posted July 02, 2018 04:37 PM            

We haven't spoken in a month up until about a week ago, and she's grown distant again.

(Very long story short, she's now with the father of her child, very abusive man. She's doing it for the kid, so I've been told, and they all say she's not happy with him, that he's horrible toward her, that her true feelings are for me. We spoke about a week ago like I said and she really did show a lot of romantic interest but now that she is back home she's become distant again. I let it be and I tried reaching out and she was very distant again. The first few days back she would reach out to me and talk to me, and she would always be the one to reach out first. But within the last few days she hadn't reached out so I caved today and while I know she is busy she didn't seem interested in furthering the conversation. Maybe because she is busy.)

Uhm i suppose I am just really doubtful right now and I could really use a reading or two on the following:

~whats going through her head regarding she and I
~What the future holds for she and I?
~When will she reach out again? When will communication pick up and become how it used to be? I really miss how she and I would talk for so long all the time and I cannot stand the distance. It really hurts.

I really hate to ask, especially since I actually have no money and I can't exactly offer a reading in return as I haven't gotten to a place in which I truly understand my gifts yet. That makes me feel really guilty asking but I'm so scared right now and I don't know where else to turn.

So if I could get some readings please do know it would mean a lot to me. If not I do really understand. I just really really am depressed and need some hope for my situation right about now.

posted July 03, 2018 05:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Bump!

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posted July 03, 2018 07:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
hey, 3

what us your synastry looking like> your natal chart versus her natal chart? Can you post the wheels here so we can take a look at the astrology of your connection.

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Is there a site which would allow me to create them? I'm not very experienced nor have I got huge belief as far as astrology goes, but I used to think the same about Tarot, and that changed, so I will give anything a shot!

posted July 03, 2018 08:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
yes, astro.com

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Thank you very much.

I made my astro natal chart thing. I removed my name, date of birth and everything.

Do I just upload the picture and one can read from that?

posted July 03, 2018 09:03 PM            

for her chart put the 12 PM as the hour, because otherwise astro.com wont accept it for synastry. For her place of birth- something approximate to what you think it is.

posted July 03, 2018 09:38 PM            

And this for her

I do not know why I worry when very renowned psychics keep telling me chances that we will end up together are incredibly good. But I suppose just given the current circumstances it is hard not to worry. I hope that doesn't annoy you all, me asking for reassurance. It's been a really tough time for me and I suppose I am just scared of being hurt and let down again.

Thank you!

posted July 03, 2018 10:06 PM            

Here is a quote by Ami Ane who also posts on this forum, she also has her own website :
"Some things are too intense to exist. Moon/Pluto would be a contender. The moon is your deepest heart. You show it to an animal, a child, a lover and God. When your moon touches a person’s Pluto, you join a club of a few. This is the love of a mother for her breastfeeding baby and a love of a woman for her lover, in one. This love is not of this world. This connection is not of this world. It is Healthcliff screaming for Kathy, as he runs through the moors. Moon/Pluto in synastry is once in a lifetime love. It is your one and only. You will die with her name on your lips. This goes out to all you Moon/Pluto’s with love and understanding."

posted July 03, 2018 10:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
first of all before I look any further, I saw that you have an exact Pluto - Moon conjunction, by 1'orb.
This aspect is very intense. Google Pluto-Moon conjunction in synastry and you will understand more about this connection between you two. It is her Pluto on your Moon. Her Pluto is at 24' Scorpio, your Moon is at 25' Scorpio. They conjunct each other.

Here is a quote by Ami Ane who also posts on this forum, she also has her own website :
[b]"Some things are too intense to exist. Moon/Pluto would be a contender. The moon is your deepest heart. You show it to an animal, a child, a lover and God. When your moon touches a person’s Pluto, you join a club of a few. This is the love of a mother for her breastfeeding baby and a love of a woman for her lover, in one. This love is not of this world. This connection is not of this world. It is Healthcliff screaming for Kathy, as he runs through the moors. Moon/Pluto in synastry is once in a lifetime love. It is your one and only. You will die with her name on your lips. This goes out to all you Moon/Pluto’s with love and understanding."

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I did look this up, and while it seems very good, I don't fully understand it, but I'm hoping this is a good thing regarding a future between she and I?

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Originally posted by Caprika:
btw on a side note, you do have very heightened intuition/psychic abilities with that Moon in Scorpio conjunct Pluto in your 4th house, and Mercury on your ASC in the 12th house....see how you can tap into that power of intuition of yours, it's a given.

