that hasn't happened yet... we'll see if that will happen.

Has she been consistently accurate for you?

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posted January 31, 2015 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@star she has been consistently accurate for me...the thing I really love about her is she is totally honest and she truly cares for the person. One thing is she doesn't really give time frames but I learned if she sees it it will happen..she by far is the best that I've spoken with and trust me...I've tried them all! The first time I spoke with her was when my ex and I broke up 2.5 years ago...and almost everything she told me was on point! She also says your future is up too you and I totally believe in that

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posted January 31, 2015 10:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bakaneko     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ Star, congrats on predictions coming to pass.

My last "love" reading was with Maji out of curiosity and she did give me timeframes. However she described me incorrectly and what she read sounded more like my past because the people she saw me involved with in the future aren't people I would go near. I left the reading feeling drained and went running in the cold weather to shake it off. If I went by her reading, it was pretty much predicted that I would have a family but not a life partner. I would continue to stay single. She suggested I meditate, which I do each day. I got: You will meet two men this year, the first one travels a lot, so does the second one. The first one you'll date but because he has a busy schedule it won't work out. The second one works a lot too, but you can make that work if you don't mind being alone most of the time, but I don't see it being a marriage. The more in depth descriptions was a turn off.

She's sweet, but dear universe I hope she's wrong for me. She also predicted that I'll acquire property, likely buy a house in the fall. Unless my current house burns down, I don't want another mortgage or to relocate.

I stopped asking for guidance from readers. If one more person tells me to do yoga or meditate lol. I wake up at 5am and do yoga each morning and meditate at night. It lead to: You need to do something more physically active. I'm an aerial performer, I train 2-3 hours a day. Then it was: You're too busy to find a partner. No, I find time to go out...then finally **It's just timing. I need to learn to hang up after three minutes. There's no sense in shelling out money to be told this.

However, I did have work predictions come through. On a whim I tried WaterQueene on keen. She picked up my situation immediately, down to the conflicts and then what would occur afterwards. Her time frames were spot on, which rarely happens. Without me asking, she threw in a romance prediction too.

**About readings in different languages. I've had readings and have given readings in different languages. It doesn't affect the connection, but sometimes when it's a semi-fluent language it can be difficult to describe something or understand.

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posted February 01, 2015 01:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peacefulclouds     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does Maji still offer 10$ email reading? LOL seems like she's good at describing next partner.

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posted February 01, 2015 01:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for St@r2013     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Does Maji still offer 10$ email reading? LOL seems like she's good at describing next partner.

She's actually online now so you can email and ask. Back in July it was $10 for 3 questions email and $3.25 for one question - super cheap!

I have to say I'm very tempted to get another reading with her but I'm holding myself.... Trying to just let things unfold...

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posted February 01, 2015 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilacbreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the updates, Star - sounds like she really nailed that description!! I'm definitely going to try her as my last attempt at a reading predicting future romance.
I think your approach is good - just see how things go with this guy and definitely keep us updated

EDIT: I had a reading with Maji. She seems so nice and sounds very young. She made a romance prediction and although she said she doesn't really do timeframes, she thinks it'll happen in the summer. Without me bringing it up, she mentioned something about higher education (I'm currently applying to grad school) and says it looks positive.

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posted February 01, 2015 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunshineluv7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi all,

I just want to chime in and say thanks for contributing to this forum. For a while I was definitely over calling and needed other types of help. While I found a stellar reader who is right 90% of the time, the end result predictions didn't come through - she is stellar at situations though. I mean STELLAR. (Avalonmare on Keen). Anyway, for that time in my life I was pretty ashamed because I didn't know anyone else who leaned on psychic advice the way I did. I became envious of those able to deal with life stresses normally and not spend money in the process.

Finally I quit, got on antidepressants and started controlling my life instead of waiting on predictions, and went into some much needed therapy. Today I am a different person.

Eventually I went off Keen and found bitwine, where I mainly talk to AboutAGirl - she has been pretty accurate for me, but sometimes misses - I'd probably give her a 70% accuracy rating. She definitely has days where she is dead on and others where she's not as connected, but I like bitwine because I can refer to the chat scripts anytime and I find I have more control over how much I'm spending.

