posted March 15, 2013 10:18 PM            

So true and you know that was and still is at times the hardest part for me....I still feel the lean toward labeling ...but I now how to navigate those waters.

posted March 26, 2013 03:21 AM            

Like right now, I am really annoyed with someone. The first thought is how do I approach the person about the situation without it turning into a big bang? Then you tell yourself to not approach until you're completely calm and get to the root of why it upsets you.
Then to see it from the other persons point of view.

Eventually, I am calm but the thought of the initial deed just makes me stark raving mad all over again.

In the heat of the moment all understanding and patience becomes blinded. Sorry for the rambles. You understand though.
Do I just turn off emotionally? Do I turn a blind eye and say, "They know not what they do"?

posted March 27, 2013 01:51 AM            

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posted April 10, 2013 06:52 PM            

Eventually, I am calm but the thought of the initial deed just makes me stark raving mad all over again.

In the heat of the moment all understanding and patience becomes blinded. Sorry for the rambles. You understand though.
Do I just turn off emotionally? Do I turn a blind eye and say, "They know not what they do"?"

Yes....you must never speak or act out of anger...it is a destructive force in that case and can tear down the boundaries along with the walls... but doesnt give you time to clear the debris...it just leaves everything destroyed and so must be handled with care to navigate...it is a powerful emotion.....because like love..it cannot be ignored. I suppose my Arian Sun and Mars, and mutable Virgo Asc are very helpful for me there. I get angry but I can express why and talk to the person and get over it really fast.
Its not anger that is the problem Charms, its allowing it to sit in your Aura like a dark cloud that will cause you to attract more anger...til you learn how to flow with it and not hold on to it which is essentially blocking it up in our Auric feels and creating dark holes in our Aura.
Maybe it will help to not take things personally...that will keep you from getting stark raving mad...remember no one can make you feel what you don't want to feel...simple as that.

You don't turn a blind eye, nor do you make excuses for them. You simply tell them...whoever it is why what they did made you angry...if they chose to change their behavior to stay in your life then you have created a better reality and if they chose to not change then it then becomes your choice...by letting them stay in your life or kicking them the hell out...you chose your reality....so chose wisely lovey. XO

posted April 11, 2013 05:35 AM            

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Originally posted by oneruledbymars:

Yes....you must never speak or act out of anger...it is a destructive force in that case and can tear down the boundaries along with the walls... but doesnt give you time to clear the debris...it just leaves everything destroyed and so must be handled with care to navigate...it is a powerful emotion.....because like love..it cannot be ignored. I suppose my Arian Sun and Mars, and mutable Virgo Asc are very helpful for me there. I get angry but I can express why and talk to the person and get over it really fast.
Its not anger that is the problem Charms, its allowing it to sit in your Aura like a dark cloud that will cause you to attract more anger...til you learn how to flow with it and not hold on to it which is essentially blocking it up in our Auric feels and creating dark holes in our Aura.
Maybe it will help to not take things personally...that will keep you from getting stark raving mad...remember no one can make you feel what you don't want to feel...simple as that.

You don't turn a blind eye, nor do you make excuses for them. You simply tell them...whoever it is why what they did made you angry...if they chose to change their behavior to stay in your life then you have created a better reality and if they chose to not change then it then becomes your choice...by letting them stay in your life or kicking them the hell out...you chose your reality....so chose wisely lovey. XO

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The timing of your reply is impeccable!

posted April 11, 2013 05:45 AM            

And by people I mean in general. It's almost like an involuntary response when you want to sort out an issue.

The anger has cleared now and I will attempt to clear the air and hopefully resolve the issue at hand.
Wish me luck!
Thanks D,

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posted April 11, 2013 06:15 PM            

Hey HSC..long time no talk to...
How the heck are you?
.it was just something that I entitled it due to some studying I was doing of religions that indeed taught to kill it.

I wrote this in the beginning:

"Gnani Purush's rantings of stict control of all the senses and complete destruction of the Ego..saying it is a vile servant and a source of Suffering and Evil...and this practice of brahmacharya even as it stems to all religions resonates to much with a partriarchal view of society for me. And is an attempt at control as though are the Doer.
Then you have Shankara's saying the ego is a "strong and deadly serpent".
The Tibetan way of celibacy and self discipline to break the Ego...and the Muhammads war against nafs.
Clearly not paths of self acceptance and yet we have incarnated from cycles of living lives that we now carry those imprints from."

posted April 11, 2013 09:19 PM              

Yes, I read your initial post.

posted April 13, 2013 10:51 AM            

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I converted my inner Demon.

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posted April 15, 2013 05:08 AM            

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posted April 15, 2013 05:46 AM            

It's all ok for now. Your advice (reminder) helped tremendously. Occasionally we need that figurative kick in the behind to set us straight.

Been in princess warrior mode with a current health issue. I'm pretty optimistic it will all work out in the end.

Randall is quite good when it comes to such matters. He's supportive and works with me when it comes to seeking alternative solutions.. Something I haven't had combined in past relationships ,so it's pretty cool.

You guys are awesome.

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posted April 16, 2013 04:40 AM              

& Not a previous identity.

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