posted July 17, 2021 12:28 PM            

I have a brand new tarot deck I seem to click with very beautifully. I also have a question which was bugging me for quite some time now. I'd like to offer an exchange opportunity.

Regarding this person I am destined to marry / settle down with eventually in this lifetime...

[Intro] For me trust is a very hard and crucial point in my life, if I cannot 100% trust someone I don't invest in the person / situation at all.

What exactly about the life and experiences of this certain person will make me trust him fully eventually?
What exactly about him and his life which will convince me to eventually let him close to me? The way he will eventually be able to earn my trust...

posted July 18, 2021 07:23 PM            

For your 1st question I got:

10 of swords (rev)
8 of coins
devil (rev)
queen of wands
8 of swords (rev)
4 of swords (rev)

It looks like when you first meet him you'll be able to move past the pain from the past (window of opportunity). You will like that he is frank, modest, committed, and puts a lot of effort personally into the relationship (like doing something for you instead of just buying flowers, if that makes sense). This will help you to move away from the hurt from the past and see why things worked out the way they did. I think he sees you as a sympathetic and understanding person who is loving, honorable, friendly, practical and able to love him who takes in interest in others...this helps him to open up. The next two cards either represent your past--treachery from others and taking precautions or he has also experienced this and understands. The last card can also represent someone's need to regain the happiness they once had.

Hope this resonates. Let me add your next question.

2nd question:

Lovers
page of coins (rev)
fool (rev)
9 of wands
king of coins
king of wands

You know what you would like in your relationship with "the one", but it seems like some ghosts will pop up and you will hesitate and worry that things will go wrong. The last two cards are pointing to him and possibly someone that may be someone who helps to bring the two of you together--one being someone with a lot of earth in their chart and the other one fire. I would say he will be an honest and conscientious person who is mature, devoted, friendly, sympathetic and educated since the last card is usually the outcome.

Let me know if this resonates...

My questions are: How will things unfold for me health wise over the next couple of months. I'm anticipating help with something around September.

Along with the above..how will my efforts at getting help with my mom while I take care of my health?

posted July 19, 2021 03:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:

My questions are: How will things unfold for me health wise over the next couple of months. I'm anticipating help with something around September.

Along with the above..how will my efforts at getting help with my mom while I take care of my health?

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Hi Spring 😊

I'll soon get back to you with feedback.

For your first question:

[5 of Swords]
[3 of Pentacles]
[3 of Swords]
[10 of Wands]
[Knight of Wands]

Bottom card - [Queen of Swords]

When I first looked at the 5 of Swords card in this context I immediately got the impression that perhaps this is some kind of doctor with a bad reputation causing upheaval in your area? The sky looks like as if it was literally flaming and very sad and disappointed people are leaving him behind looking for another direction, while his face expression remains kind of smug possessing all the swords (surgeon knives / acupuncture needles) Or, literally - whatever he does leaves patients in flaming pain.

On my 3 of Pentacles card a man is working on a nude lady sculpture. Anatomy-wise he is working on its right foot / ankle. Paired with 3 of Swords and 10 of Wands I can see perhaps a long standing pain (probably in the foot area) which becomes unbearable after a while and needs radical action. As the Knight of Wands is the last card, at the end of this few months you can expect action happening, but you might be presented with some kind of decision to make.
I think the decision will eventually lead you to a female expert (Queen of Swords) - as she sits on the whole reading looking, doing a hand gesture and talking in the direction of this Knight of Wands. What stands out about her that both her legs are bare - probably specializes is legs / foot / ankle / surgery / orthopaedics / all of these. Seems like a prominent female figure with expertise.

For the second question:

[Star]
[Queen of Pentacles]
[Queen of Cups]
[King of Swords]

Bottom card - [Moon]

posted July 19, 2021 04:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
2nd question:

Lovers
page of coins (rev)
fool (rev)
9 of wands
king of coins
king of wands

You know what you would like in your relationship with "the one", but it seems like some ghosts will pop up and you will hesitate and worry that things will go wrong. The last two cards are pointing to him and possibly someone that may be someone who helps to bring the two of you together--one being someone with a lot of earth in their chart and the other one fire. I would say he will be an honest and conscientious person who is mature, devoted, friendly, sympathetic and educated since the last card is usually the outcome.

