posted August 12, 2024 11:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Welcome!

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Thank you so much!

posted August 14, 2024 11:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
It seems like you were advised how to reach your north node what wouldn’t necessary lead to relationships. One placement shouldn’t make or break it.
Originally, SN is considered to be something more familiar and comfortable to us. 7th house South node repeats bad relationship patterns. Do you have planets aspecting NN?
Did you have bad relationships or you are too comfortable with yourself and self-sufficient? I wonder if aspects make NN to be easier for you.
Many astrologists consider SN to be something bad and avoided. However, they forget to view it as an axis.
There’re theories nodes should be balanced and SN could be a point of strength to use to serve NN.
Also, there’re many other placements in your chart what make rs easier or harder for you.

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posted August 14, 2024 02:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
We are told to work on our NN as SN is supposed to be familiar and easy to us coming from past life. Since your AC and stellium in NN sign you naturally close to NN and embody those qualities already.

Couple ideas based on your information without seeing your chart:
Maybe, you need to go the opposite way and nurture your SN. But make sure you take the good qualities of Cancer and don’t indulge in their bad qualities.
Capricorn is known to be cold and independent and opposite of cancer. They’re good at material things, but not emotional.
Maybe, you need to be a breadwinner in relationships. Take care of your romantic partner in Capricorn way.
Though consider your Venus Mars and moon also.

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I show the characteristics of Capricorn very clearly. everyone says that lol but when it comes to relationships, it's like i change, yet it's been ages and i feel like I'm losing all my romantic senses.

posted August 15, 2024 05:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Check aspects to rs planets also, they are powerful.
If your chart is mostly about you, not relationships, it’s possibly not something what you need for your life path or meant to happen naturally. However, there are transits, aspects, synastry, free will.
It doesn’t mean you cannot have it if you really want. You probably would need to work for that and see how far out of your comfort zone you can go to get it. As 1st house Capricorn you can make things work and 12th house is good for manifesting.
Try to look at your chart as opportunities and obstacles.

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Do you mean retrograde planets? I have jupiter retrograde on my 9th house cusp. I have been checking transits for a year now and i had jupiter and venus transits in my 5th house but nothing lol

I checked the solar returns till 2029 and there are not major planets in my 7th house at all. Just that in 2025, i will have Mars rx in my 7th house and that worries me a bit.

posted August 19, 2024 04:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
I meant how your relationship planets aspected. 12 house placements would be more related to loneliness. Nodes in 1st-7th mean those houses issues are the significant theme in your life. Especially, Capricorn- Cancer. Family vs career, you vs your close surrounding, sacrifices related to them and so on.
Jupiter should go in Cancer soon. This should be helpful.

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That's my issue. The focus is too much and nothing is moving. maybe i should just give up completely but i don't know how. my mind doesn't stop thinking about why i can't break the curse and be in a relationship.

Hopefully, Jupiter goes to Cancer in May-ish next year but this year it transited my 5H house yet i didn't have a single date or whatever lol

posted August 19, 2024 06:26 PM            

I have Cap rising like you, but my north node in Leo is in the 7th house.

What sign and house is your Saturn in? Do you have any planets in Libra? Is there anything making an aspect to your and other planets in the first?

I've dated more than you have, but I also have Uranus in my 7th house, which made for short-lived ones. My first and seventh houses are intercepted as well.

You may have an aspect that will delay your getting married or having the relationship you want.

posted August 19, 2024 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Tatiana,

I have Cap rising like you, but my north node in Leo is in the 7th house.

What sign and house is your Saturn in? Do you have any planets in Libra? Is there anything making an aspect to your and other planets in the first?

I've dated more than you have, but I also have Uranus in my 7th house, which made for short-lived ones. My first and seventh houses are intercepted as well.

You may have an aspect that will delay your getting married or having the relationship you want.

Spring

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posted August 20, 2024 01:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Is Saturn in Aquarius or Capricorn? What degree?

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Aquarius

6 degrees

posted August 20, 2024 05:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Pluto is transiting your natal Saturn and what it will do is remove what isn't working in your life and replace it with something better. It could come suddenly (Aquarius). You will go through a transformation of sorts and have more freedom in the end. Aquarius is also about hopes and wishes and also CHANGE. You may get a promotion or new job where you don't have the hours you do now.

Is your moon in Capricorn? What degree?

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I think this Pluto removed a dozen things from my life in the past 3 years( a relationship, job, scholarship, etc- i have been very north node oriented since i could remember lol)

I'm hoping for a job i can do besides my current job( it's not paying much sadly, but hey Saturn in the second house makes money-making hard kinda)

posted August 21, 2024 05:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Pluto has been mostly retrograde..but once it goes into aqua in November you should experience more changes that are significant.. especially at the conjunction to your natal Saturn..maybe look to your third and ninth houses to see how your thinking and philosophies will be affected..I went back and forth on having kids and now I'm okay with not having them ... sometimes just changing how you think about your chart may change everything around you..sounds nutty.. our thoughts sometimes create our reality..

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posted August 21, 2024 10:18 AM            

I thought nothing was moving for me and my mother passed away two months ago. With my intercept in the 1st house, that put transiting uranus in the 4th or home/mother.

posted August 21, 2024 12:49 PM            

I think it was around Jan 2024 when Pluto entered Aqua and my life changed so suddenly. i started working and studying a new place after being stagnant for 4 years.

but now moving back to Aqua again, I'm not sure what else i should expect. hope it's not another fall because i experienced a heavy fall when my satun return started in 2020.

I checked all the transits to my 5th house this year ( Venus and Jupiter included) but it didn't really activate my 5th house. Sadly or luckily, my only strong planet is Saturn in Aqua and the rest have lessons i need to learn

posted August 21, 2024 04:30 PM            

Maybe look at the houses and what aspects are made to your Saturn..I think you said that Venus is in sextile to your Saturn. Also look at the 10th house as that is Saturn's home.

I hope you don't fall. I fell in 2016 and broke my hip--transiting Uranus was squaring my ascendant.