posted April 05, 2015 10:10 AM            

I felt like breaking down after getting that reading. The reader said it was a message from my spirit guide who told me not to pursue the relationship with him. I was confused by this advice because I thought my spirit guide would help me. It honestly made me feel like I wasnt in charge of my life and somehow fate had determined everything. I do feel a good reader should always provide advice and not bring you to dead ends.

@peacefulclouds

posted April 05, 2015 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Sometimes we have to do what we feel is right in our gut and not listen to others. Psychic or not. At the end of the day it's up to us what we do. I would try not to let it get to me and move on from the experience of the reading. I was going to someone I trusted quite a bit as a reader and she told me that the relationship I had with someone was done and over. Well guess what? She was WRONG! She said he wouldn't communicate again and guess what, he did! Said he wouldn't want to see me again and guess what, he does! So psychics aren't always right no matter who they tell us is giving them the information. This info came from the "spirit guides" as well. So you do what you feel is best for you.

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I agree with Fairy on this one, that we have to trust our own intuition. The flipside of this is sometimes we are too close to our own situations and are unable to see other perspectives. We can end up selfishly pushing our needs onto others. Either way, in the end we should take responsibility for whatever choices we make.

posted April 05, 2015 03:58 PM            

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Originally posted by SereneDaze:
@fairydust75

I felt like breaking down after getting that reading. The reader said it was a message from my spirit guide who told me not to pursue the relationship with him. I was confused by this advice because I thought my spirit guide would help me. It honestly made me feel like I wasnt in charge of my life and somehow fate had determined everything. I do feel a good reader should always provide advice and not bring you to dead ends.

@peacefulclouds

Thanks for sharing that beautiful explanation on free will. I understand it so much better now.

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The reader could be right and just wants you to avoid heartbreak, and he/she could be wrong as well. At the end of the day..you will end up doing what you want anyway, as you should..

I have a client who fro/m the beginning I have told that a man isn't good for her (as the readings kept showing), but she continued seeing him and getting readings about him anyway. I never said it as a personal opinion type of way though, just what the cards/guides were saying. Maybe that's what the reader saw for you, and wants you to avoid that?

In the end, the guy was bad for her and they separated for good. But she still gets readings on him (I can't blame her because I do readings about exes myself). But this is just an example of what this particular reader might have seen in your situation, and perhaps wants you to avoid it. In the end, nothing the reader says will interfere if you are truly meant to be with that person - no matter what.

Either way, you will end up doing what you are destined to do.

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Tarot Readings by Me

posted April 05, 2015 04:04 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
Sometimes we have to do what we feel is right in our gut and not listen to others. Psychic or not. At the end of the day it's up to us what we do. I would try not to let it get to me and move on from the experience of the reading. I was going to someone I trusted quite a bit as a reader and she told me that the relationship I had with someone was done and over. Well guess what? She was WRONG! She said he wouldn't communicate again and guess what, he did! Said he wouldn't want to see me again and guess what, he does! So psychics aren't always right no matter who they tell us is giving them the information. This info came from the "spirit guides" as well. So you do what you feel is best for you.

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“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets."

Tarot Readings by Me

posted April 05, 2015 06:25 PM            

You can read many examples of readers giving rosy predictions and nothing happened and you can also read examples (less though) of readers saying the guy isn't good and it was actually true.

What you need is more information, is there anything you can confirm that the reader was right about? (about the relationship).

I remember years ago I had a reading, I was thinking about whether to get back with my ex - the reader said that I'm only thinking of doing it cause I'm scared (true) but that my ex is not a marriage material - he will not commit. I thought that was wrong, he was just the type to get married... well I didn't get back to him, he's married now (3 years or so I think). As soon as she told me that I thought - no, you're wrong. Later I questioned if she could be right .... so trust that initial thought.

Someone asked about DLD - I had a reading with her last Sep - not sure what to think... She said I'd meet someone end of Oct or Nov (nope). Her description of the guy was a bit vague so I can't know for sure if it's the current guy... some things can be applied to this guy, some can't.. so I don't know...

posted April 06, 2015 09:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
I wanted to share an experience I had with DLD. She/He for some reason I feel DLD is female. Do you guys know?

Ok so she answered my questions, contacted her for questions I have never asked before. Towards the end she answered a question I did not ask at all wasn't on my mind and its not a general question many people would have its a very personal question. Which left me in awe.
Have you guys ever had a reader answer what's exactly on your mind without you asking said question.

What's your experience like with DLD?
Any of her predictions happen for you?

