posted May 12, 2015 12:13 AM            

For some reason, the negative outcome ones, despite my head telling me they were maybe right/logical (no more contact/it has ended etc) I was proven wrong by ones who did predict contact (with specificities) out of the blue, or some weird gesture that I didn't expect from the guy. So it is strange, but now I realize I'm probably is the most negative in the whole experience.

Now I have criteria for a trusted reader and my list is pretty low.

ps: DLD/Psychic reader no longer will accept my money, but they read for me for free at times because 'things are still on its course, no need to pay because I have nothing new to say, and it will all make sense to you if not now'.

I have read a lot of their reading over the year and despite my anger/bad feelings because of the engagement, in hindsight they did predict it (in a few words) and foresaw the current situation coming. I guess despite their cheap rate & simple wordings, they are genuinely psychic- and they don't avoid me despite I gave them bad rating before (which I took off because the surprise contact prediction actually came true) so that shows integrity.

Stephanie Theresa style is good for me because she can sense when I am in real vulnerable state and will act accordingly without giving me sugarcoated reading. She is consistent and will explain why she can't see x, and wont give me hope if it is not there. She will help and not too money minded (some readers will stick it to your face that they have been generous in the past). Her style is fair and just, so I will stick to her.

Count marco put too much of his judgement into his readings, he may be gifted but he's not for me. he doesn't seem to attuned to the client's real intention, and judge you based on what you ask. I had to explain my action and told him to stop judging me from my questions because OF COURSE I ask while in vulnerable state, or else why I go to a psychic? My action outside is of course different. Aand then he told me 'well thank you that changes everything. so your prediction is... [insert less judgemental outcome]'. That is a waste of minutes.

I also wont go to psychics that will make BOLD predictions on the very first reading, because usually they will backtrack.

I liked spiritual andrea & dino, they were very bold and made bold predictions, in Spiritual andrea's case many do come true (most of them) but then when I came to her in vulnerable state asking for clarification of a few things, she ended up telling me she knows how to cut the cord... (twinflame cord lol) so everything will be as if I never met him. (what) She wasted my mins by not answering my questions and focusing on that runner dynamic while I was asking about other things. I had to tell her to get back on track. She is nice and accurate but unfortunately that experience soured me. I knew she meant well that I am hurting but I wish she answered my questions first instead of that, and even if twinflame thing is right, ******** if we can cut it just like that (in my experience it has to be from our willpower to decide, part of karma lesson to endure and decide). She is nice though.

Dino is nice and made bold predictions, but it's understandable as we know each other more he saw how complex the situation is and backtracks a bit. So thats why i'm wary of bold predictors now. But he is nice.. I might go back to him because we do connect on other things

Cherooke intuitive dawn does not work for me because her reading ended up wrong at first I was hurting because it sounded right- that SH was focused on his life, have an awesome energy and have a strong female presence and happy with his life, busy with his life. at the time of the reading she said he doesn't think of me much at all, and will only reach out when he's sad or have problems. I accepted that and tried to move on because it sounded right.

...Then SH contacted me, & when we had drunk phone call he told me he had been thinking of texting me for at least 4 weeks before he did so (because he wanted to respect my wish- that exceeds the time when Dawn read for me), and from my friend I found out he's been drinking excessively again (who knows why) even went blackout drunk once or twice ever since we stopped taking in January. So unfortunately, Cherokee Dawn was very wrong.

Skarlet Rae (Crimson Red)has been really good unfortunately her rate is too far out of my budget, but she had been giving me discounts and has been very nice, but for now I don't think I can read with her due to budget constraints (as I have been cutting down my reading since Astrid in end of April anyway) as she is very good at present time /making sense of things, great empath and far future but do not see timeline.

I also will not use psychics that veer off and start telling me I will have new man coming in my life while I am asking about a specific situation... it's ok if I was asking a general love reading, but when I was asking about a specific person, I wont appreciate 5 mins wasted talking about someone else coming in especially if their rate is not cheap. Count Marco, J L Hay and some others are like this. They may be good but just does not jive.

Abundant Vision is good for contact timeframe, however last time she read for me she told me things are final- she's sorry she does not see anymore contact from him to me anymore- yet she was wrong- he contacted me out of the blue 2 weeks later. She did say no matter what the reading she gave me, she said with much confidence that she does not see him making it to the altar with his fiance- marriage wont happen.

posted May 12, 2015 12:13 AM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Just wanted to make sure he's good.

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posted May 12, 2015 12:21 AM            

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Originally posted by bella84:
Hey ILovePoems - I had a few readings with Akashic soul but they were mostly past life readings and on past relationships. My sister on the other hand had a reading with him about her career a few months ago - and he said she would get a job through connections within 2 months and she did. It was also in line with what Steve predicted.