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I was reading your description quite a few times all day long. My dad is the culprit of my trust issues as I experienced childhood trauma involving domestic abuse and molestation, and seen him cheating on my mother, etc. What immediately came to my mind was that King of Wands at the end of the spread... He is an Aries and ALWAYS comes through as the KoW upright in my readings surrounded by a bunch of negative cards. (My DSC is also Aries, and I despise anyone who reminds me of him and his disgusting behaviour and selfishness - I kind of "divorce" myself from any shade of this type of behaviour and those men reminding me of him even just a little. I'm unable to become attracted to them and feel immediate disgust.)
I was just thinking that as I can see you also used reversals and in this instance my father would have come out as the KoW(rev) most probably...
I am looking for someone who is not like him at all, but the opposite and stands out in this way among the crowd of millions, someone whose behaviour and core values wouldn't remind me of him and my past triggering the heck out of me.
Do you think that in this case, as the KoW was not reversed in your spread, it can show that the person I was enquiring about will be the complete opposite of my father? I am thinking of it as some kind of indication of the "not reversed" alias "not like my father" qualities. Especially accompanied by the King of Pentacles - I'd really love to share my life with a solid, old fashioned, stick-in-the-mud guy with strong values and morals (I know for others this can sound very boring and ordinary, but for me it would mean the world if I could find a guy like this eventually. I'd treasure him forever. )
With the Page of Pents (rev) and Fool (rev) what came to my mind is this person's childhood (just like in my case too much doubt and major scepticism stemming from mine...) Do you think the Fool (rev) can also mean that he does not take risks at all and is being way too self-conscious / logical perhaps because some kind of old fashioned "be the good boy" mentality, or other belief system was forced upon him as a child, or else he'd have gotten punished (9 of Wands)?

posted July 19, 2021 08:58 PM            

Thank you. The 5 of swords is interesting is that the 5th house rules the Sun or the heart/cardiologist. My legs/feet aren't bothering me at the moment. I talked with someone last week, but it wasn't a podiatrist and fits more with what you read for my 2nd question. Another reader saw there being two choices and that one of the two choices would be something to just take advantage of me. Once I did my research, then I would know which procedure is the one I need. With my mom, I was worried about having to be away and not finding someone or a place suitable to help her. My siblings aren't wanting to help much. Yes, my mom and I are very connected. Her natal venus conjuncts my saturn and my natal venus conjuncts her saturn. I come out in the cards as the Queen of pentacles often. She is a Pisces Sun and is intuitive about things, so Queen of Cups fits her, too. I've been reducing/eliminating extra things I had been doing around the house, etc. and just focusing/prioritizing things so I can rest more and have set up a routine for the day like going to bed at the same time.

On your reading it may be that the last two cards are really you looking at the one you meet and realizing he isn't like your father--in comparison or that he may have the positive attributes (upright card) that your father didn't have--only the negative. Maybe you also find him to be more like how you wish your father should have been, but still needing to be realistic about him. On your first card, the devil reversed can represent divorcing yourself from things as well. It was definitely a challenging reading for me to do for you.

Sometimes I find that the cards tend to read better if the question that is asked is more specific, but given your questions, they seemed to pinpoint things better than I thought they would.

Typically people tend to marry someone similar to their parent of the opposite sex. The cards showed your initial hesitation..wondering if he will be like your father.

posted July 20, 2021 02:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
The 5 of swords is interesting is that the 5th house rules the Sun or the heart/cardiologist. My legs/feet aren't bothering me at the moment. I talked with someone last week, but it wasn't a podiatrist and fits more with what you read for my 2nd question. Another reader saw there being two choices and that one of the two choices would be something to just take advantage of me. Once I did my research, then I would know which procedure is the one I need.

