posted February 15, 2015 06:28 PM            

Sorry to hear the bad news. It's very interesting how she can get so much details (about the other woman), so she is pretty much a straight shooter. I'm sorry about the devastating news however. if you need someone to vent, I'm always ears if you need an email.

This makes me wonder why she did not pick up about the engagement, but she did say she didn't see anything for the next 2 months (about me and OD, reading in January) or any immediate future. But generally the readings were 'positive'.

hugs to you

posted February 15, 2015 10:05 PM            

Knowing that the person you're seeing / interested in is with someone else can help prepare you, but if that's not actually what's going on, it can plant a seed of doubt that could affect your relationship.

I didn't have success with either of the readers you mentioned. Aboutagirl was wrong for me on a bunch of predictions. When I tried to read with Stephanie, she acted like she knew who I was (like I had read with her before) and when I clarified that it was my first time contacting her, she pretended like she knew that all along. It was really bizarre and she did block me after - so the whole thing didn't sit well with me.

posted February 16, 2015 12:08 AM            

I wouldn't ask him if there was someone else right now, cause we aren't in communication at the moment. Maybe I will never know. But if he does make a return and want to talk about us, THEN I will ask if there was someone else. Who knows if/when that will happen!

Thanks so much for the offer for the email "ear" -- I will take you up on it if I feel that I need it!

Re: some readers being on and others off, I really am starting to think it heavily depends on your individual connection with the reader. For example, one reader I connect well with (she was completely right last time about both guys, tho I didn't want to hear it with one of them), I referred a friend to and both times my friend tried to chat with her, she was told the reader couldn't connect!

AAG -- I have a good track record with. Not perfect, but I really value her friendship over the years (I've been talking to her for 2 years or so)

posted February 16, 2015 01:58 PM            

I do feel that this new one seems to be very ready to settle down into something committed so this does seem to be what he is looking for
01:42PM
Me
ok
01:42PM
Stephanie Theresa
I do feel that he is very loyal and trustworthy and I do feel that he is a man of his word it feels that he does what he says he will and he is who he appears to be
01:42PM
Stephanie Theresa
I do feel that he seems genuine in the way that he feels for you and I do feel that you will be very attracted to him right from the start
01:43PM
Me
And what else stands out about their job, you mentioned a lot of traveling?
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Stephanie Theresa
so you will feel the chemistry between the two of you as well
01:43PM
Stephanie Theresa
yes I do feel that there is a lot of travel though I am not being shown what his job is just that he has to travel a good deal
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Stephanie Theresa
but I do feel that he has a good balance here in that he seems to get a good amount of time off as well
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Stephanie Theresa
so feels that he may be away for two weeks and then back for two weeks its not definite that thats how his schedule is but it has that kind of feeling to it
01:44PM
Me
Ohh ok I hope it's not who I think it is because I'm not really attracted to him at all. Thanks a lot for the reading!!

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posted February 16, 2015 06:10 PM            

I guess I feel like my intuition is confused because, over the years he has been literally, the best guy I know. As far as how he's always been there for me and cared for me. And when we first got together this time around, it happened like this:

He popped back into my life, as he usually did, when he had time scheduled to come back home to see family for the holidays. As always, I was excited to see him. But, for the first time, I was in a serious relationship, with a guy who 1) I had already considered breaking up with three times 2) things weren't good with and 3) I knew would never let me meet up with a guy he had never heard of who is an ex and one of my best friends.

The guy, we will call him S, -- well, before **** hit the fan with the now ex-boyfriend, I had a dream that was glimpse of my wedding. And the person I was marrying, was S. Now, over the years we have always said that if we turn 30 (okay, first it was 25, then we pushed it back) we would get married. I'm 30 now. But, as I hadn't thought of him "that way" very often or with any seriousness, this dream was obviously startling, and esp. considering I hadn't made up my mind to end things with the boyfriend.

I ended up telling S about it, and he told me he has had that same dream every time he has seen me or talked to me since we were 15 (which is when we first met/dated).

Then it took off like wildfire -- I mean think of every thing you've wanted a man to say to you about how he will love you in your most secret dreams, and he said them. He admitted he has buried secret feelings for me for years. And he never thought he'd get the chance..etc, etc, etc.

Things were absolutely wonderful. It had all started because I randomly asked him to take my ex's place on the cruise we had booked together, which he literally JUMPED at the chance, and that's when everything came out. Anyway, the first few days of the vacation were magical -- and then he started to realize he didn't REALLY know the adult me, and it freaked him the hell out. I saw the same thing, but I think I expected it, where as he had this whole pedestal thing going on with a fairy-tale ending and all that.

Mid-cruise he talks about how is having doubts, which freaks ME out, since I'm trapped on a cruise with him, can't run off and talk it over with my girlfriends, etc. Lesson learned: Have a contingency plan if taking a risk like that!