I have lurked in this forum reading your posts off and on, and I can't express how good it feels to know others are as amazed and struggle at times with the same things I do. I feel like I found my people!! I read one post where the person said the men in question would never spend that much on us as we have with readings, but I want to point out that's not what it's about. We gets readings for our own peace of mind. It's like a drug in a way cause in a tough situation one reading is not usually enough, the sense of calm wears off and eventually I find myself wanting reassurance if I am missing the person so much.
The flip side of that is I have learned when I am in a good relationship, I don't need readings. But those ones I never feel as much. I'm usually only 75% interested. So there's the tough part!!

From reading your experiences here I am going to try Abundant Visions on keen, and I have sent a reading request to someone Pistol on etsy- so I thank you all for taking time to write about your experiences with readers here. And I wonder, although this forum is about readings maybe it might help us all to actually tell the story we are concerned about and use our collective consciousness to offer advice/interpretations in a loving way. I find with my therapist sometimes her advice on how to handle my life NOW makes an "outcome" not matter.

Also, I think you all would really like the book "only love is real" by Brian Weiss. He also wrote many lives many masters and is all about past lives and reincarnation.

Bless you all

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So I had some trouble registering, since then I have tried to get a reading on bitwine with loaded pistol, but she hasn't responded - looks like she has been inactive all month, any ideas?

I also ended up looking at my past transcripts and noticed seer's voice was really dead on with my situation prediction wise last time - even though I didn't like it. So I spoke to her... She was able to point out my part/lesson in this and what I should work on if I want things to be better when he does come back around. I highly, highly recommend speaking with her if you want not just the future but why it's happening and what it all means.

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posted February 01, 2015 10:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunshineluv7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh one more thing, I spoke with miss Toria since she seems to be fairly accurate for most - she actually gave me a lot of the same predictions AAG did. If they happen i will be pretty surprised because the man in question is definitely pulled back and not communicating in any way. But, she said things with him and I will stabilize by the end of the month, moving just shy of a year and marriage a year after that. AAG had same timeline - proposal 6 months after moving, wedding 6 months later (ha!). Funny thing is I rarely ask these questions (marriage) since I don't want to live on a fantasy island-- thinking about marriage when the man isn't even being steady. Toria asked me if I wanted to know about marriage when I asked if she did long term. So I said sure.

She did explain my guy is really scared, needs to work through it and there isn't much I can do- his main question right now is about how ready he is for a relationship. But he knows he wants to be with me. she said things that made sense with what I know of him and his life...
Anywho only time will tell. I hope she is right about the short term stuff. She is definitely dry, doesn't offer much info other than exactly what you ask. Which is okay with me since some readers go off on tangents you don't care about hahaha.

Oh, as for readers - keens top people never got anything right for me. Steve did once that was pretty amazing but was wrong on everything else. He's funny to talk to tho.

As for bitwine,

Melanie Simms - fun, cheap, but wrong on details of her predictions of men I'll meet. Entirely. But she's scary right in time frames of when I would meet someone. And she was always right that the guys I asked about were retards. This current one is the first one she said isn't going anywhere, so we will see.

Shy Owl - neat reader, she sees auras and colors and things. She was helpful, but she did say another chance for him and I would come up March/April (or was it April/may) and yet we ended up seeing each other a few weeks ago, but it ended not so great so maybe it didn't count? Would def talk to her again. Gave me some great energy work to do with salt baths and does distance reiki - I felt amazing the next day.

An Angels Touch - nice. But completely wrong

Jennifer Louise Hay - loved her to death. I wish she was right because I liked her so much, but she was completely wrong, at least in predictions. Maybe she was right at reading the situation, who knows!

