posted March 06, 2020 06:09 PM            

It sounds like youre right about the softening of your leo-energy would serve you right

I can relate to the things you write about not pushing for that social climb but rather something for which you could feel that sense of accomplishment.
I hope youre still allright and that your job is working out allright for you

I have this crazy project that i am working with during the few hours i have to spare when my head is clear enough for it. Its nothing i can do effective after 8 hours of regular work and all the other daily chores one needs to do. So many many weekends have been spent and even more will come.
This is also the main reason i do stay single. I would love to have a woman to share my life with, but who would accept me doing my own stuff for like 50% of all quality time?
Actually completing this project has become more or less a existential question for me. Not because i think it will make me financially independent, it would be nice though , but rather that i need to accomplish this just to be able to look back at it and feel proud that i took it to the end.

Career wise 2020-2021 seems really nice for you if you look at your upcoming solar return.

You do actually sound pretty uranian to me and that is in no way a bad thing! But i do also understand that atleast your moon and Mars in general doesnt appreciate the disruptiveness of it.

I pulled up our synastry charts again. I couldnt hold my hands from it lol Your Mars right at the IC scares me a bit, but its still highly compatible with my sun and Mercury. Scorpio is more or less my homeland even if my moon and Venus would raise a hand to disagree.

The other issue though would be my Uranus right at your Mars.
And your Saturn at my ascendant.. lol
Can we make an agreement that you atleast kill me in my sleep, make it painless please?

posted March 08, 2020 01:26 AM            

I know alot of people with mars in their 4th house. Its 2 women.
Theese women are highly protective of their family and closest friends and my poor cancer heart weeps of joy when it sees it displayed. However. What i have also witnessed from all theese 2 persons is that the protectiveness at times as easily can be transformed into furious rage aimed at exactly thoose beloved persons. Sometimes i can understand it and see that a eventual outburst was 'justified', other times i dont understand it at all and thoose times i think it is hard for me to coope with it.
When people start to yell at each other i need to understand the reason and logic (What i mean is that i need to be able to relate to why somebodey became so upset) behind it. If I cant understand it i rather withdraw from the situation.
If someone wants to get my attention about issues they want to adress in a effective way they tell me about the situation and describe how it affected them in a normal conversation.

It feels really good to hear that your job is going great! Looking at your next SR i wouldnt be surprised if you would be offered a position at another location because of the oppositions from your SR 4th (4th 'ish', i dont know your exact location so i just estimated it) which might cause you some concern. But since i know no details of it im merely guessing.

Lol i just image-googled 'ed sheeran 2011' 😊
It looks like he is very comfortable clothed and he doesnt seem to wear anything i wouldnt wear. Though i wouldnt go to work in a hooded sweatshirt
A intelligent confident woman in a pair of sweatpants can be sexy as hell, if anyone ever needed to be sexy that is.

Talking about Sheeran.
Edit.
My family is raising a small Ed Sheeran-army of wildlings 😅

I have watched Friends but i dont remember seeing that episode. I think i get your point though.

The first thing you will note about me is my sun and mercury conjunct MC and perhaps my plutonic ascendant. People say i have a very deep voice too (not that particulary Gemini-like(?)) so i wonder if my earth and water theme couldnt atleast get a moments attention.
Also if i meditate daily you will hardly notice my moon at all. With some work from my side i think i actually have the odds in my favor 😊

posted March 09, 2020 09:44 AM            

Intercepted Libra/Aries (+Chiron) in 3rd/9th ... Virgo on cusp of 2nd+3rd houses ... Pisces on cusp of 8th+9th houses :-

An issue in 2nd and 8th houses is adversely affecting the activities of the 3rd and 9th houses - and, until resolved, this will prevent the qualities of Libra, Aries and Chiron from being used effectively.

This issue is exemplified in the interaction between the two of us at http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum34/HTML/002333.html , beth.

posted March 10, 2020 03:55 AM            

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Here's to meeting more people like you, to the good parts of Scorpio, not being afraid to dig deeper and explore dark and/or difficult sides knowing the light will only shine brighter on the other side: Thank you so much my lovely.

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You made the above comment at http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/025523.html beth

Might a "good" part of Scorpio be that it neither fears nor runs away from those who attempt to intimidate others, by using mechanisms such as (say) ranting to pre-empt feared attacks upon one's intellect?

If so, count me as one of those people who is "not afraid to dig deeper and explore dark and difficult sides knowing that the light will only shine brighter on the other side".

