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Emsie
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posted April 29, 2024 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Everyone,

I have an exchange request for 2 career-related Qs:

1. When am I gonna start working in a new job position next time?

2. Will my application(s) be accepted for a 2-year ceramics class around end of August to start attending classes from September?

Please let me know if you'd like to participate and your Qs.

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harmonicvibes
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posted April 29, 2024 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello E

I am up to exchange. My question will be if SF and I meet in person will he find me attractive? We only talked online dating site exchanged numbers so he saw pics on my profile...but still nervous lol.

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harmonicvibes
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posted April 29, 2024 01:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel that card are not giving distinct timeframe when will you get a new position. I think right now is to time to re-evaluate something, tweak something maybe your resume brush up on skills a bit more or even interview skills. I think you will spend time doing that strengthen your personal skills. I think that it means from the spread it matter of when you feel ready prepared. Could be three weeks could be three months. I almost wonder if it will be 6 months which is a ways off or could indicate during the virgo zodiac time.

Strenth hermit wheel of fortune

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Emsie
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posted April 30, 2024 10:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
Hello E

I am up to exchange. My question will be if SF and I meet in person will he find me attractive? We only talked online dating site exchanged numbers so he saw pics on my profile...but still nervous lol.


Hi harmonicvibes ☺️

9 of Swords
Justice
Devil

Overall:
Strength

I would say yes, definitely. He will probably sense your nervousness at the beginning of the meet up, but I think he will find your appearance very Libra- and Venus-like - equal portions of body parts, balanced vibe, classical beauty. With Devil I'd say he might have other not-so-subtle thoughts as well, especially with Strength as the overall card I have a feeling that he might have to temper himself and concentrate on potentially being patient with you and investing in the connection by conversing even more and getting to know you better first before anything else happens.

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Emsie
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posted April 30, 2024 10:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
I feel that card are not giving distinct timeframe when will you get a new position. I think right now is to time to re-evaluate something, tweak something maybe your resume brush up on skills a bit more or even interview skills. I think you will spend time doing that strengthen your personal skills. I think that it means from the spread it matter of when you feel ready prepared. Could be three weeks could be three months. I almost wonder if it will be 6 months which is a ways off or could indicate during the virgo zodiac time.

Strenth hermit wheel of fortune


I agree completely, I've just had a wake-up call yesterday and before that I wasn't too active searching for any open positions. Due to reasons which can be described by Strength and Hermit cards. Basically, I've been on a 'mental vacation' for a while now, but I feel this attitude needs to change and I have to be much more proactive (Wheel of Fortune). I really hope it won't take another 2-3 months, tho, as I've been unemployed for 5 months now already 🙏🙏🙏 Many thanks for the reading

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Emsie
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posted May 10, 2024 03:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump - Still open to exchanges 😊

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LilyIris07
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posted May 10, 2024 03:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LilyIris07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Emsie:
Bump - Still open to exchanges 😊

Sure I’m open! Do you have the same questions?
My question is how does AAD feel about me?

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Emsie
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posted May 14, 2024 09:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Sure I’m open! Do you have the same questions?
My question is how does AAD feel about me?

Hi LilyIris07,

Sorry for the late reply, I'm back. My questions are the same.

As for your Q, I got the following:

Island Time
Hello?
Glam It Up

Overall:
Shy

I think AAD feels a chill and relaxed vibe surrounding you and a light-hearted attitude which AAD really likes when being in your company. They might also consider taking their own time, or maybe it is you who might be a bit on the fence about things to the extent of being a little bit distant and detached as well. Overall this might come off as shyness for this person, or it is them who are fairly shy around you and second-guessing themselves if they should approach you. With Glam It Up I'd say AAD admires you and really loves your style and that you make the effort to look glam.

Let me know if this resonated. Somehow I get the sense that this person might be afraid of remaining in the friend zone only as a friend and not more.