AboutAGirl- like I said I've talked to her enough that I think she is around 70-80% with me, sometimes she has off days. And she is kind of slow cause she does cards then types out paragraphs - which is fun to get all at once. But she has been such a help to me, overall, that I don't fault her for when she has been wrong with outcomes. She has definitely been more correct and with details at times too, so I keep her around. Plus she's very available


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posted February 02, 2015 11:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok I tried Maji Star this morning on a whim. That's what happens when you have snow day. I asked about someone I never asked any reader about. I felt she was a bit conflicting. Very nice but a little conflicting. At first she felt I would have a relationship with this person but then sort of changed by the end of the reading. I'm just not sure. She described his feelings for me etc and I think she was accurate but was a little wishy washy on the final outcome. So we'll see. She didn't give a timeframe as to how long this connection would last she wasn't too clear on it. So we'll see. Maybe it's a sign to just not go to new people.

Someone said they felt drained after her reading. I can't say I felt drained just very uneasy. Been feeling that way all day. I went back and read what I wrote down and I'm not entirely sure she's right on describing the person. I also found some conflicting things she told me as well. I just don't know. Serves me right for going to someone new I suppose. I felt so good and confident and now I just don't.

Someone else also mentioned to them that they would be buying a home and she told me the same thing. Unless I win the lottery that's not happening this year. Some could have been generic stuff I guess. Another conflicting thing, she said the next guy I meet will be younger than me and want a relationship then literally said two seconds later he's in his 40's and he's not sure if he wants a relationship. Well I'm not in my 40's so that would make him older than me and which is it, a relationship or not? I'm confused now.

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posted February 02, 2015 09:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bakaneko     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Ok I tried Maji Star this morning on a whim. That's what happens when you have snow day. I asked about someone I never asked any reader about. I felt she was a bit conflicting. Very nice but a little conflicting. At first she felt I would have a relationship with this person but then sort of changed by the end of the reading. I'm just not sure. She described his feelings for me etc and I think she was accurate but was a little wishy washy on the final outcome. So we'll see. She didn't give a timeframe as to how long this connection would last she wasn't too clear on it. So we'll see. Maybe it's a sign to just not go to new people.

Someone said they felt drained after her reading. I can't say I felt drained just very uneasy. Been feeling that way all day. I went back and read what I wrote down and I'm not entirely sure she's right on describing the person. I also found some conflicting things she told me as well. I just don't know. Serves me right for going to someone new I suppose. I felt so good and confident and now I just don't.

Someone else also mentioned to them that they would be buying a home and she told me the same thing. Unless I win the lottery that's not happening this year. Some could have been generic stuff I guess. Another conflicting thing, she said the next guy I meet will be younger than me and want a relationship then literally said two seconds later he's in his 40's and he's not sure if he wants a relationship. Well I'm not in my 40's so that would make him older than me and which is it, a relationship or not? I'm confused now.


I think Vivi also said she felt/feels drained after reading with Maji; I said it a few posts up. It wasn't because the reading was disappointing with gloomy predictions, the draining started when she began to describe me and offer me advice on spirituality. She kept repeating to me that I need to meditate more. When I told her how much I meditate she just said, "Good, keep doing it."

Her description of me was about 80% wrong. The descriptions of the two men she said I'd meet were virtually the same, what they did, their lifestyles, and she stressed that neither had time for a relationship. When I told her that I'm discerning enough to not invest myself in something that will lead to nothing, she said to me that I need to be with these men because they will make a large impact on my life. Then went on to say I don't know how to enjoy other people's company. My social life is active, I love my friends, and have a nice balance between male and female friends - and I enjoy their company. With dating, it's difficult to enjoy someone's company if I have to force a connection.

When the relationship portion of the reading was a miss, she said that my blockage was that I need more abundance. I told her what I do and that comment was rescinded.

After she backpeddled, she said, "I don't want to keep you on the phone any longer because my guides have nothing else to say/convey." I can't remember her exact words.

She said I would buy a house in the fall. I already have a mortgage. I live within miles of my business, my day job, and the studio I train at. It's a lovely place, close enough to my family to help care for my mother.

Very sweet woman, but we didn't connect well.

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posted February 02, 2015 09:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok so then it's not just me. I just didn't feel it. Especially how she described the person I asked about. I went back to read it again and it was basically the opposite of what I know of this person. I just wasn't feeling it. At first it was, yes a relationship, then it was well it's open ended I can't tell for how long. Then he was a waste of time. And the description of the second guy, he's younger than you, but he's in his 40's. I told her my age and she didn't really acknowledge that if he's in his 40's he's obviously older than me. I don't know, just felt it was too much of saying one thing and then completely changing it to another.