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Now what stands out to me that the 3 of Swords was in the middle of the spread and the QoS sitting on top of it. The imagery literally showed a human heart with 3 swords in it. Heart of the matter 😉
While I was shuffling the World also peeked out - the circulatory system "from head to toe" 😊 Thank you for clarifying.

posted July 20, 2021 04:05 AM            

The one procedure would require an overnight stay and taking it easy for a week.

Your analysis of the cards you drew was on point with the 3 of swords.

posted July 20, 2021 01:37 PM            

I just got a call from my aunt and she was having problems with her legs and feet after having knee replacement surgery earlier this year.. the pain was bad and so much so that she was crying. I immediately thought of your reading for me.. Question 1...i advised her to talk with her friends to make sure she gets a good doctor and not a bad one... she didn't have anything done recently on her feet or legs other than the one knee replacement around 3 or 4 months ago. It could have been 5 months ago
.not good with time.. She must have been thinking of me when you read for me.

Spring

posted July 21, 2021 01:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Emsie,

I just got a call from my aunt and she was having problems with her legs and feet after having knee replacement surgery earlier this year.. the pain was bad and so much so that she was crying. I immediately thought of your reading for me.. Question 1...i advised her to talk with her friends to make sure she gets a good doctor and not a bad one... she didn't have anything done recently on her feet or legs other than the one knee replacement around 3 or 4 months ago. It could have been 5 months ago
.not good with time.. She must have been thinking of me when you read for me.

Spring

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Omg, I didn't see this coming o: Looks like I picked up on the upcoming call and your aunt (probably shown by the Queen of Swords as well)

Somehow I feel this could mean in the context of your first Q, that you might not experience any problems with the appointment, but your mother and aunt would require more of your attention and/or their issues would be heavier.

And attached to your second Q, you'll have to divide your attention for a while balancing between your health and the health issues of your family members (hence the "divided" posture of the Queen of Pentacles - looking forward to the healing Star, but at the same time legs and hips turning in the direction of the other Queen and the King also looking forward to healing.)

And the 3 of Swords in the middle. 3 people of the "same blood / soul family" having health issues at the same time... I've never really thought about this before. I am recalling the placement of the swords and what also came to my mind that you are in the middle standing straight - which for me indicates that you would literally be standing straight (=be okay), but in the case of the other 2 swords (mother + aunt) "standing straight" would be more questionable - for your aunt literally standing on legs.

posted July 21, 2021 02:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
For your 1st question I got:

10 of swords (rev)
8 of coins
devil (rev)
queen of wands
8 of swords (rev)
4 of swords (rev)

It looks like when you first meet him you'll be able to move past the pain from the past (window of opportunity). You will like that he is frank, modest, committed, and puts a lot of effort personally into the relationship (like doing something for you instead of just buying flowers, if that makes sense). This will help you to move away from the hurt from the past and see why things worked out the way they did. I think he sees you as a sympathetic and understanding person who is loving, honorable, friendly, practical and able to love him who takes in interest in others...this helps him to open up. The next two cards either represent your past--treachery from others and taking precautions or he has also experienced this and understands. The last card can also represent someone's need to regain the happiness they once had.

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I really hope for a person who would like to - for the first time in my life - work on our connection and would really take his time and energy being patient with me. And trying to be empathic and understanding with me because of my painful childhood and experiences.

And like you already mentioned, not being the Devil in my eyes (I divorce myself from). For me sexuality is the most triggering part as it is a very deep and still kind of taboo trauma I haven't really shared with anyone before (not even my friends), because I know it would upset a lot of them, especially my mom.

I'd like to share my life with someone who does the right thing in a discerning and self-conscious way, makes the right choices by default to steer away from such temptations of the mundane world.

I'm also not surprised to see the Queen of Wands, it always signifies me in readings. Somewhat feisty Sagittarius lady with a black cat And the reversed 8 and 4 of Swords... Whenever I get triggered by someone, or situations regarding this wound I mentioned above I always get restless. It literally feels like some type of prison for me being stuck in anxiety (also known as PTSD.) And this is how I know that a connection like this would never work for me, I don't think I could be happy with someone whose core values differ from mine (in this case sexual freedom - without any judgements from my side either, as it is also a valid lifestyle, but for me it won't ever do...)

posted July 21, 2021 04:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Typically people tend to marry someone similar to their parent of the opposite sex. The cards showed your initial hesitation..wondering if he will be like your father.

