posted May 25, 2018 10:22 PM            

If a relationship is over, it is over, especially after dating for 7 years, and moving on, to call them a week before your wedding is incredibly disrespectful to Meghan and this should have been done before he proposed, and especially when he know Meghan was the one...I honestly do not think they'll make it.

Closure is talking and moving on...not calling and listening to your ex cry and saying "you're moving on" .
The ex is also in a relationship, and its so disrespectful to both Him and Meghan.

So many thoughts would run in my mind about their past relationship, and especially after seeing Chesil's face during the wedding, she clearly has not moved on...and I really hope Harry has, I would really be upset if this is another repeat of Charles and Diana.

andQUOTE]Originally posted by mirage29:

Nope?... Psychologically, it kindly respects them both to help the psyche make a satisfactory 'closure'. Wraps up loose ends.

Heard none of his ex's were invited to the reception.[/QUOTE]

posted May 25, 2018 10:37 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
I agree that calling your ex a week before your wedding is a bit strange and red flagy. If she was upset and crying, he knows that she still had feelings for him. Was this phonecall to give her closure because he knew that she did still have feelings for him? If so, he obviously still cares about her and might still have feelings for her also...
I don’t really understand what the purpose of it was.
They’ve been broken up a long time? Seems strange to have a “closure” phone call years after the fact and right before your wedding lol
I don’t see a problem with inviting your ex’s to your wedding (I personally never would lol ) but some people are more mature I guess and especially if the relationship ended on good terms etc. And it was such a public event anyways.

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posted June 09, 2018 04:01 PM            

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Originally posted by squirrel:
I really don‘t understand those comments „I don‘t trust her“, „she is calculating“, etc. as if everyone of you is called upon to defend british monarchy-and harry in particular- from some viscious woman who infiltrated herself into the royal family. I mean, does it matter if any of you trust her or like her or not?

i think they are both in love with each other, you can recognize and feel the warmth and chemistry between them. I see more of a calculating mind and controlling personality in kate, for example. But like I said, we shouldn‘t judge, some women shouldn‘t be that angry of meghan and we shouldn‘t care except of their synastry maybe

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posted June 09, 2018 08:05 PM            

Not sure why it would be bother you how some of us feel towards meghan...which absolutely normal..not everyone's energy is going to resonate with you, and thats how I feel when I look at her. I dont trust her. but I trust kate.

Why ins't that ok? This isn't meant to be argumentive post, I was just curious about how people felt about them.

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Originally posted by squirrel:
I really don‘t understand those comments „I don‘t trust her“, „she is calculating“, etc. as if everyone of you is called upon to defend british monarchy-and harry in particular- from some viscious woman who infiltrated herself into the royal family. I mean, does it matter if any of you trust her or like her or not?

i think they are both in love with each other, you can recognize and feel the warmth and chemistry between them. I see more of a calculating mind and controlling personality in kate, for example. But like I said, we shouldn‘t judge, some women shouldn‘t be that angry of meghan and we shouldn‘t care except of their synastry maybe

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posted June 10, 2018 02:52 AM            

but ok, you do whatever you want to do but don‘t get angry if others perceive you as someone a little bit too involved in this and a little bit jealous or frustrated for no apparent reason other than disliking meghan markle.

posted June 10, 2018 01:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Saille:
Why would you want to invite your exs, heck why not invite all of them.

If a relationship is over, it is over, especially after dating for 7 years, and moving on, to call them a week before your wedding is incredibly disrespectful to Meghan and this should have been done before he proposed, and especially when he know Meghan was the one...I honestly do not think they'll make it.

Closure is talking and moving on...not calling and listening to your ex cry and saying "you're moving on".
The ex is also in a relationship, and its so disrespectful to both Him and Meghan.

So many thoughts would run in my mind about their past relationship, and especially after seeing Chesil's face during the wedding, she clearly has not moved on...and I really hope Harry has, I would really be upset if this is another repeat of Charles and Diana.

*andQUOTE* Originally posted by mirage29:

Nope?... Psychologically, it kindly respects them both to help the psyche make a satisfactory 'closure'. Wraps up loose ends.

Heard none of his ex's were invited to the reception. */QUOTE*

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Hi Saille. Sometimes I wait a bit and like to "steep" myself in the suggestions and viewpoints of the other person.

I see what you're saying.

There are schools of psychology/mentalHealth that encourage people to face each other, and to verbally say goodbye. A lot of times, those sessions actually turn into a validation for the *winner* and hurtful crapdump on the ones who *lost*?

Let me ask this question then....
Gently, quietly .. 'Why' would she/they 'show up' in church to be photographed as part of the ceremony?, especially if they knew it was so hurtful, so bad?

