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Springtimeflower
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posted September 22, 2022 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Emsie!

Thank you again for the read. I observed lots of changes for her--and their resources going away from others as well as what appeared to be them losing their job. I found her birthdate and she has mercury square neptune natally and transiting Neptune is impacting that. I've found that if people don't use this aspect for artistic pursuits, their minds become creative in less than positive ways..another reader also told me that I would finally have peace..this has been going on for around 3 years. Before I moved, many times I noticed that the ceiling lights in my kitchen would dim at times and when I didn't pick up her energy, the lights would be brighter...there's also more going on than just the stalking--spreading lies about me, so people don't talk to me..they've also teamed up with the family drama around me...

Thank you for the confirmation about the ending...

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posted September 22, 2022 08:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MoonMystic is very good. She also has the deck you used for my reading with the cats and saw the same thing..

It's much easier to be lighthearted and carefree when you have enjoyable things to do, so maybe your person of interest sees the same value in it that you do...so this fits the 9th, too...and your interest in foreign languages..very much the Gemini influence..

People with Venus in Leo want to be proud of their partner..when you get older, the PDA won't be as much of an issue..I used to be that way--only within 4 walls..Venus in Libra, but in 8th house..Your Venus being in the first house--even though mars is also the ruler of Scorpio..I think once your healing together starts, that may change--PDA..

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posted September 22, 2022 08:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Saturn return will definitely help him mature..I've read, though, that what you don't learn during your first Saturn return, you'll learn it during your 2nd Saturn return.

His NN in Sagitarius--he's here to teach others about 9th house things, so you could learn more from him about traveling, higher mind, etc.

My NN is also conjunct Uranus and I have been around my mom for a long time...I was looking at the Uranus transit to the IC online..you had read for me about moving again and it would be about me moving away from family...so I can see this for you as well..in Capricorn (parents)..Capricorn is definitely a comfort zone..I have planets in my first house in cap and jupiter (travel) makes a yod to my uranus in the 7th conjunct the NN..interesting the similarities between our charts...and for your age, you have learned a lot of what I have, but in a shorter period of time..

mars opposite uranus and mars square uranus can also create some restlessness, too.

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posted September 22, 2022 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You can have PTSD from a car accident...I can imagine that a lot of people have it..

I'm going to add more tomorrow..lots of interruptions while writing you...plus we may have a storm coming--it's down around South America right now..plus I'm picking up a lot of energies..I wanted to look over your last post again and then go back and look at the synastry..and his chart...

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posted September 24, 2022 09:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Before I moved, many times I noticed that the ceiling lights in my kitchen would dim at times and when I didn't pick up her energy, the lights would be brighter...

How interesting, I knew there was something up with those lights and the 'darkness' with that candle on the card... From now on it'll burn consistently bright for you no matter how dark it is 'out there' in the world.

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posted September 24, 2022 09:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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My NN is also conjunct Uranus and I have been around my mom for a long time...I was looking at the Uranus transit to the IC online..you had read for me about moving again and it would be about me moving away from family...so I can see this for you as well..in Capricorn (parents)..Capricorn is definitely a comfort zone..I have planets in my first house in cap and jupiter (travel) makes a yod to my uranus in the 7th conjunct the NN..interesting the similarities between our charts...and for your age, you have learned a lot of what I have, but in a shorter period of time..

mars opposite uranus and mars square uranus can also create some restlessness, too.


I'm glad you mentioned this, because I had another discovery I missed out on for many years. Actually, my Jupiter is not only trine my Uranus-Neptune conjunction, but also my NN attached to them. Destined to expand, be it spiritually, or across borders/countries. If the opportunity arises to move abroad (to help me further expand my consciousness) I will definitely take it - however, not on a whim, but after serious financial and practical preparation (which I am already doing by saving continuously) and for the long haul anchoring myself. I'm way too practical and grounded to throw away anything just like that, got to love the Virgo-Capricorn-Saturn energy... it saves me from a lot of headaches
Other times, it makes me overly serious and work-work-work which has the tendency to take away the adventurous and fun aspect (Sag) of my life if I don't use moderation to control it.
I could use some teaching on how to enjoy life in a much more carefree manner (which I couldn't afford myself before since my childhood) I would like to experience what it is like to be free and enjoy life with child-like innocence.