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posted July 03, 2018 10:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
her Moon and Sun are in square in her chart and both of them are forming a stressful Tsquare with her Neptune and Uranus. This means that she tends to let herself be entangled in unfavorable relationships with deceptive men and suffer as a result of bad choices in love. Men in her life tend to be erratic and unreliable, this is based on the relationship formula between her own parents when she grew up- not a good relationship between her father and mother. She associates love with suffering and gets entangled with emotionally unavailable men, they could be alcohol addicted or plain deceptive.

On your side, you have Saturn in your 7th house of relationship. This means that relationships have always been a source of frustration and you were not able to have a loving relationship for the first half of your life. Good relationship tend to come to you later in life. You tend to desire long term commitment instead of short lived relationships.

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All 100% spot on for both parties, thank you. Yes relationships have really scarred me in the past and put me in some really dark places. Which is why I'm really really putting all my cards out here hoping that this time it works out. I really love this girl.

posted July 03, 2018 10:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
if your time of birth is correct, and you have the Leo asc indeed, then it seems that her planets do not fall in the relationship/romance houses in your chart. Your relationship/love houses are in the sign of Aquarius, Pisces and Sagittarius, and also Leo. She has no planets in those signs, they do not match with the romantic part in your chart. This means that in the long run, you might find little affinity between the two of you.
You both Venuses - hers and yours- are not very active in your synastry. Your Marses are not very active as well. Your Nodes are not involved at all.
I think based on this synastry that the real connection/affinity between you two in real life might be lacking. But this Pluto-Moon conjunction is creating a real magnetic pull which is hard to resist. her Pluto is also widely squaring your Venus at 4', so that might play an obsessive role as well. But an actual compatibility is lacking, honestly. Its not bad, just appears to be poor.

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posted July 03, 2018 10:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
I didn't count her houses as you said her time of birth is unknown, I only counted your houses.
maybe your planets stimulates her chart but we don't know since no time of birth.
Of course all is possible. If you feel in love, that's all that matters. It's just that it appears her planets do not match your horoscope well. She has nothing in Leo ( your 1st house, your identity), nothing in Aqua ( your 7th house, the relationship house), nothing in saggy ( your 5th house of romance) and nothing in Pisces ( your 8th house, the sex/intimacy house).

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Okay. Thank you. I really do appreciate you taking the time out of your day to help me with this. It means a lot. What worries me is that you were so spot on with everything about she and I. Ari says we have a "twinflame" connection, and many of the others I've listed say we've got a "soul connection" or a soulmate connection...

I hope others here can chime in too? If they've got time? It's just been rough lately. Really hoping for some good news predictions

Thank you Caprika

EDIT
Also with all of the "accurate" psychics all saying a future and marriage between she and I is incredibly likely, even though I know sometimes they can be wrong, but if they're all saying that, would you say there's a good chance of them being right of they all picked up on that with such confidence (AV, Dino, Kassie, Ari, Sandie, Yona, and many more reputable ones)? I know predictions aren't always accurate, so it makes me automatically go to "well it won't happen" simply because I know they can be wrong at times. But with all of them saying this, there's a good chance, would you say?

EDIT:
She just finished work and immediately sent me a message. Just to talk to me about how work went. It was obviously just an excuse to talk so it made my night. It showed that I'm the first thought on her mind. Or at least the first person she wants to talk to. This makes me happy and hopeful I really hope I end up with this girl. You know how hard love can be when you don't know what to do or what will happen... especially if you're an empath, the struggle is really tough.

posted July 04, 2018 10:45 AM            

Wow I see you have that obsessive/intense moon conjunct Pluto in Scorpio. This must be extremely hard for you
I’m sorry you’re going through this difficult situation, but I promise you will get through it! Stay strong ❤️❤️

So I asked if one day you will be with this girl you love and I’m very sorry to tell you I got a strong no.
I pulled about 10 cards too just to be sure, and all said the same thing...
10 of swords, 4 of cups, 6 of swords, 5 of wands, death, 8 of cups etc.
I am 100 percent confident in this reading too. It’s very very rare to get all negative cards like this in row, the message is very clear. I was also hearing no before I even pulled too.
So I’m sorry those other “psychics” gave you false hope.

I didn’t want to ask how she felt about you because I already seen from before that she does have feelings for you. But that is besides the point. There are lots of people who love each other and who aren’t together or vice versa.