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posted April 06, 2015 10:11 AM            

spiritual andrea stuck to her prediction and gave me insight, and is very good at calming me down (this was days ago when I found out fresh)

toria sorta rejected my call few times, she said she doesnt, but clearly I always unable to call her, unregistered also. what everz

dld said not over, he's coming back, and she's sticking to what she said but cant give insight beyond and said bye.

stephanie theresa - ...

I was soooo ready to get my ass handed with blunt truth, even finished my pack of cigs before calling her. I wanted closure and she is very ethical so I know she wont sugarcoat... but her reading was very positive which confused the heck outta me. back in dec she could detect the gf, but not this time... and he;s getting married.

stephanie & andrea predict contact before june, and definitely before marriage, stephanie cannot say whether the marriage will take place or not, she can only see energy and his energy is absent from the other relationship, only confusion and have only me in his thoughts at the moment.

the reason seem to stem from the fact I blocked him from FB, the only way he can keep track on me :I guess he did stalk me huh.. absence, hearts go fonder, etc.

(stephanie theresa has been accurate for me, I asked about two guys and both have distinct personality which she caught very well, even their approach, so I know she's legit)

posted April 06, 2015 10:34 AM            

the only possible reason other than that, may be his birthday, which is right around the corner (end of month). I'll let him have it then too.

I confronted ALL positive readers, and many of them changed prediction, only few stuck their guns..

the 'No' reader, right from very beginning:
Cherokee Dawn
Helena Louis
Maya reynolds (more like not recommending)
Gia Clarity
Abundant Vision (more like ambiguous w slight interest but said wont contact me anymore- tho she told me he wont get married, this was before I knew they had set the date)
some fiverr greek psychic I forgot
happyspace fiverr

Changed (slightly or lots, same diff)
steveblackfoot positive to semi negative
Angela positive to vague as hell
Stephanie Theresa from ambiguous to positive (??? anomaly)
some others that I dont care to list

predicted his marriage but stil yes
mysticwisdom

predicted his marriage and said no (as in do not think about it anymore)
Rares Mardare

predicted his engagement ('hurtful news') and told me I will get super hurt and advise me to block SH everywhere out of pity to my grief
Moonlight

'yes' readers- stuck to guns or simpy just had reading once
DLD - > stuck to guns
psychicreader - > stuck to guns
Spiritual Andrea - > stuck to guns
Jennifer Louis Hay - > stuck to guns
Rachel Marie (timeline may)
Sophie (back in oct, timeline mid year this year)

posted April 06, 2015 11:07 AM            

my guess is
if he contacts me, he wont go through the marriage

(NOT because of me, but because it means he's heavily doubting himself- which maybe why he might contact in the first place... which is not easy for his pride/ego to do since I have blocked everything except phone and email. )

if he doesn;t contact me, then he will go through the marriage. pretty simple.

posted April 06, 2015 11:20 AM            

rares was accurate to me. he saw what it was, and what it wasnt or hadnt had the chance to become, and foresaw his marriage. however, keep in mind he does not seem to recommend pursuing 'taken' or otherwise unavailable ppl, he would say 'well gotta let go then' if he found out that fact.

posted April 06, 2015 01:09 PM            

On personal experience I rarely ask readers about love/a man. The last time I asked a reader about a man was to LidiaLadele on bitwine- my childs father started contacting me it was weird usually he never contacts not even to ask how his child is doing (strangely transit node was over my natal venus: this aspect is said to bring past lovers to the fore but just for the duration of the transit, also a guy I use to talk to came back into the picture as well). He started jabbering about how he wants to be apart of his life and yada yada I was weirded out by it (this person is very irresponsible it was a shocker) so I asked Lidia-what's the deal? Why all of sudden such interest she said don't take anything to heart while I do see that he has good intentions I'd hate to say it but its only temporary. She was right two months in with checking in with his son and skyping and then silence haven't heard from him since.

My reading with DLD wasn't rosey least not that I think so semi positive and semi negative imo, it was all about me.

posted April 06, 2015 01:42 PM            

we still talk via phone (messenger) but I dont get readings from him as we're more like friends (sent him coffee when I was in europe)

posted April 06, 2015 04:07 PM            

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Originally posted by FairyDust75:
I've talked to him a few times now. He has been accurate on the situation and what's going on with the person I asked about. Little off on the timing, but then again everyone is always a little off, not a major deal breaker there. He gave me a prediction for this week so I'm hoping it comes to pass. I like him and want to believe he is correct. He coincides ALOT with what AV is saying. So my theory is if you have two people saying the same things and even at times pulling the same cards on the matter, something must be right.

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