I've been trying to look for signs to detect my own restlessness, because I have that tendency, too. And I am writing this after I went for an exceptionally long walk in my town yesterday... As I have the (Sag) Mercury-Mars squared by (Virgo) Jupiter. Quite literally the racing mind. (I also love speed IRL) I randomly caught myself dreaming of hopping on a plane while I was doing my usual "walking meditation" (if someone mentions I should do yoga I immediately get dismissive, I'm a "cardio-type" of person.)

From time to time I have a restless mind whenever something or someone triggers me emotionally (I am massive on overthinking things and torturing myself with them, although it happens less by getting older and wiser...) Whenever I get anxious, sometimes even to the extent of having an anxiety attack, my mind is on overdrive and freezes (sort of a brainfog) and I immediately feel the need to get away somewhere and at bare minimum walk it off (flight reaction). I literally cannot stay at one place I get so antsy and bothered. I feel the urge to go, or else the feeling of being trapped drives me crazy and saps my energy.

In my current life circumstances my hands are slightly tied, not to mention I still try to remain responsible (Virgo-Cap), but if I was living large I would definitely fly away quite literally.

I think we are somewhat similar with my person, but the outlet and how we handle the high voltage energy is possibly slightly different. Another thing I noticed in my chart: Jupiter is also square my Sun(-Ceres). I associate the Sun with the Solar plexus chakra and life energy. Whenever I experience anxiety my Solar plexus gets blocked, I feel a knot in my stomach and I literally cannot eat anything for a whole day, until the blockage dissolves. What helps the situation is to ease my mind and emotions by moving and grounding myself in nature, also using natural remedies like drinking peppermint tea, etc. (both Sag and Virgo)

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posted September 24, 2022 10:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I'm going to add more tomorrow..lots of interruptions while writing you...plus we may have a storm coming--it's down around South America right now..plus I'm picking up a lot of energies..I wanted to look over your last post again and then go back and look at the synastry..and his chart...

Take your time whenever is convenient for you. In the last couple of days I was off-grid, this ongoing Mercury Rx is way too cranky for my liking I had a very quick and seemingly good job opportunity last week out of the blue, just to get rejected this week because of not being able to think straight during the interview But I guess it was divine protection and perhaps there is something much better for me out there.

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posted September 24, 2022 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Emsie!

Finally...

In going back through your synastry, I'm seeing his natal Saturn conjunct your moon..it's possible that he can be a wet blanket emotionally at times..and his Saturn also squaring your natal pluto, ruler of 2nd house..thinking that you may hang on to what you've accumulated financially and not share so much..his values may be different on accumulating versus spending..I think you said something about differences in how both of you grew up..your gains were hard won, where his were provided as needed and then some..

I couldn't remember this before, but his Jupiter in your 12th house can also represent, beside healing, that one of you would be a spiritual teacher coming into the life of the other..

His natal Jupiter being in Libra can represent him benefiting in some way from his spouse and it being in your 12th house--empathy and compassion from you..

His natal Sun being in your 10th unless by actual birth time that changes would be another karmic indicator and one for longevity.

I just had a thought flash in my head..his NN in your 2nd house--he would teach you the value of travel...I don't know if I covered that yet..

With the squares between his natal sun and mercury to your mercury and mars..there may be differences in your philosophies regarding work...your mercuries are square, so you may both be on a different wavelength on the above things related to Virgo and Sagittarius stuff..

The square between his Sun and your natal mars may make you feel like you are walking on eggs when together at times..one of you may appear aggressive to the other one..but the conjunction of your natal jupiter to his sun may help to mitigate this and the other squares between your virgo and sagittarius planets..