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posted May 12, 2015 12:49 AM            

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Good! His reading with me lined up with Steve too. Finally someone saw my post lol

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posted May 12, 2015 01:07 AM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Skarlet Rae (Crimson Red)has been really good unfortunately her rate is too far out of my budget, but she had been giving me discounts and has been very nice, but for now I don't think I can read with her due to budget constraints, as she is very good at present time /making sense of things, great empath and far future but do not see timeline.

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Hi peacefulclouds,

Thank you for the review on here. That was nice and kind of you. And yes, you're right I don't see time.. I just see what'll happen, and cannot tell anyone when. There have been those, for whom it's happened soon, even immediately. For some it took years. Time, for me, is too elusive intuitively. :/

And just fyi... you do know that I'm on Bitwine now, right? And I run specials sometimes, for short, few question type things. Just so that option is available too.

Another thing I'd like to say. (I don't come on here often, but when I do I read around, and) I saw some posts about people going to psychics who tell them that there was a curse put on them... that they have negative energy that was put on them and needs to be cleared, lifted, etc., etc., Actually in the past few days there was even talk on Bitwine Community about exaclty that. Anyway...

Now I'm sure there are many opinions out there about this... and I'm sure that many might not agree with me... and I'm putting a disclaimer here because it seems many times when I post (and out of good intentions) there are those that start drama... so this is my experience, my knowledge and my outlook only!... so, with that said, I'll also say that I can only give you my 38 years worth of professional experience and personal experience also (myself and friends).

To put it short and concise, those are all scams!!! Actually it's that simple!!!

I've been told things when I went to some local psychics decades ago. Things like, put 3 strands of my hair and $50 in a jar, each night for 3 nights and then bring her the jar w/my 9 hairs and $150. And she'll take the curse off of me coz someone burried it in a cemetary. Ugh!!! Lol... she might as well have told me that I have 2 heads and she wants to amputate one... lol, as much as you can believe those horrid/lying/awfully stupid things. Now that was early 80's, so that would equate to a lot more $'s now.

A friend of mine was told to take a jar, spit in it, take what the psychic gave her written on a piece of paper and add it to her spit... drive backwards on a bridge at midnight and throw it in the water. My friend lived in San Fransisco, and I'm sure you all know what bridge is there. As if anyone could do that/!?!? But either way.. there is no bridge to do that on... that's not possible.. it's dangerous and could be deadly. So what a bunch of crap!

I mean did you guys read about that gypsie family psychic, who scammed close to or over 1.5 million from a famous author, by telling her that she/the psychic, has a special room in St. Patrick's Cathedral, and that her money will be put there to be 'cleansed'... and the author BELIEVED her?!?!?! (caps for emphasis, not yelling)

And I can go on and on and on with stories.

I mean I can understand wanting to go to several readers.. to get several angles and inputs.. but please do be careful. The moment the word 'curse' appears... run!

They are all scams and I hope that you guys are vigilent enough that you don't fall for anything while you're vulnerable and wanting/needing answers. There are many scammers out there, so please do be careful. Because it's not only a matter of wasting money. It's not only wasting your time. But when your heart hurts, and you're seeking answers, I advocate seeking a person/psychic who understands that and cares about you and your well being and happiness as a client.

Now I know that there are disclaimers 'for entertainment only' and the such, but I also am keenly aware that you.. those who visit psychics (for the most part) are bringing your heart in your hands and are genuinely distressed, looking for insight and answers (most of the time).

Ok, I'll get off the soapbox now. Just wanted to share this, coz I hate to see a client/you go to a reading with positive anticipation, a hand full of money, just to then be disappointed and hurt weeks or months later.

Wishing you all a lovely evening.

Love & Light!
God Bless!
Skarlet
(Skarlet Rae, Crimson Red)

PS... just thought of something, peacefulclouds, and am adding: Now again, I feel I need to explain my intent, since it's been so often misunderstood... so what I'm going to say is only an explanation, because I feel it's not known.

You see, peacefulclouds, when I do a couple of short readings, with a few specific questions, it's an entirely different situation (even when it's a short phone conversation), it's different from ongoing. With those that I have ongoing conversations with... well we then talk. It's not rushed by the minute... it's time spent and clarity found, advice that comes intuitively, that which works (if it's workable). Then there's a relaxed interchange and I'm able to tell her how he's going to act and be next time she sees him... or in the next couple of times he will act this way and that way... in other words I get lots of detail towards the relationship, but it's a conversation, and not rushed. I guess what I do best is guide. My private clients usually come to me only and I guide them through a situation to the end. They usually have a situation that seems extremely difficult or impossible... and sometimes it is, and then that person doesn't stay with me. But I can tell if it's impossible or if it'll be and then if it'll be I guide. I've seen so many marriages and happy unions and it absolutely THRILLS me!!! I love seeing couples happily together. So yes, I am not your average 'soothesayer'. I guess I'm a heart specialist, helping bring people together. But I also understand those that just want a short reading, find out what's going to happen and get variety. But I just said what I did, coz I just wanted to clarify.
Thanks for taking the time to read all this.

posted May 12, 2015 03:31 AM            

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@SophiaFrank, was it you? I always confuse you and @Star :P and yes it is!!! Some on these men are gorgeous/seem really nice and I'm like how in the world are you single >__> something must be going on with you! hahaha

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LOL! I think the same thing..but looks aren't all. Omg, I met the cutest guy once online..his breath was horrible and I hated the way he kissed. Never again..plus he was boring. So yea, looks aren't everything, for sure! Haha..

