posted February 04, 2015 04:22 PM            

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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
@peaceful - I understand completely. It is unfortunate how unethical some psychics (many, in my opinion) can be. I choose not to charge for readings because I worry if I am "off" it may lead to someone altering certain ways they handle things in their lives. I've had free readings, .99/min readings and $19.99/min readings and I find the more expensive or "well known" the psychic is, the more WAY OFF they have been with me. I no longer get paid readings. I quit cold turkey in November & when I look back on the things that sounded SO accurate for Dec & Jan- none of it happened. None!
Live & learn I guess...
Be well peaceful & I am sure a new special someone is right around the corner for you 😉

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I've seen someone on Bitwine that I heard by the people on here is a 50/50 thing with him. I believe his name is Peter. Anyhow, I always see him changing his rating per minute quite often. He'll be $1.99 one day and the next $14.99, and then two days later he'll charge 4.99 per minute.

I'm not sure why he flip-flops his rates like that. I've never tried him, nor did I want to. But I just remember noticing that about him. I've seen others do that too.

posted February 04, 2015 04:27 PM            

So people hanging on to psychics saying "he loves you but..." are ultimately settling for less than they deserve.

posted February 04, 2015 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I know who you're talking about, Peter Doswell. I've been to him before. He was good with timing I do remember that. And I did notice he constantly changes his pricing. Not sure why he does that.

K4S got some stuff right but ultimately she was wrong about me and A. He never did come back and want a relationship. But there were details she was right with. But for her rates I really wouldn't go back.

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Yeah, that's him! I've never wanted to go to him because of that price changing thing, lol. I couldn't understand why he was doing it so much. I remember in one of his reviews that he once charged $29.99 per minute. That made my eyes widen, lol. So much per minute! I think that's what it said, if I remember correctly.

I wanted to try K4S when everyone was raving about her on here, but when I went to her page and saw the price, I knew I couldn't afford it, lol.

posted February 04, 2015 05:03 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Hey Proxy sure! Here's my email Let me know when you got it I'll edit this out. Feel free to email me anytime.

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posted February 04, 2015 08:57 PM            

I saw a psychic recently and though he was spot-on about some health issues and personality traits, I didn't jive with what he saw for my career.

He knew that my main purpose for the reading was to get an idea about what I should do with my life, and that I often reach for the top shelf when it comes to my goals and aspirations. He got that I'm a creative, artistic individual at heart, but what threw me off was that he said that I should be a hairdresser. (And he pushed it real hard too!)

He said, "They're telling me hairdressing, they're telling me hairdressing and makeup." The thing is, I've never expressed an interest in doing hair. Ever. I've (barely) dabbled in makeup as a hobby, but hairdressing has never been on my radar.

I'm interested in fashion, film, and television, but I only mentioned fashion when he brought up hairdressing. Then, he said, "If you want to get into fashion, you've gotta do hairdressing. You want to get into film? Hairdressing. You want to get into TV? Hairdressing." I thought, "Oh man, he got film and TV... Is he right?"

I don't know if he said hairdressing and makeup because it's a common career path for gay guys, but because hairdressing consumed my reading, I felt disappointed once it was over.

posted February 05, 2015 01:24 AM            

When they just say their opinion it's like getting some random person from the street say what they think - 'oh you should work as a garbage man they make great money' - useless info can disregard.

posted February 05, 2015 03:59 PM            

I wasn't necessarily going to let the psychic choose my career path, but I couldn't help but entertain -- and overthink -- his ideas. I'm, unfortunately, one who is easily influenced and could probably convince myself that hairdressing would be the best path for me, if I thought about it enough.

I think that my immediate "WTF?" response to his suggestion lets me know that hairdressing isn't the right path for me. I feel like I know what I should do with my life; I just don't know how to get to where I want to be.

posted February 05, 2015 10:48 PM            

On another note...

Ugh. ShyOwl- good last reading, this time totally different. Her reasoning, well, he made a different choice. Doesn't feel like it did before. Cool, can I have a refund then? Seriously ****** .

And slightly panicking. He was my friend for so long. I can't believe he is doing this to me :/ I was feeling so much better before I spoke with her!!! Thank god it was a super short reading. If you can call it that.

What happened to LoadedPistol? She was on here a lot and then I bought a reading on etsy, then shut down her store. I had a clarification question and now I can't ask it Today is not a fun day.

posted February 07, 2015 12:21 PM            

When you said goodbye to someone and you clearly said it's for your own sanity/well-being and they still 'hover around', it's getting to the point I feel he's really disrespectful of my well-being and only care about himself.