Let me look at his placements again..

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posted September 24, 2022 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Since we don't know his birth time, I use zero cusps for those charts. For example, since he is a Virgo sun sign, it would be 1st house 0 deg virgo, 2nd house 0 deg Libra, 3rd house 0 deg Scorpio..then I place the corresponding planets in those houses..I also found that transits seem to work with this approach..

Since his Sun mercury conjunction isn't combust, he is able to detach from his ego..

The Saturn square Pluto in his chart may relate to work (service to others)--Saturn (parents)..other people's values--siblings..caring/supporting his remaining parent..could be you seeing that dynamic..maybe he didn't help before his father passed away, but his Saturn return is activating this again..this dynamic is also shown with his sun/mercury conjunction in opposition to neptune..sun (expression) coupled with mercury (siblings/thinking) in opposition to ideal life or compassion as the moon/cancer in my chart set up in on the 11th house cusp..maybe he felt that everyone was absent when he needed them the most (on what happened to him in his childhood)..chiron being squared by pluto and opposed by saturn

I've read that Uranus, Neptune and Pluto's aspects to each other are less consequential than how they aspect the sun, moon, etc. The outer planets--Uranus, etc. are more generational than anything..

Hope this helps to give you a bigger picture of your potential partner...

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posted September 26, 2022 07:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Emsie:
I'm glad you mentioned this, because I had another discovery I missed out on for many years. Actually, my Jupiter is not only trine my Uranus-Neptune conjunction, but also my NN attached to them. Destined to expand, be it spiritually, or across borders/countries. If the opportunity arises to move abroad (to help me further expand my consciousness) I will definitely take it - however, not on a whim, but after serious financial and practical preparation (which I am already doing by saving continuously) and for the long haul anchoring myself. I'm way too practical and grounded to throw away anything just like that, got to love the Virgo-Capricorn-Saturn energy... it saves me from a lot of headaches
Other times, it makes me overly serious and work-work-work which has the tendency to take away the adventurous and fun aspect (Sag) of my life if I don't use moderation to control it.
I could use some teaching on how to enjoy life in a much more carefree manner (which I couldn't afford myself before since my childhood) I would like to experience what it is like to be free and enjoy life with child-like innocence.

I've been trying to look for signs to detect my own restlessness, because I have that tendency, too. And I am writing this after I went for an exceptionally long walk in my town yesterday... As I have the (Sag) Mercury-Mars squared by (Virgo) Jupiter. Quite literally the racing mind. (I also love speed IRL) I randomly caught myself dreaming of hopping on a plane while I was doing my usual "walking meditation" (if someone mentions I should do yoga I immediately get dismissive, I'm a "cardio-type" of person.)

From time to time I have a restless mind whenever something or someone triggers me emotionally (I am massive on overthinking things and torturing myself with them, although it happens less by getting older and wiser...) Whenever I get anxious, sometimes even to the extent of having an anxiety attack, my mind is on overdrive and freezes (sort of a brainfog) and I immediately feel the need to get away somewhere and at bare minimum walk it off (flight reaction). I literally cannot stay at one place I get so antsy and bothered. I feel the urge to go, or else the feeling of being trapped drives me crazy and saps my energy.

In my current life circumstances my hands are slightly tied, not to mention I still try to remain responsible (Virgo-Cap), but if I was living large I would definitely fly away quite literally.