She also said money won't be a problem for me and it will continue to flow this year. Quite honestly, I didn't have a money concern and have no reason to worry that it will be a concern right now.

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posted February 02, 2015 09:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the universe is trying to tell me no more paid readings or something, lol. I was trying to talk to a certain reader on Bitwine, and we've been missing each other ever since last Wednesday. Every time we are supposed to have our appointment, either she never comes on, or I end up forgetting or falling asleep. Then moments ago, I wanted to speak with Toria, she was available, but wouldn't accept my call. I thought it was a Bitwine problem, but when I tried again, she didn't accept it again, which was odd to me since she is a to-go reader of mine. Then before Toria, there was a new reader on Bitwine that I wanted to try but there was no connection between she and I.

I wasn't trying to inquire about Y, but someone new I met. I guess, I'm not supposed to talk with anyone.

I know I announced a few pages back that I was taking a break from this website, but I don't have anyone to talk about when it comes to readings but you guys. I hope you don't mind it?

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posted February 02, 2015 09:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bakaneko     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I know I announced a few pages back that I was taking a break from this website, but I don't have anyone to talk about when it comes to readings but you guys. I hope you don't mind it?[/B]

Welcome back Proxy

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posted February 02, 2015 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Welcome back Proxy

Thank you, Bakaneko
I hope you're doing well? Since I work at a preschool, I've had today off work and tomorrow also, lol.

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posted February 02, 2015 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome back Proxy! I enjoy reading everyone's experiences and sharing my own so I'm happy you're here!

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posted February 02, 2015 09:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Welcome back Proxy! I enjoy reading everyone's experiences and sharing my own so I'm happy you're here!

Thank you, Fairy! I had a reading with Spiritual Jade the other day. I really like her. I've spoken with her twice in the past, but yesterday's session blew me away. I provided her with a photo of Y and I, and she read Y really good! She said two things about him that I knew were 100% true. I was surprised she got all of that just by a photo of him.

I still haven't heard from Y yet. However, everyone seems to believe it will be this month that I do hear from him. Sophea, AV and Spiritual Jade were the only ones that aren't really sure when he would contact. AV didn't get a time frame at all (but this was back in mid-January). I messaged her since I didn't have any funds to talk with her and just answered, which was very kind of her. Sophea said anywhere between now and ten months, but that's at the most. Spiritual Jade said it would be a while, and that it may be up to a month (late February or early March.) Those three all seem to agree that Y changes his mind quite often, which is why contact is always delayed, but that he will contact me for sure. Like, they all say he really wants to contact me, but he doesn't know what he could say to me, because he knows he would have to explain the distance, but I am on his mind often and he wants to be with me long-term. It's just that he needs some growing up to do when it comes to knowing what he wants.

I also inquired to Spiritual Jade about my Law of Attraction journal, because I wanted to know why everything stopped working. Everything that I wrote in my journal happened, but sudden;y it stopped. She informed be that the excitement of it wore off and it became more of a "need to do it" sort of thing. She also said that there is a possibility that someone could have touched the book and their wants/desires could have affected the book. She was telling me to still keep the book, but I can bless it and keep it somewhere private where only I know where it is. So, I'm trying again with manifesting things.

Other than that, some predictions have happened. Not in regards to Y, but to the new person I met. However, he isn't the one other psychics said I was going to meet. I'm somewhat conflicted about this new person. I only want friendship with him, but I don't know. It's confusing for me, which was why I was trying to have a reading about him earlier, but no one was accepting my calls or I wasn't connected with the other, lol.

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posted February 02, 2015 09:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
See how things play out with Y. I'm very confident with AV so I believe if she says you'll hear from him you will. At this point, I would let it go as best you can and let it happen. I know, easier said than done. But if he wants to contact he will. Timing is hard and who knows, maybe it will come when you least expect it.

As far as the new guy, see how it goes. I know you said you only want friendship so allow it in and see how it plays out for you. Maybe you will feel differently. And even if he's not someone the psychics said you would have a relationship with, who knows, they could be wrong. Do what you feel you want to do in your heart. You can never be steered wrong by following your heart.