So end of cruise, things started to get better, but things were very mixed when we parted ways. We saw each other when he was home after that once, it was romantic (I let him lead, he took my hand, etc, BUT he wouldn't really kiss me goodbye -- talk about a confused person).

Then it was long-distance, which he said would have made sense if things had been perfect on the cruise/when he was home, but they weren't.

So it's been all confusing since. Finally I told him I was going to give up on him (since he wasn't making a decision one way or another, sending me texts about nonsense but not talking about us) -- and he agreed and we were back on, and I took a weekend trip down to see him.

While I was there...again, things were magical. There were a few "learning curve" things that happened, but he didn't notice them at the time. We'd fall asleep cuddling on an oversized chair, holding hands, etc, he'd stroke my hair, and he even told me he was happy.

Before I left I hid some love notes around his place -- four of them -- one was a short letter saying how happy I had been/excited I was to see what happened in the future, the rest were super short like "hey handsome, you're awesome" etc. That freaked him the HELL out and, he barely spoke to me for a few days after I left (which confused the heck out of me, since I thought we had this great weekend) -- and he basically said he had the same doubts as on the cruise, just in a different location, and asked me what we should do -- and I told him my thoughts, INCLUDING that he seems to not like me very much after all that (he was nitpicking, I'm leaving that out here) -- and that I wasn't sure what we should do -- should we give it time, think it over, etc? And he said, I don't know, and ...

that was the last I heard from him.

A week or so after communication died, I asked him if I misread our conversation and he really was trying to end it, but if I was wrong to let me know, and if that is the case to let me know so I can move on. He responded that he was busy with work but we could chat in a bit, and...never followed up.

His birthday was a week or so after that, so to be the bigger person (and in tribute to our friendship of 15 years) -- I sent him a very casual happy birthday message. He said thanks and sorry he's been working sunup to sundown, but nothing else. I responded very casual saying I figured, dont work too hard etc,

and...nothing since.

I've kind of reached an acceptance point... even though my heart is definitely broken, and I have major trust issues/confusion now, considering he was the *one* person I thought would never hang me out to dry like that.

I don't even know what to do if/when he does talk to me again, part of me is really mad, and part of me misses him so much. But then another part of me says, why should you miss him; he clearly doesn't feel the same way as you...

So, that's the story. Thanks for reading (if you did, whoeever is reading this) and thanks for offering all the feedback... and again, thanks for reminding me to listen to my own intuition.

I honestly don't know if he'd just drop me altogether for another girl, I can't say we were exclusive so it's not like it would be wrong for him to go in another direction. But to not talk to me at all..to leave me hanging... just doesn't fit with the person I've seen over the years, as far as how he relates to me and how much he tells me he cares about me.

Unless he just feels absolutely awful that this is all going wrong, or didn't go the way we hoped it would..but if that's the case, he still should know it's not nice to just leave me alone after everything that's been said and done.

Who knows, maybe spirit walker was right -- but after all that, even tho she did say it was over at first, she later said he is going to try to come back. And gave me a timeframe for contact (when he supposedly gets tired of this chick and dumps her).

... i just have no idea now. given how this past few weeks went, how it's not working the way we thought it would, how it's hard. How I don't know if I trust him now. How a part of me still loves him SO much for who he has been to me over the years, how there's nobody else I want.

In which case...they say everything happens for a reason... but I really can't see the reason for this, beyond a whole bunch of heartache. Ironic thing is, the timing of it all seemed absolutely perfect initially -- him coming home, cruise already planned, etc. It really did seem like it was meant to be. Then when I went down the second time, I found airport parking for super cheap, and flights just lined up right -- and he happened to have an extra day off that weekend we were talking about. So much seems so meant to be, and so much of it seems like a giant mess.

..even during our last real conversation, he did say he WAS happy that weekend and likes having me in his life and around. and when I said how this was all very confusing he said, no **** . So -- seems maybe he is just as confused as I am now, only he was that confused when I thought everything was mostly great.

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@Sunshineluv7
When I read with Stephanie Spirit Walker*** she told me I was the side chick and everything that rolled out about "M" was negative and she was correct however my instincts knew that "M" was not a good guy from early on I just got lost somewhere...BUT!!!!!!!!! SHE was 100000% WRONG about "K" the new guy that I was seeing, according to her he was suppose to propose in November/December...yeah didn't happen...last I heard from him he was posting a picture of his new gorgeous girlfriend on facebook...so if your instincts tell you differently about your guy TRUST your instincts.

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posted February 16, 2015 10:47 PM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
when you have nobody specific in your head just to ask when and who is coming in my life at certain time; NO psychic is accurate. seriously; when i was totally completely single, NO psychic could answer this question accurately. 100% off.
i guess they cannot catch accurately those come-&-go people in our life.
so i learnt to ask specific question, then it is better.