So I really feel that you should cut your loses and move on. This is a hopeless situation is what the cards are saying. You will never be in a relationship with this girl so there is no point holding onto false hope, it doesn’t matter if you love or care about her, you need to rise above the feelings and have enough self-love and care for yourself to not be wasting your time and energy on a situation that isn’t serving you and isn’t going to have a good outcome.
I know it’s easier said than done (trust me, I went through my own breakup not too long ago) but these tough experiences are part of life. Not every love is meant to last or manifest into what we want it to be. It sounds like this relationship you have with her is Karmic. So it’s real purpose is to help you evolve, learn lessons and spur your spiritual growth, it’s never meant to last, only until the lessons are learnt. She isn’t your wife or life partner.

Caprika was also right that your synastry with her is not that of a life partner or significant relationship. So even though right now it feels like she’s the love of your life, I can almost guarantee you will find someone much better suited to your relationship needs and attraction profile.
You have Saturn in the 7th, which shows difficulty/blockages and obstacles/delays in love and relationships. After your first Saturn return in a few years, that is when you will have success in finding true love.

I wanted to pull some cards for you about love life to help inspire you and to stay optimistic after this dissapointing reading I’m sure....

I asked if you will ever be in a happy relationship in the future and got a yes!
Fool, sacral chakra, wheel of fortune, strength, queen of pents and ace of pents

Who this person will be;
Ace of wands TWICE lol, base chakra, ace of cups, 3 of cups and temperence
High priestess of spirit
Self-esteem and Judgement

Wow so this woman who you’re going to be in this happy relationship with in the future is going to be very firey! She will be very happy, fun, likes to socialize, dance, laugh, just have a good-time, she is very fun-loving and probably popular too with a lot of friends (3 of cups). She is also very creative, and passionate! I feel she will have strong Sagittarius too with the temperence card. But could be any of the fire signs (leo/Aries/sag), so when you look at her chart she will have at least one of these signs probably more than 1 as either her sun, moon or rising or other planets 👍.
I feel she will also have some water too, since I got the ace of cups, so she will be very emotional, sensitive and empathic also. Since I got the high priestess of spirit I feel she will be spiritual or very intuitive also, but also adds to the empathic/emotional qualities she will have too.
I feel she will be very confident and have good-self esteem and probably will be an extrovert or at least come across that way. But her only down fall is she can be judgemental

Timing;
I got a few pentacles and then got a couple 4’s
I feel it will be awhile, probably around 4 years is when you will meet her.
Hopefully sooner tho timing is hard haha

Hope this helps ❤️
Remember the girl you’re supposed to be with is out there waiting for you, so don’t feel too depressed about this other one, it wasn’t meant to be.

posted July 04, 2018 12:49 PM            

Your Suns are almost exactly sextile (Google "Sun sextile Sun synastry")
Your Moons are probably trine (Google "Moon trine Moon synastry")

Though your Mercuries are square, so both of you may not really feel as if you truly understand each other. There can be a lot of miscommunication/projection going on with this placement, a lot of "seeing what you want to see" going on there if a communication gap is not bridged.

She's a Sun/Jupiter girl so she's naturally very charming, outgoing, sociable, knows how to make everyone feel loved and special, as if they're the only person in the room with her.

She's a Cancer Moon so on top of being a Venusian Libra, she is a deeply feminine and alluring. But she's got a lot of bite in her as a Scorpio Mars. She's not a total helpless damsel in distress. She knows what she's doing, and the things she's committed to, she's committed to 100% and of her own doing (her Mercury is also in Scorpio, a fixed sign).

Her Saturn is opposite your Venus, so yes, I would say there are karmic elements in this relationship. You feel indebted to her, like her knight in shining armor. The question is, does she actually want you to save her? Maybe she's actually the one here to teach you something about the way that you love?

Your Mars is conjunct her SN, so there are past life themes between you. Maybe you really were her saviour in a past life, which is why you keep adopting that role in this one.

Leo's have a flair for the dramatic, and love to be seen as the hero. You also have a Leo Venus, so you're deeply romantic in all the classic ways. I'm sure her Libran/Cancerian qualities do eat this up in a lot of ways.

