posted March 30, 2015 02:29 PM            

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Originally posted by lilacbreeze:
Hi Crimson - thanks so much. can I ask for a general reading - any insights or advice for me at this point in my life right now? Please let me know if that's ok if you need a more specific question.

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Yes. Please refer to my original post. There I explain that I'm doing a question, no generals at this time.

The more specific you are the better, for what I'm doing right now.

posted March 30, 2015 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
Cards say that this relationship started by one wanting the other more and that it's been going on for a while. It says that you're giving the relationship mixed reviews because sometimes it makes you happy and other times you want more, and it's not really moving along as you'd like. The relationship will continue, say the cards, he has eyes for only you.
All the best with louis!

This is correct... I do have mixed reviews and I did want more in the past. He is back now in my life and it seems really interested. Ty kindly for the accurate reading:-)

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posted March 30, 2015 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
Thank you, ILovePoems,
Glad you enjoyed.
Well, I can only tell you what the cards said. Naturally you would like to know that from him (that he likes many of your qualities). But think of this... WHO would EVER say to another "Hey, I REALLY like your qualities, but I gotta go now... c u later" See what I mean? So he has to keep his thoughts about you close to his vest and not let on, unless he'd be ready to have more with you, which at this time, as you know, he's not doing. Make sense? (caps for emphasis, not yelling)

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posted March 30, 2015 02:37 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:

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Ok. Thanks for the feedback. Hope you have a nice trip.

(Just proves I read hearts and minds, even with cards... lol, and I'm not a 'soothesayer' *wink*)

posted March 30, 2015 02:42 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:

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Thank you for your feedback. My heart goes out to you for your situation, but I can only tell you what the cards said. I'm sorry if it didn't resonate.

posted March 30, 2015 02:46 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
Oh, Caprika... thank you so much for your feedback!!!

You just made my heart do a little happy dance!!!

I love, Love, LOVE, seeing good relationships progress and solidify! Yeay!

Also, just got a flash for you... he's more romantic than you are... lol LOL (laughing out of pleasure, not funniness)... has he shown that to you yet? Oh he's such a cutie!!! (personality of showing loving little private things). If he hasn't, he'll be doing lovely little affectionate actions towards you... doing little things for you, to show you he remembers what you like and cares and wants to make you happy.

You'll have to let me know when he bring the ring It's only a matter of time.

All the best and God Bless!

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Crimson,

you are the best of the best of the best! So accurate!

He is very romantic! He does show little lovely affectionate gestures towards me that tells me how much he cares and remembers every little thing I tell him! He catches me in surprise sometimes because I would have no idea he remembered something I said 6 months ago.

I just told him what you said, and his only reaction was: "I am speechless!".

Now, he has a special request, if you don't mind. He asked me to ask you to tell him " How do I feel about him".

Can you do that, if you have a chance, my dear? If not, then I totally understand, you did already a lot for me.
I've told him how I feel about him but he wants to hear it from you....awww

posted March 30, 2015 02:46 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
Yes. Please refer to my original post. There I explain that I'm doing a question, no generals at this time.

The more specific you are the better, for what I'm doing right now.

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posted March 30, 2015 02:49 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Thank you CrimsonRed
You're right he's a baby, despite being 50. And his decision is cerebral for sure and for better or for worse, I understand completely why he chose her, based on what I saw (I visited his childhood home at his wish to see his parents, which explains why he's naive in a way) and the fact we're decades apart in age.

I also don't see them staying in marriage long, but it's his path to take & learn I guess.

Thank you for your sweet words and thoughts, it's a healing balm for me at this moment. much blessings and love to you.