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When I look at my own natal chart, by looking at my late Libra rising I quite often get the impression as if my Aries DSC would be the farthest thing/point from my personality (1st house), something I immediately reject and turn my back on. I've seen various articles trying to "sell" the 7th house and its ruler as a great thing, showing the future spouse, etc., but in my case I don't feel it has to do anything with my future spouse, but rather what truly repels me in the opposite sex - aggressive, abusive, selfish men operating solely on an animalistic level.

posted July 22, 2021 12:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Emsie:
Omg, I didn't see this coming o: Looks like I picked up on the upcoming call and your aunt (probably shown by the Queen of Swords as well)

Somehow I feel this could mean in the context of your first Q, that you might not experience any problems with the appointment, but your mother and aunt would require more of your attention and/or their issues would be heavier.

And attached to your second Q, you'll have to divide your attention for a while balancing between your health and the health issues of your family members (hence the "divided" posture of the Queen of Pentacles - looking forward to the healing Star, but at the same time legs and hips turning in the direction of the other Queen and the King also looking forward to healing.)

And the 3 of Swords in the middle. 3 people of the "same blood / soul family" having health issues at the same time... I've never really thought about this before. I am recalling the placement of the swords and what also came to my mind that you are in the middle standing straight - which for me indicates that you would literally be standing straight (=be okay), but in the case of the other 2 swords (mother + aunt) "standing straight" would be more questionable - for your aunt literally standing on legs.

That was a pretty interesting turn of events even to me as an outsider. The last time something similar happened to me was when I laid cards back in May to find out when I'd get my first Covid shot. The Empress and the King of Cups apperaed alongside with a few other cards. At first I didn't understand, tried to decode the situation, but nothing truly came to my mind. And then, after a few hours my mom was calling late evening to get my stuff and hurry to get to the hospital with them by car as there was an urgent opportunity to get the shot. My stepdad is always signified by the King of Cups as he is a Cancer Sun. And the Empress... well, that is obviously a mother figure

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Hi Emsie!

The doctor's office never called, so am wondering if I will get a letter as another reader said would come. It could be that whatever is bothering me is pushing me to rest and take better care of myself.

I talked with my Aunt yesterday afternoon and she was better, but thinking it may flare up..what's interesting is that with her insurance she is stuck with whoever her primary care doctor sends her to and she may forget our conversation then. She is a Cap Sun, so that fits with the Queen of Pents, so your further interpretation fits her..my Aunt's ankle was also hurting along with the legs...I told her about the reading and I was surprised that she thought it was possible for people to do readings--years ago she would laugh at me...she also said she would love to be able to talk with her deceased mother..from a solar chart perspective..neptune is in her 3rd house now..don't know her birth time.

posted July 22, 2021 12:53 PM            

Look at the ruler of your 7th house--Mars. Where is it sitting in your chart and how it's colored--the sign mars is in. That will usually give you some clues. The last guy I had been talking with embodies things related to my 6th house (he believes in good hygiene and enjoys working and being of service to others) even though he is a scorpio sun. He is very family oriented--my moon, which rules the 7th is in Cancer and is strong there, and sits in my 6th house. I met him at work. I've had different readings--some say we will get together and others not. I pick up songs or commercial jingles from him (thinks of me while relaxing and watching TV or listening to music). I would be a calming influence for him as his moon would trine my neptune, but then his neptune in libra would square my moon, since our moons are in the same sign and may be conjunct..don't know his birth time.

With me helping my mom, and now the virus thing picking up here where I live...the chance of seeing him is lower right now.

Look at your chart and check for any Saturn placements/transits and/or contacts to your 7th house. If there are any, that may be why you're also not seeing "the one" just yet.

posted July 23, 2021 04:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
The Libra rising and Aries descendant can tend to create a love/hate relationship with someone.