I think we are somewhat similar with my person, but the outlet and how we handle the high voltage energy is possibly slightly different. Another thing I noticed in my chart: Jupiter is also square my Sun(-Ceres). I associate the Sun with the Solar plexus chakra and life energy. Whenever I experience anxiety my Solar plexus gets blocked, I feel a knot in my stomach and I literally cannot eat anything for a whole day, until the blockage dissolves. What helps the situation is to ease my mind and emotions by moving and grounding myself in nature, also using natural remedies like drinking peppermint tea, etc. (both Sag and Virgo)


I can relate to what you wrote about saving and working...the uncertainty of what's to be was hard for me...I squirreled away household things..years ago manufacturer's would offer items relatively cheap with small postage and handling fees and proofs of purchase of the items they sold--food stuff mostly..I got mugs, cutting boards, small cosmetic bags, etc. which I packed away (Jupiter in Cap, first house)..now I'm cleaning out..transiting Pluto conjuncting Jupter...if I had a better idea years ago on how my life would play out, most likely the accumulation would have been minimal..same as you on the kids..sometimes I thought it would be nice to have them, but then I never met a guy that I felt would be there in the long term..the fur kid I welcomed was knowing that one day my mother would be gone..I had Neptune transiting my first house for the longest time..intercepted--cap rising with Aquarius there, too, so I didn't see my siblings fully until it completed its exit..

On your thoughts about experiencing the childlike days that you missed...I noticed that when I let up on all the work I do, my social and sense of humor kick in...I find that if I attend something that people bring their families to, then my childhood days come back to play--movies with theatre popcorn, we have slurpees--frozen iced beverage with cherry or other flavors brightly colored (can't have the sugar right now)..playing at the playground, etc...nowadays, though, I find that people with their children are pretty paranoid of adults without kids being around there..I stopped at one to let my fur kid pee and noticed that not long afterwards, everyone started leaving..I had never stopped there...can't imagine what it would be like to have kids anymore...loved trick or treating here..but parents don't let many of them run free to go house to house for candy..we saw the same people they worry about years ago, figured it out, and just avoided them...

On your restlessness and what you've experienced in your childhood..have you ever had your cortisol levels checked? My level has been low from stress and being overworked..I bumped into a woman years ago that actually had high cortisol..she had been abused by her father during her childhood, but never talked about it to her mother..if you research high cortisol online, it talks about the level being caused by traumatic events and that counseling would help..she wouldn't go and I don't think she ever talked about it even though she told me her mother was visiting and would have the opportunity..the woman was married and seemed to have a good relationship, but what happened in her past was still affecting her..I found that the anxiety, etc. would decrease and steadily go away by not eating sugar (whether refined/processed) or natural (fruits) and reducing my salt intake (I was extremely sensitive to both). I took hydrocortisone once years ago (which is an exact replacement) and then felt fine..went to a movie and had salty popcorn and the slurpee...it was a marvel comics movie like spiderman..all the violence in the movie bothered me even though usually that isn't the case..once i finished the sugary drink and stopped eating the salty popcorn, it started to go away...

When I had my cortisol checked years ago, it was saliva testing and it didn't show up in the blood work until after I started eating better and taking better care of myself..walking in nature also helps with this..but diet, too..I noticed that when people donated food to the veterans (many of them had PTSD), it was sweet or very salty foods..drinking alcohol (turns to sugar in the bloodstream) doesn't help them either...

I think the someone or "something" coming that you saw for the person stalking me may be the storm that is coming..since we are in mercury retrograde, it could be another one coming after it goes direct..as I remember in the workplace, if we had a project or disruption during the retrograde, another one would happen again after mercury went direct...

Board games, playing sports..oh, you might try Pilates (part of yoga, but more cardio)..

Time to finish the last of my storm prep..

Take care,
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posted September 28, 2022 07:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Emsie:
How interesting, I knew there was something up with those lights and the 'darkness' with that candle on the card... From now on it'll burn consistently bright for you no matter how dark it is 'out there' in the world.

You had read that someone or something would get them to stop..we have a catastrophic hurricane coming to our west coast (we are on the East coast), but will be affected somewhat by it as it crosses over..they may be more impacted as the angle of the crossover keeps changing..

I did have a reading a while back and the reader's guide wanted to tell me something..they said that something would happen, but that I wouldn't be impacted..but their guide wouldn't say what it was...there are possible tornadoes to come over the next day or so..