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LilyIris07
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posted May 15, 2024 08:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LilyIris07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Emsie:
Hi Everyone,

I have an exchange request for 2 career-related Qs:

1. When am I gonna start working in a new job position next time?

2. Will my application(s) be accepted for a 2-year ceramics class around end of August to start attending classes from September?

Please let me know if you'd like to participate and your Qs.


For the first Q - I got the 6 of pentacles (RV), Ace of Wands (RV) and the Queen of Wands. So I don’t really know how to read time frames - either way I don’t think it’s a yes or a no; it seems like it’s more saying take this time to work on your creativity and move forward from that stance. Perhaps there’s a pause in terms of work or something, or you feel like you haven’t reaped what you have sowed, but you are brimming with creativity and passion but it needs to be honed in on. Are you in a position now that you feel like you aren’t getting what you deserve?

For Question 2 I got The Ace of Pentacles, 10 of pentacles (RV), the Knight of Swords and The Chariot. I want to say yes, but you are experiencing set backs in this area, either job wise or pursuing your creative endeavors- either way, it does it seem like there is opportunity and when it comes up you should take it, and you can also manifest it and make it happen by thinking things through, honing in on your creativity and pursing the things that you want.

I did ask for an advice card and I got the Tower, so I rate that this delay in manifestation is frustrating to you but it’s asking you to rethink, reexplore what it is you actually want in this area of your life. With the tower I always take it as the only way to go is up after it has fallen, so either way something will come your way and you’ll be able to apply yourself to it.

I hope this helps

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LilyIris07
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posted May 15, 2024 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LilyIris07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Emsie:
Hi LilyIris07,

Sorry for the late reply, I'm back. My questions are the same.

As for your Q, I got the following:

Island Time
Hello?
Glam It Up

Overall:
Shy

I think AAD feels a chill and relaxed vibe surrounding you and a light-hearted attitude which AAD really likes when being in your company. They might also consider taking their own time, or maybe it is you who might be a bit on the fence about things to the extent of being a little bit distant and detached as well. Overall this might come off as shyness for this person, or it is them who are fairly shy around you and second-guessing themselves if they should approach you. With Glam It Up I'd say AAD admires you and really loves your style and that you make the effort to look glam.

Let me know if this resonated. Somehow I get the sense that this person might be afraid of remaining in the friend zone only as a friend and not more.


I do think there is a bit of shyness between us - we chat often, and i see him at least once a week but sometimes neither of us will approach the other. I’m not too sure why…

And haha, I do enjoy putting together cute outfits - not too sure if he admires it - it seems like he’s been triggered in the past when I mention fashion.

Hmm interesting, I honestly don’t even know if he’s interested in me romantically, I sometimes think that’s happening and then other times it just seems like friendship. Maybe he’s doubting my intentions?

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Emsie
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posted May 16, 2024 08:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LilyIris07:

Hmm interesting, I honestly don’t even know if he’s interested in me romantically, I sometimes think that’s happening and then other times it just seems like friendship. Maybe he’s doubting my intentions?


Thank you for the feedback I agree with you, the whole reading felt like as if he was second-guessing something in regards to your and/or the connection and sitting on the fence whether to approach you with more, or you rather see him just as a friend. Maybe this is also the reason that he acts like a bit distant, but light-hearted.

What also came to my mind about the fashion part - is it possible he might feel a bit intimidated and out of your league? I have a suspicion he might feel "not enough" for you as a source of shyness.

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LilyIris07
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posted May 16, 2024 08:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LilyIris07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Emsie:
Thank you for the feedback I agree with you, the whole reading felt like as if he was second-guessing something in regards to your and/or the connection and sitting on the fence whether to approach you with more, or you rather see him just as a friend. Maybe this is also the reason that he acts like a bit distant, but light-hearted.

What also came to my mind about the fashion part - is it possible he might feel a bit intimidated and out of your league? I have a suspicin he might feel "not enough" for you as a source of shyness.