The other thing too??? …
I cry watching weddings. The mother of the bride had mist in her eyes. It is a DEEP DEEP touching heavenly/earthly suspended moment.
I cry out of the Beauty of the Whole thing.
People who wouldn't understand, might look at me and say, Oh, she's upset that her relationship handn't worked out? or, Man!? Is she Depressed???

No. Sometimes it's just the Yawn in my Soul
The whole SYMBOLISM is Touching and Moving to me.

It's just symbolic, and Awe at being present to witness a high-ritual in The Cycles of Life.

What I'm wondering too... if perhaps yes, the ex's could have been mad/sad/glad … But

I wonder if the existential-Moment could have been having that special impact and was powerfully impressing on them? .. All, caught up in the same crescendo?

posted June 10, 2018 03:43 PM            

[QUOTE]Originally posted by squirrel:
[B]sorry, but i don奏 think you have the right to judge anyone,[ Sorry, I'm not sorry.

[I do have the right, because it’s part of evolution, and I will judge anyone as I please, as they do the same to me. Judging someone is a 50 -50 chance, you are right or wrong, neither which is illegal.]

especially because you don奏 have absolutely nothing to do either with meghan markle or the royal family.
[ Neither do you?!!!, yet you made clear your opinion of Kate Middleton…what the heck..how do you not see this as hypocritical?] This is your quote “I see more of a calculating mind and controlling personality in kate, for example.]

you seem angry somehow.

[ I’m baffled at your lack of understanding, because what seems puzzling is that you either did not reading my previous post thoroughly, or maybe you just didn’t understand it, so here it is again.

[I'm going to judge who ever I want to judge, and you'll have to be ok with it. Just like you see Kate as controlling and calculating doesn't make sense to me, but it also doesn't bother me.
Not sure why it would be bother you how some of us feel towards meghan...which absolutely normal..not everyone's energy is going to resonate with you, and thats how I feel when I look at her. I dont trust her. but I trust kate.
Why ins't that ok? This isn't meant to be argumentive post, I was just curious about how people felt about them.]

Is it something personal with meghan markle

[ Is it something personal with you and kate Middleton? I’m mean literally, you have the same opinion I have of MM, only you feel it that way about KM? I mean this is kinda of amazing that I have to go to this length to explain this. ]

sorry, but being judgmental on that scale reminds me of jealousy and envy and pretty much of meghans evil stepsister.

[ Again, how is your opinion of KM any different then my opinion of MM…does that make you “ a jealousy and envious evil stepsister?]

that said, i think it壮 absurd how people get involved in things like that and commenting passionately as if they were part of the royal family or the family of some other celebrity.

[ Yet, here you are commenting on it?, does this apply to Mirage or only those that disagree with you?]

but ok, you do whatever you want to do but don奏 get angry if others perceive you as someone a little bit too involved in this and a little bit jealous or frustrated for no apparent reason other than disliking meghan markle.

[ I just want to make sure i understand this. I posted a topic about prince harry n meghan merkle, and you clicked on it, out of curiosity, but then you're berating me for being discussing them.and you're the one with the green smily emoji.....interesting, would you like to go through the entire forum and kindly everyone discussing PH & MM as too involved, jealous, and frustrated with MM...better yet, why stop at this forum..do me a favor, and find everyone in the world and tell them this...hopefully they all judge you.

[ I don’t get it, you are upset at me, for having a different opinion then you, of MM? that’s like me being upset with you for having your opinion of KM? WhY would that upset me?]

Seriously though, can you tell me why you are upset that I dislike MM?

posted June 10, 2018 03:55 PM            

[Yea, I definitely agree with that, I certainly wouldn’t have done it so publicly, and who knows if they actually had that “goodbye -phone call”.]

Let me ask this question then....
Gently, quietly .. 'Why' would she/they 'show up' in church to be photographed as part of the ceremony?, especially if they knew it was so hurtful, so bad?

[If who knew? Harry & Meghan or Harry & the ex? I don’t think Harry would have invited his ex, if his future wife wasn’t ok with. No matter how kind that invitation was, I as the ex would have declines, and called to wish them the best, but to let Harry & Meghan know she’s moved on too…and everyone is happy. Those pictures of her, were incredibly awful…I mean she looked like she was in hell…and I would be so mad if he breaks up with Meghan to get back together with her!]

The other thing too??? …
I cry watching weddings. The mother of the bride had mist in her eyes. It is a DEEP DEEP touching heavenly/earthly suspended moment.
I cry out of the Beauty of the Whole thing.
People who wouldn't understand, might look at me and say, Oh, she's upset that her relationship handn't worked out? or, Man!? Is she Depressed???