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posted February 02, 2015 09:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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See how things play out with Y. I'm very confident with AV so I believe if she says you'll hear from him you will. At this point, I would let it go as best you can and let it happen. I know, easier said than done. But if he wants to contact he will. Timing is hard and who knows, maybe it will come when you least expect it.

As far as the new guy, see how it goes. I know you said you only want friendship so allow it in and see how it plays out for you. Maybe you will feel differently. And even if he's not someone the psychics said you would have a relationship with, who knows, they could be wrong. Do what you feel you want to do in your heart. You can never be steered wrong by following your heart.


Thanks Fairy! To be honest, I've noticed a difference from last year during the two months of Y's disappearance, to this time. Last time, I was very miserable and always was wondering when he would contact. Doubt filled me, I became depressed and sad almost every day. I started to go through the five stages of grief, sort of speak lol. I finally decided to let go and let whatever happened happened. I wrote that in my journal, and I noticed a few days later, he returned. This time, I'm less sad and less worried. So, it's like a while different turn, lol. I do have my days when I am sad, but it's not as bad as it was previously.

Where the new guy is concerned, although he is very handsome, I'm only looking for a friendship with him. We met on Okcupid, but he doesn't live in my state. He already likes someone else and I gave him advice how to deal with his situation. We were talking, but in the past couple of days while we are on skype, he will randomly sign off on me or stop talking. He says he is sick and the time he signed off on me he was mad with the other girl, from what he said as they were talking on skype also at the time. However, today when I noticed he was online, he barely said anything to me at all except for one thing. I got kind of mad about that and signed off since he wasn't responding to me. When I did sign back in, I was expecting to see something from him, but nope. Nothing. So, I signed off again and put "Gone" on my skype, lol. Childish of me, but I have an impulsive personality and have a tendency to do things based off how I'm feeling at the moment, which I need to work on. However, I barely use that skype anyways and hadn't signed on since the last time I spoke to Y, lol. Anyhow, I'd feel rather silly to sign back on after putting that as my name on there and I think this friendship might end anyways.

Toria told me that the new guy and I friendship will only last 2-3 months, and I would be the one to end the friendship because it won't benefit me, not that he is a bad guy or anything like that. However, everyone else seemed to believe he and I would become good friends, Spiritual Jade and DLD. But, I'm not seeing that if he isn't responding back to me lol. He's pretty upfront, because this happened before and he told me it's not me and not to worry, and would explain to me why he did what he did. But idk, I think I'm kind of giving up on this friendship now lol

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@fairy - Yeah that reading does sound kind of wishy washy. If the reading didn't resonate with you - and left you feeling uneasy then totally discard it. It's disappointing, but I can't tell you how many times a reader has said something about me that I knew didn't fit or described a man I knew I wouldn't want to date...Put it out of your mind.
I wonder if you email her how you're feeling - if she'd give you a refund?

I didn't tell her my age - but I do have quite a young sounding voice... so while I think she did accurately pick up stuff for me, I'm sure it isn't a huge leap to associate learning or classes with a younger voice. We'll see, though. If things happen as she said, I'll def post!
@ Proxy - welcome back

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posted February 02, 2015 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can totally understand that. He seems preoccupied about someone else. And even if he wants to be friends he's not being a very good friend by just signing off on you. In that case I would let it be and see how that one goes. Sounds like you don't have high expectations and it's probably a good thing since it doesn't seem like he's all that committed to wanting to maintain a friendship.

I know how you feel about Y. I go through the same sort of grief in my relationships. I feel like I'm always waiting or trying and not getting what I want. I know it's probably my fault because I'm clearly finding guys who aren't wanting what I want, or at least what I want with me. But I haven't given up and just keep trying. All you can do is embrace how you feel and when you feel sad just feel sad. It's ok to feel that way. Relationships sometimes have to be grieved in order to learn from them and move on. What is the main prediction about you and Y? Will you ultimately end up together? I go through doubts all the time about who it is I'm interested in. Hence the readings. They only serve as a fix and then I go back to doubting. I'm working on learning how to clear the negative thoughts in my head.

