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posted June 14, 2024 09:02 PM            

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I guess my post is gone.
I remember you saying something about the ant symbol. Did you have a question about the ant symbol?

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posted June 14, 2024 11:05 PM            

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Hi ILovePoems!

Thank you again for the reading!

I didn’t have any questions about the ant symbol only possible thought that it could have been someone I worked with, because mentioned about working together towards something.

I initially felt like it could have been an EX that was a somewhat toxic situation. I’ve been having lots of dreams of him over the last year and am trying to figure out if I’m picking up on him thinking of me or if it’s my own grieving process. But a lot of the symbols you stated explains the last 5-8 years of my life, in many different situations (including work environments). So you are definitely picking up on some things!

Thank you for your time!!

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posted June 15, 2024 09:12 AM            

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Hi ladies,

Sorry to piggyback here, but I didn’t want to open a new thread.

Marie- I’m in a similar pattern regarding my ex, where I am also dreaming and constantly thinking about him to the point it’ll either bring me to tears or I’ll get angry about it at some point during the day, it’s been especially intense over the last couple of weeks and I am also trying to figure out whether it’s just me and my grieving or if it has anything to do with him also.
That’s why I decided to sound off to ask if someone maybe has advice on how to figure it out, I think it would be helpful to us and anyone else who may be struggling with this.

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posted June 15, 2024 02:11 PM            

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Hi Saggy,

Yes! I’d love to open the conversation to anyone who is going through the same thing or has advice.

My logical side says it’s just my own grieving and thoughts, but then there’s another part of me that senses or has a feeling that it’s actually him thinking about me. We have some 12th house synastry going on, so maybe it could be that tie? It’s also strange in this situation since it has been almost 10 years since we’ve talked. It kind of started so randomly last year with very intense and strange feelings. Just trying to figure out what’s going on! Haha

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posted June 15, 2024 04:17 PM            

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Hey Marie,

Same here!! We also have some 12th house synastry and I feel exactly the same where one side thinks it’s just me and the other thinks it’s him going back and forth also. I agree, your situation is even more interesting considering it’s been that long, reminds me of those scenarios where you’ll hear from someone from your past and it’ll literally come from nowhere or the person will be like wow how crazy, I was thinking about you lately also!! Do you have any intention to reach out to him? Did you ever go through the grieving process when you first split?

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posted June 15, 2024 05:02 PM            

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@MMarie

Thanks for your feedback! I'm sorry that the reading was everywhere; the tea leaves were on many symbols lol. I was hoping it would give you clues on who it could be. And to be honest, that's an interesting on how you think it could be someone that you work with as ants can indicate cooperation with eachother. Unless it indicates you and this specific person have to work together (besides work being involved) if you and this person may have to same goals in mind or maybe don't agree on the same things but have to work together for things to work out.

@Saggy7
It's fine. I hope everything is going well for you.

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posted June 15, 2024 11:59 PM            

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@ILovePoems the reading was wonderful! Resonated a lot in different ways. I’m not sure if that specific ex and I would ever have the chance to reconcile or work on things so it could be someone else perhaps. I’m going to let the reading and symbols sit in my mind for a bit and maybe someone else will pop up lol. Thanks again!

@Saggy interesting about the 12th house placements! Do you mind sharing exactly which ones you have in synastry? I would never reach out to him, for many reasons unfortunately, so it may just have to go unresolved. I did not go through the grieving process when it first happened so now that I am writing it, these feelings and dreams very well may be me finally grieving it. There was not much closure there so that didn’t help either.

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posted June 16, 2024 07:44 AM            

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posted June 16, 2024 07:44 AM            

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Hey Marie,

So I just checked again and my Sun and Mercury are in his 12th, and his Mars, Pluto and MC are in mine lol. What about you guys?

I understand that, well hopefully it gave you some clarity and now maybe you don’t have to wonder anymore? No closure sucks, I know there’s people that don’t need it, I’m the type of person that definitely does need so it would be very hard to close that chapter emotionally, I’m sorry you had to go through that.

Something else came to mind, not sure if you remember, few years ago we were asking here about when we will meet our next person/what he will be like etc, did any of those predictions come to pass for you?

@ Poems - thank you dear, I hope all is well with you also!

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posted June 16, 2024 10:56 AM            

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@Saggy, his Mercury and Mars conjunction are in my 12th house. Since I wasn’t practicing astrology back then I don’t know his birth time and if I have any planets in his 12th. We also have his Pluto almost exact square my Venus, and some other pretty significant synastry. Rough! But it was more toxic than loving, and I tend to romanticize situations in my head lol which is something I’m working on.

I agree about the closure thing. I am just realizing now at this point in my life how important it is. I’m sorry you are going through your situation as well and hope you had or are finding closure.

Oh yes! I vaguely remember that. I’ve been working on myself for a while now, and have not been in any relationship but will let you know if it does happen! Haha what about you? Did yours come to fruition?

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posted June 16, 2024 11:21 AM            

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Same here, we also have almost exact Venus square Pluto even though I’ll say it was equal amounts loving and toxic lol, towards the end more toxic for sure.
Yes, in retrospect I also tend to romanticize and I have people in my ear saying I should remember the bad more than the good when it’s over, I tend to do the opposite lol.

Yes, some things have, but I’m realizing just how specific but at the same time limited tarot can be. It’ll show you certain things, but never the whole picture, so it may see you falling happily in love, but then the other side of the coin is tbd and once you start experiencing it the cards pick up on it more. I don’t know if I’m explaining well what I mean, but I’m sure you’ll understand.

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posted June 16, 2024 12:11 PM            

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Yes I completely understand! That makes a lot of sense.

Oh interesting! Were you Pluto or Venus? Being Venus I’m always curious how the Pluto side of it feels. That aspect can create a pretty intense bond or sometimes a situation that’s hard to break and a lot of back and forth. If I could go back in time I’d tell myself to end it way earlier, or not get involved at all. But maybe that’s because I’m not at the end of my healing process. Hopefully after I’ve grieved a bit more, I’ll feel it’s a good learning lesson at the least.

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posted June 16, 2024 12:56 PM            

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I was actually Venus also! Typically I tend to be more on the Pluto side of things (even though I never had a venus sq pluto before). I thought the same to myself, wish I never did, but now I’m more coming to a place where I’m actually thankful that I did, because the good side of us was pretty magical and I would want to have that experience at least once in my lifetime, but hopefully more than once! Lol

I’m sure you’ll get there, yes, at the very least a good lesson. I mean same for me, I’m still working on it all.. I have a friend who whenever I start getting upset at myself for feeling a certain way about it or beating myself up, says “You can’t help how you feel”, for whatever reason it helps, it makes me be more forgiving towards myself and allow myself time to go through this process that is really very unique and unlike anything I went through before! Hope that helps you a little also! Be kind to yourself and don’t blame yourself for the past❤️

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posted June 16, 2024 01:35 PM            

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That is good that you are at the point of being thankful for it! Maybe that speaks to where you are at in your situation, which seems like a positive thing! I wish you the best with your journey in healing or whatever it is you need.

And thank you for those kind words! It does help to think of it in that way, about feeling whatever you are feeling in the moment. And I’ll try not to be too hard on myself. ❤️

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posted June 16, 2024 05:21 PM            

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Thanks so much, I wish you the same girl!! We will get there!

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posted July 14, 2024 01:05 PM            

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