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posted September 28, 2022 08:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You had read that someone or something would get them to stop..we have a catastrophic hurricane coming to our west coast (we are on the East coast), but will be affected somewhat by it as it crosses over..they may be more impacted as the angle of the crossover keeps changing..

I did have a reading a while back and the reader's guide wanted to tell me something..they said that something would happen, but that I wouldn't be impacted..but their guide wouldn't say what it was...there are possible tornadoes to come over the next day or so..


I've been following the report about Ian on CNN since yesterday. It is massive and about to make landfall, I really hope it will pass through without any loss of lives! Stay safe and above ground in case of storm surge!

I can recall I also read about just another postponement of the Artemis-1 launch due to the hurricane threat. There is something to this Mercury retrograde which makes it stand out much more - at least to me. Especially, combined with 5 other planets in retrograde motion including a square between Saturn and Uranus...

Back to the reading, another thought I wanted to add: In the headlines I've also read the hurricane has left Cuba without power. Perhaps this is also why I picked up on the candlelight in the darkness. I am pretty sure the storm will cause power outages in FL as well. I checked back, it was the 4 of Swords card combined with the World. Definitely an event connected to the world and nature. And a 'cycle' (thinking of the motion of Ian)

ETA: I will review your previous replies later as well, right now I feel like mush

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posted September 28, 2022 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinaReads     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe he travels short distances to work and you will meet him through things people that handle transactions of money. Perhaps he talks or thinks a lot for what he does maths, basic maths, talks a lot and or needs to talk a lot. He’s close by though so I don’t know if he is foreign.

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posted September 29, 2022 06:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Maybe he travels short distances to work and you will meet him through things people that handle transactions of money. Perhaps he talks or thinks a lot for what he does maths, basic maths, talks a lot and or needs to talk a lot. He’s close by though so I don’t know if he is foreign.

Hi Mina, do you mean my current person of interest, or my future spouse in general?

As for my person of interest, to me he is foreigner as I live in Europe. I haven't met him yet in person, but we have a common friend who is my ex-colleague. With my ex-colleague I worked at a department which deals with benefits and financial things for all employees within the company.

And as far as I know the person I'm interested in graduated from a business school in the Summer not so long ago.

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posted September 29, 2022 11:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinaReads     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think in general it’s easier to find your person that way because it’s an interpretation of your natal

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posted October 01, 2022 06:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Emsie!

We managed to keep our power..only twice did it seem like we might..

There were people in S. Florida that we're going to ride it out even though they were advised to evacuate..same as hurricane Katrina in Louisiana..so sad..but most of these people had their own transportation unlike in Louisiana..maybe they felt like their lives were empty--children gone, etc. and many adults here don't visit their parents often, but who knows..a news reporter interviewed one that I saw and they didn't have much to say as to why they were staying..maybe it's what they are comfortable with..

We had a nice cold front come through afterwards bringing a 20 degree drop..

After seeing what Mina wrote for you, I'm thinking your man of interest does have his moon in Pisces and opposite his natal Mercury.. talkative..

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posted October 03, 2022 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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his Saturn also squaring your natal pluto, ruler of 2nd house..thinking that you may hang on to what you've accumulated financially and not share so much..his values may be different on accumulating versus spending..I think you said something about differences in how both of you grew up..your gains were hard won, where his were provided as needed and then some..

Exactly, and at the moment I'm also trying to minimize my expenses as much as possible as I'm still looking for a new job. In the last few months I haven't had any income and only recently have I subscribed to our local support programme I'm eligible for. For 3 months I will get the minimum wage which is enough for paying my rent and paying bills. I'd say I've gotten used to this since my childhood, and continuously looking for new job opportunities on a daily basis, so I'm not in panic mode (yet). This is why a certain amount of spare money and being conscious about accumulating and spending comes in handy. Let's hope my person is learning the exact same with his Saturn return. I heard he's been struggling with his career as he wanted to get a job according to his recent degree (business), but local language is also needed to fulfill such positions (he doesn't speak the language), so he could only acquire a waiter position at some restaurant. Definitely not what he anticipated and I also get from my cards he feels stifled by being stuck in his career - sound like Saturn return at its best

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I couldn't remember this before, but his Jupiter in your 12th house can also represent, beside healing, that one of you would be a spiritual teacher coming into the life of the other..