Look at the ruler of your 7th house--Mars. Where is it sitting in your chart and how it's colored--

Look at your chart and check for any Saturn placements/transits and/or contacts to your 7th house. If there are any, that may be why you're also not seeing "the one" just yet.

Spring

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Mars is in my Sag 2nd house. From that house what immediately comes to my mind is work / hard work. And conjunct my Mercury mental activity and logic also. (Correct me if I'm wrong c; )

posted July 24, 2021 08:48 PM            

With Mars ruling your 7th house and in Sag and sitting in your 2nd house... I would say your partner would provide an income to the relationship.. Scorpio on 2nd house cusp--shared resources. With Mars being in sag.. he will most likely be someone from another country.

Venus square Saturn usually creates delays.. have you had your 1st Saturn return yet? Couldn't remember if your natal Saturn was in aqua.

posted July 25, 2021 09:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Venus square Saturn usually creates delays.. have you had your 1st Saturn return yet? Couldn't remember if your natal Saturn was in aqua.

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Yes yes, I managed to witness my Saturn return I can definitely tell in my case the no-marriage-before-29 proved to be right.

Btw, I have an update for you regarding this thread back from April: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/026395-2.html

posted July 25, 2021 12:37 PM            

Thank you for the feedback. I have some for you. When I asked you how things would go for me with helping my mom, you mentioned a surgery and a delay. I'm thinking that may represent me. I haven't heard from them yet. I talked with someone at the doctor's office over a week ago and they mentioned that appointments were in late August or early September at the soonest...especially with what my intuition picked up at the urgent care visit...they just said follow up with primary care doctor, but nothing else.

If you are still in your Saturn return, you may meet him now or after it is over. It's like we fix ourselves up and work through things before we meet or get together with "the one".

posted July 25, 2021 04:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
When I asked you how things would go for me with helping my mom, you mentioned a surgery and a delay. I'm thinking that may represent me. I haven't heard from them yet. I talked with someone at the doctor's office over a week ago and they mentioned that appointments were in late August or early September at the soonest...especially with what my intuition picked up at the urgent care visit...they just said follow up with primary care doctor, but nothing else.

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I am really fascinated how sometimes cards point at something else which needs more attention instead of a basic thing we enquire about. Anyway, I'd definitely make a phone call to ask them about the potential appointment dates and if they intend to give you one within a few months time. It would be good to know what they are up to that they don't say anything :/

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
If you are still in your Saturn return, you may meet him now or after it is over. It's like we fix ourselves up and work through things before we meet or get together with "the one".

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posted July 26, 2021 03:59 PM            

Also, the person I spoke with told me someone would call me back later.. so far nothing.. another delay like you said..

posted August 01, 2021 01:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Also, the person I spoke with told me someone would call me back later.. so far nothing.. another delay like you said..

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I can definitely see the relation to your previous response regarding Jupiter retrograde. What just came to my mind intuitively - take it with a pinch of salt, it might or might not be relevant: A blessing in disguise. Somehow I feel perhaps the delay might spare you other complications, but definitely the services of an unreliable health institution.

posted August 05, 2021 03:08 PM            

I was enlightened to see that I have Cupid-Psyche-Jupiter conjunction in my 11th, Virgo. I don't know if you're into mythology. At the end of the story it was Jupiter (Zeus) enabling the sacred marriage happening between Cupid and Psyche, and also gave Psyche ambrosia to become immortal.

I read somewhere that Jupiter can signify the husband for a woman. I can definitely see why I prefer the Virgo qualities Pure, hard-working, I'd value an old-fashioned, principled, honourable partner more than anything in this world.

At the same time, I've also noticed my Jupiter is squaring my Sun in the 2nd. And my Sun is in conjunction with asteroid Lust. Theme of my love life... I don't consider myself some kind of classical beauty, but for sure there's something in me which keeps attracting sex, money and power hungry lustful individuals. Exactly like my father (still ego-based, having gambling addiction at 75, etc.) I attract them like "moths to a flame" (Sun) - which triggers pain in me and gets me stressed out and anxious.

posted August 05, 2021 04:44 PM            

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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
Hello Emsie

Are you available to exchange??

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Hi there, harmonicvibes