But i guess Toria & DLD & others was right about contact - indirect first, then supposedly way more direct on mid feb when he returns, which I told I hope (contact) won't happen cause holy moly, how draining this whole ordeal was.

posted February 07, 2015 12:41 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
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When you said goodbye to someone and you clearly said it's for your own sanity/well-being and they still 'hover around', it's getting to the point I feel he's really disrespectful of my well-being and only care about himself.

But i guess Toria & DLD & others was right about contact - indirect first, then supposedly way more direct on mid feb when he returns, which I told I hope (contact) won't happen cause holy moly, how draining this whole ordeal was.

it's getting irritating.

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Hi Hun,

You're right, if you asked for space and the other person kind if denies your request, it is them saying their feelings and needs are more important than your own. This theme runs through when I think our loved ones back off, even if they lack the emotional awareness and responsibility to say hey, I'm not sure what I want to do about this right now, I'm going to try to figure it out I guess, talk to you when I think I maybe have it figured out -

And we keep trying to contact them (I know some of us do) and part of why it's usually a bad reason to reach out repeatedly etc. Interesting that you are experiencing the other side now!!

I'm not sure of the details of your story but I think you said your man told you he got engaged... Well, without being psychic you two obviously have something between you he can't let go of - which makes me feel bad in a way for the person he proposed to - she clearly doesn't have all of his attention. I mean think about it, how would you feel if the man who proposed to you was still interacting with someone he has unresolved karma/ feelings/ life lessons with? And I think it's unresolved maybe because otherwise, you would feel a sense of peace in your soul about the situation.

at least the advisors were right. It's funny how readings can be right in a way we never thought it would pan out, but it's still right. Just goes to show, no matter the "tools" we find to fast forward our "learning" (suffering) we will never be told everything we could know, because our guides will not allow us to skip the lessons we planned for ourselves.

Thanks for sharing.. Stay strong

posted February 07, 2015 01:31 PM            

We were just friends, well, close friends, never had any physical relationship (not even a kiss, except 'accidental' ones from him) but we were very close emotionally. It was really a weird phase and complicated story behind it. He went through some deep **** and he was a very private man. He moved into my country after a devastating event, experienced another painful event (his own fault lol) but I happened to be there and for some reason he couldn't stop pouring every & each of his pain whenever he was around me (which p*ssed himself off because his perceived lack of control, but also said it's somehow healing/liberating to his mental health). I was also strange around him, his presence made me feel comfort in a way I never felt before.

To illustrate how weird our closeness was, I even met his parents already (he was not there with me- but he told me/arranged me to see his parents when I was on a vacation... by myself)

But, in his words, (and possibly why he's still trying to be around), he never saw me as more than friends, but he knows full well I had very very strong feelings for him. We argued many times about this, went back and forth- he admitted to himself that we have something strange but age gap is a problem (20+ yrs). When he was really drunk once- and we were arguing quite loudly in a bar (I was very angry of his irresponsible lifestyle), he told me he loved me. But that ****** me off because he always said he only saw me as a sister/friend so I blew up in confusion and left him. That was last year.

To his credit, he does not cheat his girlfriend with me because we were never more than friends and we knew each other long before he started dating her. And what I mean by hovering around is that he's still interacting indirectly to me in social media. But my words were final. He knew that. It's too mucky, he made his choice. He choose to be with her because it makes sense. So I bid goodbye when I realized I couldn't congratulate him. This happened near the end of January.

A real friend will leave another friend to heal. Not him, apparently.

posted February 07, 2015 01:44 PM            

Yes 90% readers told me it's no use for me to 'move on', he'll come back etc etc he's in my path, he can't let go of the connection etc which ****** me off even more LOL

Even when I gave them bad ratings (he's engaged for ***** sake)- they asked me to clarify with them and they still didn't & wont change their predictions. So I gave up on them. That was in January.

But like I said, I'm exercising my free will. It's been too painful and I deserve someone that actually willing to fight for me or clearly desire & want to be with me, I'm still a woman with needs, I want to feel desired. I'm not a saint.

posted February 07, 2015 02:02 PM            

It's interesting because half of those readers (Impy, jade, rares) said the outcome was contingent on free will, but were able to give me tools to help get the outcome that I want. Anyone else get that a lot too?

I also saw that someone mentioned that AV says "I think" a lot , which she did during my reading. I wasn't too sure about that.

posted February 07, 2015 02:50 PM            

I am going to recommend steveblackfoot on fiverr (subconcious reading), he nailed some people I asked absolutely. He does ask for full names though, and your own DOB, but the details he provided are not ones you can find online definitely, especially some people I asked do not even have any online presence whatsoever.

- one unfortunate thing : he didn't catch OD is engaged LOL (I got back the reading JUST hours before OD told me about the engagement and again, very positive reading, even after clarifications when I told him about OD's engagement, he still stood by what he said )

posted February 08, 2015 12:14 AM            

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