posted December 12, 2012 10:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
I think it takes more credits, but I'm not sure.

Ehhh I'm going towards my aries tendencies again -.- there is the girl that I genuinely liked talking to at lunch and in one of my classes and now she seems to be acting weird so now I'm back in detached mode and not even talking to her since she ignores me. Blehh

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haha i actually get that XD

posted December 13, 2012 08:08 AM            

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Originally posted by doommlord:
haha i actually get that XD

but who cares its your last year and youl be leaving for college soon which is one of the best things in life (imo)

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Update: so yesterday I got to the lunch table and she was still acting weird so I was about to ignore her back but then I decided to be more libra NN and said jokingly asked why she can't say hi to me but hey to another friend and then she jokes back and says I can say hi to people too so we both said hey. AND surprise the rest of the day she actually began talking to me more like normal.

Maybe all this time me ignoring people and moving along to talk to someone else has done me more harm than good. Hmph.

posted December 13, 2012 03:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
Update: so yesterday I got to the lunch table and she was still acting weird so I was about to ignore her back but then I decided to be more libra NN and said jokingly asked why she can't say hi to me but hey to another friend and then she jokes back and says I can say hi to people too so we both said hey. AND surprise the rest of the day she actually began talking to me more like normal.

Maybe all this time me ignoring people and moving along to talk to someone else has done me more harm than good. Hmph.

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posted December 14, 2012 03:19 PM            

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Originally posted by doommlord:
Life works in mysterious ways
But im glad you are taking the high road and reaching towards your NN

I went to some gay meeting thing.....froze like an iceberg XD[/B]

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posted December 14, 2012 06:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
aww why? D: did anyone approach you? Any guys that caught your eye?

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there were some....one as taken
the other lives in my city but im not sure about him...cute as hell though
the rest no.....
but im talking to some online so the saturn doesent get in the way and its fun ^^

froze becuse there were so many people XD but no worries i didnt look wierd

posted December 14, 2012 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by doommlord:
there were some....one as taken
the other lives in my city but im not sure about him...cute as hell though
the rest no.....
but im talking to some online so the saturn doesent get in the way and its fun ^^

froze becuse there were so many people XD but no worries i didnt look wierd

hows it goin with you?

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Thats good bow chicka wow wow

And I'm pretty good, I'm moving back with my grandma because my mom and her bf got into a huge argument blah blah blah and she FINALLY had an epiphany that we were better off at my grandmas. Anyways long story short I WAS going to be irritated with her and the fact that she has us moving back and forth without seeming to care about how I felt BUT I took the high road and decided to be more libra NN again and I enjoyed my day and had a great time hanging out with her. I love her and I just have to realize that we all have issues and I have no right to hold them against her, at the end of the day she has kept a roof over my head and my life could've been worse off so I can't complain. Plus maybe this was all a life lesson for her life that she needed to deal with and learn from. Or maybe this is just to help me know what NOT to go for in a relationship. Everything happens for a reason right?

This is from astrofix.com on libra NN Aries SN by houses

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North Node Libra 4th House/ South Node Aries 10th House
Moving away from being an entrepreneur. Moving away from identifying as the independent business owner. Learning how to be comfortable being in a relationship. Making time for a private life with your partner. Making space in your life for concern with what’s right and fair and just. Becoming “married” to your family, culture and heritage. Making an effort to make peace with your parents[B]. Making an effort to make peace with your roots. No longer being so selfish with the time that you devote to work. Beginning to give more consideration to what your family wants. No longer selfishly pursuing your career goals. No longer so caught up in being the “best” at your profession. Letting go of your competitive streak when it comes to goals and ambitions. No longer competing with your father or mother. Letting go of anger toward authority figures. [B]Moving away from competitive and aggressive behavior towards authority figures in general – teachers, bosses, parents, etc… Coming to terms with a deeply internal need to let go of strife and embrace peace. Building a foundation for yourself based on cooperation and compromise. Building a home with your partner. Building a family that begins with the relationship you have with your partner. Making time for art and beauty in your life. Making space in your life to create a beautiful home. Becoming an interior designer. Releasing the need to be professionally competitive. Releasing an attachment to outer achievements to prove yourself. Releasing immature attitudes toward authority figures, your parents and your need for outside recognition. Becoming comfortable with taste, refinement and socializing. Instead of being the lone shark out in the world making a name for yourself, build relationships with people by inviting them into your inner sanctum.

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posted December 15, 2012 02:34 AM            

Moving away from selfish priorities. No longer so concerned with what you think you need to survive. Becoming less selfish in the way that you spend your money. Becoming more willing to ask your partner what he or she wants. Becoming more attuned to the wants and needs of other people. Developing deep, meaningful relationships with people who value peace, cooperation, art and refinement. Developing relationships with people who want a deep emotional commitment. Learning to value sexual equality. Making peace with your sexuality. Moving into a serene sexuality rather than an over aggressive assertion of your needs. Releasing the impulse to take what you want without asking. Making peace with the inevitability of death. Making peace with people’s priorities. No longer forcing your priorities onto other people. Learning to accept that other people have different values. Developing tolerance concerning what other people find to be important. Finding balance when it comes to debt. Releasing the urge to spend impulsively. Releasing any anger you have toward money. Releasing any anger you have concerning having to earn your own living. Learning how to manage joint finances. Making peace with issues concerning your joint finances. Finding a way to come to terms with splitting or sharing your income with other people. Learning what it means to have shared values. Learning to trust your partner at a very deep level. No longer being competitive about what you have. Releasing immature attitudes surrounding the need to earn a living and pay your bills. No more “me first” when it comes to what you own.

posted December 15, 2012 09:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
Please do !