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posted May 12, 2015 06:57 AM            

I have been centering myself (ongoing process for sure), so no paid readings because in the end I don't want to waste anyone's time. Time is money, I understand, and when I'm vulnerable I know I have a tendency to punish myself in someways, including at times spending on -something- because I don't drink anymore, so now I made a decision to not do anything and suck it up- as unfortunately I also need to save up for my medical needs.

Though I was in shambles the other day and Stephanie, DLD helped me, in a way I appreciate them for not charging/being generous because they knew how much I was hurting about everything, but I also knew to not take advantage of them (I think they also knew that, trust required from both sides) and definitely not and wont be the norm. But this reminds me I shouldn't be too dependent like this.

You are great, and you are very gifted! please don't take this the wrong way, I recorded our session and re-read your email readings, they brought a lot of clarity and still does, so I won't forget that, so thanks for all your help & wisdom

posted May 12, 2015 11:07 AM            

Still letting the reading sink in, it seems realistic to me, and actually the meat of it matches up with what Gaylene (AbundantVisions) said.

I know I said I was done after trying to have my latest chat with AV, but she hasn't been available (her queue was 16+ last night!!!). I think I am still going to talk to AV, but I will space that out to get me through May, and then there's not much to read on until Mr. Houdini decides to come back around.

...those of you who contacted your man and took control, I respect you and wish it would work for me. But this one has shown me he flat out ignores me until he's ready to talk, so I've kind of given up trying. I don't think it holds true for everyone that reaching out yourself will make a difference. I've done it in the past with a few different men -- and it didn't change things one bit. Or, maybe it made them worse. Who knows. It definitely didn't make them better. But I'm glad it has for you two (or three)!!

posted May 12, 2015 11:46 AM            

The guy indirectly tried to contact me tonight via a mutual friend's social media post (one of those online quiz results) but i blocked him so I don't see his comment under mine until she mentioned him also. He knew I was commenting because a friend mentioned me. Mind you, he's been MIA there otherwise.

posted May 12, 2015 12:07 PM            

so no, I wont talk to him because honestly this has been repeated many times and I get hurt in the end so this time he 100% knows what to do if he doesn't want to lose me & it's not a rocket science. it's his life, his choice.

I made my boundary, he can choose to abide it or not, not my problem, it's his (as painful as it is for me cause I still love him anyways)

cause i'm pretty sure no fiancee is happy to hear her fiance can't let go of his friend who is in love with him. how dubious is that???

posted May 12, 2015 12:10 PM            

well, I just can't wait til the day you post that he contacted you to tell you he broke off the engagement Or she did because obviously his heart isn't (fully) in it with her.

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LOL! I think the same thing..but looks aren't all. Omg, I met the cutest guy once online..his breath was horrible and I hated the way he kissed. Never again..plus he was boring. So yea, looks aren't everything, for sure! Haha..

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posted May 12, 2015 12:53 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Hi Crimson, I think you're great no questioning that, it's just I don't get paid by the hour like in USA or Canada- Indonesia's currency is very weak, here's the boring way to explain just in case: 1 dollar USD is equal 14000 which is a full meal here, and from my current job(s) averagely I only make about 710 a month sans bonus (as you know from emails my work is a bit unique- I barter my time/consultation with travel chances etc).
You were my most expensive reader, and you are very worth it but one I personally can't afford unfortunately, and I know how weak I can be at times :/ especially lately due to my health. I need to take care of myself.

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Also please know that I thoroughly appreciate the sessions you took with me and I'm glad I was of help. I hope you are taking good care of yourself!

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I have been centering myself (ongoing process for sure), so no paid readings because in the end I don't want to waste anyone's time. Time is money, I understand, and when I'm vulnerable I know I have a tendency to punish myself in someways, including at times spending on -something- because I don't drink anymore, so now I made a decision to not do anything and suck it up- as unfortunately I also need to save up for my medical needs.

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Though I was in shambles the other day and Stephanie, DLD helped me, in a way I appreciate them for not charging/being generous because they knew how much I was hurting about everything, but I also knew to not take advantage of them (I think they also knew that, trust required from both sides) and definitely not and wont be the norm. But this reminds me I shouldn't be too dependent like this.

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You are great, and you are very gifted! please don't take this the wrong way, I recorded our session and re-read your email readings, they brought a lot of clarity and still does, so I won't forget that, so thanks for all your help & wisdom

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My heart's with you sweetie. Wishing you all the best always.. Love & Light! God Bless!