And be aware that :-

1) the current square of transit Pluto to natal Pluto will almost certainly bring more opportunities for you to learn-by-interacting with other "good" Scorpios. ... And,

2) transit pluto and I very much "have your back" on this childhood-conditioned issue of irrational ranting (which you perceive as harmless "venting", and are naively taking for granted that your employer is doing so too).

posted March 10, 2020 05:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Graham, leave Moonbeth alone. Using Astrology to harass her is unbecoming of you.

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Ok. ... But the February 2020 to January 2022 square of transit Pluto to her natal Pluto will not leave her alone - and there is a reason why her progressed Mercury ends it's current retrograde pass at the time when transit Uranus arrives at it's July 2024 conjunction with her natal Chiron.

Hopefully ... another member will be able to help her with that*, without it being seen as harassment.

[ * For information ... Retrograde Pluto will oppose natal Sun on 15 July 2020 (from Capricorn 24) and on 17 July 2021 (from Capricorn 26). ... So, those two Sabian Symbols provide a clue about what Pluto will be trying to teach all of us during its subsequent direct pass.]

Otherwise, (imo) she is heading for a future performance review with her manager that will be along the lines of ... "Beth, we know from hard experience that employees do not change their behaviour after the age of 40 - and you are now 38/39 years old ......".

As for me ... I shall always to do what I believe to be the right thing ... and live with the fact that it might not appear so to others.

posted March 12, 2020 09:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Graham, leave Moonbeth alone. Using Astrology to harass her is unbecoming of you.

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In Planets in Transit - Life Cycles for Living, Robert Hand writes (for those undergoing the square of transit Pluto to natal Pluto) :-

"Pluto rules forces for change that are inherent within the hidden depth of things. Therefore, you should not blame the unpleasant changes that occur now on circumstances or persons in your environment. Look within yourself to see how the groundwork for the present is laid in the past. ...... Many things may be destroyed at this time, and the destruction will be ruthless if you defend them with rigidity. PLUTO's ACTIONS UPON UNYIELDING ENTITIES IS PARTICULARLY HARSH. ...... You may get into severe power struggles with those who are trying to prevent the changes in your life or who are trying to expedite changes that you are resisting. Look very carefully to ascertain which category they are in."

posted August 14, 2020 02:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Moonbeth:
Oh **** off graham and the horse you rode in on, there is no flesh to how smug you dare be for having the nerve to pervert my transit in its earliest stages just to assert your rage that I would not submit to your will to see me react and behave the way you wanted me to.
You had mentioned Hand's categories, well you belong to the bin, you sorry **** , you're not bringing growth, only dominion and selfish motives, the kind of trash that imposes itself as righteous and all knowing when all you do is regurgitate science you only read to bend to your will.
Your behaviour towards me is hassling, it was then, is now, digging up year old posts, what the bloody hell is wrong with you!!! Randall has told you, others have, yet you carry on, how about you learn a lesson in social behaviour as a human being before you pretend to lecture others on spiritual lessons?
You are nothing to me, you bring nothing to me, stop pushing and invading so hard, you're old enough to be my eldest uncle, go impress people who do not know any better and get off my threads and chart's knickers you bloody, disturbing no life perv 🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕
You have no clue, your reading is so off next to reality, it's pathetic, you soil astrology, yet another charlatan being vague enough to mock accuracy, you couldn't even get my age right. Tosser. Your harassment is the undying entity, feel the harsh or too numbed by self righteousness and power trip?

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Each of us takes in only what we are ready to receive, Moonbeth ... You were (and remain) not ready to hear my warning about how your behavioural traits may be seen in the workplace. ... And I am still not ready to accept further abuse from you/others for attempting to raise your self-awareness about that issue.

posted August 14, 2020 02:44 AM            

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Your behaviour towards me is hassling, it was then, is now, digging up year old posts, what the bloody hell is wrong with you!!! Randall has told you, others have, yet you carry on, how about you learn a lesson in social behaviour as a human being before you pretend to lecture others on spiritual lessons?

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Then I guess it may indeed now be time for me to stop posting on this forum (rather than endure further accusations of harassing you).

However, Moonbeth ... rest assured that I am very aware of my conscious motivations ... and intending to harass others is not one of them. (But, perhaps you/Randall/"others" are seeing in me that which I am unable to see in myself - rather than me seeing in you what they do not.)

Best wishes on your transit Pluto square natal Pluto journey, towards learning how to hear what you need to hear rather than only what you want to hear. [Line managers refer to this as "being able to handle criticism constructively/objectively/without-throwing-a-tantrum".]