His natal Jupiter being in Libra can represent him benefiting in some way from his spouse and it being in your 12th house--empathy and compassion from you..


I think I would have a calming effect on him, like a safe refuge (which I also need) and he would feel understood on a deep level, especially on what happened to both of us.

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His natal Sun being in your 10th unless by actual birth time that changes would be another karmic indicator and one for longevity.

Not so long ago I watched a YT video on the interpretation of the birth chart of Queen Elizabeth II. She had a few Capricorn characteristics in the chart - again the longetivity of her reign and physical years... Simply amazing! A few weeks ago when I followed the ceremonies after her death for 1,5 weeks I was thinking to myself what a role model she and his beloved Prince Philip was. Not to mention their connection... I wish I had such a loyal and lovely life-long companion beside me! I consider myself quite Saturnian (and Plutonian), so I think I could handle a connection like this easier even if the honeymoon phase passes. I don't long for the "addictive-unpredictable-inconsistent" like I used to when I was unawakened and operating with my unhealed family patterns.

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I just had a thought flash in my head..his NN in your 2nd house--he would teach you the value of travel...I don't know if I covered that yet..

I'd be very open to that. Even though I'm a hard worker, but deep down my soul yearns for freedom (in a moderated way) I'd really appreciate these type of lessons.

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With the squares between his natal sun and mercury to your mercury and mars..there may be differences in your philosophies regarding work...your mercuries are square, so you may both be on a different wavelength on the above things related to Virgo and Sagittarius stuff..

Like I already wrote above, considering the fact he's very much into business, finance and practical related things including jobs I'm not surprised to see this. I'm more like a philosophical person (philologist according to my degree) and financial type of jobs give me the shivers (or completely make me run to the hills). On an everyday level I'm not even good at managing finances, taxes and paperwork, I honestly feel like a complete fool in these topics...

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posted October 03, 2022 10:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Since his Sun mercury conjunction isn't combust, he is able to detach from his ego..

That's very good news as I don't let people operating fully from the ego into my life (or at least keep them at arm's length) Our friend also confirmed he is very selective, just like me - he is rather spending time alone and cuts things/people off right away that would not be good for him and do not align with his core values, not to waste anyone's time. Especially when it comes to relationships in general... Many years ago he had a gf he was incompatible with on many levels, and ever since none. I think he is indeed very intelligent and learned the lesson quite early on to "choose his battles well".

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The Saturn square Pluto in his chart may relate to work (service to others)--Saturn (parents)..other people's values--siblings..caring/supporting his remaining parent..could be you seeing that dynamic..maybe he didn't help before his father passed away, but his Saturn return is activating this again..this dynamic is also shown with his sun/mercury conjunction in opposition to neptune..sun (expression) coupled with mercury (siblings/thinking) in opposition to ideal life or compassion as the moon/cancer in my chart set up in on the 11th house cusp..maybe he felt that everyone was absent when he needed them the most (on what happened to him in his childhood)..chiron being squared by pluto and opposed by saturn

And now that he is having his Saturn return I think this is highlighted for him again. I haven't seen his sister(s) visiting him for quite some time now when I checked the social media account the last time, he also hasn't visited my country and our common friend yet. He is probably on his own (again) quite literally. A few days ago I was contemplating on the general nature of Saturn in Aquarius - ever since the pandemic hit people in my circle have become less and less communicative, and now I lost contact with almost everyone in my life - except my fam and a few friends (but the communication with them is also short, 'dry' and infrequent). I feel completely restricted(Saturn) socially(Aquarius + 11H matters).