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The only one that has been accurate with this for me has been Astrid and Madisun for the most part.

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posted February 16, 2015 11:30 PM            

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Originally posted by minimini:
when you have nobody specific in your head just to ask when and who is coming in my life at certain time; NO psychic is accurate. seriously; when i was totally completely single, NO psychic could answer this question accurately. 100% off.
i guess they cannot catch accurately those come-&-go people in our life.
so i learnt to ask specific question, then it is better.

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posted February 17, 2015 12:07 AM            

There are two recently that have been accurate for me about recent events but I'm honestly not sure if its because THEY are accurate or if its just that I'm dating a guy that isn't a complete shitbag.

I went 6 months without readings. After a death in the family and a few relationship complications I spun out again. Spent about 400 this month, but I think (PRAY) that I am back on the right track again now.

posted February 17, 2015 01:00 AM            

Try not to wait on him, honestly if a couple "bad" days put him off, then he needs to grow (MAN) up. That's just lame.

I waited on a guy I once thought was the best ever ("the one" in my words) he didn't come back, looking back on it now I thank God for that. I deserve better.

I don't believe in "the one" anymore or the "best ever". It sounds sad but I'm now with a man who has seen the best and worst of me and accepts and loves me regardless, he has made me a better person (and he says I've done the same to him) and he treats me better than I've ever been treated. I don't know whats going to happen with us and psychics don't either (I haven't asked about long term, I don't need to know anymore) all I know is for the first time ever I'm genuinely happy in a relationship.

posted February 17, 2015 03:05 AM            

I actually had a few correct predictions with that question - from K4S, Sandie, Tarot by Lisa (maybe others I can't remember) they predicted various guys I did end up meeting BUT they said it would be serious relationship but nothing happened with them, no attraction on my part or just no chemistry...

posted February 17, 2015 12:28 PM            

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@Sunshine: how long has it been since you've heard from him?

Try not to wait on him, honestly if a couple "bad" days put him off, then he needs to grow (MAN) up. That's just lame.

I waited on a guy I once thought was the best ever ("the one" in my words) he didn't come back, looking back on it now I thank God for that. I deserve better.

I don't believe in "the one" anymore or the "best ever". It sounds sad but I'm now with a man who has seen the best and worst of me and accepts and loves me regardless, he has made me a better person (and he says I've done the same to him) and he treats me better than I've ever been treated. I don't know whats going to happen with us and psychics don't either (I haven't asked about long term, I don't need to know anymore) all I know is for the first time ever I'm genuinely happy in a relationship.

Whatever situation you're in, it will get better.

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Thanks happy

yeah, not waiting on him so much at this point -- its been a few weeks -- as much as mourning both our friendship, the shock of how much he didn't even try to preserve it, and what i thought being together would be like. Notice how the actual "us now" part is the last thing on the list.

I thought I was in a relationship like the one you described, but my heart wasn't in it 100% once he showed me his angry side. So from about 3-4 months in, I was half out the door. But, with him and my other "good" relationships, I never needed readings. Then again, I always ended up leaving the person. So, seems to me I either feel a lot for the person and its yet to work out, OR I don't feel enough.

Catch-22. Right now, I'm more like "I give up" in general on dating. I just don't want to even try, I think my trust in people is blown to pieces.

posted February 17, 2015 09:49 PM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
@Sunshine: how long has it been since you've heard from him?

Try not to wait on him, honestly if a couple "bad" days put him off, then he needs to grow (MAN) up. That's just lame.

I waited on a guy I once thought was the best ever ("the one" in my words) he didn't come back, looking back on it now I thank God for that. I deserve better.

I don't believe in "the one" anymore or the "best ever". It sounds sad but I'm now with a man who has seen the best and worst of me and accepts and loves me regardless, he has made me a better person (and he says I've done the same to him) and he treats me better than I've ever been treated. I don't know whats going to happen with us and psychics don't either (I haven't asked about long term, I don't need to know anymore) all I know is for the first time ever I'm genuinely happy in a relationship.

Whatever situation you're in, it will get better.

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I could have written this exact post.
It's so nice to be in a mental place where you no longer crave readings. I was at an all time low this past fall & after many months of nothing coming to pass from any readings I decided to take back control & stop wasting my hard earned money. The man I spent thousands looking for answers on still haunts my mind but I realize now he never saw my worth so he's useless....

posted February 17, 2015 10:53 PM            

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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
I could have written this exact post.
It's so nice to be in a mental place where you no longer crave readings. I was at an all time low this past fall & after many months of nothing coming to pass from any readings I decided to take back control & stop wasting my hard earned money. The man I spent thousands looking for answers on still haunts my mind but I realize now he never saw my worth so he's useless....

Good for u Happyaskings!