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You're very welcome, sweet peacefulclouds. You seem like a lovely gal. And if I may give you my 2 cents. I've seen much in my years of being an advisor. Many times in life, the universe (God) sends us situations in our lives that test us and strech us to where we don't want to go. That make us give and not get anything in return, or not much. Situations that we put ourselves into (put our hearts into) and that bring us nothing but disappointment and sadness. They are not for naught. Believe an old lady, ok? You deserve a man who will love you and give to you. Fully! And even if it takes time for that to manifest in our lives, it's worth waiting for. Because once it happens, all the past disappointments and pains fly out the window and we only feel the joy of that love. Like childbirth. Ask any mother. They don't care about the pain they had. It was worth their precious child. May love be born and blossom for you very soon, Amen!
God Bless!

posted March 30, 2015 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Vivi327:

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You're very welcome. My pleasure.
That's great, that he's back (in presumption that naturally you wanted him back). Hopefully he realized what he didn't before and you two will no longer need mixed reviews, but will have all rave reviews
Wishing you all the best!

posted March 30, 2015 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
Funny girl... lol That's a timing question :P Pick another, please

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So sorry... I thought that you can't give exact time but more over all. Sorry.

Will ask another: What do you see in a relationship (it's not romantic anymore, more just like trying to be friends) with me and Him?

posted March 30, 2015 02:54 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Yep, it makes sense now lol But hopefully he will come out of it an tell me how he feels instead of holding it in :3

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I hope that for you too. Since this was just a little mini thing I'm doing here, I didn't look further into the future. Wishing you all the best with him!

posted March 30, 2015 02:56 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
Thank you for your feedback. My heart goes out to you for your situation, but I can only tell you what the cards said. I'm sorry if it didn't resonate.

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posted March 30, 2015 02:59 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
I hope that for you too. Since this was just a little mini thing I'm doing here, I didn't look further into the future. Wishing you all the best with him!

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posted March 30, 2015 03:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:

Crimson,

you are the best of the best of the best! So accurate!

He is very romantic! He does show little lovely affectionate gestures towards me that tells me how much he cares and remembers every little thing I tell him! He catches me in surprise sometimes because I would have no idea he remembered something I said 6 months ago.

I just told him what you said, and his only reaction was: "I am speechless!".

Now, he has a special request, if you don't mind. He asked me to ask you to tell him " How do I feel about him".

Can you do that, if you have a chance, my dear? If not, then I totally understand, you did already a lot for me.
I've told him how I feel about him but he wants to hear it from you....awww

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Awww.. you guys are just TOO cute... lol.

I don't have to throw the cards, I already feel stuff and I'll tell you in a minute...but I will throw the cards... hang on a sec..

The cards say that you feel like he's a soul mate... that you have a spiritual connection to him. That you are TOTALLY in love with him, nobody else really exists for you. That he's brought the love and caring into your life that you've been missing for a loooooooong time.. that you've been wishing for but were almost afraid to want anymore. You tried not to let your emotions run away with you, but you couldn't help it. You felt it and fell in love. This was a while ago. It's not that recent. You've just waited until you felt sure (because of past experiences and disappointments) that he too felt towards you with love, before you started letting him know. Even then, though, you were a bit slow and reserved in letting it all 'hang out' and letting him know.
He's very sensitive and thrives on knowing how you feel. It fuels his love for you even more, because even though he's a big strong man, capable and successful, his heart is sensitive and loving and vulnerable.
You know.. you too can coo all you want to each other, it'll only make each other feel better. I don't see either one of you hurt the other. Let those loving little inner children out to play... they crave each other desparately!
So now, I've combined what the cards said and what I feel.
Hope you enjoyed (and what I said resonates).

posted March 30, 2015 03:07 PM            

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Originally posted by lilacbreeze:
Ok thanks, Crimson. I do have a career question that I would appreciate you taking a look at for me. I have been accepted to a few grad school programs and am in the process of accepting one offer and declining the others. is this the right choice for me? I'd like to know how I will do in this program. Thanks again and sending you lots of warm wishes

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Hi again

So I threw the cards. Very interesting. I don't understand it, so I threw a few more, but I'll tell you all it says. Maybe it makes sense to you. (and please know my disclaimer... I'm more in tune w/people and feelings and thoughts than trying to soothesay a situation, if you know what I mean). Anyway... here's what it said:

That there was a guy or is a guy who was advising you to go one way, but that you didn't listen to him.. that you're not listening to his advice but doing what you think is the best. The cards say that there's also a woman (might be you) who was upset at his advise. Then I threw the cards again, as I said and it said that you are making the right decision. That because of your good decision, you will experience lots of financial success. Not only that, but you will enjoy and do well. Your courses will fully occupy your mind and focus, but you will enjoy it all. I hope that resonates. And I wish you all the best in your schooling.

posted March 30, 2015 03:11 PM            

(just to be clear- we were friends/knew each other long before he started dating the current lady (right after we had a huge argument and long silence). they moved quite fast- engaged in less than 9 months - and I pulled myself when he did, so I am in no way his 'affair' or what have you, just in case the age thing create a perception.)

posted March 30, 2015 03:18 PM            

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Originally posted by LostSoulRebecca:
So sorry... I thought that you can't give exact time but more over all. Sorry.

Will ask another: What do you see in a relationship (it's not romantic anymore, more just like trying to be friends) with me and Him (G)?

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Thanks, sweetie.. that I can answer...

The cards say, as you said, that this is a romantic situation lost-broken. That he does like you a LOT. That he still has some feelings for you, but that he has felt inferior and felt (actually still feels) that he cannot do what makes you happy. Not because you have such great demands, but that you're so much more than he is and he felt inadequate when he was in a relationship with you, not being able to fulfill what the relatinship required. It says that he's still sort of sad that it didn't work out romantically and it feels like a definite loss to him. The cards say something interesting... that he didn't act nicely to you for a while (?) That he was a little ugly, but that he regrets it and doesn't want you out of his life. Therefore he is putting efforts into exploring a friendship with you, because, as I said, he doesn't want you out of his life. You are too precious, too wonderful and too important to him to lose totally.
Now I feel more for you.. I feel that he will trip up a little here and there during your building of your friendship. But that he will really try, the best that HE can do, to remain in your life and you in his. Actually, down the road, I feel that you shouldn't be surprised if he indicates wanting to try again - romantically. But not just right now, not yet. I hope that resonates

posted March 30, 2015 03:20 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I do hope you're right and it happens though!

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Then I hope so for you too
Please let me know if it does.
If you want... when I open up again for more readings (which I probably will), you're welcome to ask more about him if you'd like. I'll be happy to look for you again. Mayabe we'll get more...?. Let me know.

posted March 30, 2015 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Not trying to get on your nerves, but just in case I might know what you cost xD how do I find that out?

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lol... you're cute.. you're totally NOT getting on my nerves AT ALL!!! And thank you for your inquiry.

If you click on 'profile', you'll see the link to my listing(s). They are on keen and there for you to be able to read more about me and what I do. I also have a private practice.

If you need any further information, just ask.

posted March 30, 2015 03:30 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
lol... you're cute.. you're totally NOT getting on my nerves AT ALL!!! And thank you for your inquiry.

If you click on 'profile', you'll see the link to my listing(s). They are on keen and there for you to be able to read more about me and what I do. I also have a private practice that's 33.3% less than my keen fees.

If you need any further information, just ask.

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posted March 30, 2015 03:30 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
thank you again, crimson red, for your insight and kind words.

(just to be clear- we were friends/knew each other long before he started dating the current lady (right after we had a huge argument and long silence). they moved quite fast- engaged in less than 9 months - and I pulled myself when he did, so I am in no way his 'affair' or what have you, just in case the age thing create a perception.)

cheers, & blessings

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You're welcome... but Oh gosh... no no no!... gee.. sometimes typing doesn't convey what one wants to clearly. So sorry. Let me try to clarify...
The reason I brought up the emotional infidelity thing is to say/show that a person can have a romantic connection (which I feel that you and he had) without having any physical connection. I feel he had feelings for you of a romantic nature, even though nothing was acted on.
Not that you were the 'other woman'.. or an 'affair of the heart w/o physical' thing... NOT at all!!! Just that I felt he did have romantic feelings towards you, which he didn't act on.
And I don't look at age at all, since I have zero idea how old you are.
I hope I'm making more sense to you now.