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posted February 02, 2015 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lilacbreeze:
@fairy - Yeah that reading does sound kind of wishy washy. If the reading didn't resonate with you - and left you feeling uneasy then totally discard it. It's disappointing, but I can't tell you how many times a reader has said something about me that I knew didn't fit or described a man I knew I wouldn't want to date...Put it out of your mind.
I wonder if you email her how you're feeling - if she'd give you a refund?

I didn't tell her my age - but I do have quite a young sounding voice... so while I think she did accurately pick up stuff for me, I'm sure it isn't a huge leap to associate learning or classes with a younger voice. We'll see, though. If things happen as she said, I'll def post!
@ Proxy - welcome back


Thanks Lilac. I guess ultimately I felt bad because everyone seems to have such success with her and like her. I guess I was hoping for the experience too. It does create doubt though and I guess I just need to let it go.

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posted February 02, 2015 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I can totally understand that. He seems preoccupied about someone else. And even if he wants to be friends he's not being a very good friend by just signing off on you. In that case I would let it be and see how that one goes. Sounds like you don't have high expectations and it's probably a good thing since it doesn't seem like he's all that committed to wanting to maintain a friendship.

I know how you feel about Y. I go through the same sort of grief in my relationships. I feel like I'm always waiting or trying and not getting what I want. I know it's probably my fault because I'm clearly finding guys who aren't wanting what I want, or at least what I want with me. But I haven't given up and just keep trying. All you can do is embrace how you feel and when you feel sad just feel sad. It's ok to feel that way. Relationships sometimes have to be grieved in order to learn from them and move on. What is the main prediction about you and Y? Will you ultimately end up together? I go through doubts all the time about who it is I'm interested in. Hence the readings. They only serve as a fix and then I go back to doubting. I'm working on learning how to clear the negative thoughts in my head.


I signed in to change my name and noticed he signed off and still never responded back to me. I remember Spiritual Jade did tell me that him and that girl would start to date for a bit, but it wouldn't last very long. Maybe him and that girl started dating and that's why he didn't respond back? Who knows, lol. At this point, I'm starting not to care much anymore lol. I have a feeling if it is because of the girl and if something happened negative between them, he may contact me. Which isn't very nice, but I just have a feeling that will happen eventually lol.

To answer your questions about Y and I, our outcome is good. It reaches as far as marriage from every reader I've spoken to. Though I've been told that Y will take some time to really get there. Meaning that Y is still figuring out what he wants out of life currently, and he has a some family problems. So, the reason why he hasn't reached out is because he is trying to clear his head. DLD told me that we would end up in a relationship before he visits me (which would be this year), but to be quite honest I'm not sure. Toria told me last year that when Y returned he would disappear again and we would be in a relationship, but the opposite happened. So, I can't really say. However, overall everyone has the same outcome between he and I and it's a positive one. It's just that he hasn't reached that point yet due to personal problems he is currently dealing with. I can understand, I mostly used readings in regards to love when it came to Y and it always served as a quick fix. I still have faith that Y is going to return and I'm praying that this time when he returns that he won't disappear at all. Jade said that he won't and that he is really going to work hard on sticking around because he feels guilty about his actions and wants to make up for it. So, we'll see what happens.

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posted February 02, 2015 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lilacbreeze:

@ Proxy - welcome back

Thank you, Lilac!

On a side note, has anyone noticed that certain psychics on Bitwine that are on all the time aren't on when it's Happy Hour? But as soon as Happy Hour is over they come on? I noticed that with certain readers.

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posted February 02, 2015 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilacbreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome Sunshineluv7! Thanks for sharing your experiences with the readers you've tried. I'm currently waiting on my predictions from AV (she did seem to pick up my situation well).
Our very own LP (LoadedPistil) read for me in the past and was very accurate.
I also tried Aboutagirl a long time ago - read with her a few times and she was incredibly wrong for me.