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Yeah, honestly I was completely out of the "too much psychics" loop for years. Sure I may get a reading or maybe two if someone was confusing me, but I'd generally drop it -- and while situationally many times the reader was right, the outcomes of the reader who was my primary were wrong. So she's no longer my primary, though she did get me through some tough times.

It's ironic, I thought I was passed that phase of my life, and though I am ten zillion times better even now than back then, I guess if I interact with someone (soulmate?) who makes a big impact on me I can't shake it off the way I usually do. But I have to say, I am SO proud of myself for how far I've come in dealing with ****** situations with men/men-children ... though I may have spent a lot of money the past 2 months on readings, It's nothing even close to what I spent in the past. I've got eyes wide open this time, and much more balance in my life.

So perhaps what they say is true, soulmates do show up to show us what we need to change about ourselves. This journey with the most recent one has really led me to a lot of self-digging (mainly started by Jamey) -- and then a lot to owning my "feminine power". I'm really liking all the positive changes that part of it is bringing about in my life.

And, back to the other guy -- I didn't have quality readers back then. Well, okay, one I did (the one I mentioned already, whom I "fired") -- and she was right about how my feelings changed for the man who was the focus back then. The first time she told me I wouldn't want him back I was floored, but that's what happened.

That man, well, he was definitely a soulmate. We didn't get together again in a romantic way (except for a one night thing, which felt off to me, so I didn't pursue it) -- but we were always super close, as in, major crisis I was one of three people he would talk to about things, even if we hadn't spoken in months. We had a lot of love for each other. He was KIA in Afghanistan this year, may his soul rest in peace. <3

I wonder if that's what will happen with the current guy -- I hope not, though. Granted, situation is a lot different. I have come a long way since Soulmate Number One.

How many soulmates do you guys think you have met/interacted with so far? People who really impact you. Doesn't have to be a romantic relationship.

I'd say my mom is one, too -- just because there has been SO much learning involved there, and probably my dad, because he's been my sanity by having my mom as my mom. Ha!

posted February 17, 2015 11:59 PM            

in terms of soulmates, I think I have blessed with more than a few... unless they're karmic connections.

There's a difference I think with karmic relationship and soulmate, karmic tend to be a triggering experience, but 'soulmate' changes you in a more deeper level, and I think it's less temporary (and more mutual).

My parents are definitely karmic in their relation to me. they presented the biggest challenges in my life, and forced me to look at myself and test my own resolve in life. Despite the tremendous agony, in a way it taught me a lot and hardened me in such way that really help the way I deal with people and business.

My longest-staying friend of 14 yrs, a penpal that we only met three times in our lives. Maybe she's more like a soul mate, but I would say karmic because we trigger things we dont want to face (yet I think they're lessons in life, I become a better person because of it). We're still friends of course.

My first love, a woman. 13 years ago. She changed me in a way I have to face myself in more intimate level, it was an upheaval.

My first boyfriend, an army soldier also. the relationship was not good as it rifed with cheating(s) from his side but the event forced me to face my deepest issue and accept a wound in my heart, the things I was running away from. he left, but I soared.

I've had other lovers inbetween but they seem to be more like regular companionships, although I did learn about myself along the way. After the boyfriend, I stopped dating & even sex for 5-6 yrs (even now)

Soulmates, I think, I've met a couple.

My good male friend, we don't talk much since we have a distance, but I feel we were family or a type of comrade in past life. No matter how many years has passed, when we meet up again, it's as if we never really separated. There's no romantic tone whatsoever between us, it's a very comforting & dependable connection.

SG - he triggered a side I never knew, was the first one who was attracted to my skill & mind rather than my looks (I was pretty much a butch looking woman) and meeting him triggered series of rapid expansion of self in relationship realm (with others). I triggered the same in him, but he's a young soul, and I don't think we're meant to be together romantically, but the strange connection is still there. he started as a mentor, but now I'm the mentor.

OD- he triggered a LOT of my current development and confidence, and most importantly, my relationship with my female self. Too many coincidences, too strange and deep of a bond, complicated & boring to write again, but I am deeply thankful of our meet, even if it ended like this.

newest karmic connection would be the new guy I met in January [RH], i met him directly just after my heart was broken by OD- in another country (in an industry conference). He triggered many untouched sides of my feminine self. a LOT of coincidences as well. I am not sure if we'll ever meet again, but if we do, maybe it's not merely karmic.

So now I view future 'meetings'/people as something good & to further my expansion of self in life. Less attachment, and i feel things has started to fall into place so clearly after I let go my biggest attachments : fear of abandonment and low sense of worth (due to deeply personal issue), and reclaimed my womanly qualities with pride.

posted February 24, 2015 01:58 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
This may have been brought up before but I'm going to ask anyway. Anyone have experience with AV's candle work? Did it work for you? Even any candle work or honey jars. Anyone ever try either not necessarily done by a reader but on their own?

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