And coming from my current 'jobless situation' having to rely on local financial support I'm reliving a part of my childhood - deprivation and dealing with my issue alone. I think something similar must be going on with my person, too. Being away from siblings and his mother alone in a different country with a restrictive job. I'm not sure how the hospitality sector works in other countries, I can only assume it's very similar to my country. Being a waiter/waitress can be very demanding, sometimes even working on weekend schedule - not leaving enough time and room for traveling... That's quite restrictive in my interpretation Probably he had no other choice than to accept a less than ideal job position to continue on maintaining his life in an otherwise ideal country.

I can also imagine his current life situation could have easily triggered his childhood trauma as well in some way... Being left alone with the trauma with nobody compassionate and caring around. As if left out in the cold snowy winter night peeking into the warm family room through the window... Being deprived of empathy and understanding... something I am also familiar with, unfortunately...

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posted October 03, 2022 10:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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We managed to keep our power..only twice did it seem like we might..

There were people in S. Florida that we're going to ride it out even though they were advised to evacuate..same as hurricane Katrina in Louisiana..so sad..but most of these people had their own transportation unlike in Louisiana..maybe they felt like their lives were empty--children gone, etc. and many adults here don't visit their parents often, but who knows..a news reporter interviewed one that I saw and they didn't have much to say as to why they were staying..maybe it's what they are comfortable with..


Thank God things turned out to be slightly better for you than what I've heard and read from the news! I even saw a report where a lady from Sanibel Island was rescued with her cat with a helicopter basket after her home was completely flooded. It was so strange to see, because I cannot imagine escaping/being rescued without my basic ID's and other essential things.

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After seeing what Mina wrote for you, I'm thinking your man of interest does have his moon in Pisces and opposite his natal Mercury.. talkative..

I can confirm this one, and I suspect - as this is an opposition - he probably might have a life lesson to balance his intellect with emotions. I feel this might have also contributed to completely closing himself off from love and being way too rational (and a picky Virgo ) As if I was reading about myself I swear... only that I'm not a Virgo, but very Queen of Swords figure. (When I'm asking about my future spouse he is always represented by the King of Swords)

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Hi Emsie!

Sorry for the late reply!

Thank you for all the feedback. It sounds like you have a good handle on what to expect with your person of interest. We're here to learn what we need to while we are here. I thought Queen Elizabeth was a very good ruler--never realized what the monarch did--their were checks and balanced with their parliament. I somehow feel that Princess Charlotte will one day be Prime Minister or something to that effect as I don't think things will be all roses for what Queen Elizabeth left behind--considering all those commonwealth countries wanting to be independent, but then again less for her heirs to take care of.

Too many little projects for me at the moment..maybe it's transiting saturn squaring my natal Mars making me feel like I'm getting things done really slowly or putting more discipline into it..till around the end of this month and then Saturn continues to square my 4th and 10th house cusps until around the end of the year..I'm hoping to have everything cleaned out by the end of the year as well..maybe that's when I finally just live here and don't have all these extra things/projects to do.

I'll be checking in later this week, but need to focus more on stuff at home.

It's been fun getting caught up and chatting.

Take care and be safe!
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I've also been preoccupied in the last few weeks. Around the 8th when Pluto stopped and went stationary direct I literally felt very 'spacey' for a few days. As if my life was literally hanging in the ethers, nothing happened just the dead silence. Since then, I started to see the light at the end of the tunnel (at least it's not tooting ) I feel the energy and my life shifting slowly, but surely.

I've also been contemplating my Solar Return chart for 2023 (may post it later around Nov/Dec), it shows quite interesting things, and next April there will be a Solar Eclipse almost exactly on my natal 7H cusp - featuring transiting Jupiter conjunct 7H cusp by 4-5 degrees.