But yeah, your Moon/Pluto conjunction.. you should really look into this aspect and try to get a hold of it. You also have a Venus/Pluto square in your chart, so you are super duper obsessive in regards to romance. Instead of asking if you're going to marry her, you should be focusing on if you can even forge a proper friendship/relationship with her in the near future. Small steps (though I know Scorpio/Leo's nature is to go for the BIG DRAMATIC SWEEPING ALL CONSUMING KARMIC changes first)

You guys don't have any significant Venus/Mars aspect in synastry so it may be why the romance factor falls flat even though it's obvious there is chemistry between you both

posted July 04, 2018 05:05 PM            

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Hey!

Wow I see you have that obsessive/intense moon conjunct Pluto in Scorpio. This must be extremely hard for you
I’m sorry you’re going through this difficult situation, but I promise you will get through it! Stay strong ❤️❤️

So I asked if one day you will be with this girl you love and I’m very sorry to tell you I got a strong no.
I pulled about 10 cards too just to be sure, and all said the same thing...
10 of swords, 4 of cups, 6 of swords, 5 of wands, death, 8 of cups etc.
I am 100 percent confident in this reading too. It’s very very rare to get all negative cards like this in row, the message is very clear. I was also hearing no before I even pulled too.
So I’m sorry those other “psychics” gave you false hope.

I didn’t want to ask how she felt about you because I already seen from before that she does have feelings for you. But that is besides the point. There are lots of people who love each other and who aren’t together or vice versa.

So I really feel that you should cut your loses and move on. This is a hopeless situation is what the cards are saying. You will never be in a relationship with this girl so there is no point holding onto false hope, it doesn’t matter if you love or care about her, you need to rise above the feelings and have enough self-love and care for yourself to not be wasting your time and energy on a situation that isn’t serving you and isn’t going to have a good outcome.
I know it’s easier said than done (trust me, I went through my own breakup not too long ago) but these tough experiences are part of life. Not every love is meant to last or manifest into what we want it to be. It sounds like this relationship you have with her is Karmic. So it’s real purpose is to help you evolve, learn lessons and spur your spiritual growth, it’s never meant to last, only until the lessons are learnt. She isn’t your wife or life partner.

Caprika was also right that your synastry with her is not that of a life partner or significant relationship. So even though right now it feels like she’s the love of your life, I can almost guarantee you will find someone much better suited to your relationship needs and attraction profile.
You have Saturn in the 7th, which shows difficulty/blockages and obstacles/delays in love and relationships. After your first Saturn return in a few years, that is when you will have success in finding true love.

I wanted to pull some cards for you about love life to help inspire you and to stay optimistic after this dissapointing reading I’m sure....

I asked if you will ever be in a happy relationship in the future and got a yes!
Fool, sacral chakra, wheel of fortune, strength, queen of pents and ace of pents

Who this person will be;
Ace of wands TWICE lol, base chakra, ace of cups, 3 of cups and temperence
High priestess of spirit
Self-esteem and Judgement

Wow so this woman who you’re going to be in this happy relationship with in the future is going to be very firey! She will be very happy, fun, likes to socialize, dance, laugh, just have a good-time, she is very fun-loving and probably popular too with a lot of friends (3 of cups). She is also very creative, and passionate! I feel she will have strong Sagittarius too with the temperence card. But could be any of the fire signs (leo/Aries/sag), so when you look at her chart she will have at least one of these signs probably more than 1 as either her sun, moon or rising or other planets 👍.
I feel she will also have some water too, since I got the ace of cups, so she will be very emotional, sensitive and empathic also. Since I got the high priestess of spirit I feel she will be spiritual or very intuitive also, but also adds to the empathic/emotional qualities she will have too.
I feel she will be very confident and have good-self esteem and probably will be an extrovert or at least come across that way. But her only down fall is she can be judgemental

Timing;
I got a few pentacles and then got a couple 4’s
I feel it will be awhile, probably around 4 years is when you will meet her.
Hopefully sooner tho timing is hard haha

Hope this helps ❤️
Remember the girl you’re supposed to be with is out there waiting for you, so don’t feel too depressed about this other one, it wasn’t meant to be.

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Thank you for all of that. I really do appreciate it. I really hope you're wrong, I hope you don't mind me saying :P
If they were filling me with false hope, I'm sure it wasn't intentional.
And I mean they're all saying the same things though, so I'm going to have to lean more toward them, but I really appreciate the time you took to do this! You're so kind and it made me smile!
I really appreciate the time you took for me. It means a lot.

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I can understand why you feel compatibility with her.