Yes I think you’re right honestly - I think there is some feeling of lack on his part 🤷‍♀️. And you’re welcome ~~

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Emsie
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posted May 16, 2024 09:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm back with feedback regarding your reading for me.

For the 1st question, you're totally right about the pause, I've been unemployed for 5 months now (actively looking for a job for almost 2 after a few gap-months taken for resting) and there have been delays and a few curveballs already thrown at me. There were a few promising opportunities which turned out to be a complete bust I didn't see coming - maybe this is where the Tower card as an advice can also be related as transiting Uranus and Jupiter were not-so-kind to me so far... But I try to go about it as "rejection is divine protection". (Uranus is also sitting on my Solar Return chart Midheaven for this year, so I should have expected things regarding job and career going not-so-smoothly...)
At the same time, I have other new opportunities lined up, hopefully the interviews go well, and at this point I'm expecting and really hoping for a start date happening in July. Queen of Wands can signify Leo season, so I keep my fingers crossed.
In the meantime, as I have plenty of freetime I try to continue on with my creative projects, but I have to make the effort 2x as hard as I've been feeling pretty disorganized for a few months now.

For the 2nd question I found it interesting that the Knight of Swords and Chariot came out as their combination reminded me of the oracle cards ILovePoems pulled for the same Q in the other thread I had plans to already have a stable a job and pass the probation period by the time I could have started school, but now I can see it's not gonna happen the way I wanted for things to work out. Let's say if I'd start working in July then the end of the probation period would be in October. I really hope school would not affect my status at the company...

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LilyIris07
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posted May 19, 2024 07:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LilyIris07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Emsie:
I'm back with feedback regarding your reading for me.

For the 1st question, you're totally right about the pause, I've been unemployed for 5 months now (actively looking for a job for almost 2 after a few gap-months taken for resting) and there have been delays and a few curveballs already thrown at me. There were a few promising opportunities which turned out to be a complete bust I didn't see coming - maybe this is where the Tower card as an advice can also be related as transiting Uranus and Jupiter were not-so-kind to me so far... But I try to go about it as "rejection is divine protection". (Uranus is also sitting on my Solar Return chart Midheaven for this year, so I should have expected things regarding job and career going not-so-smoothly...)
At the same time, I have other new opportunities lined up, hopefully the interviews go well, and at this point I'm expecting and really hoping for a start date happening in July. Queen of Wands can signify Leo season, so I keep my fingers crossed.
In the meantime, as I have plenty of freetime I try to continue on with my creative projects, but I have to make the effort 2x as hard as I've been feeling pretty disorganized for a few months now.

For the 2nd question I found it interesting that the Knight of Swords and Chariot came out as their combination reminded me of the oracle cards ILovePoems pulled for the same Q in the other thread I had plans to already have a stable a job and pass the probation period by the time I could have started school, but now I can see it's not gonna happen the way I wanted for things to work out. Let's say if I'd start working in July then the end of the probation period would be in October. I really hope school would not affect my status at the company...


Interesting! Hmm, usually most companies are pretty understanding of someone who is studying.

Do you mind looking into another question for me? How does DH feel about his ex? Because I’m feeling like he’s still in love with her 🤔…

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Emsie
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posted May 21, 2024 09:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
How does DH feel about his ex? Because I’m feeling like he’s still in love with her 🤔…

Hi LilyIris07, I'm back with your reading.

Heartbroken
Photograph
Stabbed In The Back

Overall:
Mask
The Dragonfly

I think you are probably right, as DH does not seem to be over the break-up with his ex yet. The grieving period and trying to deal with whatever hurt him might still be on for him. I'd say he is possibly not in love with the ex, but is attached and misses the old memories and perhaps the old version of the ex when things were good between them. On a more mundane level he might still peep her photos/social media accounts. It might take more time for DH to release whatever happened and heal from the experience. Did his ex cheat on him before?
Overall I can see that this situation is something he is trying to hide from most people, especially from himself, and does not want people to find out that he's stuck. He probably acts light-hearted to pretend everything's fine with him, while in reality that's probably not the case. If he is a possible "partner material", he is not yet ready for a new relationship, but I have a feeling he might want to have rebound connection to try to forget.