I think it's a great idea to share experiences. It's part of the reason why I like this forum so much. If you ever feel like you're in need of guidance or just want to vent or share what's going on, please do so

For me, I've cooled off now quite a bit from readings - mainly because I was asking about romantic prospects and haven't had any luck with any of those predictions, descriptions etc. coming through. (LP was the only one who accurately saw no one significant entering my life during that time)

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And I wonder, although this forum is about readings maybe it might help us all to actually tell the story we are concerned about and use our collective consciousness to offer advice/interpretations in a loving way. I find with my therapist sometimes her advice on how to handle my life NOW makes an "outcome" not matter.


Bless you all


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posted February 03, 2015 08:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunshineluv7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lilacbreeze:
Welcome Sunshineluv7! Thanks for sharing your experiences with the readers you've tried. I'm currently waiting on my predictions from AV (she did seem to pick up my situation well).
Our very own LP (LoadedPistil) read for me in the past and was very accurate.
I also tried Aboutagirl a long time ago - read with her a few times and she was incredibly wrong for me

I think it's a great idea to share experiences. It's part of the reason why I like this forum so much. If you ever feel like you're in need of guidance or just want to vent or share what's going on, please do so

For me, I've cooled off now quite a bit from readings - mainly because I was asking about romantic prospects and haven't had any luck with any of those predictions, descriptions etc. coming through. (LP was the only one who accurately saw no one significant entering my life during that time)


Thanks!! The guy who struck a chord and got me back into readings (I had really cooled for a while!!) was basically a boyfriend at 15, we stayed close friends for 15 years then recently it came out that he was special to me and he said he had always been secretly in love with me but never thought it would happen, blah de blah. Well, we go on a cruise together and I spent a weekend with him at his place - and he gets all freaked out, makes up some weird reasons to push me away, and basically told me about his concerns and... Then stopped talking to me. Hurts because he was my biggest cheerleader, shoulder to cry on, etc. So the loss is kind of devastating and so confusing, I never ever thought he would treat me this way. we didn't talk frequently as best friends but, it was like, when he was home on leave from army he would always see me, we could call each other at 4 am type thing.

So anyway... Ironically enough this forum made me curious about Abundant Visions and the guy on bitwine many seem to like, and Toria. Haha. So I spoke with (Yep) all three.
AV was interesting, she went into silence kind of a lot, and eventually said wow this guy is really confusing, there is only one other person who makes me stumble this much!!! Her reading was very believable tho- nothing about riding off into sunsets, etc. I think it's a good out come, but I still can't tell if I'd be happy if/when we got back together. Maybe that's not what they can tell you.
Toria had really interesting things to say, much shorter time frame, so that will be interesting to see, too. Well actually I suppose the time frames could be similar, depending on what AV's numbers end up meaning.
And the Italian guy on bitwine who loves everyone- haha - he of course gave me the famous ritual (same one with paper) - and I was wary of a grneric reading with him based on some experiences here, but what he said wasn't close to what others here have reported. His time frame was close to Torias - but he said "full commitment" which the other two did not - and then he did use his "under the same roof" phrase he uses hahaha

I'm done for now. There isn't much more for me to do/hear. I think with psychics sometimes it's nice to have someone to talk to, since our friends get bored and we don't wanna be the girl who's constantly talking about the same thing to them.

Also, Jamey gave me a book to read - breaking the habit of being yourself - and I watched some video that was posted here, and did the exercise, and realized my "most meaningful" relationships completely echo my home life, which she says becomes or definition of love. Like, completely.

Also if he does just stay in his code of silence I don't wanna spend longer moving on then I have to- and I fee like readings keep me hoping for something that may not happen, when it becomes unhealthy, like I'm living in a fantasy world. When I was over calling before - all those men are now married, or in serious relationships, save one or two who I don't know what's going on with or just flat fell off the face of the earth.
Yet I'm still single - heck it is what it is. But maybe I wouldn't be if I was just like "this freaking sucks, but this guys being a douchebag and doesn't deserve me" and moved on faster.

Jamey says, I need to be tougher on the current guy (we will call him M) and make him earn his spot in my life back. Otherwise he would just keep repeating his behavior. I like her advice because it would make me a stronger person, and I have to not act from a place of fear about being alone, not finding real love, etc. I can't be scared to walk away from him.

Love to you all xx

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