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Topic: Getting over a past relationship..
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Joey123k Knowflake Posts: 61 From: Far And Beyond Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 18, 2011 02:27 AM
how do you get over past relationships??im a cancer so its easier said then done...some help guyzIP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 16544 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 18, 2011 12:47 PM
Welcome!------------------ "All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 4096 From: Venus next to Randall Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 19, 2011 04:37 AM
Welcome Heartbreak is not easy. Try writing down your feelings,releasing them in a journal. Speak to family or a close friend sothat you have support and you don't go through this alone. It might also help getting rid of items from your ex that way there are no reminders that make you feel sad. Be kind to yourself and keep busy. Hope that helps a bit. IP: Logged |
Joey123k Knowflake Posts: 61 From: Far And Beyond Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 19, 2011 06:15 AM
thank u very much..that realli does help------------------ For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone. Audrey Hepburn IP: Logged |
SunChild Moderator Posts: 2923 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 19, 2011 08:38 PM
Walking through the pain, writing about it, talking to friends help a lot. Time passes by so use it well, and in time the feelings will heal. best wishes and welcome ! IP: Logged |
Joey123k Knowflake Posts: 61 From: Far And Beyond Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 19, 2011 08:47 PM
@sunchild....thank you...yea i find that writing about it really works for me because im not very comfortable talking bout my personal matters...no matter how close they are...i had to post this because i realised i havent completly gotten over one of my relationship a year ago because i was cheated on..i still havent forgiven her for it.. ------------------ For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone. Audrey Hepburn IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 16544 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 12:47 PM
Cheating is the ultimate betrayal. It gets better over time.------------------ "All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
Joey123k Knowflake Posts: 61 From: Far And Beyond Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 20, 2011 02:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: Cheating is the ultimate betrayal. It gets better over time.
very true randle...cheating is something that is unforgivable n unforgetable..
------------------ For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone. Audrey Hepburn IP: Logged |
Cancer/Scorpio729 Moderator Posts: 1422 From: 6,000 feet above sea level Registered: Feb 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 09:15 PM
I'm a cancer too, I know what you mean. Give it time and don't think about it too much. In my experience (which is pretty limited lol) mulling over things just increases the intensity of the emotion. And yeah, do write about it IP: Logged |
Joey123k Knowflake Posts: 61 From: Far And Beyond Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 21, 2011 11:05 AM
i just finally did sum writing about this..turns out i have more than i relationship to deal with..soo many things i have written that i found affected me that im utterly heartbroken...its like 3 in the mroning yet i cannot sleep..!!i really feel lost more than i realised ------------------ For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone. Audrey Hepburn IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 16544 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2011 04:01 PM
------------------ "All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 16544 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 23, 2011 11:18 AM
Are you feeling better?------------------ "All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman IP: Logged |
Joey123k Knowflake Posts: 61 From: Far And Beyond Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 23, 2011 07:33 PM
Yes thank you randall...i guess i just had to see the truth and it makees me feel better now..i feel lighter maybe i lost some weight ------------------ For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone. Audrey Hepburn IP: Logged |
charmainec Moderator Posts: 4096 From: Venus next to Randall Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 03, 2011 06:37 AM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 16544 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 04, 2011 01:25 PM
That's good.------------------ "Everything I eat has been proved by some doctor or other to be a deadly poison, and everything I don't eat has been proved to be indispensable for life. But I go marching on."--George Bernard Shaw IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 16544 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 29, 2011 02:12 PM
How goes it, Joey?IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 16544 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 11, 2011 01:14 PM
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affy Knowflake Posts: 71 From: Neptune because it's blue Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 19, 2012 12:57 PM
You sounded so sad up there.. i hope you're much better off now! I don't see you much around here. Do you still visit? IP: Logged |