[I totally understand the crying thing… especially the mother…but imagine if the ex was crying…..that would have been crazy!]
I wonder if the existential-Moment could have been having that special impact and was powerfully impressing on them? .. All, caught up in the same crescendo?

[I just really hope everyone is happy in their corner with their partner…cuz cheating is the worst thing anyone can do in a relationship…prince or no prince!]

posted June 10, 2018 04:41 PM            

(music) Love Hurts (Nazareth, lyrics) [3:54] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6pHNkOQCIzk

posted June 10, 2018 05:53 PM            

Wow, you fiancee slept with you best friend...that is horrible, honestly, I wish them the worse everything...I'm really sorry. That would have killed me, and left me bitter and you're not like that at all which is amazing!

You know how you can feel some people's energy? When I look at MM, I can feel her energy. I've only felt that with a few people who did not get along with, and there was an article on energies we feel around people,( like spider-man senses) and its the body's way of trying to warn you this person isn't a good person, and this was always the case, but that doesn't meant her energy is bad for PH.

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Originally posted by mirage29:
Human relationships can hurt. A lot.
I have known that kind of pain, personally.

(music) Love Hurts (Nazareth, lyrics) [3:54] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6pHNkOQCIzk

{{I'm sorry if you've had that experience of being cheated-on. I had been engaged to someone decades ago who was screwing with my best friend. I 'still' can't wrap my mind around that.}}

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posted June 10, 2018 08:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Saille:

Yes they do. I've never been cheated on, but my father did to my Mom and she left him and met an amazing man, who I love to the moooooonnn!! And because of that, that is my dealbreaker in any relationship.

Wow, your fiancee slept with your best friend...that is horrible, honestly, I wish them the worse everything...I'm really sorry. That would have killed me, and left me bitter and you're not like that at all which is amazing!

You know how you can feel some people's energy? When I look at MM, I can feel her energy. I've only felt that with a few people who did not get along with, and there was an article on energies we feel around people,( like spider-man senses) and its the body's way of trying to warn you this person isn't a good person, and this was always the case, but that doesn't meant her energy is bad for PH.

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I'm so glad your Mom remarried and made a better relationship. As you are sensitive to energies, I'm sure that your liking him 'to the moooonnn' (cute), counts for a lot.

With that fiancé I had? That was decades ago. He died a few years afterwards.. so, to look at it from another direction, maybe it was a bizarre and surreal blessing in disguise when I broke up with him.

Where my unbelief comes in, is that they could both look me in the face that whole time. And, the BF expected me to 'just drop' my knowing she did that as though nothing at all had happened. … Makes my brain bounce back and forth! I haven't spoken to her in decades too. It's water 'under the bridge'. Like past life.

Hey... If I ever have anyone on my radar, I'd want YOUR feedback!

posted June 11, 2018 11:14 PM            

You too!

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Originally posted by mirage29:
I'm so glad your Mom remarried and made a better relationship. As you are sensitive to energies, I'm sure that your liking him 'to the moooonnn' (cute), counts for a lot.

With that fiancé I had? That was decades ago. He died a few years afterwards.. so, to look at it from another direction, maybe it was a bizarre and surreal blessing in disguise when I broke up with him.

Where my unbelief comes in, is that they could both look me in the face that whole time. And, the BF expected me to 'just drop' my knowing she did that as though nothing at all had happened. … Makes my brain bounce back and forth! I haven't spoken to her in decades too. It's water 'under the bridge'. Like past life.

Hey... If I ever have anyone on my radar, I'd want YOUR feedback!

Take Care.

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posted June 16, 2018 10:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Debby4:
I feel the sneaky energy from both Kate and Megan.
But I will say that Megan left her boyfriend at the time to go on a date with Harry. (Or to date him)

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posted June 17, 2018 03:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Debby4:
I feel the sneaky energy from both Kate and Megan.
But I will say that Megan left her boyfriend at the time to go on a date with Harry. (Or to date him)

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posted November 03, 2019 09:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
I don't trust her either. I do not like her at all but im forcing myself to like her. I hope we both are wrong...
I don't like him too much either but while she appears dishonest, he does not but he appears immature and a bit piggish in a way.

TR Saturn is going to square soon her stellium in Libra - Moon-Jupiter-Saturn, and for the 2nd time this year. She may realize to a greater extend the restrictions imposed by the royal marriage.

Then in the beginning of next year, in January, TR Saturn will start squaring 3 times Harry's Venus. This is going to be a down time for him.

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bolded bit, that's insane because she literally admitted in the recent interview that she is not fairing well with all the royal family 'stiff british upper lip' etc