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LilyIris07
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posted May 21, 2024 10:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LilyIris07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Emsie:
Hi LilyIris07, I'm back with your reading.

Heartbroken
Photograph
Stabbed In The Back

Overall:
Mask
The Dragonfly

I think you are probably right, as DH does not seem to be over the break-up with his ex yet. The grieving period and trying to deal with whatever hurt him might still be on for him. I'd say he is possibly not in love with the ex, but is attached and misses the old memories and perhaps the old version of the ex when things were good between them. On a more mundane level he might still peep her photos/social media accounts. It might take more time for DH to release whatever happened and heal from the experience. Did his ex cheat on him before?
Overall I can see that this situation is something he is trying to hide from most people, especially from himself, and does not want people to find out that he's stuck. He probably acts light-hearted to pretend everything's fine with him, while in reality that's probably not the case. If he is a possible "partner material", he is not yet ready for a new relationship, but I have a feeling he might want to have rebound connection to try to forget.



I don’t really see him as partner material… does that make me apart of the rebound then?

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LilyIris07
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posted May 21, 2024 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LilyIris07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Emsie:
Hi LilyIris07, I'm back with your reading.

Heartbroken
Photograph
Stabbed In The Back

Overall:
Mask
The Dragonfly

I think you are probably right, as DH does not seem to be over the break-up with his ex yet. The grieving period and trying to deal with whatever hurt him might still be on for him. I'd say he is possibly not in love with the ex, but is attached and misses the old memories and perhaps the old version of the ex when things were good between them. On a more mundane level he might still peep her photos/social media accounts. It might take more time for DH to release whatever happened and heal from the experience. Did his ex cheat on him before?
Overall I can see that this situation is something he is trying to hide from most people, especially from himself, and does not want people to find out that he's stuck. He probably acts light-hearted to pretend everything's fine with him, while in reality that's probably not the case. If he is a possible "partner material", he is not yet ready for a new relationship, but I have a feeling he might want to have rebound connection to try to forget.



Also thank you so much for the reading! Is there anything I can offer you?

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Emsie
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posted May 23, 2024 07:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LilyIris07:

I don’t really see him as partner material… does that make me apart of the rebound then?

In that case if you have your boundaries up and you're in for light-hearted good times with this person I would say it's okay to proceed as far as it feels comfortable for you. But I think he is not yet ready for anything serious with anyone unless he starts facing the fact that he needs healing first.

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Emsie
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posted May 23, 2024 07:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LilyIris07:

Also thank you so much for the reading! Is there anything I can offer you?

You're welcome At this moment I don't have any other Qs, but let me know if you're up to any exchanges later

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Randall
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posted June 21, 2024 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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Emsie
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posted July 02, 2024 09:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
I feel that card are not giving distinct timeframe when will you get a new position. I think right now is to time to re-evaluate something, tweak something maybe your resume brush up on skills a bit more or even interview skills. I think you will spend time doing that strengthen your personal skills. I think that it means from the spread it matter of when you feel ready prepared. Could be three weeks could be three months. I almost wonder if it will be 6 months which is a ways off or could indicate during the virgo zodiac time.

Strenth hermit wheel of fortune


Hi harmonicvibes,

Not sure if you read this (hopefully yes), I came with an update regarding my situation. So far it looks like things go according to your cards, the Leo/Virgo cusp might be valid as a start date, probably August. I've had quite a few interviews with either no offer, or I received offers, but the positions didn't get off the ground eventually... I'll check back in August to keep you updated.

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Randall
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posted July 10, 2024 08:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted August 14, 2024 01:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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