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Hmmm once i get to a computer sure ^^

posted December 15, 2012 05:18 PM            

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Originally posted by doommlord:
Hmmm once i get to a computer sure ^^

Hows going with college and accounting?

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Good, still considering going to a community college now and I took some career tests today and they ALL said admin which is funny because someone on her suggested I look into that career field, but accounting still is a good fit for me too.

And OMG you met/like a sun-mars-pluto person too?!

posted December 15, 2012 05:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
Good, still considering going to a community college now and I took some career tests today and they ALL said admin which is funny because someone on her suggested I look into that career field, but accounting still is a good fit for me too.

And OMG you met/like a sun-mars-pluto person too?!

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lol the tests i did either said techer or psychologist....maybe you should try the holland code

and yes i met a scorpio sun with mars conjunct pluto in scorpio....his mars/pluto is on my mars pluto but were not on the same year

posted December 15, 2012 06:36 PM            

Awkward.

posted December 16, 2012 07:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
And my pluto is square his mars (1'13) and opposite his sun(4'40), plus my mars is opposite his venus (0'38). And my moon is square his NN(1'54) and my mars is conjunct his NN (3'11) plus a moon/venus square and opposition double whammy o.o

Awkward.

EVERY single guy I find myself attracted to even in the slightest has either hard aspects between sun/pluto, moon/pluto, and or mars/pluto aspects including my recent ex. Even my mom is a scorp asc and a hard sun/pluto square in less than 1 degree orb. I guess I can't get enough of plutonian energy or something.

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a plutonian deficiency probably

i noticed my guy has a terrible sense of humor and treats others with disrespect...but not everybody

i dug up and found up that he has a pattern and he does the same pattern to everybody...

posted December 16, 2012 08:14 AM            

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Originally posted by doommlord:
a plutonian deficiency probably

i noticed my guy has a terrible sense of humor and treats others with disrespect...but not everybody

i dug up and found up that he has a pattern and he does the same pattern to everybody...

he ****** me off today and i have mars/pluto conjunction in scorpio too so i just exploded on him and he started to behave properly.....why cant i find an evolved scorpio

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posted December 16, 2012 09:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:

Maybe he hasn't had anyone call him out in his bs?

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i doubt it... but i know how to handle him

posted December 16, 2012 10:24 AM            

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Originally posted by doommlord:
i doubt it... but i know how to handle him

did you try the holland code test? i use it as a career searching tool among others (MBTI)

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No, I still have to look it up.

posted December 16, 2012 11:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
No, I still have to look it up.

Well I hope you find someone who doesn't do that, or he gets his act together

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posted December 16, 2012 12:21 PM            

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Originally posted by doommlord:
Tell me when you get your results i like comparing them

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Okie dokes

I'll do it when I get back in later.

posted December 17, 2012 02:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
What is the Holland Code Test?

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its a creer test of sorts....it puts all jobs into a code reffering to 6 different "types"

its an interesting read though fairly general and might nt give the exact career one wants

posted December 18, 2012 01:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
How do I try it?

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posted December 18, 2012 01:05 PM            

15 (social)- Cooperative environments, supporting, helping, healing/nurturing:

Business Teacher
Counselor/Therapist
Cruise Director
High School Teacher
Retirement Counselor
School Counselor
Secondary School Teacher
Chaplain
Dental Hygienist
Librarian

14 (conventional)- Precise, perfect attention to detail, orderly, organizing, status:

Budget Analyst
Cost Accountant
Medical Secretary
Tax Consultant
Typist
Data processing worker
Legal Secretary
Accountant
Bank Teller
Building Inspector

11 (Artistic)- Non-conforming, original, independent, chaotic, creative:

Actor/Actress
Advertising Art Director
Dancers and Choreographers
Film/Video Producer
Graphic Designer
Interior Designer
Multi-Media Artist
Museum Curator
Music Teacher
Photographer

10 (Enterprising)- Competitive environments, leading, persuading, selling, dominating, promoting, status:

Dental Assistant
Credit Analyst
Journalist/Reporter
Public Relations Representative
Restaurant Manager
Health Services Manager
Insurance Agent
Tax Accountant
Educational - Training Manager
Construction Manager

10 (Investigative)- Working with theory and information, analytical, intellectual, scientific:

Marketing Research Analyst
Internal Auditor
Management Consultant
Computer Systems Analyst
Mathematician
Computer Engineer
Computer Programmer
Research Analyst
Anthropologist
Archeologist

7 (Realistic)- Working with your hands and things, practical, mechanically inclined, physical, tool-oriented:

Sheet Metal Worker
Floral Designer
Woodworking
Groundskeeper
Architectural Drafter
Carpenter
Drafter
Safety Inspector
Construction Worker
Dental Laboratory Technician

Your results for the Holland Code Quiz are as follows:
Realistic: 7 *lowest
Investigative: 10
Artistic: 11
Social: 15 *highest
Enterprising: 10
Conventional: 14

posted December 18, 2012 03:24 PM            

i ened up being an invastigative/social with a bit of conventional

so youl need a work that deals with helping people in a way and one that has clear data and organization

a warm and organized work inviroment will be best for you i guess

i need a job that deals with investigation and research...and also helping people in a way

using a code you can find a lot of careers
your SCA
mine ISC