posted March 30, 2015 03:32 PM            

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The cards say, as you said, that this is a romantic situation lost-broken. That he does like you a LOT. That he still has some feelings for you, but that he has felt inferior and felt (actually still feels) that he cannot do what makes you happy. Not because you have such great demands, but that you're so much more than he is and he felt inadequate when he was in a relationship with you, not being able to fulfill what the relatinship required. It says that he's still sort of sad that it didn't work out romantically and it feels like a definite loss to him. The cards say something interesting... that he didn't act nicely to you for a while (?) That he was a little ugly, but that he regrets it and doesn't want you out of his life. Therefore he is putting efforts into exploring a friendship with you, because, as I said, he doesn't want you out of his life. You are too precious, too wonderful and too important to him to lose totally.
Now I feel more for you.. I feel that he will trip up a little here and there during your building of your friendship. But that he will really try, the best that HE can do, to remain in your life and you in his. Actually, down the road, I feel that you shouldn't be surprised if he indicates wanting to try again - romantically. But not just right now, not yet. I hope that resonates

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Actually that could resonate a lot!

I don’t know if he really feels that he is inadequate, but to be honest – I do. I know that he can't give me what I am looking for in a man or at least give me back that much what I have to offer… you know? But then again – I am also soo scared that I won’t be able to find the right one for me…

The ‘act not nicely’ part could also be true. I mean, he wasn’t THAT mean, but maybe he just didn’t show any friendly affection towards me lately… he was distant (but I think that it’s because he’s back with his EX - at least I think he is).

I am still so unsecure about his feelings towards me because I have always felt a presence of his ex around us, when we were together.

Would you – when you will have time – look into relationship with his EX (I think that they are back together… ; what is it all about? Does he really love her? How does she feel about him? I get that she’s only using him, but I am not so sure if I am objective enough.

I can exchange, if you maybe want to (but with that offer I feel like I am offering an old Volvo to a Mercedes Benz owner)…

posted March 30, 2015 03:36 PM            

again, thank you & blessings.

posted March 30, 2015 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
A private practice? I don't really use keen. :/ (Actually i never used it at all) Most times when I use sites like those, for some reason people don't connect well with me.

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posted March 30, 2015 03:39 PM            

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Originally posted by CrimsonRed:
Awww.. you guys are just TOO cute... lol.

I think if you two and me and my hubby were together we'd give the neighborhood cavities.

I don't have to throw the cards, I already feel stuff and I'll tell you in a minute...but I will throw the cards... hang on a sec..

The cards say that you feel like he's a soul mate... that you have a spiritual connection to him. That you are TOTALLY in love with him, nobody else really exists for you. That he's brought the love and caring into your life that you've been missing for a loooooooong time.. that you've been wishing for but were almost afraid to want anymore. You tried not to let your emotions run away with you, but you couldn't help it. You felt it and fell in love. This was a while ago. It's not that recent. You've just waited until you felt sure (because of past experiences and disappointments) that he too felt towards you with love, before you started letting him know. Even then, though, you were a bit slow and reserved in letting it all 'hang out' and letting him know.
He's very sensitive and thrives on knowing how you feel. It fuels his love for you even more, because even though he's a big strong man, capable and successful, his heart is sensitive and loving and vulnerable.
You know.. you too can coo all you want to each other, it'll only make each other feel better. I don't see either one of you hurt the other. Let those loving little inner children out to play... they crave each other desparately!
So now, I've combined what the cards said and what I feel.
Hope you enjoyed (and what I said resonates).

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Amazing, simply amazing!

We always talk how we feel we are each other's soul mates. He is not versed in astrology but he started using astro terms just so that he can feel like he is part of it as well. So cute! His Moon is the same as my Sun, so sometimes he says " ahhh, your Sun is pushing my Moon now"..lol..I am not even sure he knows what that all means, but he tries..

Everything you said is exactly how I felt towards him. I have been waiting for a love like this for a long time. I did fall totally and completely in love with him but I didn't want to let it all out because the intensity was scary to me. I am more in control of it now.

He read your response and he was smiling from ear to ear. I have told him all that before but he is very doubtful and he didn't believe me. He was afraid my feelings will go away and I'd leave him to suffer.
He read your response now and it matched my words exactly, and he is happy now ))