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Topic: Does he have feelings for me? Reading Request
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LibraGirl
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posted October 28, 2024 11:56 AM
  
Hello all I am wondering if this particular man I know I'll use his initials WR if he has feelings for me. We are currently friends but I will admit to me on my part there is chemistry between the two of us and I'll admit I do like him and he admitted to me he likes me as well. If anyone is willing to help thank you  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted October 29, 2024 11:26 AM
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LibraGirl
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posted November 02, 2024 01:11 PM
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Emsie
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posted November 02, 2024 01:47 PM
Hi LibraGirl,King of Cups
Knight of Cups
Queen of Cups
6 of Cups
3 of Swords Overall: Ace of Wands Indeed, not only chemistry, but feelings are also present and mutual with these Cups cards. With Knight of Cups this is a declaration of emotional interest. At the same time, this seems to be a third party situation, and he might feel that you're better off as friends instead of starting anything serious. With Ace of Wands this is also some kind of promise for renewal for both of you, or an opportunity to let go of something which doesn't work anymore and start anew. IP: Logged |
LibraGirl
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posted November 02, 2024 11:01 PM
Thank you Emsie for the reading with feedback there is a third party involved as i am in a relationship and this man is friends with my partner. yes he has had told me that even if I broke things off with my partner he wasn't looking for a relationship.With Ace of Wands this is also some kind of promise for renewal for both of you, or an opportunity to let go of something which doesn't work anymore and start anew I think its more of the opportunity to let go as currently im thinking of leaving my partner due to not wanting to get help with a severe alcohol addiction but im trying so hard to make this work out but im so worn out of trying so hard as this has been going on for years and i met WR in the beginning of this year.IP: Logged |
Emsie
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posted November 03, 2024 05:18 AM
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Originally posted by LibraGirl:
I think its more of the opportunity to let go as currently im thinking of leaving my partner due to not wanting to get help with a severe alcohol addiction but im trying so hard to make this work out but im so worn out of trying so hard as this has been going on for years and i met WR in the beginning of this year.
Hi LibraGirl, I definitely wanted to respond on this part as I've been through something similar 5+ years ago with my ex. Only that he had a game addiction. If you've tried everything, but things still aren't working and the other person is not willing to change his ways, then I think it is time to let go, indeed. I used to get false and empty promises that he'd change, I was the one constantly pushing for improvements while he was sitting pretty in his comfort zone with his convenient ways - trying to trick me into believing he'd change. What I gathered from this experience was that he was wasting my time and energy, but at the same time I did the same with my own time and energy. If it's a pattern of lies and empty promises, it's trash worthy. If the efforts are solely one-sided, the other does not reciprocate - trash worthy as well. It's not fair towards you - the lopsided effort and the one-sided transaction where you are the only one who carries the weight of the whole connection and the other does not participate with equal effort. It's not our responsibility to try to change someone who does not want to change. And if it's draining you bigtime and sapping your precious life force and energy, then it's not good for you. At the same time, I feel really sorry for your partner as co-dependency is no fun. But I think he is due for a major blow which might make him wake up and start putting in the effort to work on his life and get sober. Stay strong and make the wise and right decision when the time comes and when you'll be ready.  IP: Logged |
LibraGirl
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posted November 04, 2024 08:44 AM
Thank you everyday I'm taking one day at a time he is currently going to an inpatient rehab and I've told him if he doesn't stick this out and leaves or doesn't do entirely I have no choice but to leave as it is draining me mental emotionally and physically and I'm tired of the empty promises he couldn't keep. But right now being alone while he is in the hospital it's like a bit of weight is lifted from me and I'm enjoying some me time which I never got to because I was basically being a nurse and a mother when I shouldn't have. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted November 13, 2024 05:27 PM
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LibraGirl
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posted November 14, 2024 09:33 AM
Unfortunately he went back to drinking and has decided not to go to rehab IP: Logged |
Emsie
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posted November 15, 2024 09:27 AM
Ugh, that's very hard to read.  Unfortunately, he has to be the one wanting to change. If not, then there's no point in staying any longer as things will eventually get only worse. In my case, my ex started emotionally, then physically harming me and I constantly felt miserable to the point I couldn't take it any longer. And nobody's obliged to put up with anything like this..IP: Logged |
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