I have an astrologer in my country I always go to for a 1-year prognosis based on Natal, SR, Solar Arc and Secondary Progressions + transits. Last year she told me about opportunities popping up in my love life, but she didn't seem convinced in regards to this year's (upon seeing the loads of retrograde planets and potential for delays and other complications, I guess...) She mentioned something like either I meet someone this year and during 2023 the connection rapidly progresses into a higher level of commitment, OR I meet people I don't get involved with this year, and during 2023 I meet someone significant with the potential for commitment

Looks like the 2nd scenario might be the right answer Jupiter cruising and now retrograding in my natal 5H hasn't brought anything serious, not even romance and falling in love... I talked to a few people, but I didn't even consider them 'potential for boyfriend material' to begin with, so this Jupiter 5H transit turned out to be a complete bust for me. But next April/May should look interesting.

Regarding my person of interest, I don't think he would travel a lot until the end of 2022, maybe to the USA for Christmas, but I somehow feel and get from readings, too, that he is trying to survive the reality of life in general. Around December Saturn will hover over his natal Saturn again (plus the transit Saturn-Uranus square I am also trying to survive at the moment...)

The moral of this year... I hate a dozen of planets being retrograde at once, alongside with Saturn-Uranus squares... The whole thing has felt like as if I was stuck in the matrix and life went on - without me in it. But, I've noticed and recently heard from a few people they had felt the same, survival mode and hermit-life going on with an almost completely dried up social life.

Until life picks up again and I get a job (hopefully quite soon) I will also continue on with downsizing and cleaning up. Decluttering is good for the mind and soul. I already brought quite a few towels back to my mom as I already have at least 3-4 I use frequently and I don't need more to take space up. Not to mention I found dozens of empty envelopes for old bills I've already paid - dating back to March 2020 when I moved in here. They were just piling up like crazy over time, but I got fed up with the mess. Little by little, they all go to my paper recycle bin. Hopefully, we will get to the end of the process and feel much freer and lighter!

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Hi Emsie!

I think Pluto going direct helped me to refocus on more of the downsizing..

Long day..been working some baking crafts, which are helping me to clean out and downsize more of my craft stuff and things in the frig and pantry believe it or not..and should finish tomorrow..then I'll respond more to your post soon..


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Hi Emsie,

The solar eclipse falling on your 7H cusp w/Jupiter there is interesting..seems like a good opportunity for bringing in a growth relationship..

Jupiter in the 5H can also bring more social or creative opportunities..

On your person of interest, Saturn returns can also motivate people to plan ways to get out there more socially (make more effort), since you tend to evaluate what you're getting out of your relationships or lack of, so maybe he changes..

I can relate to the social drying up in some respects..

With the downsizing you also eliminate the old, so it can be replaced with the new..when I started moving to where I am now, it felt good to be in my old place with a lot less in the closets..I took some towels that had been well used down to the animal shelter (they use them after washing their animals) and also the vet office..they use them to wrap the animals after a biopsy is taken)... stopped taking stuff to some thrift stores because of the buy and resell people coming in..

Next year, 2023, also adds up to 7 or 7H matters..


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Hi Emsie!

Hope all is going well for you. I just wanted to give you some feedback. We may have another storm coming. Our hurricane season doesn't end until December 1st..so maybe this was the nature you saw coming, the World...this time from the East, which may be much closer than the last storm...

I'm working on organizing stuff for the next cleanout..hoping to start it the middle of this month..I remember you writing about all the extra towels you had because of ones your mom gave you..I can relate..and I've taken some of the worn ones to an animal shelter..and a vet office..hope your downsizing is going well..

Take care,
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Hi Springtimeflower!

I've been a bit absent lately, the eclipses seem to get the better of me, I'm unusually sleepy, so I try to maintain a somewhat healthy daily routine - getting earlier to bed, etc. In the meantime, I am still looking for a new job, this week I already had a rejection, another feedback is expected until Friday. But, I have a few other interviews scheduled as well, fingers crossed.

I've also spotted the brewing storm on the radar a few days ago, hopefully this storm would be a much lighter one!! Stay safe, sending my thoughts and prayers to everyone in that area!

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