Your Suns are almost exactly sextile (Google "Sun sextile Sun synastry")
Your Moons are probably trine (Google "Moon trine Moon synastry")

Though your Mercuries are square, so both of you may not really feel as if you truly understand each other. There can be a lot of miscommunication/projection going on with this placement, a lot of "seeing what you want to see" going on there if a communication gap is not bridged.

She's a Sun/Jupiter girl so she's naturally very charming, outgoing, sociable, knows how to make everyone feel loved and special, as if they're the only person in the room with her.

She's a Cancer Moon so on top of being a Venusian Libra, she is a deeply feminine and alluring. But she's got a lot of bite in her as a Scorpio Mars. She's not a total helpless damsel in distress. She knows what she's doing, and the things she's committed to, she's committed to 100% and of her own doing (her Mercury is also in Scorpio, a fixed sign).

Her Saturn is opposite your Venus, so yes, I would say there are karmic elements in this relationship. You feel indebted to her, like her knight in shining armor. The question is, does she actually want you to save her? Maybe she's actually the one here to teach you something about the way that you love?

Your Mars is conjunct her SN, so there are past life themes between you. Maybe you really were her saviour in a past life, which is why you keep adopting that role in this one.

Leo's have a flair for the dramatic, and love to be seen as the hero. You also have a Leo Venus, so you're deeply romantic in all the classic ways. I'm sure her Libran/Cancerian qualities do eat this up in a lot of ways.

But yeah, your Moon/Pluto conjunction.. you should really look into this aspect and try to get a hold of it. You also have a Venus/Pluto square in your chart, so you are super duper obsessive in regards to romance. Instead of asking if you're going to marry her, you should be focusing on if you can even forge a proper friendship/relationship with her in the near future. Small steps (though I know Scorpio/Leo's nature is to go for the BIG DRAMATIC SWEEPING ALL CONSUMING KARMIC changes first)

You guys don't have any significant Venus/Mars aspect in synastry so it may be why the romance factor falls flat even though it's obvious there is chemistry between you both

Plus her Venus conjunct your Jupiter so you do actually make her feel loved and adored, you're probably not imagining that

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posted July 04, 2018 06:01 PM            

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Lol why did you ask for a reading then if you already know the answer since all these psychics told you?
Seems like you’re only going to accept an answer you want to hear...

But it’s ok i’m not worried about you believing me, I know you’ll find out sooner or later on your own.
Wish you all the best 😇

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No I'm just worried, really scared, actually. But I have had really good track records with the readers I've listed and I know they can be incredibly accurate. I just needed reassurace, I guess. I don't mean this in a rude way, but with them, being accurate much of the time, why should I believe a random person on a forum over psychics who have been spot-on multiple times for many people? Again, I don't mean it in a rude way. I'm just trying to think logically. Not to mention you haven't exactly been very right for me so far? And I did see a lot of wrong predictions from you in other threads? I'm not discounting your abilities or trying to be rude! Im sorry if I'm coming across that way. I'm just trying to get as many readings as I can because I really am in a scary situation.

posted July 04, 2018 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Oh haha the other thread was a practice thread lol it was just for fun mainly. And I was super tired not sleeping well at all that week and that definitely affected the accuracy of those readings. That’s why a lot were hit and miss. Not to mention intuitive readings are entirely different than tarot.
I did a tarot reading for you for this question, so it’s not really comparable.
And if I remember correctly the other tarot reading I did for you ,you said was accurate so.

Either way doesn’t really matter, I was just trying to help you so you don’t waste any more time or energy on this situation.
And I know you didn’t mean anything rude by it don’t worry
And neither did I, I’m sorry my reading wasn’t favourable but it’s what I got so I’m being honest.
Good luck

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Well I mean in other threads as well. Not just my answers. And I've gotten many different kinds of readings from many reputable psychics and they all say the opposite of you, so I'm choosing to believe in what they say. It's only logical, right? Look I'm not trying to argue. I'm dipping and just need as many readings as possible for reassurance. I'm not saying "lol you're wrong" and I'm not trying to be rude or anything. I'm just saying. It's only logical to go with the ones who have had more experience and have a track record of predicting accurately. No one is perfect with their predictions, and they aren't either. With that said, I appreciate your help. I really do. You can feel that I appreciate it. I know you've got gifts, so you can feel I'm saying this out of kindness and not rudeness, right? And that it really does mean a lot that you took your time to reach out to me and offer all of that? I'm truly thankful for that. I mean it.